Single Income Secret: How an Aussie Mum of 13 Manages Her Household – Plus, the One Question She's Tired of Hearing!

In a world where the cost of living is soaring and managing a household on two incomes is challenging enough, imagine the financial acrobatics required to sustain a family of 15 on a single income. This is the reality for Malinda Lange and her husband Erik, a window salesman from Dandenong, southeast Melbourne, who are the proud parents of thirteen children.


The Lange family's story is one of resilience, resourcefulness, and the power of careful planning. With nine kids in school, one in pre-school, and another at home, the family's budget is stretched to its limits. School fees alone amount to a staggering $38,000 a year, a figure that has led the couple to consider homeschooling as a viable alternative to traditional education.


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The Lange family has 13 children. Image Credit: Instagram/Malinda Lange


The financial crisis has hit the Lange family hard, and they've had to make some tough decisions to keep their heads above water. They've sold off possessions to cover school fees and have cut back on all non-essential spending. The family's frugality extends to their living arrangements, with many of the children sharing bedrooms to save on rent.


Malinda, who documents her family's journey on social media under the handle @yestheyareallours, has become a master of budgeting. She meticulously meal plans and shops at a combination of fruit and veg shops, ALDI, and Woolworths to keep weekly grocery costs around $500. Despite the large family, Malinda has found ways to keep everyone fed without breaking the bank, with spaghetti and tuna pasta bake being regular, cost-effective meals on the family menu.

The Langes have also had to forgo many luxuries, including branded clothing, which was one of Malinda's admitted weaknesses. Entertainment such as movies, theme parks, and holidays are out of reach, so the family relies on free community events for recreation.

Despite the financial strain, Malinda and Erik have no regrets about their large family. They didn't initially plan to have thirteen children—Malinda preferred even numbers, while Erik wanted eight—but they've embraced their unique situation. The couple doesn't come from large families themselves, which makes their story all the more remarkable.


However, with such a large brood comes a lot of public attention, and not all of it is welcome. The one comment that Malinda wishes people would stop making is the tired joke, 'You need to get a TV.' It's a remark that, while meant to be humorous, has become a source of annoyance for the couple, who hear it far too often.

The Lange family's experience raises important questions about the support systems available for large families and the societal pressures they face. It also highlights the need for affordable education and healthcare, as unexpected medical costs, like Malinda's kidney failure, can add significant stress to an already tight budget.

For our readers at the Seniors Discount Club, the Lange family's story is a testament to the power of love, determination, and strategic planning. It's a reminder that, even in the face of adversity, it's possible to find joy and fulfillment.


Key Takeaways

  • An Aussie mum with thirteen children shares their struggle to survive on a single income amidst the rising cost of living.
  • The family from Dandenong, southeast Melbourne, has considered homeschooling to save on the $38,000 annual school fees for their nine school-aged children.
  • They have sold off possessions and cut back on expenses, including foregoing branded clothing and entertainment outings, to cope with financial strain.
  • The mother, who documents her family's life on social media, expresses her desire for people to stop making the cliché joke suggesting they need a TV to prevent having more kids.
We'd love to hear from you, our community members. How do you manage your household budget? Have you found any unique ways to save money or stretch your income further? And for those with large families, what advice would you give to others in similar situations? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below, and let's support each other through these challenging times.
 

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There is a lot to this story that hasn't been told. I didn't get the sentence which said that many of the children have to share bedrooms to save on rent. The government must be pretty generous with allowances these days. Not stated ! And I bet that Melinda has a passion for Pepsi or Coke (a solid girl!)
 
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Wow that really is a big family to House, Feed, Clothe, Educate, cover Health and Wellbeing, Entertain etc etc and do it all on one wage, really hard to understand how tough it must be for them, but nonetheless they seem to be a close and happy family, which is something all families strive for. And now number 14 has just arrived apparently, boy that's incredible. Wish them all the love in the world.❤️
 
Ok I have 13 kids and get really tired of all the nasty questions

Q, Are they Yours , mine and ours ??
A, No they are All too the one man

Q. Do you have a television 📺
A.
Yes we actually have 4

Q, Are you Catholic

A. No but a Christian

Q. What Do you feed them ?
A.
what everyone else does. Instead of 1 chicken we had 3 to 4. My kids ate like royalty.

Some of my kids went to private schools.

We looked after them ourselves, didn't ask for help.

We both worked , but around the kids. Hubby did years of night shifts as a Shunter for NSW rail.
Most of our kids went to uni and are either teachers or nurses. A son is in commercial property.

My pet hate is rude people. We did a way better job raising 13 beautiful individuals than alot do raising 2 or 3

He is some photos of my family

My husband and me holding two of our granddaughter's at our daughters wedding
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Our Family photo at two of our daughters wedding

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Me at my daughters 21st
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Me holding two of our granddaughter's
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Me and a few if our kids
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My kids were and are very close. This is 12 of them. My eldest is not in the photo
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We try to eat out once a month but we do usually take up half the restaurant
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Me and my daughter on her wedding day
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We love family game days/ nights
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Daddy daughter dance
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when my youngest would go to hospital for lung problems, even her sisters would go and stay overnight with her
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A Romantic dinner with hubby
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$300 a week to feed a family of 13—that's stretching the imagination a bit. That works out at $2.96 a week. Unless they live on pasta, it costs me $400-$500 a week for two.
 
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There is a lot to this story that hasn't been told. I didn't get the sentence which said that many of the children have to share bedrooms to save on rent. The government must be pretty generous with allowances these days. Not stated ! And I bet that Melinda has a passion for Pepsi or Coke (a solid girl!)
She would also get a heap of family allowance and other concessions.
 
I didn't because I worked
I was confused with some comments in this article. It was stated that Dad worked, Mum did not, and unless Dad earns a wonderful income, then governments allocations are given child allowances to every child born into a family.

There are also government hand outs for those who wish to play a sport, learn a musical instrument, etc. etc. Go for what you can apply for the government 'hand-outs'. Many people get these 'hand-outs' who do not even make an attempt to save money, like you and your family obviously do. Bravo!!!!!
Congraulations to all of the family for raising 13 children. You must be proud parents to keep so many people happy in the one household.

My good wishes go out to you.

Regards,

Jean B.
 
There is a lot to this story that hasn't been told. I didn't get the sentence which said that many of the children have to share bedrooms to save on rent. The government must be pretty generous with allowances these days. Not stated ! And I bet that Melinda has a passion for Pepsi or Coke (a solid girl!)
Maybe she is solid as she just had another baby?
 
Why do you think she doesn't work ? Because they get a hell of a lot of money from this Government for having soooooooooo many kids and of cause all the other benefits that are on offer, rent assistance, discount on power, gas, phones ect.
 
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It's hard work raising a couple of kids , imagine how hard it is for 13 !!

I really doubt anyone would have that many kids just for the money

I remember times when they were sick. One, eg was a vomiting virus . I was emptying 5 buckets.

Think about the washing and ironing...I did at least 3 loads a day, and that didn't include towels or sheets

How did we survive ??

By budgeting..by bulk shopping and knowing how to shop.

I would buy a lot of clothes at the end of season eg pyjamas, jumpers ect.

Routine was a huge part of our lives.

Before picking the kids up from school I would make a tray of sandwiches and a tray of fruit. As soon as they came home, it was upstairs to get changed, then emptying their school bags out and bringing their lunch boxes to be washed.
Then they would sit together and have the trays of food I made, and we would talk about their day.
Then it was homework from 4pm to 5pm. While they did homework I stary to prepare dinner.
After homework was done, they went outside to play.
Dinner was at 6 pm, and by 7.15 pm, dinner would be done, and dishes were done. Kids would help clean up.
Then, it was showers and baths.
They would be in bed by 8.30pm and would read until 9 pm then lights off

I could go on and on about our routine, but it would exhaust you.

Hubby worked long hours, and I did party plan, selling tupperware and Bessemer until I went back to work fulltime in bridal.

I only ever received family payment for a short period, and even then, they said I was overpaid, which I wasn't.

People shouldn't judge those who have a large family.

I know there are those that have kids and don't take care of them, but this also happens with those who have one or two.

I could also say those who only want to have one child it is very selfish. Every child needs a sibling

Working hard we saved a deposit and purchased our first house before we had no 2.
 
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The Lange family's story is one of resilience, resourcefulness, and the power of careful planning. I must admit your comment about Tv annoyed me and I only had four brothers and three sisters, 'You need to get a TV.' It's a remark that, while meant to be humorous. Actually I was going to ask if anyone had an aversion or just didn't like the smell of burning rubber? Jokes aside it looks like your doing a good job.

Not as bad as those Duggars in America, didn't they fall from grace in a big way. No it would appear they were just dirty Buggers?
 
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