Single Income Secret: How an Aussie Mum of 13 Manages Her Household – Plus, the One Question She's Tired of Hearing!

In a world where the cost of living is soaring and managing a household on two incomes is challenging enough, imagine the financial acrobatics required to sustain a family of 15 on a single income. This is the reality for Malinda Lange and her husband Erik, a window salesman from Dandenong, southeast Melbourne, who are the proud parents of thirteen children.


The Lange family's story is one of resilience, resourcefulness, and the power of careful planning. With nine kids in school, one in pre-school, and another at home, the family's budget is stretched to its limits. School fees alone amount to a staggering $38,000 a year, a figure that has led the couple to consider homeschooling as a viable alternative to traditional education.


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The Lange family has 13 children. Image Credit: Instagram/Malinda Lange


The financial crisis has hit the Lange family hard, and they've had to make some tough decisions to keep their heads above water. They've sold off possessions to cover school fees and have cut back on all non-essential spending. The family's frugality extends to their living arrangements, with many of the children sharing bedrooms to save on rent.


Malinda, who documents her family's journey on social media under the handle @yestheyareallours, has become a master of budgeting. She meticulously meal plans and shops at a combination of fruit and veg shops, ALDI, and Woolworths to keep weekly grocery costs around $500. Despite the large family, Malinda has found ways to keep everyone fed without breaking the bank, with spaghetti and tuna pasta bake being regular, cost-effective meals on the family menu.

The Langes have also had to forgo many luxuries, including branded clothing, which was one of Malinda's admitted weaknesses. Entertainment such as movies, theme parks, and holidays are out of reach, so the family relies on free community events for recreation.

Despite the financial strain, Malinda and Erik have no regrets about their large family. They didn't initially plan to have thirteen children—Malinda preferred even numbers, while Erik wanted eight—but they've embraced their unique situation. The couple doesn't come from large families themselves, which makes their story all the more remarkable.


However, with such a large brood comes a lot of public attention, and not all of it is welcome. The one comment that Malinda wishes people would stop making is the tired joke, 'You need to get a TV.' It's a remark that, while meant to be humorous, has become a source of annoyance for the couple, who hear it far too often.

The Lange family's experience raises important questions about the support systems available for large families and the societal pressures they face. It also highlights the need for affordable education and healthcare, as unexpected medical costs, like Malinda's kidney failure, can add significant stress to an already tight budget.

For our readers at the Seniors Discount Club, the Lange family's story is a testament to the power of love, determination, and strategic planning. It's a reminder that, even in the face of adversity, it's possible to find joy and fulfillment.


Key Takeaways

  • An Aussie mum with thirteen children shares their struggle to survive on a single income amidst the rising cost of living.
  • The family from Dandenong, southeast Melbourne, has considered homeschooling to save on the $38,000 annual school fees for their nine school-aged children.
  • They have sold off possessions and cut back on expenses, including foregoing branded clothing and entertainment outings, to cope with financial strain.
  • The mother, who documents her family's life on social media, expresses her desire for people to stop making the cliché joke suggesting they need a TV to prevent having more kids.
We'd love to hear from you, our community members. How do you manage your household budget? Have you found any unique ways to save money or stretch your income further? And for those with large families, what advice would you give to others in similar situations? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below, and let's support each other through these challenging times.
 

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I remember watching them on Australian Wife Swap. They had 11 children then.
The older kids looked after the younger ones. Tbey would have got paid well with that tv show.
 
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The Lange family's story is one of resilience, resourcefulness, and the power of careful planning. I must admit your comment about Tv annoyed me and I only had four brothers and three sisters, 'You need to get a TV.' It's a remark that, while meant to be humorous. Actually I was going to ask if anyone had an aversion or just didn't like the smell of burning rubber? Jokes aside it looks like your doing a good job.

Not as bad as those Duggars in America, didn't they fall from grace in a big way. No it would appear they were just dirty Buggers?
Plus, the Bates family too.
 
It's hard work raising a couple of kids , imagine how hard it is for 13 !!

I really doubt anyone would have that many kids just for the money

I remember times when they were sick. One, eg was a vomiting virus . I was emptying 5 buckets.

Think about the washing and ironing...I did at least 3 loads a day, and that didn't include towels or sheets

How did we survive ??

By budgeting..by bulk shopping and knowing how to shop.

I would buy a lot of clothes at the end of season eg pyjamas, jumpers ect.

Routine was a huge part of our lives.

Before picking the kids up from school I would make a tray of sandwiches and a tray of fruit. As soon as they came home, it was upstairs to get changed, then emptying their school bags out and bringing their lunch boxes to be washed.
Then they would sit together and have the trays of food I made, and we would talk about their day.
Then it was homework from 4pm to 5pm. While they did homework I stary to prepare dinner.
After homework was done, they went outside to play.
Dinner was at 6 pm, and by 7.15 pm, dinner would be done, and dishes were done. Kids would help clean up.
Then, it was showers and baths.
They would be in bed by 8.30pm and would read until 9 pm then lights off

I could go on and on about our routine, but it would exhaust you.

Hubby worked long hours, and I did party plan, selling tupperware and Bessemer until I went back to work fulltime in bridal.

I only ever received family payment for a short period, and even then, they said I was overpaid, which I wasn't.

People shouldn't judge those who have a large family.

I know there are those that have kids and don't take care of them, but this also happens with those who have one or two.

I could also say those who only want to have one child it is very selfish. Every child needs a sibling

Working hard we saved a deposit and purchased our first house before we had no 2.
Ignore the comments Suzanne rose - some people and their comments are not worth it. It’s no one else’s business anyhow. Love your kids, grandkids and someday your great grandkids also.

Perhaps some have never wanted children or, for whatever reason, have not been able to have children. Our futures are written well before we’re born as are our deaths, both of which we have no control of. Good on you - continue with your life as you wish.
 
I would average around $150 per month on one. And that is trying to avoid Woolies and Coles and not cooking anything fancy. Of course, replacing anything that goes off from Aldi such as potatoes, sweet potatoes, both red and white onions, lettuce, etc
 
Can’t understand why people have so many children in this day and age. If they can’t afford them there are plenty of methods of birth control. Just accommodating such a large brood would be difficult. Unless they expect the State to take over with housing education and welfare. Good job we don’t all have this expectation
 
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Can’t understand why people have so many children in this day and age. If they can’t afford them there are plenty of methods of birth control. Just accommodating such a large brood would be difficult. Unless they expect the State to take over with housing education and welfare. Good job we don’t all have this expectation
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A week or a month is a big difference. Your post said $400 / $500 a week for two

$300 a week to feed a family of 13—that's stretching the imagination a bit. That works out at $2.96 a week. Unless they live on pasta, it costs me $400-$500 a week for two
 
What do you eat???? bread or pasta??? Impossible.
Have a look at my recipes That I post. I cook them all. I don't post them for the fun off it I post them because my family and friends love them.

When my kids were young we used homebrand bread and homebrand milk. As we would go through 3 loaves of bread each day and 6 litres of milk a day.

we are pasta such as spaghetti bol once a week and a lasagne once a week. Roast chicken once aweek and roast lamb once aweek . Casseroles , ect and BBQ on Sundays

Now with only 7 of us at home I use Helgas sourdough bread and A2 milk
 
Can I ask those who made comments about her receiving government assistance like family payment!!

Are you ok with someone with one child or two or maybe 3 receiving it !! Upto how many kids.

To be honest I don't think it matters how many kids . The only thing that should matter is your income.

The other thing I feel is , and this, goes for everyone with any ammount if kids. You have the kids then you should work to support them. I am against anyone having kids to be and stay in the dole
 
Can’t understand why people have so many children in this day and age. If they can’t afford them there are plenty of methods of birth control. Just accommodating such a large brood would be difficult. Unless they expect the State to take over with housing education and welfare. Good job we don’t all have this expectation
Good job we are not required to understand why people want a large family.
 
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In answer to SDC question.
"How do you manage your household budget?"

Easy. Haven't got 13 kids, or ever needed to have so many. It's ridiculous.🙄
 
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I condone the resilience of the family and while birth control methods are not always 100% guaranteed It is clear both of you did not wish to use any form of birth control. Regardless of the consequences the two of you have gone ahead and created a large family; larger than most couples would dream of. I think the two of you should have looked a little harder to understand how difficult life could be for all of you with such a large family. You have made your bed and now you and your children have to lay in it. Your children are now suffering because the two of you could not, or did not want to understand the consequences of your actions. I certainly feel sorry for your children having two irresponsible parents, you wanted to have a large family and now have that family; now you want everyone else to feel sorry for you?????
 
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I condone the resilience of the family and while birth control methods are not always 100% guaranteed It is clear both of you did not wish to use any form of birth control. Regardless of the consequences the two of you have gone ahead and created a large family; larger than most couples would dream of. I think the two of you should have looked a little harder to understand how difficult life could be for all of you with such a large family. You have made your bed and now you and your children have to lay in it. Your children are now suffering because the two of you could not, or did not want to understand the consequences of your actions. I certainly feel sorry for your children having two irresponsible parents, you wanted to have a large family and now have that family; now you want everyone else to feel sorry for you?????
I didn't read that they want us to feel sorry for them. I thought they were explaining how they manage. They look happy.
 
No one else’s business, they have to manage as best they can. If family and/or friends wish to help them then that’s no one else’s business.
 
I didn't read that they want us to feel sorry for them. I thought they were explaining how they manage. They look happy.
What do you eat???? bread or pasta??? Impossible.
Wow, these comments - and some of the comments about various other topics recently - are really getting personal and out of control. If someone wishes to offer advice to help someone then it’s no one else’s business. So it’s time we ALL kept our noses out of each other’s business and tried to, for a change, keep personal opinions, our views and our personal comments off this site, and not get personal with one another. What one does has nothing to do with another - JUST START BEING KIND TO EACH OTHER. Life is too short. Yes, we have opinions but don’t get personal with each other, keep them to yourself.
 
I condone the resilience of the family and while birth control methods are not always 100% guaranteed It is clear both of you did not wish to use any form of birth control. Regardless of the consequences the two of you have gone ahead and created a large family; larger than most couples would dream of. I think the two of you should have looked a little harder to understand how difficult life could be for all of you with such a large family. You have made your bed and now you and your children have to lay in it. Your children are now suffering because the two of you could not, or did not want to understand the consequences of your actions. I certainly feel sorry for your children having two irresponsible parents, you wanted to have a large family and now have that family; now you want everyone else to feel sorry for you?????
STOP nasty commenting, please.
 

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