Single Income Secret: How an Aussie Mum of 13 Manages Her Household – Plus, the One Question She's Tired of Hearing!

In a world where the cost of living is soaring and managing a household on two incomes is challenging enough, imagine the financial acrobatics required to sustain a family of 15 on a single income. This is the reality for Malinda Lange and her husband Erik, a window salesman from Dandenong, southeast Melbourne, who are the proud parents of thirteen children.


The Lange family's story is one of resilience, resourcefulness, and the power of careful planning. With nine kids in school, one in pre-school, and another at home, the family's budget is stretched to its limits. School fees alone amount to a staggering $38,000 a year, a figure that has led the couple to consider homeschooling as a viable alternative to traditional education.


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The Lange family has 13 children. Image Credit: Instagram/Malinda Lange


The financial crisis has hit the Lange family hard, and they've had to make some tough decisions to keep their heads above water. They've sold off possessions to cover school fees and have cut back on all non-essential spending. The family's frugality extends to their living arrangements, with many of the children sharing bedrooms to save on rent.


Malinda, who documents her family's journey on social media under the handle @yestheyareallours, has become a master of budgeting. She meticulously meal plans and shops at a combination of fruit and veg shops, ALDI, and Woolworths to keep weekly grocery costs around $500. Despite the large family, Malinda has found ways to keep everyone fed without breaking the bank, with spaghetti and tuna pasta bake being regular, cost-effective meals on the family menu.

The Langes have also had to forgo many luxuries, including branded clothing, which was one of Malinda's admitted weaknesses. Entertainment such as movies, theme parks, and holidays are out of reach, so the family relies on free community events for recreation.

Despite the financial strain, Malinda and Erik have no regrets about their large family. They didn't initially plan to have thirteen children—Malinda preferred even numbers, while Erik wanted eight—but they've embraced their unique situation. The couple doesn't come from large families themselves, which makes their story all the more remarkable.


However, with such a large brood comes a lot of public attention, and not all of it is welcome. The one comment that Malinda wishes people would stop making is the tired joke, 'You need to get a TV.' It's a remark that, while meant to be humorous, has become a source of annoyance for the couple, who hear it far too often.

The Lange family's experience raises important questions about the support systems available for large families and the societal pressures they face. It also highlights the need for affordable education and healthcare, as unexpected medical costs, like Malinda's kidney failure, can add significant stress to an already tight budget.

For our readers at the Seniors Discount Club, the Lange family's story is a testament to the power of love, determination, and strategic planning. It's a reminder that, even in the face of adversity, it's possible to find joy and fulfillment.


Key Takeaways

  • An Aussie mum with thirteen children shares their struggle to survive on a single income amidst the rising cost of living.
  • The family from Dandenong, southeast Melbourne, has considered homeschooling to save on the $38,000 annual school fees for their nine school-aged children.
  • They have sold off possessions and cut back on expenses, including foregoing branded clothing and entertainment outings, to cope with financial strain.
  • The mother, who documents her family's life on social media, expresses her desire for people to stop making the cliché joke suggesting they need a TV to prevent having more kids.
We'd love to hear from you, our community members. How do you manage your household budget? Have you found any unique ways to save money or stretch your income further? And for those with large families, what advice would you give to others in similar situations? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below, and let's support each other through these challenging times.
 

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She would also get a heap of family allowance and other concessions.
The kids probably sleep in bunk beds, possibly 4 to a room. The older ones would help care for the little ones. Growing your own vegetables -some can be grown in large tubs or espalier along trellises or fences can save a lot of money. You can do the same with some fruit trees / vines too.
 
The kids probably sleep in bunk beds, possibly 4 to a room. The older ones would help care for the little ones. Growing your own vegetables -some can be grown in large tubs or espalier along trellises or fences can save a lot of money. You can do the same with some fruit trees / vines too.
We have a 7 bedroom house. We had 2 kids in each room except one which had the 3 youngest girls in that.

We have always grown lots of seasonal vegetables and fruit.

Every second Saturday we went to paddy's markets at 5 am to buy bulk fruit n vegetables
Every Friday we went to a wholesale butchers .

When the kids were young instead of going out to restruants we did a lot of picnics and I always cooked amazing meals. We did occasionally take them out to Sizzlers all you can eat or pizza hut

Overseas holidays were out of the question but we did do holidays either up or down the coast and I always found bargain house rentals.

When you have a big family you make it work with budgeting.

When I look at how close my kids are now as adults, and what amazing people they are , I know we did well and all our hard work was definitely worth it.
 
Wow, these comments - and some of the comments about various other topics recently - are really getting personal and out of control. If someone wishes to offer advice to help someone then it’s no one else’s business. So it’s time we ALL kept our noses out of each other’s business and tried to, for a change, keep personal opinions, our views and our personal comments off this site, and not get personal with one another. What one does has nothing to do with another - JUST START BEING KIND TO EACH OTHER. Life is too short. Yes, we have opinions but don’t get personal with each other, keep them to yourself.
We are asked to share our opinions by sec after each issue is highlighted. So I thin it is reasonable to respectfully give them if asked to do so.
 
We are asked to share our opinions by sec after each issue is highlighted. So I thin it is reasonable to respectfully give them if asked to do so.
Yes, we are asked for our opinions but we are not being asked to get too personal and use subtle negativity towards each other. We can express opinions but not in the way some seem to be directing negativity directly at another.
 
We are asked to share our opinions by sec after each issue is highlighted. So I thin it is reasonable to respectfully give them if asked to do so.
Yes, Johnnie boy, I know we are asked to share comments and opinions, but sometimes these comments get personal towards one another. I don’t think that is really what SDC wants us to do, and it is what I’m referring to - personal attacks and rudeness towards one another. Surely we can comment without that, we’re grown adults with years behind most of us and it’s about time we all acted as such. And I agree with you that it is ‘reasonable to respectfully give them if asked to do so.’ RESPECTFULLY being the operative word here.
 

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