Serving Up Choice And Dignity In Aged Care – How Meals Are Enjoyed Is About More Than What’s On The Plate

Meals are rituals built around pleasures and choices. While what is served at mealtimes in aged care homes has received recent attention and Labor has pledged to improve the food offered, new research highlights that how meals are offered is just as important.

More than 50% of aged care residents live with dementia, and outside of mealtimes, spend the majority of their days alone. Mealtimes are the time of the day when people come together, providing opportunities for social connection, celebration, and honouring individual preferences and culture.

And yet, staffing shortages and insufficient time to help residents eat and drink means mealtimes are frequently highly structured and depersonalised, with the focus being on food intake rather than the dining experience.

Further, current aged care funding does not incentivise quality in food, or mealtime autonomy.



Innovation in mealtime care is needed to turn this around and give aged care residents back their basic rights. One proven approach draws on Montessori principles traditionally used within the early childhood field.

Careful planning allows more freedom​

The revolutionary thinking of Italian physician and educator Maria Montessorihas been increasingly applied to dementia care – introduced to the field by psychologist Cameron Camp in the 1990s. The Montessori approach respects the abilities and preferences of the person – young or old – engaging people at their own pace and rhythm.

Montessori methods focus on a carefully prepared environment and work with the retained strengths of a person with dementia to enable engagement and involvement in everyday life. This helps people with dementia reclaim skills, such as the ability to eat independently.

The approach can change people’s expectations of what a person with dementia is capable of and promote a sense of community.

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Residents can play an active role in mealtimes. Author, Author provided

Our study looked at how applying Montessori strategies changed mealtimes for staff and residents in a residential aged care setting. We periodically filmed mealtimes, starting before any changes were made and ending with new practices in place.

Routines, materials, and external aids were established to support memory loss and independence. For example, signage invited residents to help themselves to snacks, and a buffet encouraged residents to serve their own meals.

Extending the duration of the breakfast service enabled residents to eat at their own pace, while the preparation of additional food ensured residents had the opportunity for second or third helpings.



Staff across all levels of the organisation were trained and mentored in the Montessori approach. For example, the Montessori mantra “Everything you do for me; you take away from me” was introduced to staff – transforming the way they thought about empowering residents and their own caring roles.

Care staff were encouraged to involve residents in mealtime routines and create meaningful roles, such as setting the table, filling water jugs or writing up the daily menu.

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Meals are about sharing food and coming together.
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What we saw​

Our observational research evaluated mealtime routines before and after the Montessori model of care was introduced and the findings were promising for everyone involved – residents, families, and staff. We can see this by examining the experience of a resident we’ll call “Marjory”.

Before Montessori, Marjory’s meal was chosen by a staff member and there were no second options should she not like the selection. Marjory’s main meal and dessert were placed together on the bare table, with no explanation as to what they were. She did not choose who she sat with, or which drink was served with her meal. Marjory ate her meal in silence.

We noted this as a familiar pattern, highlighted in previous research, that featured very little social interaction between care staff and residents.

Since Montessori strategies were introduced, Marjory selects what and how much she would like from the labelled buffet. She eats at a table that is beautifully set with a tablecloth, cutlery, and condiments. Marjory can help herself to a second helping if she likes and she socialises during her meal. Afterwards, she helps staff by taking her dishes to the sink.

We watched on as opportunities for choice significantly increased, as did social interaction between staff and residents. Mealtime care had become more respectful and centred around people.



Transforming care​

Examples of positive innovation in aged care need to be shared if we are to change public perceptions of dementia and show how more humanistic models of care are possible.

The Montessori approach is an innovative way to transform care – helping aged care staff rethink their role in enabling people with dementia. With mealtimes occurring several times each day, improved mealtime experiences can provide a pathway to person-centred care.

Cultural change isn’t easy and creative strategies and commitment are needed. Care staff require quality training and ongoing support.



The aged care sector must place greater emphasis on quality outcomes for residents, rewarding providers who enable residents to live well – engaged, involved, and connected.

This article was first published on The Conversation, and was written by Jade Cartwright Associate Professor from University of Tasmania, Anne Whitworth Professor from m University of Tasmania, Elizabeth Oliver Sessional Academic from Curtin University
 
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That sounds more like it. One of my main gripes about aged care was that it was de-humanising. A person went in there and just became a lump of meat and bones to be moved through the day and put to bed at night. Any faculties they had on entering the home were quickly lost. This at least gives them options, choices can be made and you retain some measure of autonomy which I think is great. :)
 
I was a volunteer in aged care, oh dear, meal times made me angry. I saw people having food shovelled into their mouths in huge spoonfuls so that they had to choke it down as the next spoonful followed rapidly. In some ways not the fault of the staff who do care but of a system which provides insufficient staff to cater for their patients. No, not clients, a horrible word, please don't use it
 
I worked in aged care for many years and was left absolutely heartbroken to see what really happens ie deadline on mealtimes, showers etc. The elderly cannot move at their normal pace - the whole system needs to be overhauled.
 
Meals are rituals built around pleasures and choices. While what is served at mealtimes in aged care homes has received recent attention and Labor has pledged to improve the food offered, new research highlights that how meals are offered is just as important.

More than 50% of aged care residents live with dementia, and outside of mealtimes, spend the majority of their days alone. Mealtimes are the time of the day when people come together, providing opportunities for social connection, celebration, and honouring individual preferences and culture.

And yet, staffing shortages and insufficient time to help residents eat and drink means mealtimes are frequently highly structured and depersonalised, with the focus being on food intake rather than the dining experience.

Further, current aged care funding does not incentivise quality in food, or mealtime autonomy.



Innovation in mealtime care is needed to turn this around and give aged care residents back their basic rights. One proven approach draws on Montessori principles traditionally used within the early childhood field.

Careful planning allows more freedom​

The revolutionary thinking of Italian physician and educator Maria Montessorihas been increasingly applied to dementia care – introduced to the field by psychologist Cameron Camp in the 1990s. The Montessori approach respects the abilities and preferences of the person – young or old – engaging people at their own pace and rhythm.

Montessori methods focus on a carefully prepared environment and work with the retained strengths of a person with dementia to enable engagement and involvement in everyday life. This helps people with dementia reclaim skills, such as the ability to eat independently.

The approach can change people’s expectations of what a person with dementia is capable of and promote a sense of community.

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Residents can play an active role in mealtimes. Author, Author provided

Our study looked at how applying Montessori strategies changed mealtimes for staff and residents in a residential aged care setting. We periodically filmed mealtimes, starting before any changes were made and ending with new practices in place.

Routines, materials, and external aids were established to support memory loss and independence. For example, signage invited residents to help themselves to snacks, and a buffet encouraged residents to serve their own meals.

Extending the duration of the breakfast service enabled residents to eat at their own pace, while the preparation of additional food ensured residents had the opportunity for second or third helpings.



Staff across all levels of the organisation were trained and mentored in the Montessori approach. For example, the Montessori mantra “Everything you do for me; you take away from me” was introduced to staff – transforming the way they thought about empowering residents and their own caring roles.

Care staff were encouraged to involve residents in mealtime routines and create meaningful roles, such as setting the table, filling water jugs or writing up the daily menu.

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Meals are about sharing food and coming together.
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What we saw​

Our observational research evaluated mealtime routines before and after the Montessori model of care was introduced and the findings were promising for everyone involved – residents, families, and staff. We can see this by examining the experience of a resident we’ll call “Marjory”.

Before Montessori, Marjory’s meal was chosen by a staff member and there were no second options should she not like the selection. Marjory’s main meal and dessert were placed together on the bare table, with no explanation as to what they were. She did not choose who she sat with, or which drink was served with her meal. Marjory ate her meal in silence.

We noted this as a familiar pattern, highlighted in previous research, that featured very little social interaction between care staff and residents.

Since Montessori strategies were introduced, Marjory selects what and how much she would like from the labelled buffet. She eats at a table that is beautifully set with a tablecloth, cutlery, and condiments. Marjory can help herself to a second helping if she likes and she socialises during her meal. Afterwards, she helps staff by taking her dishes to the sink.

We watched on as opportunities for choice significantly increased, as did social interaction between staff and residents. Mealtime care had become more respectful and centred around people.



Transforming care​

Examples of positive innovation in aged care need to be shared if we are to change public perceptions of dementia and show how more humanistic models of care are possible.

The Montessori approach is an innovative way to transform care – helping aged care staff rethink their role in enabling people with dementia. With mealtimes occurring several times each day, improved mealtime experiences can provide a pathway to person-centred care.

Cultural change isn’t easy and creative strategies and commitment are needed. Care staff require quality training and ongoing support.



The aged care sector must place greater emphasis on quality outcomes for residents, rewarding providers who enable residents to live well – engaged, involved, and connected.

This article was first published on The Conversation, and was written by Jade Cartwright Associate Professor from University of Tasmania, Anne Whitworth Professor from m University of Tasmania, Elizabeth Oliver Sessional Academic from Curtin University
A very worthwhile step forward
 
I used to visit an elderly gentleman who was shoved into an expensive aged care facility by his sons after their Mother died.
I watched this man decline rapidly, transforming from an active, interesting man into a blob who didn't want to be alive.
Meal times were a shocker....we couldn't distinguish one item of food from another on their "hot" lunch....the food looked disgusting and smelled even worse.
The residents used to push their plates into the middle of the table, eating nothing.
The evening meal might be a half piece of bread with half a part pie.
I wrote a long letter to the Department of Health, but as I was not family, they would deal with me.
The residents had to sit at the same table, but not necessarily in the same seat.
So if a person had spat his food onto the table cloth, and didn't sit there the next meal, someone else had to sit with the mess in their face.
The tablecloths were changed weekly!
Repulsive, unhygienic, degrading, disgusting, dehumanising, demoralising, belittling, just plain awful.
 
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I used to visit an elderly gentleman who was shoved into an expensive aged care facility by his son's after their Mother died.
I watched this man decline rapidly, transforming from an active, interesting man into a blob who didn't want to be alive.
Meal times were a shocker....we couldn't distinguish one item of food from another on their "hot" lunch....the food looked disgusting and smelled even worse.
The residents used to push their plates into the middle of the table, eating nothing.
The evening meal might be a half piece of bread with half a part pie.
I wrote a long letter to the Department of Health, but as I was not family, they would deal with me.
The residents had to sit at the same table, but not necessarily in the same seat.
So if a person had spat his food onto the table cloth, and didn't sit there the next meal, someone else had to sit with the mess in their face.
The tablecloths were changed weekly!
Repulsive, unhygienic, degrading, disgusting, dehumanising, demoralising, belittling, just plain awful.
Inhumane & heartless. All about profit.
 
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I was a volunteer in aged care, oh dear, meal times made me angry. I saw people having food shovelled into their mouths in huge spoonfuls so that they had to choke it down as the next spoonful followed rapidly. In some ways not the fault of the staff who do care but of a system which provides insufficient staff to cater for their patients. No, not clients, a horrible word, please don't use it
I prefer residents as this a person who lives there
 
I've been visiting my 82 year old uncle in a nursing home for 2 years .
It's sad as he has no children and his wife doesn't care.
I went in a few weeks ago only to find him asleep and the nurse kept coming in shovelling food in while he slept, I told her he is going to choke.
He is in palative care, I spent yesterday with him as he was given no more than 2 days to live and never thought I would pray for someone to die. He has sepsis right through him.

While in there I noticed a large empty dinning room and thought they need to use this for meals and have everyone who can be out off bed in there. I asked where do patients eat and they replied in their rooms.

There is so much more they can do for the patients at no extra or minimal cost.

I played my uncle music including his favourite Old Rugged Cross, I read to him including Psalm 23 The Lird is my shepherd .

A social worker came in and asked me if he liked music , I replied yes that's why I'm playing it. She said she would get something in his room and play music.

I don't believe in euthanasia but when I saw my uncle , it was unbelievable the pain he is in.

He has had no food or drink for 3 days, all meds stopped and is only on morphine.

More money needs to be put in aged care .

It's such a sad way to live in your later years
 
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I've been visiting my 82 year old uncle in a nursing home for 2 years .
It's sad as he has no children and his wife doesn't care.
I went in a few weeks ago only to find him asleep and the nurse kept coming in shovelling food in while he slept, I told her he is going to choke.
He is in palative care, I spent yesterday with him as he was given no more than 2 days to live and never thought I would pray for someone to die. He has sepsis right through him.

While in there I noticed a large empty dinning room and thought they need to use this for meals and have everyone who can be out off bed in there. I asked where do patients eat and they replied in their rooms.

There is so much more they can do for the patients at no extra or minimal cost.

I played my uncle music including his favourite Old Rugged Cross, I read to him including Psalm 23 The Lird is my shepherd .

A social worker came in and asked me if he liked music , I replied yes that's why I'm playing it. She said she would get something in his room and play music.

I don't believe in euthanasia but when I saw my uncle , it was unbelievable the pain he is in.

He has had no food or drink for 3 days, all meds stopped and is only on morphine.

More money needs to be put in aged care .

It's such a sad way to live in your later years
My heart goes out to both you and him. It's a good thing that you do to visit him and I'm sure he has appreciated it. Don't be too hard on his wife, sometimes it's just too painful to see a loved one in such a state.🤗
 
My SIL's Aunt is waiting to get into a nursing home. She's 93, living alone in her home & has developed medium grade dementia. It's just going to be awful for her, but there's no turning back as it's the end of the line.
 
My heart goes out to both you and him. It's a good thing that you do to visit him and I'm sure he has appreciated it. Don't be too hard on his wife, sometimes it's just too painful to see a loved one in such a state.🤗
I think he knows we were there , as soon as my husband said who was there his eyes opened widder.
He just kept screaming in jibberish although we understood Home...mum...dad.

No his wife was a bully she used to attack him and empty his bank account. She is a very large Fijian lady.
I have to go see her today to tell her he is on his last and I need to collect my grandparents items that my uncle had including family photo's
I've got to start funeral arrangements which I hate as he hasn't passed yet
He will be the third person in 8 weeks that's passed
 
I've been visiting my 82 year old uncle in a nursing home for 2 years .
It's sad as he has no children and his wife doesn't care.
I went in a few weeks ago only to find him asleep and the nurse kept coming in shovelling food in while he slept, I told her he is going to choke.
He is in palative care, I spent yesterday with him as he was given no more than 2 days to live and never thought I would pray for someone to die. He has sepsis right through him.

While in there I noticed a large empty dinning room and thought they need to use this for meals and have everyone who can be out off bed in there. I asked where do patients eat and they replied in their rooms.

There is so much more they can do for the patients at no extra or minimal cost.

I played my uncle music including his favourite Old Rugged Cross, I read to him including Psalm 23 The Lird is my shepherd .

A social worker came in and asked me if he liked music , I replied yes that's why I'm playing it. She said she would get something in his room and play music.

I don't believe in euthanasia but when I saw my uncle , it was unbelievable the pain he is in.

He has had no food or drink for 3 days, all meds stopped and is only on morphine.

More money needs to be put in aged care .

It's such a sad way to live in your later years
I completely understand, I have been on that road with several elderly friends whose families didn't care.
Hearing is the last sense to go, so even if they stop responding, keep talking to them, keep singing hymns, they can hear you there.
I remember a dear friend some years ago, I sang hymns to him.
His favourite was "It is Well With My Soul," and while he was able, he would come in with the repeat, "It is well", I still tear up when I recall it.
When he stopped speaking, his favourite was ,"Silent Night," even though it was in the middle of the year. He loved the line,
"Sleep in Heavenly peace," and would squeeze my hand to sing it over and over.
When I choked on my own tears, I told him it was very hard for me, and he squeezed my hand very very tightly.
I consider it a privilege to have been able to be with these dear people right until their end on earth. My pain or discomfort or lack of sleep mattered not.
After my friends had passed away, that's when the families appeared....to claim their inheritance.
I was asked to do the eulogy for one friend, as the family knew nothing about him.
For another, the family asked me what the favourite hymns were so they could be sung in the Church.
Suzanne Rose, you dear lady...may God be with you as you do your best for your dear Uncle....that's what counts.
I hope you are able to obtain all the memories and treasures which belong in your family amicably.🙏🕯️🙏
 
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