Recruiter criticises treatment of employees after ‘terrible’ Kmart act: ‘You’re a bad customer’

In a world where the phrase 'the customer is always right' is often taken to extremes, a recent incident at a Kmart store has sparked a heated debate about the treatment of retail workers in Australia.

One woman has been left utterly disgusted by the event, and this sentiment resonates with many nationwide.



The incident involved a shopper who confronted two young Kmart employees tasked with checking bags at the store's exit, a standard security procedure in many retail outlets.

The customer, dissatisfied with being asked to show her purchases, took down the names of the workers to lodge a complaint against them for simply doing their job.


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An incident at Kmart has left a woman disgusted and had to share it online. Credit: Shutterstock


Tammie Christofis Ballis, a specialist recruiter for Realistic Careers, has criticised this act of entitlement and misunderstanding of retail operations.

She has a bone to pick with those who underestimate the challenges those in customer-facing roles face, especially during the current cost of living crisis.

'If you're complaining that customer service doesn't exist anymore, it's probably because you're a bad customer,' Ballis stated.

'Unless you've worked in those jobs, you don't appreciate how hard they are.’

Ballis's comments come when retail and hospitality workers are under immense pressure, not just from the demands of their roles but also from the increasing instances of customer rudeness and disrespect.



Recounting the incident at Kmart, Ballis said, ‘She took down their names after they checked her bags and was planning to complain to Kmart customer service about these young kids doing their job.’

'They were literally doing their job, and there's high theft in the area.’

'Yet they have to deal with entitled, self-absorbed people who think the world revolves around them.’

'If that's someone like you, you're a terrible customer. I hope you never get served again and get kicked out of every place you go.’

'Stop being mean, stop being rude.'

She shared her own family's experience, saying, ‘My parents have a takeaway shop, and customers have been really rude lately. They walk in and say things like, "The shop's quiet, give me a discount".’

'I know we're in a cost-of-living crisis; I know everyone is struggling at the moment, but they don't get paid enough to deal with your crap.'



The recruiter's observations have struck a chord with many Australian workers who have faced similar situations.

Social media has been abuzz with support for Ballis's stance, with some suggesting that everyone should be required to work in a customer service role for at least a few months to gain perspective.

'Thank you. Everyone needs to work in hospitality or retail for three months at least,' one said.

'Been whistled at and spat at—people have no respect for retail workers,' another added.

The conversation has also highlighted the darker side of retail work, with some workers sharing their own harrowing experiences of abuse and disrespect.

'I worked at Kmart for six years, and my mental health has suffered greatly because of it,' one individual confessed, detailing incidents of verbal abuse and even physical aggression.

'I've been through so much—things thrown at me, verbal abuse, and more. It was truly awful, and I feel like I need therapy just from working a retail job.'



However, it's important to note that not all customers are the problem.

Some shoppers have expressed their frustrations with the decline in service quality, emphasising that they always try to be polite and understanding with staff.

'I am always super nice to retail people because I, too, work in their position, but it's rarely reciprocated,' one said.

'Service these days is appalling. That's if you can even find any, and yes, have worked in retail,' a second added.

You can watch Ballis’ video below:


Credit: @careercoachtammie / TikTok

It’s not just employees from Kmart who experienced abuses in the industry.

In a similar story, a Woolworths employee experienced verbal abuse from a customer, leading to a plea for empathy and respect as individuals, not just workers. You can read more about the story here.
Key Takeaways
  • A specialist recruiter criticised Australians for their poor treatment of retail and hospitality workers.
  • An incident at Kmart involved an angry shopper who took down names of young employees to complain after a bag check.
  • The recruiter emphasised the challenges faced by customer-facing staff and condemned the entitlement and rudeness of some customers.
  • Many Aussies in retail and hospitality face verbal abuse and disrespect, which can impact their mental health.
Have you witnessed or experienced similar treatment while working in retail or hospitality? How can we foster a more respectful culture towards service workers? Share your stories and ideas in the comments below!
 
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The stores themselves are as much to blame as they have put them there. Why did they change things with the checkout. They were much better left at the front of the store like they used to be.
Had they left things as they were,there would be no need for anyone to be at the front door checking bags
 
Why not have the person at the front of the store weigh bags on entry. This allows the attendant to advise the customer on store specials, answer customer questions, while giving a passive message that the bag will be weighed on the way out in effect deterring theft. This won't violate a customers privacy.
 
The stores themselves are as much to blame as they have put them there. Why did they change things with the checkout. They were much better left at the front of the store like they used to be.
Had they left things as they were,there would be no need for anyone to be at the front door checking bags
Absolutely agree with your comment.

The redsigned stores with checkouts in the centre of the store make no sense.

Checkouts at the doors would properly serve the purpose of scrutiny of items being carried out of the store.
 
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I think that shoppers have become more aggressive in recent years in reaction to many stores' reduction of staff/customer service.

Increasingly, it appears that there are fewer staff members on the shop floors to approach for assistance.

This can be frustrating 😵‍💫🫤😫.

On the subject of reacting to staff at Kmart doors checking the exiting shoppers for theft, I think that anyone not stealing should have no objection.

The woman who took the staff members' names for the purpose of 'reporting them to management' would in my opinion not have a leg to stand on.
 
I don't like the checkouts in the middle of Kmart stores but I feel for the young people at the door who have to check on customers purchases. If you don't have anything to hide, it won't worry you.
I was in Aldi last Friday and a very rude man pushed his trolley into my back as I was going through the checkout. I think people think they are entitled today and we need more manners in society. I was bought up to respect other people no matter what, isn't that being taught in families or schools anymore. It appears not. :unsure:
 
Sadly,good manners,courtesy and respect just don’t seem to be the norm anymore. Harking back to that weary old adage……but back in MY day,when I was a youngster,you were taught,right from the outset,respect adults,give up your seat to an older person,hold the door open for those following or in front,smile and be respectful,no matter the provocation. You never,ever talked back. You never ever abused an older person or someone gave you a kick up the bum…and not necessarily your parents! It was ingrained in us. It came naturally and we were nicer people and we made nicer kids because of it. But our kids dropped the ball and allowed their kids to ”be free”…to not give up their seat if they didn’t want to,to not speak nicely if they were in a bad mood and if they had bad feelings,it’s “ok” to be a prick to everyone around them. There’s no working for a goal. Kids don’t save for things they want. Both parents work and buy them everything. It’s a sad,sad reflection on our society.id love to see my grandkids faces someday. They’re often here but their heads are buried in their devices….where they are NOT learning how to function in the real world!
well,that turned into an early morning rant,didn’t it? .!? Sorry!
 
The bad customer as you call her has been around awhile now, IF people didn't steal (no other word for it) from these companies then they would not have to have staff on the door checking bags, it's a job the staff hate to do but must do as so many light fingered Louies try to walk out without paying for goods and believe me they come from all walks of life, years ago I have seen people come back into the store and say how bad they felt because when they checked their bags they missed paying for an item and wanted to pay for it then, those people seem to be all gone now, I have seen people hide things in lawn mower boxes to try to get them through the checkouts, so if no one was checking at the exit/entry doors they would have walked out with them, that was just one example, we talk now about stores closing and they are doing so not just because traffic is slow it's because people steal from them also and it makes bad times worse. But sad to see these entitled people will just keep taking what's not theirs because they believe they are entitle to. sad state of affairs
 
Not a good world any more with the disrespect that's shown to other people. Manners obviously not taught at home these days, and to see how a lot of people behave makes you realise we lived in the best times when respect and care for other people was important to us.
 
Sadly,good manners,courtesy and respect just don’t seem to be the norm anymore. Harking back to that weary old adage……but back in MY day,when I was a youngster,you were taught,right from the outset,respect adults,give up your seat to an older person,hold the door open for those following or in front,smile and be respectful,no matter the provocation. You never,ever talked back. You never ever abused an older person or someone gave you a kick up the bum…and not necessarily your parents! It was ingrained in us. It came naturally and we were nicer people and we made nicer kids because of it. But our kids dropped the ball and allowed their kids to ”be free”…to not give up their seat if they didn’t want to,to not speak nicely if they were in a bad mood and if they had bad feelings,it’s “ok” to be a prick to everyone around them. There’s no working for a goal. Kids don’t save for things they want. Both parents work and buy them everything. It’s a sad,sad reflection on our society.id love to see my grandkids faces someday. They’re often here but their heads are buried in their devices….where they are NOT learning how to function in the real world!
well,that turned into an early morning rant,didn’t it? .!? Sorry!
I don't agree about the kids, my son works to support his wife who is studying and 4 kids. They all save for what they want. I know other families where the kids have a savings plan. Don't lump everyone in together. The young people at K mart are doing a job to earn money too. Every family is different, very proud of my grandkids and their saving.
 
Sadly,good manners,courtesy and respect just don’t seem to be the norm anymore. Harking back to that weary old adage……but back in MY day,when I was a youngster,you were taught,right from the outset,respect adults,give up your seat to an older person,hold the door open for those following or in front,smile and be respectful,no matter the provocation. You never,ever talked back. You never ever abused an older person or someone gave you a kick up the bum…and not necessarily your parents! It was ingrained in us. It came naturally and we were nicer people and we made nicer kids because of it. But our kids dropped the ball and allowed their kids to ”be free”…to not give up their seat if they didn’t want to,to not speak nicely if they were in a bad mood and if they had bad feelings,it’s “ok” to be a prick to everyone around them. There’s no working for a goal. Kids don’t save for things they want. Both parents work and buy them everything. It’s a sad,sad reflection on our society.id love to see my grandkids faces someday. They’re often here but their heads are buried in their devices….where they are NOT learning how to function in the real world!
well,that turned into an early morning rant,didn’t it? .!? Sorry!
Don't apologise - you are right. I hold the notion that you treat people the same as you want to be treated - I am in my 70's and I have always treated staff the same - with the odd reason to speak to someone about their manner and treatment of me - in a nice way which generally makes them feel slightly ashamed.
Yes our kids have dropped the ball - why I don't understand, they give and give and the kids take and take and have no respect for what they have nor their parents and have this idea that "you owe me" and I owe you nothing!
 
Why not have the person at the front of the store weigh bags on entry. This allows the attendant to advise the customer on store specials, answer customer questions, while giving a passive message that the bag will be weighed on the way out in effect deterring theft. This won't violate a customers privacy.
Good idea ,you can take out a brick and put a brick of ice-cream in instead. o_O
 
Sadly,good manners,courtesy and respect just don’t seem to be the norm anymore. Harking back to that weary old adage……but back in MY day,when I was a youngster,you were taught,right from the outset,respect adults,give up your seat to an older person,hold the door open for those following or in front,smile and be respectful,no matter the provocation. You never,ever talked back. You never ever abused an older person or someone gave you a kick up the bum…and not necessarily your parents! It was ingrained in us. It came naturally and we were nicer people and we made nicer kids because of it. But our kids dropped the ball and allowed their kids to ”be free”…to not give up their seat if they didn’t want to,to not speak nicely if they were in a bad mood and if they had bad feelings,it’s “ok” to be a prick to everyone around them. There’s no working for a goal. Kids don’t save for things they want. Both parents work and buy them everything. It’s a sad,sad reflection on our society.id love to see my grandkids faces someday. They’re often here but their heads are buried in their devices….where they are NOT learning how to function in the real world!
well,that turned into an early morning rant,didn’t it? .!? Sorry!
No rant I totally agree with you
 
I do not condone rude treatment of retail staff the need to check bags at exit is not needed if you want me to use self service checkouts trust me if not bring back checkout operaters at the exit.
There are quite a few times that I have NOT purchased anything so do not have to go through the self service checkouts, as I am sure that many people do the same. I am not against having my shopping bag checked!
 
Why not have the person at the front of the store weigh bags on entry. This allows the attendant to advise the customer on store specials, answer customer questions, while giving a passive message that the bag will be weighed on the way out in effect deterring theft. This won't violate a customers privacy.
stupid idea.
 
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