Recruiter criticises treatment of employees after ‘terrible’ Kmart act: ‘You’re a bad customer’

In a world where the phrase 'the customer is always right' is often taken to extremes, a recent incident at a Kmart store has sparked a heated debate about the treatment of retail workers in Australia.

One woman has been left utterly disgusted by the event, and this sentiment resonates with many nationwide.



The incident involved a shopper who confronted two young Kmart employees tasked with checking bags at the store's exit, a standard security procedure in many retail outlets.

The customer, dissatisfied with being asked to show her purchases, took down the names of the workers to lodge a complaint against them for simply doing their job.


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An incident at Kmart has left a woman disgusted and had to share it online. Credit: Shutterstock


Tammie Christofis Ballis, a specialist recruiter for Realistic Careers, has criticised this act of entitlement and misunderstanding of retail operations.

She has a bone to pick with those who underestimate the challenges those in customer-facing roles face, especially during the current cost of living crisis.

'If you're complaining that customer service doesn't exist anymore, it's probably because you're a bad customer,' Ballis stated.

'Unless you've worked in those jobs, you don't appreciate how hard they are.’

Ballis's comments come when retail and hospitality workers are under immense pressure, not just from the demands of their roles but also from the increasing instances of customer rudeness and disrespect.



Recounting the incident at Kmart, Ballis said, ‘She took down their names after they checked her bags and was planning to complain to Kmart customer service about these young kids doing their job.’

'They were literally doing their job, and there's high theft in the area.’

'Yet they have to deal with entitled, self-absorbed people who think the world revolves around them.’

'If that's someone like you, you're a terrible customer. I hope you never get served again and get kicked out of every place you go.’

'Stop being mean, stop being rude.'

She shared her own family's experience, saying, ‘My parents have a takeaway shop, and customers have been really rude lately. They walk in and say things like, "The shop's quiet, give me a discount".’

'I know we're in a cost-of-living crisis; I know everyone is struggling at the moment, but they don't get paid enough to deal with your crap.'



The recruiter's observations have struck a chord with many Australian workers who have faced similar situations.

Social media has been abuzz with support for Ballis's stance, with some suggesting that everyone should be required to work in a customer service role for at least a few months to gain perspective.

'Thank you. Everyone needs to work in hospitality or retail for three months at least,' one said.

'Been whistled at and spat at—people have no respect for retail workers,' another added.

The conversation has also highlighted the darker side of retail work, with some workers sharing their own harrowing experiences of abuse and disrespect.

'I worked at Kmart for six years, and my mental health has suffered greatly because of it,' one individual confessed, detailing incidents of verbal abuse and even physical aggression.

'I've been through so much—things thrown at me, verbal abuse, and more. It was truly awful, and I feel like I need therapy just from working a retail job.'



However, it's important to note that not all customers are the problem.

Some shoppers have expressed their frustrations with the decline in service quality, emphasising that they always try to be polite and understanding with staff.

'I am always super nice to retail people because I, too, work in their position, but it's rarely reciprocated,' one said.

'Service these days is appalling. That's if you can even find any, and yes, have worked in retail,' a second added.

You can watch Ballis’ video below:


Credit: @careercoachtammie / TikTok

It’s not just employees from Kmart who experienced abuses in the industry.

In a similar story, a Woolworths employee experienced verbal abuse from a customer, leading to a plea for empathy and respect as individuals, not just workers. You can read more about the story here.
Key Takeaways
  • A specialist recruiter criticised Australians for their poor treatment of retail and hospitality workers.
  • An incident at Kmart involved an angry shopper who took down names of young employees to complain after a bag check.
  • The recruiter emphasised the challenges faced by customer-facing staff and condemned the entitlement and rudeness of some customers.
  • Many Aussies in retail and hospitality face verbal abuse and disrespect, which can impact their mental health.
Have you witnessed or experienced similar treatment while working in retail or hospitality? How can we foster a more respectful culture towards service workers? Share your stories and ideas in the comments below!
 
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Have to add my bit. 84 years old with a service dog, shop Cole’s Aldi k mart and Woolworths never have I had anything but care and consideration from staff nor have I witnessed it. If I had seen staff having their names taken for no reason I would have given my details to management as a witness for them.
 
The bad customer as you call her has been around awhile now, IF people didn't steal (no other word for it) from these companies then they would not have to have staff on the door checking bags, it's a job the staff hate to do but must do as so many light fingered Louies try to walk out without paying for goods and believe me they come from all walks of life, years ago I have seen people come back into the store and say how bad they felt because when they checked their bags they missed paying for an item and wanted to pay for it then, those people seem to be all gone now, I have seen people hide things in lawn mower boxes to try to get them through the checkouts, so if no one was checking at the exit/entry doors they would have walked out with them, that was just one example, we talk now about stores closing and they are doing so not just because traffic is slow it's because people steal from them also and it makes bad times worse. But sad to see these entitled people will just keep taking what's not theirs because they believe they are entitle to. sad state of affairs
If there were enough staff in the store it would make stealing harder, but it will continue as long as stores try to work with hardly any staff. To mean to pay staff.
 
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I think that shoppers have become more aggressive in recent years in reaction to many stores' reduction of staff/customer service.

Increasingly, it appears that there are fewer staff members on the shop floors to approach for assistance.

This can be frustrating 😵‍💫🫤😫.

On the subject of reacting to staff at Kmart doors checking the exiting shoppers for theft, I think that anyone not stealing should have no objection.

The woman who took the staff members' names for the purpose of 'reporting them to management' would in my opinion not have a leg to stand on.
I've retired from being a bus driver. I once had a woman who wanted to complain about me, I told her to hang on for a second, while I wrote down my badge number and the phone number for my office. She through it on the ground.
 
I don't like the checkouts in the middle of Kmart stores but I feel for the young people at the door who have to check on customers purchases. If you don't have anything to hide, it won't worry you.
I was in Aldi last Friday and a very rude man pushed his trolley into my back as I was going through the checkout. I think people think they are entitled today and we need more manners in society. I was bought up to respect other people no matter what, isn't that being taught in families or schools anymore. It appears not. :unsure:
Manners or the teaching of them is sadly lacking in many, many families.

Me, me, me is apparently the current priority 😳.
 
Of course, you would get upset if someone wanted to inspect your bag and you have stolen stuff in there and I bet those customers that get annoyed have something to hide. :LOL:
It's not a big deal otherwise.
 
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Sadly,good manners,courtesy and respect just don’t seem to be the norm anymore. Harking back to that weary old adage……but back in MY day,when I was a youngster,you were taught,right from the outset,respect adults,give up your seat to an older person,hold the door open for those following or in front,smile and be respectful,no matter the provocation. You never,ever talked back. You never ever abused an older person or someone gave you a kick up the bum…and not necessarily your parents! It was ingrained in us. It came naturally and we were nicer people and we made nicer kids because of it. But our kids dropped the ball and allowed their kids to ”be free”…to not give up their seat if they didn’t want to,to not speak nicely if they were in a bad mood and if they had bad feelings,it’s “ok” to be a prick to everyone around them. There’s no working for a goal. Kids don’t save for things they want. Both parents work and buy them everything. It’s a sad,sad reflection on our society.id love to see my grandkids faces someday. They’re often here but their heads are buried in their devices….where they are NOT learning how to function in the real world!
well,that turned into an early morning rant,didn’t it? .!? Sorry!
What you've noted is so true.

The problem is that many younger people consider manners and courtesy unnecessary and believe that older people are whingers.

I recently read that younger people think that we say please and thank you too much. The article I read, stated that this irritates young people.

I couldn't believe that anyone could be criticised for being polite but there you have it.
 
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Checking your bags on exiting a store is a condition of entering the store, unless this has changed.
Yes, many stores have a sign that says this.

I'm not sure if Kmart uses this sign, but if it does, the woman who took the names of the staff checking exiting customers should not have entered the store.
 
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Don't apologise - you are right. I hold the notion that you treat people the same as you want to be treated - I am in my 70's and I have always treated staff the same - with the odd reason to speak to someone about their manner and treatment of me - in a nice way which generally makes them feel slightly ashamed.
Yes our kids have dropped the ball - why I don't understand, they give and give and the kids take and take and have no respect for what they have nor their parents and have this idea that "you owe me" and I owe you nothing!
Why not stop “ giving” and start asking for “earning”?
 
Sadly,good manners,courtesy and respect just don’t seem to be the norm anymore. Harking back to that weary old adage……but back in MY day,when I was a youngster,you were taught,right from the outset,respect adults,give up your seat to an older person,hold the door open for those following or in front,smile and be respectful,no matter the provocation. You never,ever talked back. You never ever abused an older person or someone gave you a kick up the bum…and not necessarily your parents! It was ingrained in us. It came naturally and we were nicer people and we made nicer kids because of it. But our kids dropped the ball and allowed their kids to ”be free”…to not give up their seat if they didn’t want to,to not speak nicely if they were in a bad mood and if they had bad feelings,it’s “ok” to be a prick to everyone around them. There’s no working for a goal. Kids don’t save for things they want. Both parents work and buy them everything. It’s a sad,sad reflection on our society.id love to see my grandkids faces someday. They’re often here but their heads are buried in their devices….where they are NOT learning how to function in the real world!
well,that turned into an early morning rant,didn’t it? .!? Sorry!
Don't be sorry society, us gowing down the gurgler
 
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Sadly,good manners,courtesy and respect just don’t seem to be the norm anymore. Harking back to that weary old adage……but back in MY day,when I was a youngster,you were taught,right from the outset,respect adults,give up your seat to an older person,hold the door open for those following or in front,smile and be respectful,no matter the provocation. You never,ever talked back. You never ever abused an older person or someone gave you a kick up the bum…and not necessarily your parents! It was ingrained in us. It came naturally and we were nicer people and we made nicer kids because of it. But our kids dropped the ball and allowed their kids to ”be free”…to not give up their seat if they didn’t want to,to not speak nicely if they were in a bad mood and if they had bad feelings,it’s “ok” to be a prick to everyone around them. There’s no working for a goal. Kids don’t save for things they want. Both parents work and buy them everything. It’s a sad,sad reflection on our society.id love to see my grandkids faces someday. They’re often here but their heads are buried in their devices….where they are NOT learning how to function in the real world!
well,that turned into an early morning rant,didn’t it? .!? Sorry!
You are forgiven and I totally agree with you - bring back the size 9 shoe I say!
 
Nobody who serves customers deserves bad treatment the fact is the workers do not make the rules if a customer has an issue they should either call the complaint line for the store or send a letter
Newsflash - letters are not a thing known to the latter generations - if they can't text it they are lost!
 
It's not just hospitality and retail our bus drivers are abused ,spat on , sworn at by some of the passengers who when boarding stand by the driver complaining about the bus not being on time and wanting to know the reason and the drivers name to complain to the bus operator which makes the bus even later. The attitude of some students and fare evaders leaves alot to be desired . People with children in push chairs and prams often refuse to take the chid out of the pram and fold it to let a wheelchair bound person make use of the wheelchair space. When l stared driving buses over 50 years ago all prams and pushchairs hung on hooks at the front and back of the bus and none of the parents coplained about having to hold the child on their lap.
Lets bring back the respect and manners of the 50s and the world would be a better place to live in.
 
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It's not just hospitality and retail our bus drivers are abused ,spat on , sworn at by some of the passengers who when boarding stand by the driver complaining about the bus not being on time and wanting to know the reason and the drivers name to complain to the bus operator which makes the bus even later. The attitude of some students and fare evaders leaves alot to be desired . People with children in push chairs and prams often refuse to take the chid out of the pram and fold it to let a wheelchair bound person make use of the wheelchair space. When l stared driving buses over 50 years ago all prams and pushchairs hung on hooks at the front and back of the bus and none of the parents coplained about having to hold the child on their lap.
Lets bring back the respect and manners of the 50s and the world would be a better place to live in.
Remember the days of prams on the back of the buses as a child.

If a bus is late people have to remember that the timetables were made without knowledge that traffic could be heavy on a certain day, a road on their route has been closed resulting in a detour, wet weather means slower driving, several pickups or a wheelchair passenger. People should be grateful the bus isn't full & they can get a seat.

More respect & manners of the days when we were growing up would go a long way. At 72 l still stand back & hold a door for people coming or going. A thankyou is always received & l reply with, 'You are welcome'. So easy to do regardless of sex or race.
 
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I work in Ladies Fashion & it is not only the young that are disrespectful. The self entitled women that don't acknowledge you when you greet them instore, because they are on their phones. When they want service, they rap their knuckles on the counter, & you have to jump to it, even if you are serving someone else.
 
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