New survey reveals heartbreaking number of Australians who will spend Christmas alone

For most families around the globe, celebrating Christmas means reuniting with loved ones to enjoy the festivities.

However, a recent survey has revealed that a heartbreaking number of Aussies will be spending Christmas alone, shining a light on the nation's loneliness crisis.

The study, commissioned by the Red Cross, surveyed 1000 Australians about how they are feeling ahead of the holiday season.

Results revealed that although 74 per cent of respondents said that they had plans for Christmas, 1 in 5 people over 70 — retirees and those living alone — will be spending Christmas by themselves.

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A new study reveals that 1 in 5 senior Australians will be spending Christmas alone. Credit: Justin Paget/Getty Images.

Red Cross Volunteering Director Penny Harrison said that people should reach out to check in on one another to make sure that they're doing OK during the festivities.

Ms Harrison said: “Pick up the phone and reconnect with someone you haven’t spoken to this year or check in on a neighbour who lives alone.”

The charitable organisation — which conducts social support calls throughout the year — said that they are expecting to call around 2700 people on Christmas Day, claiming that for many of those people, their call would be the only conversation they would have that day.

Loneliest Australians revealed

Except for seniors, the results revealed that women and younger people feel the loneliest for the upcoming holidays — a result that is not surprising since a year of lockdowns and restrictions caused these demographic groups to isolate themselves.

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The study revealed that women and younger people feel the loneliest. Credit: Getty Images.

Ms Harrison said: “It’s also apparent that younger people are worried about possible border closures keeping them from family and friends.”

The survey found that 36 per cent of people aged 18 to 29 years old cite border closures as a concern, pointing out that this age group has been the most affected by COVID restrictions.

It was also revealed that that group was the loneliest, given that 44 per cent of them said that they are experiencing loneliness compared to 33 per cent of all respondents who admitted their lonesome holidays.

Additionally, a similar percentage said that the upcoming festivities made them feel much lonelier; a 15 per cent increase from last year's recorded data.

Women were reported to be much lonelier than men with 40 per cent of the women surveyed revealing that they feel isolated compared with 26 per cent of men.

The SDC is a platform for seniors to keep in touch with one another. Should you feel lonely these upcoming holidays, please don't hesitate to reach out to us and other members either on this forum or by emailing us at [email protected]!
 
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As a former community carer, I saw this all the time, not just at Christmas. Unfortunately a lot of the elderly clients I managed had been largely abandoned by their family, so very sad indeed. Thankful I made a difference in their life.:giggle:
 
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That is really sad, F&F :(

It seems like the holiday season is a time of extremes. For those lucky enough to have friends and family close by, it's arguably the best / most busy part of the year for socialising. But the other side of the coin is that it can be a time of profound loneliness...

I wonder if there are any charities / support lines helping people through?
 
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That is really sad, F&F :(

It seems like the holiday season is a time of extremes. For those lucky enough to have friends and family close by, it's arguably the best / most busy part of the year for socialising. But the other side of the coin is that it can be a time of profound loneliness...

I wonder if there are any charities / support lines helping people through?
If memory serves me correct, there was a hired bus that used to go around and pick up the old dears, usually organised through Anglicare.
 
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I just typed a huge reply then deleted it. I will just be glad when all the commercial hype around Christmas is finished.
 
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As a former community carer, I saw this all the time, not just at Christmas. Unfortunately a lot of the elderly clients I managed had been largely abandoned by their family, so very sad indeed. Thankful I made a difference in their life.:giggle:
there is the upcoming generation that forgets our sacrifice, I am - for one - a forgotten one by my 2 children and the more I talk about it (because it hurts) the more I find women/men in the same predicament - we don't know anything, too old fashion, times have changed. etc. My Christmas will be just with my partner still I find it lonely though.....:cautious:
 
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All of my family have predeceased me...so my time is spent with my rescue cat. I was informed when my husband died I would now have the status of War Widow, and considered the lowest of the low...so after trying to get involved in my community, and being turned away by the various volunteer groups, I accepted that I was indeed the lowest of the low. I now have no expectations, and avoid any contact with people as those who do are only trying to take me
down a peg or two...from now on I shall be very suspicious of people. Australia...the great and lucky country??? Only if you are well connected.
Merry Christmas??? Aurora
 
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New survey reveals heartbreaking number of Australians who will spend Christmas alone

For most families around the globe, celebrating Christmas means reuniting with loved ones to enjoy the festivities.

However, a recent survey has revealed that a heartbreaking number of Aussies will be spending Christmas alone, shining a light on the nation's loneliness crisis.

The study, commissioned by the Red Cross, surveyed 1000 Australians about how they are feeling ahead of the holiday season.

Results revealed that although 74 per cent of respondents said that they had plans for Christmas, 1 in 5 people over 70 — retirees and those living alone — will be spending Christmas by themselves.


qVneLq5PIsWZDnD2lClsLkFNmS69EpUP2VsZNZPzR7bxdjv0WeUAgUAy1_mbjHBFZDKlbCApntpXEENJqvOqXt4HUXFeIpWGvjakgMc7RyQD8MyfDV8jFUO0kKXocpHe6jB5Z_g

A new study reveals that 1 in 5 senior Australians will be spending Christmas alone. Credit: Justin Paget/Getty Images.

Red Cross Volunteering Director Penny Harrison said that people should reach out to check in on one another to make sure that they're doing OK during the festivities.

Ms Harrison said: “Pick up the phone and reconnect with someone you haven’t spoken to this year or check in on a neighbour who lives alone.”

The charitable organisation — which conducts social support calls throughout the year — said that they are expecting to call around 2700 people on Christmas Day, claiming that for many of those people, their call would be the only conversation they would have that day.


Loneliest Australians revealed

Except for seniors, the results revealed that women and younger people feel the loneliest for the upcoming holidays — a result that is not surprising since a year of lockdowns and restrictions caused these demographic groups to isolate themselves.

WtjuM91SQAFxyO-nQ53lPJNn1_1E8Lc69NEcQ5mmwVP0EQH_rN9mvFFmRSOLmu7BkjkO-11lr-fRliqigsMtVUbj4qaXsQCIh1J5Q_QCoqbPXV-Zdx7WPVe8dRab9sDrXhlmFAQ

The study revealed that women and younger people feel the loneliest. Credit: Getty Images.

Ms Harrison said: “It’s also apparent that younger people are worried about possible border closures keeping them from family and friends.”

The survey found that 36 per cent of people aged 18 to 29 years old cite border closures as a concern, pointing out that this age group has been the most affected by COVID restrictions.

It was also revealed that that group was the loneliest, given that 44 per cent of them said that they are experiencing loneliness compared to 33 per cent of all respondents who admitted their lonesome holidays.

Additionally, a similar percentage said that the upcoming festivities made them feel much lonelier; a 15 per cent increase from last year's recorded data.

Women were reported to be much lonelier than men with 40 per cent of the women surveyed revealing that they feel isolated compared with 26 per cent of men.

The SDC is a platform for seniors to keep in touch with one another. Should you feel lonely these upcoming holidays, please don't hesitate to reach out to us and other members either on this forum or by emailing us at [email protected]!
Hubby and self are retirees and to be quite honest we prefer our own company. We go to the retirement village Xmas Party held outside in another venue just before the 25th and that is enough for us. There will be 80 or so there and we will have a good time. Xmas Day we prefer to be on our own (family interstate) and will have a lovely quiet day with lobster, prawns and trifle and champers and then will sit and watch the telly and catch up with some movies we have been wanting to watch. We could have joined others on the day but we declined...we can just do as we wish and a nanna nap will probably on the cards as well LOL. We do lots of ringing around as well to wish our friends all the best for the festive season.
 
I will be alone this Christmas as I have for the last six. My daughter no longer talks to me (her choice) and my son who lives in another state will be working. It's sad but I've sort of got used to it. Christmas is a huge non-event. I just wish they'd put something good on tv!
 
All of my family have predeceased me...so my time is spent with my rescue cat. I was informed when my husband died I would now have the status of War Widow, and considered the lowest of the low...so after trying to get involved in my community, and being turned away by the various volunteer groups, I accepted that I was indeed the lowest of the low. I now have no expectations, and avoid any contact with people as those who do are only trying to take me
down a peg or two...from now on I shall be very suspicious of people. Australia...the great and lucky country??? Only if you are well connected.
Merry Christmas??? Aurora
OH!! so sorry to hear that Aurora! my heart breaks for you. ..... :cry: ... I moved to a new area and I have joined a few clubs/groups around... what gets me going is my smile, even with neighbours, I smile - we end up chatting... then an invite for a "cup of tea" either my place or theirs... we all need people around and I really hope you find some kind of support group around you - if not... keep smiling!! the days look brighter when we smile - All the best ;):):):)
 
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All of my family have predeceased me...so my time is spent with my rescue cat. I was informed when my husband died I would now have the status of War Widow, and considered the lowest of the low...so after trying to get involved in my community, and being turned away by the various volunteer groups, I accepted that I was indeed the lowest of the low. I now have no expectations, and avoid any contact with people as those who do are only trying to take me
down a peg or two...from now on I shall be very suspicious of people. Australia...the great and lucky country??? Only if you are well connected.
Merry Christmas??? Aurora
I feel for you Aurora, so sad that you were rejected by volunteer groups. Surely the various church groups would be happy to have you volunteer and meet new people plus a lot of them have a Christmas meal for people who are on their own. Give it a try, there are many out there who would love to be a friend I am sure. Good luck and please give it a try.
 
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there is the upcoming generation that forgets our sacrifice, I am - for one - a forgotten one by my 2 children and the more I talk about it (because it hurts) the more I find women/men in the same predicament - we don't know anything, too old fashion, times have changed. etc. My Christmas will be just with my partner still I find it lonely though.....:cautious:
So sorry to hear that, I am blessed, my 26 yr old son has old fashioned values and treats me like a queen. His father left us recently and now I'm divorced, it's been hard on our son but we band together with other family members to make it work.

I wish you a very happy Christmas.;)
 
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I feel for you Aurora, so sad that you were rejected by volunteer groups. Surely the various church groups would be happy to have you volunteer and meet new people plus a lot of them have a Christmas meal for people who are on their own. Give it a try, there are many out there who would love to be a friend I am sure. Good luck and please give it a try.
So very sorry to hear this, sincerely hope that situation changes and you can volunteer somewhere that will fully appreciate you. Hugs.
 
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I will be alone this Christmas as I have for the last six. My daughter no longer talks to me (her choice) and my son who lives in another state will be working. It's sad but I've sort of got used to it. Christmas is a huge non-event. I just wish they'd put something good on tv!
So sorry to hear this, I sincerely hope somehow you manage to have a good Christmas, I think the older one gets it's less of a concern, really just another day as we should always try and spend time with family, not just once a year.
 
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OH!! so sorry to hear that Aurora! my heart breaks for you. ..... :cry: ... I moved to a new area and I have joined a few clubs/groups around... what gets me going is my smile, even with neighbours, I smile - we end up chatting... then an invite for a "cup of tea" either my place or theirs... we all need people around and I really hope you find some kind of support group around you - if not... keep smiling!! the days look brighter when we smile - All the best ;):):):)
I agree with you re smiling. When we moved into the retirement village we knew noone. What I did was every time I was out and about and saw someone I would just smile and introduce myself...it was not long before I started to chat with different people and made friends. When people walk past my unit I smile, say hello and if they seem to want to chat I stop what I am doing and away we go. I find I get back what I give out :)
 

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