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Congratulations to both of you. Seeing your valued and insightful comments has often made me wish to know who you are. It sounds like a loving match best wishes for the future Joy 💕

Thank you Julieapol I’m so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter at such a young age. It is so true that until we start to look into things there are often many things we don’t know about. Getting our affairs in order makes life a lot easier for those left be hind. Again I’m sorry for...

Actually the current statistics are 30% of first marriages end in divorce which is a decrease from previous decades. I’m not sure whether you truly believe how horrible marriage is , you’ve been badly hurt in an earlier relationship or you are going for shock value and stirring the pot . I hope...

Marni yes your point is very true but sometimes it’s easier to say nothing. You also have the right to make a statement to police or child welfare if you believe someone is being abused. It is why now police can take out an AVO on behalf of a victim of abuse because it can be very difficult for...

Stand by your friend/relative but don’t force the issue. Offer constructive ideas for leaving but remember they are usually in love or enmeshed with the abuser and it can be very difficult to leave. Remember their self worth has been seriously impaired or they wouldn’t allow the abuse. Praising...

Dear birutespehr it is a very difficult situation and this will probably not what you want to hear but I’m sure you realise you can’t change your son. He has an illness and an addiction which until he wants to change it will not change no matter what you do. It is easy to be in denial and go...

Loved your comment Your wish…. Article coming up

Jest I’m so sad for what you’re going through. I can understand why you would like more upbeat articles. My daughter and I started to write a book when we were going through cancer and were going to call it “Laugh your way through Cancer”. You’re right that there are times when we need less...

Jest this article was requested by someone who was having many horrific nightmares and this article was meant for people who have suffered a traumatic event in their lives and they don’t realise that the nightmares can be related to PTSD. I’m very glad if you don’t relate to this as you may not...

Hi Brody I’m sorry for the struggle you are experiencing with your grandson I would like to write an article addressing parenting of grandchildren. Both you and Brody have suffered some significant losses and gone through some tough times together. Difficulty with ASD though, the person maybe...

Dear ElizaKaye I’m sorry I missed this question. I agree that this is a considerable problem. Legally I’m not sure there is much more that you can do from the legal point of view. My concern is the client who is having these difficulties. First thing I would do is find another GP to refer them...

Dear DLHM I’m so glad that you’ve been given the help required to become “normal” and thank you for sharing this. The only way we stop this being a taboo subject is too talk about it. I’m sorry you had to go through your teenage years and later before the diagnosis but hopefully this will now be...

Love that you’ve found a new relationship and are reflecting on the past experiences Brilliant sounds positive for the future 💕

I love that you’re are feeling young and willing to try new things Great energy 💖

What do you need Barbara ? 😊

That’s an excellent question. Many years ago it was considered a stigma however with the American TV series showing people in therapy in a positive manner it has become a little more acceptable. In Australia we have a “she’ll be right mate” attitude but thankfully seeing people speak out about...

Dear Megter yes it must be very difficult with what you and your husband are going through at anytime but your positive spin on such difficulties certainly must be helping you go through this . Please know that many in this community are with you in spirit and I’ll hold you in my thoughts kind...

Suzanne I’m so sorry for your loss and his. This must be an incredibly painful time. Please know you’re in my thoughts and I’m sending my heartfelt wish for some peace for you both Joy

A member has asked privately about suggestions for books that can help with OCD and anxiety. OCD and anxiety in general works best with CBT (Cognitive Behaviour Therapy) as it’s the unwanted and intrusive thoughts that give rise to anxious behaviours. The following are some suggested reading but...