I have recently started “ seeing someone” he always insists on paying but I also still offer to pay especially if we go out to lunch ( haven’t got to the dinner stage yet ) fingers crossed .
If I get then I forward them to spoof@paypal for them to ? trace and be aware of then delete them 99.9% of the time I get a message back from them saying thanks
99% of the time I forward them on to ”. Abuse @ yahoo.com.au as that is my main email most of the time I get a thanks from them then delete and delete .