Woman's chilling encounter at David Jones leads to a dire warning for all men

In a bustling David Jones department store, a scene unfolded that has become all too familiar in the discourse surrounding women's safety.

A woman, simply going about her shopping, noticed something deeply unsettling—a man, who appeared 'pretty normal' at first glance, engaging in behaviour that was anything but.



The man was allegedly taking photos of an unsuspecting female retail assistant’s buttocks, a violation of privacy that left the onlooker both shocked and compelled to act.

The shopper's decision to confront the man led to a torrent of verbal abuse, with the man resorting to derogatory slurs and aggressive demands for her to leave him alone.


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A shopper claimed a man was taking photos of a retail worker’s buttocks. Image source: Shutterstock



This incident, which took place in a Sydney store, has sparked a broader conversation about the pervasive issue of women feeling unsafe in public spaces.

The shopper's experience, which she shared on social media, highlights a disturbing reality: the constant vigilance women must maintain, even in environments where they should expect to feel secure.

‘This is it,’ she said. ‘When women speak about feeling unsafe and uncomfortable, it's this.’



The woman urged men to wake up: ‘It's not about worrying about being attacked all the time, even though that is a very real reality, it's about the fact that a girl working can't even feel safe in her work environment without worrying about if a random man is going to be taking photos of her [buttocks] from behind her without even knowing.’

‘I really just hope that any man that's watching this can take a moment to realise,’ she added.

The incident at David Jones is not an isolated one. It comes against a backdrop of ongoing violence against women in Australia.

Counting Dead Women Australia, an organisation that keeps a register of women killed by violence in the country, reported that 26 women have been killed by domestic violence so far in 2024.



The recent attacks at Westfield in Bondi Junction, where a male mass murderer's motives are under investigation, further underscore the gravity of the situation.

Prime Minister Albanese acknowledged the need for significant and swift action to combat violence against women, stating that both the government and society bear responsibility.

‘We all have a responsibility to do what we can to address what is a scourge of violence against women,’ he stated.

‘Men and boys have to clearly have discussions about these issues. There is a need to show respect to women,’ he added.

This chilling encounter serves as a dire warning and a call to action. It's a reminder that the responsibility to create a safe environment for women lies with everyone.

It's crucial that we continue to support and advocate for the well-being of all women, teaching younger generations the importance of respect and consent.
Key Takeaways
  • A woman shopper at David Jones in Sydney noticed a man taking photos of an unsuspecting female retail assistant.
  • When she confronted him, the woman was subjected to verbal abuse and derogatory comments.
  • The incident highlights growing concerns about the safety of women in public spaces in Australia.
  • The Prime Minister called for changes to address the issue of violence against women and urged discussions among men and boys about respect towards women.
What are your thoughts on this topic, members? If you have any insights or experiences to share, please let us know in the comments below.
 
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That is what security guards are for, I agree take a photo if you can and then go to a security guard, don't engage if a person is doing something illegal then they wouldn't hesitate to turn on you and either do you harm or have tirade of abusive language to try and make you feel small and scare the hell out of you. However my first thought would be to go straight to a security guard so they can watch what he does and then intervene. I am sure he wouldn't have bothered the security guard and they usually have back up pretty quickly.
I have said it million times before. Shop security "guards" have no more powers than you or me. They do not possess firearms, handcuffs, tasers, capsicum spray or batons and have no powers of arrest or detainment. They can only make a citizen's arrest where there is obviously "reasonable" grounds to make such an arrest. You or me can make a citizen's arrest under the same criteria. The only exception is those employed in transporting money in armoured vehicles, Security staff at casinos where large amounts of money are handled and transit security on public transport.

There is at least one security "guard" who joined the ranks of the Melbourne unemployed due to my diligence which is fully condoned by Dandenong Police.

Fortunately for them, I now reside in Perth....
 
I have said it million times before. Shop security "guards" have no more powers than you or me. They do not possess firearms, handcuffs, tasers, capsicum spray or batons and have no powers of arrest or detainment. They can only make a citizen's arrest where there is obviously "reasonable" grounds to make such an arrest. You or me can make a citizen's arrest under the same criteria. The only exception is those employed in transporting money in armoured vehicles, Security staff at casinos where large amounts of money are handled and transit security on public transport.

There is at least one security "guard" who joined the ranks of the Melbourne unemployed due to my diligence which is fully condoned by Dandenong Police.

Fortunately for them, I now reside in Perth....
I realise they have no more power than you or I but personally think, them being a bloke and can call other blokes stops some pratt from coming at me, regardless they get paid to do a job and if one of their jobs is to come between an offender and a customer then that is their job, the other is calling the police while keeping the person there even if it is under a citizen's arrest. That is my point them doing their job instead of you or I trying to talk to someone who is obviously a nasty person.
 
I realise they have no more power than you or I but personally think, them being a bloke and can call other blokes stops some pratt from coming at me, regardless they get paid to do a job and if one of their jobs is to come between an offender and a customer then that is their job, the other is calling the police while keeping the person there even if it is under a citizen's arrest. That is my point them doing their job instead of you or I trying to talk to someone who is obviously a nasty person.
The police are better equipped to negotiate with a troublesome person than security staff who undergo a supposed 128 hours of mandatory training. Some security staff I have encountered jumped off the boat, applied and failed their police entrance exam, then become self appointed quasi police in their own minds.

My last "altercation" with security was last month when two such trained apes held an individual on the ground on "suspicion" of shoplifting. This occurred in the carpark of Dandenong Junction Woolworths. I told these goons they were acting outside their "jurisdiction", namely the Woolworths premises and promptly let the fellow go. I then enquired why they did what they did. The reply? "We are tactical security guards". My reply? A hearty laugh in their faces! Tactical my arse!
 
If the woman in question had spoken to another staff member about the situation they could have alerted the security department. There would have been security cameras around the store and they would have clicked on to the area where that guy was with his smartphone. They would have it on record in order to aid in identifying and possibly charging him.
 

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