Wild wedding twist: Groom makes jaw-dropping discovery about bride's true identity!

In a tale that seems more akin to the plot of a dramatic soap opera than real life, a groom was left utterly astounded when he uncovered his bride's true identity—a revelation that came not during the exchange of vows but 12 days into their marriage.

This story, which unfolded in Indonesia, has captured the attention of many, leaving everyone shocked and intrigued by the complexities of human relationships and the lengths to which some will go for gain.



The groom, known simply as 'AK', had met his partner, Adinda Kanza, through online dating. Their love story blossomed over a year, culminating in an intimate wedding ceremony at AK's home in West Java.

Kanza, who had convinced AK that she ‘had no family left’, seemed to be the perfect match for him. However, the facade began to crumble shortly after the couple said 'I do’.


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Groom discovered the true identity of his bride, 12 days after the wedding. Credit: Yating Yang / South China Morning Post


According to South China Morning Post, The groom's suspicions were piqued when his new wife consistently avoided physical intimacy, citing illness and menstrual discomfort as reasons to maintain distance.

This charade continued for almost two weeks until AK's curiosity and concern drove him to investigate further.

His sleuthing led him to Kanza's former residence, where he was shocked to find her parents alive and well.

It was there that he learned the person he had married was actually 'ESH', a man who had adopted a female persona in 2020.

ESH’s parents had no idea their son was in a relationship, much less married.



The deception ran deep. ESH had donned traditional Muslim attire, including a niqab that concealed his face, throughout the courtship and even after moving in with AK.

This choice of clothing, which AK had interpreted as a sign of devout faith, was a calculated part of the ruse.

Authorities said that Kanza ‘behaved like a woman’ and had a ‘female-sounding voice’.

‘If you look at their wedding photos, Adinda looks exactly like a real woman,’ police said in a statement.

‘He also has a gentle voice and tone, so there was no suspicion at all about him being a woman.’



The police statement painted a picture of an alleged meticulously planned fraud, with ESH's intention to marry AK rooted in a scheme to steal the family's assets.

Now arrested and facing fraud charges, ESH could spend up to four years in prison if convicted.

This bizarre case sheds light on the complexities and challenges faced by LGBTQ individuals in Indonesia, a predominantly Muslim country with conservative values.

Social norms and traditional beliefs often clash with the realities of those who identify as LGBTQ, making acceptance and openness difficult to achieve.
Key Takeaways
  • A groom in Indonesia discovered his wife was a man disguised as a woman 12 days after their wedding.
  • The bride, Adinda Kanza, was actually a man named ESH, who reportedly dressed as a woman to carry out a plan to steal the groom's family's assets.
  • The groom, 'AK', became suspicious when 'Kanza' avoided intimacy by claiming to be unwell and later uncovered the deception by finding 'Kanza's' parents alive and unaware of the marriage.
  • ESH has been arrested on fraud charges and could face up to four years in prison if convicted. The case has highlighted the challenges faced by LGBTQ individuals in conservative societies like Indonesia.
Have you ever encountered a situation where things were not as they seemed? How do you navigate trust in relationships, especially in an age where online personas can be so easily crafted? Share them with us in the comments below!
 
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What's the Bahasa for "Oh! Shock! A cock in a frock!"

Of course, what REALLY gave the game away was his/her giving immediate answers to "What do you want for dinner?", NOT wanting to "just take a few of your chips...." and being able to reverse-park.
 
What's the Bahasa for "Oh! Shock! A cock in a frock!"

Of course, what REALLY gave the game away was his/her giving immediate answers to "What do you want for dinner?", NOT wanting to "just take a few of your chips...." and being able to reverse-park.
Hang on, I'm a woman and can reverse park.
 
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Funny relationship if as a loving couple they hadn’t got up close and personal with each other enough that the hubby hadn’t felt the manly bits before they wed. Most couples these days at least hug, cuddle, pash each other during courtship and it would be pretty hard to miss the extra bulges where there shouldn’t be any.
 
Funny relationship if as a loving couple they hadn’t got up close and personal with each other enough that the hubby hadn’t felt the manly bits before they wed. Most couples these days at least hug, cuddle, pash each other during courtship and it would be pretty hard to miss the extra bulges where there shouldn’t be any.
In our culture - yes, but definitely not in the Muslim culture. No touchy-feely whatever prior to the marriage ceremony.
 
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