TV show host reveals unusual family setup that sparked unexpected healing

In the ever-evolving landscape of family life, some paths take unexpected turns—choices that may not follow tradition but often lead to connection, resilience, and growth.

One public figure’s recent reflection on a personal arrangement has quietly resonated, offering a glimpse into the many forms that modern family support can take.


Edwina Bartholomew, a familiar face on the Sunrise program, has shared with The Australian Women's Weekly the startling details of her living arrangement with her husband, Neil Varcoe.

The arrangement has emerged as a response to significant health challenges faced by both.


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Edwina Bartholomew revealed a long-distance living arrangement, with weekend and holiday reunions with her husband. Credit: YouTube


The couple, who share two young children, daughter Molly and son Tom, have adopted a weekend-only cohabitation routine that defies the norm but has brought them closer unexpectedly.

The decision for Neil to relocate to regional New South Wales was driven by his diagnosis of chronic fatigue syndrome, a condition that often requires significant lifestyle changes to manage.

The move, which Edwina describes as having 'genuinely healed him,' was necessary for the family's well-being.


'That was a decision we had to make for ourselves a few years ago because what we were doing clearly wasn’t working,' she explained.

Their arrangement sees Neil living three hours away from the family home, with reunions limited to weekends and public holidays.

This setup, while challenging, has proven to be 'the best thing, and probably the only way we would have survived as a family,' according to Edwina.

Edwina's health journey has further tested the family's resilience.

Last year, she revealed her diagnosis of chronic myeloid leukemia (CML), a type of blood and bone marrow cancer.

Despite the gravity of such news, Edwina has maintained a positive outlook, even considering her diagnosis a 'gift' that has put things into perspective without the need for chemotherapy.


At Marie Claire's International Women's Day luncheon, Edwina spoke candidly about her experience with CML, emphasising how fortunate she felt that her symptoms were manageable and that she could continue with most daily activities.

'I am so conscious of what a gift that is, that I have been able to continue on semi-normal...I haven't had to tell my young kids, because I still look the same. It's been a real re-think in slowing myself down,' she shared.

Edwina's story is a testament to the power of adaptability and the importance of making tough decisions for family health and unity.

It also highlights the reality that many families face hidden struggles and that sometimes, the most healing path is one less traveled.

As members of the Seniors Discount Club, we understand that life can throw curveballs, and how we respond to them defines our journey.
Edwina and Neil's story may resonate with many of you who have had to make difficult choices for the health and happiness of your loved ones.


In other news, Sunrise weatherman Sam Mac faced a holiday ordeal in Switzerland after his fiancée, Rebecca James, broke her wrist in a fall.

The injury required surgery, and Sam commended Rebecca for staying calm and handling the pain with strength. You can read more about it here.
Key Takeaways
  • Sunrise presenter Edwina Bartholomew revealed her long-distance living arrangement with husband Neil Varcoe, where they see each other only on weekends and public holidays.
  • The living situation was chosen to deal with Neil's chronic fatigue syndrome, which improved after moving to regional New South Wales.
  • Edwina discussed the impact of her chronic myeloid leukemia diagnosis and how it has fortunately been manageable without intensive treatment.
  • Edwina appreciates that her condition hasn't significantly disrupted her daily life or required her to explain the situation to her young children.
What drives families to choose unconventional living arrangements? How does illness reshape priorities in everyday life? Let us know in the comments below.
 

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Edwina is a very positive young woman.
If this is what works for them then good on them.

I hope she has help Mon to Friday with the kids . She has very early morning starts and is still under treatment for her illness. I'm thinking she would be needing help and support. Hopefully she is at least getting it from her mother
 
My husband and I had a similar situation.
For many years there had been a very good relationship between my daughter and her stepfather, but as they got older and my daughter disability and my husband's bipolar caused many clashes, leaving me constantly in the middle, we found a two home situation was the only solution.
It caused a lot more work for me constantly going back and forth but we made it work until my husband became very ill and was hospitalised for almost
four months.After he was released he needed more care and moved back in with me and my daughter until he passed away last year .
People thought our situation very strange but unless you are put in these positions you can't really understand.
Whatever works for you is what you should do, it's nobody else's business.
 
Edwina is a lovely, very determined, great mother. Always comes across on TV so interesting. She will make her home life work with her children.

However I wonder if Sam Mac fiancée breaking her wrist is newsworthy.
 
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Edwina is a very positive young woman.
If this is what works for them then good on them.

I hope she has help Mon to Friday with the kids . She has very early morning starts and is still under treatment for her illness. I'm thinking she would be needing help and support. Hopefully she is at least getting it from her mother
she takes a pill so is very lucky. i go for plasma every 4 weeks and have done so since 2018. It takes up to 4 hours.
 
she takes a pill so is very lucky. i go for plasma every 4 weeks and have done so since 2018. It takes up to 4 hours.
She is lucky, and let's hope she doesn't get to where you are at.

Three of my daughters go and donate plasma quite often. Now I know what it is used for.
I learnt another new thing today
 

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