Sydney Woman's Heartbreaking Eviction Tale Highlights the Harsh Reality of the Housing Crisis

Stories about the housing market will never fail to shake us here at SDC.

A 53-year-old woman from Sydney–we’ll call her Cathy, though that is not her real name–has become the latest victim of the nation’s escalating housing crisis after being evicted from her home due to falling behind on rent. Despite her best efforts to find alternative housing, Cathy was unable to secure a new place to live and faced the devastating reality of homelessness..

Cathy had to make the heartbreaking decision to leave her beloved cat behind after she began living in her car. Her story caught the attention of many animal and human rights advocates.



Cathy was living in a western Sydney apartment building with her beloved cat Sage when COVID-19 hit and her wages at work – as a professional cook – were drastically cut. She quickly fell into rent arrears, and despite currently working 50 hours a week, was told she must leave the building on January 26.

It was a heart-wrenching situation, made worse by the fact that she had no choice but to leave Sage behind in the apartment foyer with food, water, and some bedding.

That same week, temperatures soared over 30°C meaning that Cathy, who had nowhere else to go, was reduced to living in her car.


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Cathy shared her experience when she was forced to move out of her apartment after falling short of hundreds of dollars in rent. (Photo for illustration). Credit: Pexels/Mart Production.



'It’s traumatic not having a roof over your head and there’s no privacy,' she recalled.

'You can’t just put on a happy face and everything’s okay. You try to manage with what you’ve got.'

Her only time worse than huddling in her sweat-soaked, 'boiling' car in the middle of the hot summer was when she had to limit her water intake to prevent herself from needing a bathroom.



'I was having trouble holding myself… there were times I had to go down to the beach and go,' Cathy said.

'And that was just horrible to think that I’d have to crouch down and go when I was busting.'

Amidst the struggles, something miraculous happened – an exceedingly kind-hearted and generous stranger-turned-friend stepped in and changed Cathy’s life.

Derek Knox, the founder of Mini Kitty Commune, read about her crisis on the news and decided that he, and his entire team of volunteers, must help.

'This was someone who cared so much about her cat,' he said. 'What happened to Cathy should not happen. She is working, she is part of society.'



He donated to Cathy himself and rallied nearly every member of his group to help, too. Within hours, offers for spare rooms and couches for long-term lodging came pouring in.

Mr Knox also worked tirelessly to find Cathy accommodation and eventually managed to track down a granny flat that would accept her cat.

Finally, after weeks of worry, sadness, and stress, Sage and Cathy were reunited; and she was given a chance at life somewhere she could call ‘home’.

Mr Knox’s actions not only did wonders for Cathy’s situation but also raised attention to the fatal flaws in the current state of the housing crisis in Sydney’s affluent eastern suburbs, where the median house price is over $3.5 million.


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Cathy had to leave her cat, Sage, as the conditions in the car she was sleeping in might kill the animal. Credit: Australian Research Centre.



The NSW government has granted over $1.2 billion towards housing programs for 2022-2023; however, opposition homelessness spokesperson, Rose Jackson, condemns the government’s failure to offer sufficient assistance to the people who need it most.

'The stories I hear almost every day of older women struggling in the private rental market, waiting for social housing, or living in forms of homelessness, tell the story of a failure that isn’t about numbers or statistics, but about people left behind by this government,' she said.

Cathy’s experience is, unfortunately, not unique or isolated. According to the last census, women aged 55 and over were the fastest-growing group of homeless Australians between the years 2011-2016.



Yumi Lee, CEO of the advocacy and support group Older Women’s Network (OWN), believes that women are being disproportionately impacted due to an existing gender pay gap, along with the fact that our society simply does not value the hard work of women.

'A lot of the women who are now retiring into poverty and housing insecurity have not had the opportunity to accumulate savings and superannuation to enable them to retire in comfort and with a roof over their heads.'

Key Takeaways

  • A Sydney woman was evicted from her rent-subsidised apartment, leaving her homeless with no choice but to live in her car.
  • She left a note for her neighbours explaining her heartbreaking decision to leave her cat behind in the foyer.
  • The NSW government has allocated over $1.2 billion towards housing programs, however, the shadow minister for homelessness believes the response has failed many people.
  • Advocacy and support groups, such as Older Women’s Network (OWN), are advocating for the government to do more to provide secure and affordable housing for older people.



Members, this heartbreaking story is a reminder of the real people behind the statistics of Australia’s housing crisis.

It’s important to remember that there are charities and organisations that can assist.

Some organisations include:




And of course, we must join forces in urging our government to implement policies that protect the rights of every Australian to affordable housing, such as establishing a specialist housing service for older people.

Help break the silence by sharing your own stories in the comments below, or sharing any organisations or charities which are helping with the housing crisis. Have you been affected by the housing crisis?
 
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Actually We do own properties. Family members live in them rent free. They don't pay rates.
How was this managed? By shear hard work and taking risks. Working away from family in poorer countries in SE Asia. No smoking, gambling, drinking, gap years or buying stuff you cant afford.


The governments want people employed so they subsidize the building industry. This makes the cost of housing rise. Negative gearing, first home owners grants , capital gains concessions etc. all go towards making home ownership is good investment over renting.

If you made mistakes early in life by not studying or working hard enough you bear the consequences of your lack of action. If bought on credit things you wanted now you never learnt the lesson of only buying what you can afford. Don't live a champagne lifestyle on a beer budget.

Those unfortunate enough that their circumstances came about through no fault of their own have my sympathy. Those who lived it up on credit I have no sympathy for at all. If you voted for a socialist government you soon realize that they run out of other people's money soon enough.

There are plenty of people in Asia worse off than those here. The problem is no government is honest enough t tell the people that their standard of living is going backwards.
 
Actually we do own properties and have no mortgages and never negatively geared them. The house family who do not pay rent, rates or other services. I don’t drink smoke or gamble. My hard earned went into buying these for the future.

The reality is that governments encourage building, just like the Chinese, to keep the great unwashed in work. The downside of all their schemes is to drive up the price of dwellings. This is with negative gearing, first home owners grants etc.

I left school at 15, did an apprenticeship and then became a professional engineer. Still working at 73!
My parents taught me that there is no free lunch, persist and prevail is the only way to survive.

if you made mistakes early in life by skiving off, smoking, drinking, gambling and spending more than you have, you now have the consequences to deal with in trying to rent.

The fault lies with you. The problem with socialism is that socialists soon run out of other people’s money.
I totally agree with you. My husband and I worked hard to scrape together a deposit while paying rent then it was paying off the mortgage which at that time was higher than rent.
We busted our backsides doing it.
While our friends got into debt buying expensive cars , boats and overseas trips we stuck it out with our old 9 seater van and holidays up the coast which didn't happen every year.

Now we own our house and those friends most had to sell their houses or still have a long way off owning it. And they are now complaining.
I actually sort of feel a little sorry for them as now they are seeing what they should have prioritised before.

My situation with my health would have been shocking if we didn't now own our house
 
I totally agree with you. My husband and I worked hard to scrape together a deposit while paying rent then it was paying off the mortgage which at that time was higher than rent.
We busted our backsides doing it.
While our friends got into debt buying expensive cars , boats and overseas trips we stuck it out with our old 9 seater van and holidays up the coast which didn't happen every year.

Now we own our house and those friends most had to sell their houses or still have a long way off owning it. And they are now complaining.
I actually sort of feel a little sorry for them as now they are seeing what they should have prioritized before.

My situation with my health would have been shocking if we didn't now own our house
That's why we must emphasize to those younger than us to put up with what they have and not want what they cant afford. Don't be a lemming falling sucker to all the ads on social media and the TV. My philosophy is that if it advertised on these platforms I wont buy it. If everyone did this then the advertisers would be in a pickle.

There is a difference between wanting, affording and needing. Those that never understood this fact are the sufferers. Too late for them.
 
Actually we do own properties and have no mortgages and never negatively geared them. The house family who do not pay rent, rates or other services. I don’t drink smoke or gamble. My hard earned went into buying these for the future.

The reality is that governments encourage building, just like the Chinese, to keep the great unwashed in work. The downside of all their schemes is to drive up the price of dwellings. This is with negative gearing, first home owners grants etc.

I left school at 15, did an apprenticeship and then became a professional engineer. Still working at 73!
My parents taught me that there is no free lunch, persist and prevail is the only way to survive.

if you made mistakes early in life by skiving off, smoking, drinking, gambling and spending more than you have, you now have the consequences to deal with in trying to rent.

The fault lies with you. The problem with socialism is that socialists soon run out of other people’s money.
"if you made mistakes early in life by skiving off, smoking, drinking, gambling and spending more than you have, you now have the consequences to deal with in trying to rent.

The fault lies with you. The problem with socialism is that socialists soon run out of other people’s money."
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I'm not the problem never was. I left school at 14 and a half to escape lack of being educated school back then was learn by rote garbage, my home life was being abused by a psycho father who beat the living daylights out of me with anything that he could reach, iron bars, head slammed into brick walls etc till I bled then I was kicked till my ribs were almost broken.

Being colourblind let me fail the air force and train driver/guard. I worked my arse of humping meat, produce loading trucks both at Paddies mkts and Lidcombe meat works as a casual for ages, at 5' 4" it wasn't easy and didn't bring in suitable money or stability to buy houses.

Good luck to you for having been given the opportunities you had and taking advantages of them. I guess your parents while offering all the advise didn't beat the shit out of you, call you every swear word in the world, tell you you were a burden and should have been strangled at birth.

so do not ever tell another man he's at fault for where he is, do NOT make assumptions based on your skewed perception of whatever.
I am Shannon I went back to college and got 2 diplomas a but had a nervous breakdown, developed high blood pressure, fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue, Insulin dependent diabetes, COPD, weak spinal system and discs cause of the beatings with fence posts when I was 12. Then when things looked up cancer. and you suggest all this is my fault. its not my fault don't diss me cause you are not on a handout have all you (worked) for etc.
 
"if you made mistakes early in life by skiving off, smoking, drinking, gambling and spending more than you have, you now have the consequences to deal with in trying to rent.

The fault lies with you. The problem with socialism is that socialists soon run out of other people’s money."
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I'm not the problem never was. I left school at 14 and a half to escape lack of being educated school back then was learn by rote garbage, my home life was being abused by a psycho father who beat the living daylights out of me with anything that he could reach, iron bars, head slammed into brick walls etc till I bled then I was kicked till my ribs were almost broken.

Being colourblind let me fail the air force and train driver/guard. I worked my arse of humping meat, produce loading trucks both at Paddies mkts and Lidcombe meat works as a casual for ages, at 5' 4" it wasn't easy and didn't bring in suitable money or stability to buy houses.

Good luck to you for having been given the opportunities you had and taking advantages of them. I guess your parents while offering all the advise didn't beat the shit out of you, call you every swear word in the world, tell you you were a burden and should have been strangled at birth.

so do not ever tell another man he's at fault for where he is, do NOT make assumptions based on your skewed perception of whatever.
I am Shannon I went back to college and got 2 diplomas a but had a nervous breakdown, developed high blood pressure, fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue, Insulin dependent diabetes, COPD, weak spinal system and discs cause of the beatings with fence posts when I was 12. Then when things looked up cancer. and you suggest all this is my fault. its not my fault don't diss me cause you are not on a handout have all you (worked) for etc.
You are one of those folks I have very sympathy for in this life. The category of it’s not their fault because of circumstance. It’s the young folks who need the awakening. Those that don’t take opportunities. Those that waste years studying at university and having a good time. Studying subjects that there is no pathway to a career. All the while wanting the latest gadget, phone, tablet, holiday or whatever.

A rude awakening is the future for the ”want in now brigade”. The ones of credit have never been easier for the buy now pay later mob.

Every credit to you sir for you faced adversity and tried. You deserve all the help you can get. Rest assured my critique was not aimed you.
 
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You are one of those folks I have very sympathy for in this life. The category of it’s not their fault because of circumstance. It’s the young folks who need the awakening. Those that don’t take opportunities. Those that waste years studying at university and having a good time. Studying subjects that there is no pathway to a career. All the while wanting the latest gadget, phone, tablet, holiday or whatever.

A rude awakening is the future for the ”want in now brigade”. The ones of credit have never been easier for the buy now pay later mob.

Every credit to you sir for you faced adversity and tried. You deserve all the help you can get. Rest assured my critique was not aimed you.
Shannon,

Can you under stand that I was one of eight in London after WWII. Luckily we were helped by welfare for school dinners and uniforms. No silver spoons. Yes I had kind parents who encouraged me to be determined. Yes I was lucky to be given breaks in education, a career in Australia when I came for a working holiday. I hope my taxes paid over the years don’t get wasted by government and go to people in need. The pie is only so big but governments seem to want to waste money pork barrelling. That’s both major parties !

Tough times are coming in 2027 when the coal fired power stations start shutting down and there is no alternative supply or supply networks. Electric vehicles may be pollution free but you won’t be able to charge them. The Greens will reduce this country to third world status. Their ideology will cause load shedding like S Africa has now.
 
You need to get reports from your doctor and surgeon and if possible turn up on the doorstop of depth of housing. If you can't get in there then call and tell them your story and that you have doctors reports. If this doesn't work then go public, newspaper or TV .

Do you have an NDIS worker . Is their an aged care office near you both of these can help find you a place .

I wish you all the best. I wished I could help you. Please keep us posted
Yes, get doctors’ reports (GP & specialist) & get copies (always keep a copy of the document for your files) and send that in to the relevant Government ‘head office’. Don’t make phone calls because the person on the other end cannot ‘see’ your condition to push you through the system. Go to your local Government Minister - they can be quite helpful at times and it’s worth a try with them first.

I do hope you and many others with severe disabilities or illness get some help from the current Labor government.
 
Actually we do own properties and have no mortgages and never negatively geared them. The house family who do not pay rent, rates or other services. I don’t drink smoke or gamble. My hard earned went into buying these for the future.

The reality is that governments encourage building, just like the Chinese, to keep the great unwashed in work. The downside of all their schemes is to drive up the price of dwellings. This is with negative gearing, first home owners grants etc.

I left school at 15, did an apprenticeship and then became a professional engineer. Still working at 73!
My parents taught me that there is no free lunch, persist and prevail is the only way to survive.

if you made mistakes early in life by skiving off, smoking, drinking, gambling and spending more than you have, you now have the consequences to deal with in trying to rent.

The fault lies with you. The problem with socialism is that socialists soon run out of other people’s money.
I hope your comments above were not directed at this person. Not one of us knows the circumstances that have led to another person’s situation - ill-health, unable to get a well-paid job, divorce or worse (ill-treatment by a spouse for many years) - these are all situations that can lead to such situations. Please DON’T JUDGE with venom.
 
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"if you made mistakes early in life by skiving off, smoking, drinking, gambling and spending more than you have, you now have the consequences to deal with in trying to rent.

The fault lies with you. The problem with socialism is that socialists soon run out of other people’s money."
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I'm not the problem never was. I left school at 14 and a half to escape lack of being educated school back then was learn by rote garbage, my home life was being abused by a psycho father who beat the living daylights out of me with anything that he could reach, iron bars, head slammed into brick walls etc till I bled then I was kicked till my ribs were almost broken.

Being colourblind let me fail the air force and train driver/guard. I worked my arse of humping meat, produce loading trucks both at Paddies mkts and Lidcombe meat works as a casual for ages, at 5' 4" it wasn't easy and didn't bring in suitable money or stability to buy houses.

Good luck to you for having been given the opportunities you had and taking advantages of them. I guess your parents while offering all the advise didn't beat the shit out of you, call you every swear word in the world, tell you you were a burden and should have been strangled at birth.

so do not ever tell another man he's at fault for where he is, do NOT make assumptions based on your skewed perception of whatever.
I am Shannon I went back to college and got 2 diplomas a but had a nervous breakdown, developed high blood pressure, fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue, Insulin dependent diabetes, COPD, weak spinal system and discs cause of the beatings with fence posts when I was 12. Then when things looked up cancer. and you suggest all this is my fault. its not my fault don't diss me cause you are not on a handout have all you (worked) for etc.
You sound exactly like what my brother experienced growing up. Bashed from pillow to post ,made feel worthless , kicked out at 12. He then lived on the streets , got into trouble in and out of jail , drugs and alcohol and that's pretty much how his life stayed . Your lucky if you didn't do what he did to numb the pain through substance abuse.

Now at 57 he is looking after our mother, still on alcohol and pot , he is trying but his brain doesn't let him forget . I've told him to get counselling but won't.
I hope you were one who did seek help and were able to get over your tragic childhood.
 
I hope your comments above were not directed at this person. Not one of us knows the circumstances that have led to another person’s situation - ill-health, unable to get a well-paid job, divorce or worse (ill-treatment by a spouse for many years) - these are all situations that can lead to such situations. Please DON’T JUDGE with venom.
No critique intended, just a warning to young folks who think the good days last forever. Life’s journey isn’t a sprint and it pays to invest in your education and savings. Decisions made when you are young can bite you in later life. Choosing the right partner in life is one of those decisions.
 
No critique intended, just a warning to young folks who think the good days last forever. Life’s journey isn’t a sprint and it pays to invest in your education and savings. Decisions made when you are young can bite you in later life. Choosing the right partner in life is one of those decisions.
The way you wrote your first response about what you have and others don’t, certainly came across as being directed at the other person. Perhaps you might need to re-read and correct your wording before posting anything.

As I have said many times, none of us know the other person’s situation so should not judge anyone. Think before you comment on another’s situation.
 
Which bit of the following isn’t a warning to the young?

“It’s the young folks who need the awakening. Those that don’t take opportunities. Those that waste years studying at university and having a good time. Studying subjects that there is no pathway to a career. All the while wanting the latest gadget, phone, tablet, holiday or whatever.”

My sympathy rests with those who haven’t had opportunities or cannot help themselves.
 
Why don’t we all just let these posts and comments on this particular issue die a natural death as the saying goes. Looks like some of us are retaliatory and agitated at some comments and others are hurt by assumptions made that perhaps it is their fault. Let’s leave it at that so no one continues to be hurt.
 

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