Struggling to fall asleep? Here's how to stop watching the clock

It's no secret that a good night's sleep is essential for our overall health and well-being. However, for those of us who occasionally (or frequently) experience sleepless nights, seeing the minutes tick by on the clock can become a source of anxiety and stress. In these moments, 'losing sleep over losing sleep' becomes a cruel irony. And when you're lying there, wide awake and obsessing over how many precious hours of sleep are slipping away, watching the clock only seems to make matters worse.


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To ensure a restful sleep, consider covering the display of your alarm clock or placing your phone out of reach if you use it to check the time. Source: CHUTTERSNAP from Unsplash





Sleep experts have known for some time that counting down those dwindling hours of rest, essentially 'time-monitoring behaviour’, can exacerbate insomnia and even create a dreadful cycle. You start to worry every night that you won't be able to sleep, adding more stress and reinforcing the dreaded sleeping problem. This downward spiral could ultimately lead to reliance on sleep medications, which often have their own health risks.

So, what should we do when sleep just isn't coming naturally? Here are a few tips from sleep experts to help you break the cycle and, hopefully, catch more Zzzs:

1. Keep the clock out of sight



One of the simplest solutions is to make a conscious decision not to look at the time during the night. Cover your alarm clock's display, or if you're using your phone to monitor the time, place it out of reach or turn the screen away from your bed. Focusing on the fact that it's still nighttime and that you still have time to relax and rest can help reduce the anxiety of clock-watching.

2. Realise you may be getting more sleep than you think

Understanding that your perception of how much sleep you're getting might not be accurate is another helpful step. Many times, we actually drift in and out of sleep without realising it, meaning we could be getting more rest than we initially thought!



3. Embrace relaxation as an alternative

Instead of fixating on sleep, try focusing on the idea that relaxation is almost as good as sleep. If you can’t sleep, lying restfully in bed with your eyes closed is a great alternative. This can provide some of the benefits of meditation and may even share a few benefits of sleep as well. Plus, stress relief is a key factor in eventually falling asleep anyway.

4. Establish a pre-sleep relaxation routine

Creating a calming routine before bedtime can also help signal to your body that it's time to unwind and prepare for sleep. Consider reading a book, taking a warm bath, or gentle yoga or stretches to soothe your mind and body.



Natural Sleep Remedies and Alternatives to Medications​

A few potential natural sleep remedies include promoting good sleep hygiene, exercising regularly, reducing stress and anxiety, reducing exposure to blue light, and having a consistent sleep schedule and bedtime routine. Studies show that these strategies can help improve sleep quality and cut down on the time it takes to fall asleep.

Yoga and Meditation​

Other options for improving sleep quality include yoga and meditation, both of which are becoming increasingly popular in helping people to relax and unwind. Studies have shown that these activities help to reduce stress, boost dopamine levels and ultimately induce a feeling of calm that can lead to better sleep.



Herbs​

Finally, it's important to note that there are a variety of herbs that can help to promote good sleep. Some popular herbs used to improve sleep include chamomile, valerian root, lavender, and passionflower. These are all found in a variety of sleep aids that can be used safely and effectively to improve sleep without the risks associated with medications.

Key Takeaways
  • Clock-watching, when you can't sleep, can contribute to insomnia and increase stress levels.
  • To avoid focusing on the time, cover your alarm clock's display or keep your phone out of reach while trying to fall asleep.
  • Relaxation is almost as beneficial as sleep, so lying restfully with your eyes closed can still have positive effects.
  • Focusing on relaxation, rather than time, can help you fall asleep naturally and improve your overall well-being.


Ultimately, finding a restful state of mind and focusing on relaxation rather than fixating on the ticking clock should help to break the cycle of sleeplessness. Remember that by embracing a restful mindset rather than stressing about sleep, you're doing good for both your body and mind, regardless of whether you drift off to dreamland or not.

So, next time you find yourself tossing and turning, forget the clock. Put your energy into relaxation and restful activities, and sleep might just come naturally. Sweet dreams!
 
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I sleep very restlessly most nights. I haven’t tried it myself but putting a sachet of lavender inside your pillow case is supposed to help. My husband keeps telling me “close your eyes & go to sleep”. Something I do anyhow but sleep is somewhere in the next room perhaps. And the bladder is definitely in our bedroom waking me up at least once, if not twice during the night, sometimes closer to 4.30am. Then sleep takes it’s time to arrive from the next room once more and at hour I finally go into such a deep sleep only to be woken about 6.30am!
 
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I sleep very restlessly most nights. I haven’t tried it myself but putting a sachet of lavender inside your pillow case is supposed to help. My husband keeps telling me “close your eyes & go to sleep”. Something I do anyhow but sleep is somewhere in the next room perhaps. And the bladder is definitely in our bedroom waking me up at least once, if not twice during the night, sometimes closer to 4.30am. Then sleep takes it’s time to arrive from the next room once more and at hour I finally go into such a deep sleep only to be woken about 6.30am!
That is me too☹️
 
Having worked far too many night duties as a nurse - I hated night duty - I know that people sleep without realising it. I’d do half hourly rounds and certain patients would be asleep every time I looked in. When I did a round before knocking off, those same patients would tell me they didn’t close their eyes all night.

Just last night I was sure I hadn’t managed to get to sleep yet, so I had a look at my clock. It was 12.15am and I’d been in bed for an hour and a half, so I knew I had actually dozed off for a while. I turned over and didn’t move again until I woke up at 6.40am, when I got up.

As we age, we don’t need as much sleep. I’ve been a bad sleeper all my life, and I used to worry when I was working, because I needed to be well rested to cope with the demands of the job. Now, I don’t worry because if I doze off after lunch in my recliner, it doesn’t matter.
 
I suffer from chronic insomnia and sleep apnoea for many years, my GP has given me a script for every sleeping pill he could use none worked.

A few months ago I discovered melatonin sleep patch's these have solved the problem instead of 4 - 5 hours sleep with the patch I sleep for a minimum of 7 hours sometimes 9 hours which I have never done before.
They are a slow release patch that delivers melatonin in small amounts over several hours.
The sleep patches are really available online just type in sleep patches into your browser or ebay.
They are the only thing that work for me, it shocked my GP whenI showed him the patches.

There are several different brands I purchased 1 of each to find the 1 that works best for me.
I have a couple of paks coming from China purchased from eBay much cheaper than Australian prices.
 
I would imagine that there are many who find that sleep isn't always available when you actually want to sleep, I am sure I dose, but I have also taken when I have had several nights of being wide awake till 2 or 3 in the morning and haven't actually dosed, to taking Melatonin in tablet form, I then take it for a few night then I don't take it again for a while, I don't want to rely on over the counter or prescription medication but sometimes you just have to try and get some zzz's
 

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