Plane Etiquette War Erupts Mid-Flight: Find Out Why This Window Shade Dispute Has Everyone Talking!

The friendly skies are only sometimes so amicable, especially regarding the unwritten air travel rules. A recent incident aboard an American Airlines flight has sparked a heated debate over plane etiquette, specifically regarding window shade control.


The controversy began when a passenger, seeking to share their frustration, took to Reddit with a photo of a fellow traveller who refused to lower the window shade despite the rest of the cabin being dark and a flight attendant's request. The image showed the cabin bathed in sunlight from the man's window while all others were closed.


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An American Airlines passenger sparked a debate on plane etiquette regarding window shades during a flight. Credit: Reddit


'Entire cabin dark, FA asks him to lower the shade, and he says 'um no,' the Reddit user wrote, prompting a discussion on the proper etiquette in such a situation.


The debate quickly took off, with opinions as divided as the shades on the plane. Some users staunchly defended the window seat passenger's right to control their immediate environment. 'Window seat gets window control,' one commenter insisted, laying out an unspoken hierarchy of seating rights that frequent flyers abide by.

Others, however, argued that the collective comfort of the cabin should take precedence and that flight attendants' instructions are not mere suggestions. 'Etiquette is to follow crew members' instructions,' another user declared. 'That's the only etiquette. Everything else is made up.'

The discussion also touched on the nuances of different flight scenarios. Some users pointed out that on long-haul international flights, keeping shades down can be crucial for helping passengers adjust to time zone changes and get some rest. Conversely, on domestic flights, the expectation to comply with such requests might be less stringent unless it pertains to safety.


This isn't the first time window shades have been at the center of an in-flight controversy. Earlier this year, a content creator named Umaymah shared a video on TikTok of a child repeatedly closing the window shade that was by her seat, despite having his own. The post sparked a similar debate, with some siding with Umaymah's right to her window view and others suggesting she should have been more accommodating given the young age of her seatmate.

The window shade wars highlight a broader conversation about the balance between individual rights and collective responsibility in shared spaces. As air travel continues to rebound and planes fill up, these discussions are more relevant than ever.

For our senior members at the Seniors Discount Club, we understand that comfort during travel is paramount. Whether it's needing light to read by or preferring a darkened cabin to rest, it's clear that communication and compromise are key to a peaceful journey.

Key Takeaways
  • An American Airlines passenger has sparked a debate on plane etiquette regarding the use of window shades during a flight.
  • The passenger shared a picture on Reddit, showing a man refusing to close the window shade despite a flight attendant's request and other shades being closed.
  • Reddit users were split in their opinions, with some asserting that the person seated at the window controls the shade. In contrast, others emphasised compliance with the flight crew's instructions for safety reasons.
  • The article also references a previous incident involving a content creator and a child over the control of a window shade, highlighting how the issue can be divisive among passengers.
So, what do you think, dear members? Should the person in the window seat have absolute control over the shade? Or should they acquiesce to the requests of flight attendants and fellow passengers for the greater good? Have you ever found yourself in a similar situation? Share your stories and opinions in the comments below, and let's navigate the turbulent skies of plane etiquette together.
 

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Bugger etiquette, if the flight attendant says "put it down", you should bloody well put it down.
To fix the problem of the SHADE's DOWN the airline should pay for disposable Sleep Masks/Eye Covers to help those who wish to sleep during flight. When I fly, I pay extra for the window seat so I can look out the window (even if it's only clouds or ocean views).
 
Automatic closure of all window blinds from the hostess’ area after a certain time at night should be mandatory so people can sleep especially on long-haul flights. If one wants to read there are individual reading lights. When flying into a city at night the blinds can be controlled by crew about an hour or so before landing. Many other things are automatic or controlled by crew so why not this.

My bug-bear is those who recline their seats fully as soon as the seat belt sign is turned off and especially when a meal is served. I once had a Rabbi, seated in an Exit row seat, recline his seat fully minutes before the meal. I could have just slurped my meal directly off my plate without the need for knife and fork and my hands assistance! Even slurping it would have been difficult as I would have had to bend down & an Economy seat doesn’t leave much room to move, let alone eat a meal. That is how rude some people can be.
 
To fix the problem of the SHADE's DOWN the airline should pay for disposable Sleep Masks/Eye Covers to help those who wish to sleep during flight. When I fly, I pay extra for the window seat so I can look out the window (even if it's only clouds or ocean views).
Why should the airline pay, may I ask? I guess most people would just take these masks away with them making ALL of us pay more to provide these things as standard. Then the whinge starts all over again about rising prices. BYO mask if you want to sleep would be more appropriate.
 
I have never believed in the availability of reclining seats in an aircraft, especially when there is little to no space between you and the person in front of you.
Sorry, if you want to lay down your chair in front of me then ask me if it's ok to do so. Etiquette is a TWO WAY street.
 
To fix the problem of the SHADE's DOWN the airline should pay for disposable Sleep Masks/Eye Covers to help those who wish to sleep during flight. When I fly, I pay extra for the window seat so I can look out the window (even if it's only clouds or ocean views).
Since when do you pay extra for a Window seat.
My husband always wanted the Window
seat but we never paid extra for it.
I do however always pay for extra leg room.
 
I pick a window seat for a reason because I like to look out. However if it is a night flight then of course I shut it & just open it occasionally to look. ✈️🛩✈️🛩
 
Automatic closure of all window blinds from the hostess’ area after a certain time at night should be mandatory so people can sleep especially on long-haul flights. If one wants to read there are individual reading lights. When flying into a city at night the blinds can be controlled by crew about an hour or so before landing. Many other things are automatic or controlled by crew so why not this.

My bug-bear is those who recline their seats fully as soon as the seat belt sign is turned off and especially when a meal is served. I once had a Rabbi, seated in an Exit row seat, recline his seat fully minutes before the meal. I could have just slurped my meal directly off my plate without the need for knife and fork and my hands assistance! Even slurping it would have been difficult as I would have had to bend down & an Economy seat doesn’t leave much room to move, let alone eat a meal. That is how rude some people can be.
I also hate when people recline their seat in front of me, but FYI, not every Orthodox male Jew that wears the traditional clothing is a Rabbi. In fact, the majority are only members of the sect.
 
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I pick a window seat for a reason because I like to look out. However if it is a night flight then of course I shut it & just open it o
Having spent a decade over seas and travelling frequently by plane I observed a noticeable change in the routine of cabin crews in regards to darkening the cabin. But first - note that it is a safety requirements for all window shades to be up during take off and landing so that conditions outside the aircraft can be checked quickly if an emergency evacuation is required. When I first started flying regularly passengers were left to decide whether to open or shut the window shades as people do like to watch the view over land or to adjust their light exposure to prevent jet lag. However, it gradually became the norm for the cabin crew to shut the blinds as soon after take off as possible and lower the cabin lights. With at least one airline this appeared to be a routine adopted by the cabin crew despite it not being a mandatory part of their routine. A flight attendant I discussed this with said it encouraged passengers to sleep and therefore made their job much easier. If I have a window seat I do like to enjoy the view and to try to adjust my light exposure to reduce jet lag. It is possible to do both without disturbing other passengers by not fully opening the blind. One just has to be considerate of other passengers around you in regards to the intensity of the light and timing. Jetlag is a real problem for many people so adjusting light on specific long haul flights to suit the destination time does help and cabin crew should be taking that into account in their rush to plunge cabins into full darkness too soon.
 
Since when do you pay extra for a Window seat.
My husband always wanted the Window
seat but we never paid extra for it.
I do however always pay for extra leg room.
I always book a window seat & have never paid extra either. Like you I do pay for extra leg room, not because I’m tall but because I like having a bit more space. It makes a longer flight more comfortable.
 
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Bugger etiquette, if the flight attendant says "put it down", you should bloody well put it down.
Agree totally with regard to "etiquette". Shove it where the sun doesn't shine.

"Unwritten air travel rules" are just that....unwritten and have no legal consequences AT ALL.

The only entity that determines the safety and other considerations is the Civil Aviation Safety Authority (CASA), not some pipsqueak in the seat next to you, behind you or in front of you.
 
Why should the airline pay, may I ask? I guess most people would just take these masks away with them making ALL of us pay more to provide these things as standard. Then the whinge starts all over again about rising prices. BYO mask if you want to sleep would be more appropriate.
Either that or the Airline could provide them upon request at a nominal fee......
 
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You should follow directions given by flight staff. The passengers should not be in charge. If you don’t like rules don’t fly! Where is the respect for anyone !!
 
I also always ask for a window seat. It might sound silly, but it helps with my claustrophobia, and never had to pay extra.
l too have that problem and l hate being closed in. A while ago the train we were travelling in broke down so they provided buses for us all. Soon all the windows became steamy and there was no windows open so l opened the one between the seat in front and mine which was promptly closed by the person in front.l spent the whole journey in a non verbal battle with her as we continually opened and shut the window :)
 
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