Mother-of-the-bride's DIY dress goes viral: You won't believe what she did!

In the world of weddings, fashion can be a focal point for admiration, discussion, and sometimes, unfortunately, controversy. This was certainly the case for one mother-of-the-bride, whose homemade dress for her stepdaughter's wedding became the talk of the town – or at least, the talk of social media.



The woman, inspired by a stunning $2500 gown from British fashion designer Stella McCartney, decided to take matters into her own hands when she realized the price tag was beyond her budget. With a dash of creativity and a sprinkle of determination, she set out to crochet her own version of the dress, asking herself, 'How hard can it be?'


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A woman has been mocked after sharing the DIY outfit she made to wear at her stepdaughter’s wedding. Credit: Facebook


After dedicating a whopping 350 hours to her project, the mother-of-the-bride proudly shared her creation on social media, hoping to receive some validation for her hard work. She explained that she wanted 'something really special to wear as stepmother of the bride' and had plans to repurpose the dress for another stepdaughter's wedding by adding a 'cobwebby net' and possibly dyeing it a lime/olive color.



Initially, members of a wedding shaming group on Facebook responded with support, admiring her craftsmanship. However, the tide of public opinion quickly turned as more people chimed in with their critiques. The dress was labelled a 'complete trainwreck,' with commenters pointing out the visible bra under the underdress that didn't match and calling it a 'bad copy' of the original Stella McCartney design.

The comments ranged from the harshly critical – with one person questioning whether the stepmother hated her stepdaughter or was simply out of touch – to the downright cruel, with another suggesting the dress would look better 'on fire.'

Beyond the design itself, many were astounded by the sheer amount of time the woman had invested in the dress. '350 HOURS! That is two and a half months at a full-time job,' one person exclaimed, highlighting the value of time over the end result.



At the Seniors Discount Club, we understand that fashion, especially for such a momentous occasion as a wedding, is deeply personal. The effort and love poured into a DIY project are commendable, and creativity should be encouraged. However, it's also a reminder that social media can be a double-edged sword, where the line between constructive criticism and unnecessary negativity is often blurred.

For our members who enjoy crafting and DIY, we encourage you to continue embracing your hobbies and sharing your work with confidence. Remember, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and the most important opinion is your own. If you've ever taken on a big DIY project like this brave mother-of-the-bride, we'd love to hear about your experiences and how you handled feedback from others.

In the end, whether you're attending a wedding as a guest, a family member, or the bride or groom themselves, the day is about love and celebration. Let's not forget to focus on what truly matters and offer kindness and support to those around us, both online and off.



Key Takeaways
  • A woman was heavily criticised on social media for her DIY dress meant for her stepdaughter's wedding.
  • The handmade dress was an attempt to replicate a Stella McCartney gown but was seen as a 'complete trainwreck' by online onlookers.
  • The dress took the woman 350 hours to make, which shocked many people commenting on the post.
  • Despite initial support, the comments on her post became increasingly negative, with some questioning her fashion sense and relationship with her stepdaughter.
What are your thoughts on DIY wedding attire? Have you ever tackled a project of this magnitude? Share your stories and opinions in the comments below – we're all ears!
 
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This is the original dress..
Not worthy to be worn to anyone's wedding

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A wonderful effort by her and highly commend her dedication in making such an intricate garment, however in saying that I feel she should choose something else to wear to the wedding.....it's a NO from me.

And was her son happy ??
I'm sure he would have been embarrassed. Great way to make a good impression with the inlaws
 
At least under garment dressing is being worn. No doubt, there more than likely would be many a "Starlet" who would wear it & be baring naked skin underneath for a bit more "Fame".

She may just wanted to 'Flaunt' it all.
 
This is the original dress..
Not worthy to be worn to anyone's wedding

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I'm sure he would have been embarrassed. Great way to make a good impression with the inlaws
Well if that was the dress she copied - I like her dress - at least it had an under garment and no stringy bits that the birds have been pinching for their nests.
 
If the photo is anything to go by, nothing wrong with the dress. However, would need some sort of underlay I would imagine. Not keen on the "hangy" bits at the bottom but other than that I think the dress is unusual and looks good on that model. Wouldn't suit everyone but, hey, that's fashion isn't it>
 
Personally, I think the dress is fine, especially if she had a lining in it. We all have our opinions, and that's as it should be. Good for her being so inventive and clever, and not paying probably an exorbitant amount for a Cartney original.
 
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If the photo is anything to go by, nothing wrong with the dress. However, would need some sort of underlay I would imagine. Not keen on the "hangy" bits at the bottom but other than that I think the dress is unusual and looks good on that model. Wouldn't suit everyone but, hey, that's fashion isn't it>
Hmm it's not about the dress , just not appropriate for mother of the bride to wear such a revealing dress.
I'm no prude but that dress hides absolutely nothing.
Have a close look.

I agree it's a personal choice but there is also a thing called etiquette and respect at a wedding
 

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