Mother-of-the-bride's DIY dress goes viral: You won't believe what she did!

In the world of weddings, fashion can be a focal point for admiration, discussion, and sometimes, unfortunately, controversy. This was certainly the case for one mother-of-the-bride, whose homemade dress for her stepdaughter's wedding became the talk of the town – or at least, the talk of social media.



The woman, inspired by a stunning $2500 gown from British fashion designer Stella McCartney, decided to take matters into her own hands when she realized the price tag was beyond her budget. With a dash of creativity and a sprinkle of determination, she set out to crochet her own version of the dress, asking herself, 'How hard can it be?'


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A woman has been mocked after sharing the DIY outfit she made to wear at her stepdaughter’s wedding. Credit: Facebook


After dedicating a whopping 350 hours to her project, the mother-of-the-bride proudly shared her creation on social media, hoping to receive some validation for her hard work. She explained that she wanted 'something really special to wear as stepmother of the bride' and had plans to repurpose the dress for another stepdaughter's wedding by adding a 'cobwebby net' and possibly dyeing it a lime/olive color.



Initially, members of a wedding shaming group on Facebook responded with support, admiring her craftsmanship. However, the tide of public opinion quickly turned as more people chimed in with their critiques. The dress was labelled a 'complete trainwreck,' with commenters pointing out the visible bra under the underdress that didn't match and calling it a 'bad copy' of the original Stella McCartney design.

The comments ranged from the harshly critical – with one person questioning whether the stepmother hated her stepdaughter or was simply out of touch – to the downright cruel, with another suggesting the dress would look better 'on fire.'

Beyond the design itself, many were astounded by the sheer amount of time the woman had invested in the dress. '350 HOURS! That is two and a half months at a full-time job,' one person exclaimed, highlighting the value of time over the end result.



At the Seniors Discount Club, we understand that fashion, especially for such a momentous occasion as a wedding, is deeply personal. The effort and love poured into a DIY project are commendable, and creativity should be encouraged. However, it's also a reminder that social media can be a double-edged sword, where the line between constructive criticism and unnecessary negativity is often blurred.

For our members who enjoy crafting and DIY, we encourage you to continue embracing your hobbies and sharing your work with confidence. Remember, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and the most important opinion is your own. If you've ever taken on a big DIY project like this brave mother-of-the-bride, we'd love to hear about your experiences and how you handled feedback from others.

In the end, whether you're attending a wedding as a guest, a family member, or the bride or groom themselves, the day is about love and celebration. Let's not forget to focus on what truly matters and offer kindness and support to those around us, both online and off.



Key Takeaways
  • A woman was heavily criticised on social media for her DIY dress meant for her stepdaughter's wedding.
  • The handmade dress was an attempt to replicate a Stella McCartney gown but was seen as a 'complete trainwreck' by online onlookers.
  • The dress took the woman 350 hours to make, which shocked many people commenting on the post.
  • Despite initial support, the comments on her post became increasingly negative, with some questioning her fashion sense and relationship with her stepdaughter.
What are your thoughts on DIY wedding attire? Have you ever tackled a project of this magnitude? Share your stories and opinions in the comments below – we're all ears!
 
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All you idiots making comments, this beautiful angel has battled cancer for the past few years and has had to put up with comments from foul people who have never even been close to what she has endured. This woman is a true angel.

So fuck all your dumb comments.

Look in the mirror imagine if people said this stuff about you.

Wow his comments are rude and so out of place. Have a look
 
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Hmm it's not about the dress , just not appropriate for mother of the bride to wear such a revealing dress.
I'm no prude but that dress hides absolutely nothing.
Have a close look.

I agree it's a personal choice but there is also a thing called etiquette and respect at a wedding
You might not have been to a wedding recently so, as far as etiquette is concerned, anything goes now. There was nothing disrespectful about this dress. This is only in the mind of the beholder. The dress was neck to way below the knee and she wore an undergarment, so don't see the problem. Just because you personally don't like it doesn't mean other guests at the wedding felt the same or, for that matter, people commenting on this post.
 
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No I would not attempt a Do It Yourself outfit for a special occasion because I’m not a good enough dressmaker. Today there are many ways to economise and even second hand can be an option. I know some very good second hand shops in some expensive suburbs So far as the comments on the woman who posted her efforts. If she didn’t want criticism she shouldn’t have gone public with it. Personally I thought it was extremely revealing and maybe it was a good deed for someone to stop her appearing so inappropriately dressed at such an important occasion??!!
 
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An underdress is a good option with handicraft. Then if you don't feel right in crafted item you can take it off and wear on a different day.
 
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You might not have been to a wedding recently so, as far as etiquette is concerned, anything goes now. There was nothing disrespectful about this dress. This is only in the mind of the beholder. The dress was neck to way below the knee and she wore an undergarment, so don't see the problem. Just because you personally don't like it doesn't mean other guests at the wedding felt the same or, for that matter, people commenting on this post.
Two of my daughters were married last year June and October.
I went to my nieces wedding march this year and my nephews May this year.
I went to a friend's daughters wedding last month.

We go to an average of 5 weddings every year.

Up to 4 years ago I worked in bridal for over 20 years

This is me last June and October as mother of the bride

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Me as a bridal consultant
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My sister inlaw as mother of the bride
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My friend Jules made her Wedding dress and also the Matron of Honour and Bridesmaids dresses. It was a Gothic wedding 20 years ago. I was the MOH.
She used black velvet and lace for the Wedding dress, and added touches of Burgundy velvet to the MOH and BM dresses. The men wore black long trousers with burgundy pirate style shirts. The photographs were stunning, and the day was wonderful to have been a part of. They are still married, with 3 beautiful children.
 
My friend Jules made her Wedding dress and also the Matron of Honour and Bridesmaids dresses. It was a Gothic wedding 20 years ago. I was the MOH.
She used black velvet and lace for the Wedding dress, and added touches of Burgundy velvet to the MOH and BM dresses. The men wore black long trousers with burgundy pirate style shirts. The photographs were stunning, and the day was wonderful to have been a part of. They are still married, with 3 beautiful children.
I had sold many a black wedding dress.

Did you know white wedding dresses have only been around for about 130 years prior to that it was a few colours including black. A wedding dress back then become their Sunday best
 

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