Member @Iggydi’s thoughts on the Valentine's Day hype & budget-friendly ideas

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This article was written by the wonderful member @Iggydi.

I will most probably get bagged or rubbished over this post, but I am good with that. This is just my thoughts on this particular day. I don’t expect everyone to agree, but just thinking about it and sometimes putting it out there makes others think, too. It also helps people who want to do something but, because of the media hype, think they need to spend $$$$$.

Who and what does it represent? Is it something we should be celebrating, or is it just a money grab from the retail industry?



The ‘who’ – Lovers
Young, old, new relationships, newly married, oldies that want to keep the spark alive, etc.

What does it represent?
Couples that want to celebrate their love for one another.

Someone who has ‘a thing’ for another person and wants to take it further or to secretly send a card/gift to the other person.

Is it something we should be celebrating, or is it just a money grab from the retail industry?


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Do you celebrate Valentine’s Day? Image Credit: Shutterstock



It seems these days if you don’t buy your loved one jewellery, cars, electrical items, etc., you don’t love them. This also goes for Christmas, Mother’s Day and more recently, Father’s Day (as the poor dads were basically forgotten prior to a few years ago).

Does it prove that you love your significant other? What about the other 364/5 days of the year?



Some people celebrate it every year, which is very romantic, but they also do things throughout the year to show their partner they love them. So, does this make Valentine’s Day null and void?

What about the people who are single, just broke up with their partner or those who have lost the love of their lives? How does celebrating a day that’s meant for lovers affect them?

There are so many times when one can get a bit blasé about these special days. Or they could get overwhelmed with stress, not knowing if what they are doing is what is expected. Not getting a gift that the media suggests the other person needs/expects. This is not what the day is about, but this is how the TV, magazines, and the internet make us feel.

Surely, there are simpler ways to tell or show your loved one that you care. Ways that make the day special for you and your loved one without the guilt, the expense and the stress.

Some people will most probably have their own way of spending Valentine’s Day with their partner/lover, and some people will just go about their day as usual. However you choose to spend it, just remember you do what you feel is right, not what the media is telling you.



Some of these suggestions below are free or budget-friendly, and some do cost some money, but it’s up to you if you think that the money is well spent.


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Unfortunately we had to bury my mum on 14 February. Our family had to buy flowers for on the coffin at the most ridiculous prices just because of the date. So no celebration for me, but luckily I have someone who makes me breakfast every morning.
It's always hard when you have to organise a funeral and the flowers are expensive enough as it is, but having the extra cost because of it being Valentines day is just wrong😢
 
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Unfortunately we had to bury my mum on 14 February. Our family had to buy flowers for on the coffin at the most ridiculous prices just because of the date. So no celebration for me, but luckily I have someone who makes me breakfast every morning.
I realise how you must feel, Marni, as my sister died on Australia Day a few years ago and I cannot celebrate on that day.
 
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So sorry for your loss Marni.
It's sad that saying goodbye was made light of when competing against a market manufactured day.
My heart goes out to you and bless your breakfast cook for being there with you.
Thank you for your kind words.
I realise how you must feel, Marni, as my sister died on Australia Day a few years ago and I cannot celebrate on that day.
yes condolences to you. 🙁. It’s the life cycle. Just look forward to great grandies now.
 
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For many, many years I received an anonymous Valentine’s Day card in the post….even after I got married. I always had a sneaky suspicion who sent them, but never asked any questions!! The cards stopped after the person I suspected was killed in a farming accident….❤️❤️❤️❤️
 
I've never been someone who celebrates 🥳 Valentines Day.

I love it when hubby does things unexpected on any day eg wake me up with a coffee or bring me in flowers from the garden.
He will do things like pack a lunch and say let's go for a walk along the beach ,then he will bring out the packed lunch.

These are the things I love because it's done because he wants to do it and not because society says too.

I remember at work a couple of girls getting flowers delivered on valentines day then hearing other girls saying their boyfriends wouldn't do that. I could see the disappointment on their faces.

Too much pressure on young people !
 
I have no time for any American special days.
No interest in Halloween. Don't care about these so called special days.
As far as Valentine's day goes....pfffff
If my hubby bought me something for that day, I would think he had an emotional implosion.
I am sceptical about any day like this because as has been said on the other messages, it is all about sales, sales, sales. The shops don't care two cents about love.
Ridiculous the money spent on a day cooked up by the Americans. Prob ok then but big business got their foot in the door. Look at the ads they advertise gifts way above what most people can afford. Same at Christmas!
Valentines day and even Halloween don't have anything to do with America, get your facts right before you post untruths!
 
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Valentines day and even Halloween don't have anything to do with America, get your facts right before you post untruths!

Halloween originated from the ancient Celtic festival of Samhain, which was celebrated in ancient Britain and Ireland.

Valentine’s Day originated from Rome in the 3rd century and is named after Saint Valentine, a Catholic priest.
 
Halloween originated from the ancient Celtic festival of Samhain, which was celebrated in ancient Britain and Ireland.

Valentine’s Day originated from Rome in the 3rd century and is named after Saint Valentine, a Catholic priest.
Like I said, it didn't originate in America.
But thank you for the information.
 
Unfortunately we had to bury my mum on 14 February. Our family had to buy flowers for on the coffin at the most ridiculous prices just because of the date. So no celebration for me, but luckily I have someone who makes me breakfast every morning.
It must be a sad day of remembrance for you but I hope you will continue to get your breakfast for a long time to come.

I get my coffee in bed every morning and breakfast made when I’m fully awake (but I go to the table for that). Hubby being a marine engineer for many years I had to make my own morning coffee and breakfast when he was at sea.

It is going to be 58 years of marriage this September and I pray we have many more years to come. Valentine’s Day used to be a small bunch of flowers and a card but with the price of flowers now it is only a card, no fancy dinners or gifts, just continuing LOVE for one another.
 
One Valentine's Day, my daughter's former boyfriend arranged to have some flowers delivered. No one knocked to say they had been delivered and I found them the next day as dead as the proverbial dodo. They had an early Valentine's tea as he had to work so he was very upset when he found out what happened to them.
 
It must be a sad day of remembrance for you but I hope you will continue to get your breakfast for a long time to come.

I get my coffee in bed every morning and breakfast made when I’m fully awake (but I go to the table for that). Hubby being a marine engineer for many years I had to make my own morning coffee and breakfast when he was at sea.

It is going to be 58 years of marriage this September and I pray we have many more years to come. Valentine’s Day used to be a small bunch of flowers and a card but with the price of flowers now it is only a card, no fancy dinners or gifts, just continuing LOVE for one another.
58 for us as well
 
Valentines day and even Halloween don't have anything to do with America, get your facts right before you post untruths!
Best tell the Americans that.
They have been celebrating those 2 days regardless of where they came from.
The FACT is, millions of their dollars are spent for those 2 days in America.
 

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