'I tried y'all, I tried': How one father's grief is now saving lives in his community

A Perth father's heart-wrenching loss has sparked a life-saving mission, one that aims to prevent other families from experiencing similar tragedy.

What began as an unimaginable personal ordeal has grown into a powerful campaign to make community spaces safer for young children.

This is the story of how grief transformed into action, and how one man is working tirelessly to protect others from the same pain.


In January last year, Brian Bwoga faced every parent's worst nightmare when his one-year-old son Zaza choked on a grape.

Despite desperate efforts to save him, Zaza died in his father's arms.

‘I tried y'all, I tried,’ Brian Bwoga said, breaking down in tears.


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Tragic loss sparks father’s life-saving mission in Perth. Image source: 9News


The tragedy, however, did not break Brian’s spirit—it propelled him into action.

He successfully campaigned for LifeVac devices to be installed at 36 community-based facilities in Joondalup.

The first of these devices was installed at Joondalup Library, marking a significant step in Brian’s mission to prevent similar tragedies.

The LifeVac device functions like a plunger, using emergency suction to clear blocked airways when first aid fails.

'It's not going to push any foreign object in, it's just going to suction, you can hear that pop, that's how it works,' Bwoga said.


Brian believes that if the right tools had been available, his son would still be alive today.

'I'm very sure if we had the right tools he would have been here,' he added.

This simple, inexpensive device was created by Arthur Lih, along with Dr Brody and a few friends, after Lih heard a mother crying over her son's choking death.


In Australia, 140 children under the age of four choked or suffocated on food in 2022 to 2023.

Brian Bwoga’s goal was to drive these numbers down and save young lives.

'I want them in schools, daycare centres, I want first responders to have them,' he said.

Nurse Rebecca Pizzi called the device a 'game-changer.'

'I'm amazed something so simple and so cheap could save lives,' she said.


Brian's grief has transformed into a campaign of life-saving impact for other families, ensuring no one has to suffer the same loss.

Learn more about how this simple yet life-saving device works and why it’s becoming a crucial safety tool.

To see how LifeVac could make all the difference in a choking emergency, watch the video below.


Source: Youtube/LifeVac​


Key Takeaways
  • A Perth father, Brian Bwoga, turned his grief over the loss of his son into a campaign to install LifeVac devices in community spaces.
  • His son Zaza died after choking on a grape despite desperate attempts to save him.
  • Brian successfully campaigned for 36 LifeVac devices to be installed in Joondalup to prevent similar tragedies.
  • The LifeVac device uses suction to clear airways when first aid fails, and Brian aims to have them in schools and daycare centres.

Brian’s mission is a powerful reminder of how one person’s grief can spark change to protect others.

How do you think life-saving devices like LifeVac could change safety in your community?

Share your thoughts with us in the comments.
 

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Why was a 1 year old eating a grape ????
 
Sometime as parent's we might have a brain fade and not realise what we are giving our kids to eat. Brian is now trying to save other parent's the heartbreak of what he went through. Something good is coming out of something tragic.
 
Tragic. Where do we get these life-saving devices and how much do they cost? Are they freely available to the general public? Some questions I’m sure everyone with little grandchildren and even adults could benefit from.
 
Why was a 1 year old eating a grape ????
Poor guy but giving a one year old a grape would be like giving it a marble
 
Dreadful outcome and to think a grape caused the tragedy. I wonder how the device will made easily and promptly accessible because of the random causes of choking in children and areas in which they could choke. Very important to supervise young children at all times and ensure food is chopped up. However any attempt to avoid such tragedies will be welcomed
 
Critics , critics I fell so sorry for the poor guy . He made a mistake and he and his son paid the price how sad is the whole thing . It brings tears to my eyes
 
Why was a 1 year old eating a grape ????
Some children grab things unknown to parents and put them in their mouths. They are very quick. We were not there so don't know the circumstances. A very tragic accident.
 
How do you know that the father gave his 1 year old a grape. Why attack him. I know that when my children were 1 yr old they were crawling and putting everything in their mouths, even before crawling they were grabbing things and putting them in their mouths. This father was so grief stricken he did someting to help save children from chocking. BRAVO he is a hero!
 
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This is definitely a valuable asset (yes asset) to have, especially where children are involved. You can't watch them 24/7 to see what they put in their mouths. I'm so sorry to hear of his sad loss but I believe he is doing this in his son's honour.
 
I had a piece of corn at my daughters last night, a kernel got stuck in my throat. I am still coughing today.
I would be very careful giving many items to small children.
 
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How do we go about having them installed on every town?
 
Dreadful outcome and to think a grape caused the tragedy. I wonder how the device will made easily and promptly accessible because of the random causes of choking in children and areas in which they could choke. Very important to supervise young children at all times and ensure food is chopped up. However any attempt to avoid such tragedies will be welcomed
My children were put in a playpen when l was busy and couldn't watch them so they didn't have access to food.
 
I had a piece of corn at my daughters last night, a kernel got stuck in my throat. I am still coughing today.
I would be very careful giving many items to small children.
l once had a chicken bone really stuck in my throat and panicked because l didn't want to go to the hospital. Then l had this idea to sit and bend over as far as l could and cough and it worked
 
so easy to make a mistake. So many if you seem to be perfect. My young child choked on a baked bean, i was out of my mind. Decided to go down a flight of stairs, holding her upside down. How lucky was I that she coughed and spluttered at the bottom.
 
Sometimes I see a little one in a pram struggling with a piece of Bread how dangerous is that
I think to myself… ESPECIALLY when MUM ? is busy either catching up with a Friend or
On the Phone ! 📱
 
Why was a 1 year old eating a grape ????
Very young babes and children grab anything and put it in their mouths…..doesn’t mean it was fed to him..
 
Poor guy but giving a one year old a grape would be like giving it a marble
Doesn’t say he was given or fed a grape, child could just have grabbed it and put it in his mouth…..all young children put anything they find into their mouths…
 

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