Oh please do look up Bill the Bastard it’s a great read! Someone in my local RSL recommended it to me!
I’m sure the term bast… was used by many as its very Aussie to call your mates that!!

My grandfather told me a lot about the war because I was interested but my grandma used to fob it off & they referred to it as being “war happy” if they talked about it!
I have always believed that listening is a skill that a lot need & few have!
Allowing one to talk (if they want to) about things does a lot to aid mental health problems!! I know from experience that it helps no end to have people listen to you when you need to get things OUT & not try to bury them because inside they fester!!
My son was in ADF for 12 years & he did his tour of duty & saw a lot but talked when got back so helped him, but not all people can endure what they experience & even tho we’re better at the support for our veterans & their families than we were back in then, we have a long ways to go! So many more of our soldiers are dying when they get home than in theatres of war & that’s not acceptable!!
We owe them all so much