Heartbreak and heists: Woman robs grieving family during grandmother's funeral

In times of grief, families should be able to mourn in peace, free from additional distress.

Unfortunately, some individuals exploit these vulnerable moments, adding further pain to already heartbreaking situations. Incidents where bereaved families become targets of crime highlight the need for increased vigilance and community support.

These events serve as stark reminders of both the resilience of those affected and the importance of safeguarding our loved ones, especially during such trying times.


The sanctity of a funeral—a time for mourning and reflection—was shattered for one Sydney family when thieves targeted the home of a deceased grandmother during her final farewell.

In a brazen act of disrespect and opportunism, 81-year-old Nola Bulkeley's Kellyville residence became the scene of an alleged theft while her loved ones gathered to pay their respects.

Kara Buckle was accused of pilfering several items from the home, including irreplaceable family heirlooms that held immense sentimental value.


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Kara Buckle was arrested for allegedly stealing from the home of a deceased grandmother during her funeral in Kellyville, Sydney. Credits: Facebook / 7NEWS Sydney


The grief of the Bulkeley family was compounded by this callous act.

Andrew Bulkeley, Nola's son, expressed the emotional turmoil the family endured, going from a celebration of his mother's life to a sudden plunge back into mourning due to the theft.

‘A celebration of mum’s life to obviously spiralling back into grief,’ he said.

The audacity of the crime did not end there. Buckle's partner, Jacob Pollard, was also charged with the sale of the stolen goods, adding another layer of betrayal to the family's loss.


However, the story took another twist when Buckle allegedly continued her spree, targeting David Kim's Castle Hill home just days later.

‘A lot of (the allegedly stolen items) were gifted by my grandmother and since she passed away, that’s stuff you can’t replace,’ Mr Kim lamented.

In a peculiar turn of events, Buckle's request to a neighbour for assistance in booking an Uber due to a supposedly dead phone battery led to her downfall.

The Uber ride, which conveniently dropped her across the road from her own residence, provided police with the lead they needed to apprehend her.


Moreover, technology played a pivotal role in the investigation.

An Apple Watch, among the items allegedly stolen, became a beacon for law enforcement.

David Kim's quick thinking to use the device's tracking feature provided the police with the crucial information needed to locate Buckle.

‘I pinged the address where the watch was last located, and I told that to the cops,’ he narrated.

On Wednesday, authorities recovered many of the stolen items, offering a small measure of solace to the victims of these heartless crimes.


The recent incident in Sydney, where a family home was targeted by criminals during a funeral, underscores the vulnerability that can accompany times of mourning.

Unfortunately, this is not an isolated case of opportunistic crime. Another striking example was exhibited by an airport employee allegedly involved in a high-stakes theft, further highlighting the pervasive issue of crime in our communities.

Both cases illustrate the brazen nature of such acts and the importance of vigilance and security, regardless of the setting.
Key Takeaways
  • A woman named Kara Buckle and her partner Jacob Pollard, was arrested for allegedly stealing from the house of a deceased grandmother in Kellyville, Sydney.
  • The theft was reported to have occurred on the day of the grandmother's funeral, with family heirlooms said to be among the stolen items.
  • Kara Buckle was also accused of another burglary in Castle Hill, where she allegedly took items gifted by the victim’s grandmother.
  • Police were able to track down Buckle partly thanks to an Apple Watch she is alleged to have stolen, which led to the recovery of many items.
Have you taken steps to secure your home during such vulnerable times? Do you have any advice or experiences to share that could help others protect their homes and precious memories? We invite you to share your thoughts and join the conversation in the comments below.
 
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You can't get lower than that.
Working in aged care I heard of people going through the nursing home stealing from rooms while residents were in the dining room. All staff were attending to residents and thieves had a free for all.
Clearly someone who knew the routine, lousy :censored:
 
That's such a heartbreaking story. It's awful how some people can exploit others during such vulnerable times. When my family recently dealt with an unexpected death, we weren't prepared for it financially, so we had to look into low cost funeral options. It really helped us manage during a difficult time.
In terms of securing your home, it's a good idea to have someone you trust stay at the house during events like funerals or use security systems with cameras. Also, let neighbors know so they can keep an eye out. Has anyone else taken specific steps to protect their home during these times?
 
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