DNM CAST is challenging you to ‘get real’ and check on the young blokes in your life

There’s a new Aussie podcast on the block, and this IS one to phone home about. Created and hosted by Tom Rowland, Luke Bailey & Diezel Brousse, their podcast DNM CAST* dives deep into the highs and lows of finding your footing as a young man in the modern age.

Now, why are we, the Seniors Discount Club, talking about a podcast for young men?

That’s a great question. We want to challenge you to reach out to your son, grandson, nephew, neighbour, any young man in your life who could benefit. Share this article (or send them directly to DNM CAST’s page*) and spark a conversation about mental health.



I know we have R U OK? Day but there’s no need to wait for one day in September to reach out.


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Hosts Luke, Tom and Diezel with their episode 7 guest Delaney Troon. Image Credit: DNM CAST



The stark reality is that men, on average, live four years less than women, and they are disproportionately affected by lifestyle-related health conditions. Compounding this issue is the alarming statistic that men are four times more likely to die by suicide.

One of the most concerning findings of Ten to Men, an Australian government study, is that two-thirds of men who are struggling or in crisis feel unable to ask for help. This reluctance to seek assistance can be due to a variety of factors, including societal expectations, stigma, or simply not knowing how to start the conversation. The hosts of DNM CAST* are working to reverse this.



According to a statement on their Instagram*, they explained, ‘We established DNM CAST to be real.’

‘We wanted to make a non-toxic environment for people who experience similar things to us to kind of relate to us and know that some things are normal. Everyone goes through the same stuff and be a shoulder to cry on for people.’

‘It is okay to talk about stuff when there isn’t a problem.’ they continued.

You can listen to the full statement here*.



Recognising the signs of distress can be the first step in making a life-saving difference.

These signs can be subtle or overt, but they often manifest as changes in behaviour, mood, or appearance.

A man who is usually punctual and engaged might start showing up late or disinterested. Someone known for their meticulous grooming might let their appearance slide. Withdrawal from social activities, increased alcohol consumption, or uncharacteristic outbursts can all be indicators that something is amiss.

If you notice these signs, trust your instincts and gently ask, 'Are you OK?' But we know this can be hard. So, a great option is to share DNM CAST* with any young blokes in your life and show them it’s okay to talk about your emotions. And, just as importantly, that YOU care. You never know what kind of conversation it may spark.



But, for the hours you can’t be there, they may like to rely on the friendly voices of Luke, Tom, and Diezel*. After all, the rise of podcasts is largely a result of the ‘loneliness epidemic’ facing the world right now. At the click of a button or the tap of a screen*, you and the men in your life can access this unfiltered exploration of life through the eyes of three young men.

Members, have you had experiences with reaching out to a friend or loved one who was struggling? What advice would you give to others who want to help but aren't sure how? Share your stories and insights in the comments below, and let's continue the conversation to break down barriers and build a healthier, more supportive community for all men.

Be sure to let us know who you forwarded this article to in the comments below!

And, to the blokes over at DNM CAST*, keep up the great work!

Full episodes are available on Spotify and YouTube. For all the latest announcements, be sure to follow their Instagram*.

What better place to start watching than episode one?



Need immediate support? You can find a list of mental health resources here.

Interested in reading more about men’s mental health? You may enjoy this article on Men’s Sheds.

*Please note, members, that this is a sponsored article. All content of ours that has an asterisk next to it means we may get a commission when you click on a link—at no cost to you! We do this to assist with the costs of running the SDC. Thank you!
 
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As l remember these initiatives weren't known of in the 1960's & 1970's when l was struggling. My bro & l were both children afraid to share with my parents or ask for advice. My bro dealt with things differently to me & left home @ 17 y.o. l stayed, kept things to myself & left home @ age 20 when l married.

The old adage that 'men should remain strong' & 'men don't cry' is nonsense! Crying is a release of the pressures we hold within & l have found to be a great release valve for me. The only people l could share with were my counsellors. After several years of marriage l found my wife was easy to talk to & understanding about my issues. I was embarrassed to share these with her l think.

While doing my apprenticeship & before leaving home l would approach my sub foreman about certain problems (he had 2 sons & a daughter). A happy, easy person to speak to.

Young people must find someone they feel they can trust to talk to about the things that bother them before these get too big to handle. When one of my daughters was at high school a friend of hers there had problems & couldn't speak to her parents about them. My daughter would regularly ask my opinion about her friend's problem & pass this on. They had a little support group between themselves which must have worked because they both grew up into lovely ladies with a family.
 
this seems like a great idea. I always ask all my kids and grandkids, Are you OK? I find it is a good way for them to talk about any issues they may have that are bothering them, I always listen to anything they want to talk about, and if they ask for my advice or opinion I give it to them. I’m sure sometimes having someone who just listens and doesn’t judge is all they need. Recently a fellow workmate tried to commit suicide. When I saw him for the first time after this I asked, Are you OK?, then I asked if he would like a hug, he said yes please and we shared the biggest hug. Then I listened while he told me what happened and how he was dealing with what caused it and trying to stay positive moving forward. The next time I saw him he was more like his happy self, he told me the hug was just what he needed but that I was the only friend who offered him a hug, he told me a lot of his other friends didn’t seem to know what to say to him, some even tried to avoid him. I know there are some people who are not comfortable with dealing with people with any type of mental health issue, be it long term or short term which is a shame as sometimes all it takes is someone to listen and just be there.
 
this seems like a great idea. I always ask all my kids and grandkids, Are you OK? I find it is a good way for them to talk about any issues they may have that are bothering them, I always listen to anything they want to talk about, and if they ask for my advice or opinion I give it to them. I’m sure sometimes having someone who just listens and doesn’t judge is all they need. Recently a fellow workmate tried to commit suicide. When I saw him for the first time after this I asked, Are you OK?, then I asked if he would like a hug, he said yes please and we shared the biggest hug. Then I listened while he told me what happened and how he was dealing with what caused it and trying to stay positive moving forward. The next time I saw him he was more like his happy self, he told me the hug was just what he needed but that I was the only friend who offered him a hug, he told me a lot of his other friends didn’t seem to know what to say to him, some even tried to avoid him. I know there are some people who are not comfortable with dealing with people with any type of mental health issue, be it long term or short term which is a shame as sometimes all it takes is someone to listen and just be there.
A great gesture towards this chap. I believe shunning someone who is feeling as this chap was only makes them feel like an outsider (a leper in the old term). In you he found a friend.

I had a counsellor from the 'old school' who always finished a session with hug & helped close the sessions, which were normally not without a lot of tears as emotions were bought to the fore. She retired not long after l stopped seeing her & l was referred to a younger counsellor who, unbeknown to my G.P. @ the time, had been trained in part by my previous counsellor. She told me right from the start not to expect what her counterpart did. l always left sessions with a certain amount of sadness. (I always found female counsellors easier to talk to).
 
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I often ask my sons are you OK.

I also ask people on here in Personal Message if they are OK.

Just by letting someone know you are here if they need to talk is a small thing that could actually be a big help to someone.

Anyone who needs someone to chat to I'm always here for a chat 💗
I did the same thing with a fellow SDC member last year and look where it got us!

A full blown fulfilling and intimate relationship!! ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
 
My darling boy has been struggling for around 20 years
He has come and gone, but at present he really needs his mum, he and l have become very close at the moment and l feel it will stay this way. He is going through a dreadful personal time at present. I check in on him every day. I send jokes to give him a laugh lovely dog videos when it comes to advice l only give it when he asks for it. And l always say darling take what you want and leave the rest behind what l say is not gospel just life experience. I listen to him. Some times he is so full of anxiety he will say mum don't talk please just let me talk. I think listen don't say you
should blabla no one wants to be told you should. Be loving non judgmental. Don't rubbish their loved ones maybe say l am disappointed that that person has put you in this position. I am so glad he can talk to me. My husband has only started to open up and talk in the past few years thank heavens. It's so important for boys men to talk.
Well done to these boys job well done hopefully people will reach out to them.
Kind regards to all Vicki
 
My darling boy has been struggling for around 20 years
He has come and gone, but at present he really needs his mum, he and l have become very close at the moment and l feel it will stay this way. He is going through a dreadful personal time at present. I check in on him every day. I send jokes to give him a laugh lovely dog videos when it comes to advice l only give it when he asks for it. And l always say darling take what you want and leave the rest behind what l say is not gospel just life experience. I listen to him. Some times he is so full of anxiety he will say mum don't talk please just let me talk. I think listen don't say you
should blabla no one wants to be told you should. Be loving non judgmental. Don't rubbish their loved ones maybe say l am disappointed that that person has put you in this position. I am so glad he can talk to me. My husband has only started to open up and talk in the past few years thank heavens. It's so important for boys men to talk.
Well done to these boys job well done hopefully people will reach out to them.
Kind regards to all Vicki
You sound like a really good mum.
 
If you know there will be tears and that you will be ridiculed go under the shower. With the water running nobody will hear you. I know of a Dad whose wife passed away. He managed to look OK to support his young children. One night he had a long shower and using his expression "let it all out" and didn't "bottle it all up".
He relieved the tension and some of the grief within himself. Grieving is a process that for some people it can take approximately 12 months. Some still need people to listen and only give advise if asked for
 
As l remember these initiatives weren't known of in the 1960's & 1970's when l was struggling. My bro & l were both children afraid to share with my parents or ask for advice. My bro dealt with things differently to me & left home @ 17 y.o. l stayed, kept things to myself & left home @ age 20 when l married.

The old adage that 'men should remain strong' & 'men don't cry' is nonsense! Crying is a release of the pressures we hold within & l have found to be a great release valve for me. The only people l could share with were my counsellors. After several years of marriage l found my wife was easy to talk to & understanding about my issues. I was embarrassed to share these with her l think.

While doing my apprenticeship & before leaving home l would approach my sub foreman about certain problems (he had 2 sons & a daughter). A happy, easy person to speak to.

Young people must find someone they feel they can trust to talk to about the things that bother them before these get too big to handle. When one of my daughters was at high school a friend of hers there had problems & couldn't speak to her parents about them. My daughter would regularly ask my opinion about her friend's problem & pass this on. They had a little support group between themselves which must have worked because they both grew up into lovely ladies with a family.
Excellent advice Ezzy, yes crying is a great realise and no one should be embarrassed or ashamed to have a good cry. And having a wonderful partner makes a huge difference. So glad you're girls could come to you to help their friends. You and Mrs Ezzy are awesome people.
Kind regards Vicki
 
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If you know there will be tears and that you will be ridiculed go under the shower. With the water running nobody will hear you. I know of a Dad whose wife passed away. He managed to look OK to support his young children. One night he had a long shower and using his expression "let it all out" and didn't "bottle it all up".
He relieved the tension and some of the grief within himself. Grieving is a process that for some people it can take approximately 12 months. Some still need people to listen and only give advise if asked for
Great advice, but it is sad that mainly men, still feel they have to hide to have a big cry and let all the pain out. Grief is a very personal thing sadly some people never come out of it.
I could not agree more with you just listen and only give advice when asked.
Best wishes to you.
Vicki
 

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