Diva behaviour? Insider reports reveal one Royal Family member's attitude towards staff members

The Royal Family has been the centre of attention and speculation since time immemorial.

As the majority of its members spend their holidays at the Balmoral Estate, a Royal Couple faced backlash as allegations of mistreatment resurfaced in the middle of preparations for a special event.


The Hollywood Reporter painted a workplace environment fraught with tension and unease.

As the Duke and Duchess of Sussex prepare for Prince Harry's 40th birthday, Meghan, the Duchess of Sussex, faced fresh claims of 'diva' behaviour.

This earned her the moniker 'Duchess Difficult' from those who work closely with her.


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The Duke and Duchess of Sussex moved to the United States in 2020. Image Credit: Shutterstock/Lev Radin


According to sources, Meghan had a tendency to 'belittle' staff members and 'march around like a dictator in high heels, fuming and barking orders'.

The report also claimed that her work approach was severe, it brought grown men and staff to tears—a shocking revelation that adds to the narrative of a difficult Duchess.

These claims about Meghan's unpopularity among her staff coincided with a significant event for the team.

The departure of their chief of staff, Josh Kettler, after three months of service raised eyebrows, fuelling speculations about the working conditions within the Duke and Duchess's household.


Royal expert Hugo Vickers weighed in as they recounted tales from Windsor locals about Meghan's alleged behaviour while staying at the Adelaide Cottage.

'There was a time when she was incredibly rude to one of the sub-gardeners, and the head gardener complained to the Queen, and she drove down to Adelaide Cottage and ticked her off,' Vickers shared.

The inability to retain staff also became a telling sign for Vickers, as it contrasted their situation with the late Prince Philip's reputation.

The Duchess faced similar accusations through reports of bullying towards palace staff before moving to California.

These allegations led to an inquiry by royal aides, as some staff members were left 'traumatised', and attributed their post-traumatic stress to their experiences with the Duchess of Sussex.

Although the details of the inquiry were never disclosed, Meghan's legal team denied the accusations, dismissing them as part of a 'calculated smear campaign'.


Despite these controversies, the couple continues to keep a high public profile.

Since their marriage in 2018, at least 18 staff members have left their estate, with over half of the said staff departing after they relocated to California.

As Prince Harry approaches his 40th birthday, sources suggested he feels isolated in the United States.

Harry, however, appeared to look forward to a new decade in his life, expressing excitement about continuing his philanthropic efforts.

The Duke planned to celebrate this milestone privately with Meghan and their family, followed by a getaway with close friends.

In a statement, he paid tribute to his children, who have 'sharpened his focus' on his work and charitable endeavours.

The juxtaposition of the Duke's positive outlook and the swirling allegations around the Duchess's behaviour presented a complex picture of the couple's life away from the royal fold.
Key Takeaways

  • Insiders reported that Meghan Markle had been given a derogatory nickname by her staff due to allegations of demeaning behaviour.
  • The accusations against Meghan included allegations of her being 'absolutely relentless' towards employees.
  • Speculations about their high staff turnover rose after reports that the Duke and Duchess's chief of staff left after three months, along with about 18 staff resignations.
  • Ahead of Prince Harry's 40th birthday, the Duke of Sussex revealed modest plans for his birthday celebration.
Have you experienced similar challenges at work? Do you believe there's more to the narrative than meets the eye? We invite you to share your thoughts on this unfolding story in the comments section below.
 
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l am not interested in either of them. You ask if anyone else had had challenges at work and l did'
l was 16 and working in St Just Cornwall UK in a disability Childrens home when the woman in charge left and was replaced by a really nasty woman who belittled me every chance she got. One night when she was serving dinner she picked on me in front of the other staff .l am not an aggressive person and l was brought up not to be rude but l had had enough and l just lost it and let fly slamming my chair against the table and telling her off before storming out of the door. l was lucky my dad was in Cornwall visiting me as l lived in Yorkshire 12 hours train ride away and had no money to get home. We had a nice time together for the rest of his holiday.He was angry that all the upset caused me to have a stutter and l couldn't say two words together and dad being a hot headed Yorkshireman waylaid this woman and goodness knows what he said.No=one should put up with being bullied.
 
In my late 20s, I worked for a lawyer (the owner of the company) a rude and arrogant man. Because I was offered a lift to work early one morning, I was the only one in the office with him, at the time.
He walked up to me, no 'Hello' or 'Good Morning'. waving his finger at me said, "Hey, you - make me a cup of tea!" (no name, no 'Please', nothing).
Even though, a permanent Tea Lady hired to work in the office, would be arriving shortly.
I asked him how he liked it, he answered, "In a cup!"
That made me snap...! So, I decided to play his game - treat me like an idiot, I'll act like one!
I placed a dry tea bag into an empty cup, on a saucer, with a teaspoon and put it on his office table.
Not only did he apologise (3 x during the day) - he never asked me again.
 
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In my late 20s, I worked for a lawyer (the owner of the company) a rude and arrogant man. Because I was offered a lift to work early one morning, I was the only one in the office with him, at the time.
He walked up to me, no 'Hello' or 'Good Morning'. waving his finger at me said, "Hey, you - make me a cup of tea!" (no name, no 'Please', nothing).
Even though, a permanent Tea Lady hired to work in the office, would be arriving shortly.
I asked him how he liked it, he answered, "In a cup!"
That made me snap...! So, I decided to play his game - treat me like an idiot, I'll act like one!
I placed a dry tea bag into an empty cup, on a saucer, with a teaspoon and put it on his office table.
Not only did he apologise (3 x during the day) - he never asked me again.
I was once seconded into the Head Office, even after I had threated to take them to court. I digress being new in there I noticed that attitudes of people, trying to treat me like a lackey until one day I blew and told quite of them what I actually thought of the lot of them, Lo and Behold big transformation.
 

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