'Americanising' Aussie Cafes? See How One Woman Exposed the Outrageous Trend Sweeping the Nation!

The Australian café culture is a unique blend of laid-back ambiance, quality coffee, and a no-fuss approach to service. It's a culture that prides itself on simplicity and fairness, where the price on the menu is what you pay, and the service is part of the experience, not an optional extra. However, it seems that an American trend has been quietly brewing in our local cafes, leaving customers like Phoebe Parsons feeling more than a little steamed.


Phoebe Parsons, a young Australian woman, has taken to social media to express her dismay over the creeping introduction of tipping culture in Australian cafes. In a TikTok video that has since sparked widespread debate, Parsons questions the rationale behind the expectation of tipping for basic services, such as grabbing a takeaway coffee. 'When did tipping become a thing that you, all of a sudden, decided that you do everywhere?' she asks, voicing a sentiment that many Aussies can relate to.


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Online content creator Phoebe Parsons questioned the emerging tip culture in Sydney. Image Credit: TikTok/Phoebe Parsons


In the United States, tipping is a deeply ingrained practice, often compensating for the low minimum wage many service workers receive. But here in Australia, where the minimum wage is significantly higher, the necessity of tipping is being called into question. Parsons points out that Australian workers are not reliant on tips to make a living wage, and she finds it presumptuous to be asked for a tip before the service has even been provided.


The issue isn't just about the extra dollars and cents; it's about the principle. In a country where the cost-of-living crisis is tightening belts across the board, every cent counts. The expectation of a 10 percent tip on top of the bill for a large lunch or dinner out is becoming increasingly burdensome for many Australians. And it's not just the customers who are feeling the pinch; businesses are also navigating the challenging economic landscape.

Tony Green, CEO of the Australian Food Service Advocacy Body, offers a different perspective. He suggests that tipping can play a role in employee retention, indirectly benefiting businesses by keeping great, reliable employees on board. However, this argument seems to fall flat with many Australians who believe fair pay should be guaranteed by employers, not supplemented by customers.

Watch Phoebe Parsons' video here:

Source: @phoebeparsons__/TikTok

The tipping debate has spilled over into other areas as well, with some customers expressing frustration at being prompted to donate to charity at the checkout of supermarkets like Woolworths. It seems that the expectation of additional financial contributions is becoming more widespread, and not everyone is on board with this shift.


As the conversation continues, it's clear that Australians value transparency and fairness in their transactions. The charm of our local cafes lies in their straightforward approach to service, where a smile is part of the job and not something we're expected to pay extra for. While tipping for exceptional service is always at the customer's discretion, the imposition of an American-style tipping culture may not sit well with the Aussie ethos.
Key Takeaways

  • A young woman in Australia has expressed her frustration with the growing tipping culture at cafes for basic services, indicating that it is not customary in Australia as it is in the US.
  • The woman, Phoebe Parsons, argues that unlike the US where wages might be lower, Australian workers are paid a fair hourly rate and therefore should not expect tips for performing standard tasks.
  • Many Australians supported Parsons' views, emphasising their reluctance to tip for everyday services and their preference for rewarding exceptional service with direct cash tips to the server.
  • The CEO of the Australian Food Service Advocacy Body, Tony Green, defended tipping as an incentive for retaining employees and indirectly helping businesses by keeping reliable staff.
So, dear members of the Seniors Discount Club, what are your thoughts on this issue? Have you noticed a push towards tipping in your local cafes and restaurants? Do you feel obliged to tip, or do you stand firm on the principle that good service is part of the Australian hospitality experience? Share your experiences and opinions in the comments below – let's brew a robust discussion on this hot topic!
 
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Tellmehow they know if they haven’t experienced it?
There is a funny little appendage in our mouths....the tongue.

There are two strange protrusions on our heads....they are called ears.

There's a weird process called speech. It's where the tongue and ears cooperate in what is termed as COMMUNICATION!

Not familiar with it?
 
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I think so ! I asked hubby last night if we could go on a cruise but he just looked at me and after a few minutes said no.
We are now looking at booking a trip to Perth, where he has always wanted to go.
He wants to go to some restaurant that's at the end of a warf and is underwater.

Then it's to Greece next July for a wedding.
Maybe my kids with all gift me with a cruise for my birthday next week then hubby won't say no
Here’s a link to (AQWA) Perth
https://www.aqwa.com.au/

Wow, you and hubby have some exciting adventures awaiting you! Let us know when you’ve booked your trip to Perth. 🤩
 
Mate I would respect your opinion if you had been on a cruise.
But you have no qualifications to make such a pathetic comment.
I will continue to call you a clown each time you make an uneducated comment!
Well at the end of the day everyone is entitled to their opinion!
 
Why do we have to follow everything America says and does? Our language is turning American and no doubt our accent will too in future (sorry, going forward as we say in the US of A).
 
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I absolutely love cruises and been on a few but hubby hates them and feels like you , that he is stuck on a ship in the middle of the ocean .

My son inlaw buys the drink package which is unlimited drinks $1000 per package.

Hubby refuses to go on another cruise
And so he should..maybe he can stay at home for some peace and quiet.
 
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Here’s a link to (AQWA) Perth
https://www.aqwa.com.au/

Wow, you and hubby have some exciting adventures awaiting you! Let us know when you’ve booked your trip to Perth. 🤩
We haven't travelled for awhile. He has always wanted to go to Perth.

I'm trying to get him to catch the train across and plane back but he is saying 3 days on a train is too long.
This trip will be most likely next month.

Can you recommend hotels !

The trip to Greece is for our nieces wedding. Alot of my kids may also go. It's on the island of Crete. Plus hubby wants to see his sister who lives on the island of Rhodes. It's been 20 years since he saw her
 
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We haven't travelled for awhile. He has always wanted to go to Perth.

I'm trying to get him to catch the train across and plane back but he is saying 3 days on a train is too long.
This trip will be most likely next month.

Can you recommend hotels !

The trip to Greece is for our nieces wedding. Alot of my kids may also go. It's on the island of Crete. Plus hubby wants to see his sister who lives on the island of Rhodes. It's been 20 years since he saw her
I’ve sent a private convo to you and Veg re Perth accommodations.
 
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This is one of the reasons I hate cruises or even bus holidays in Australia. Tipping is mandatory. If it is expected or charged it is no longer a TIP. The price of the holiday is what it is.
 

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