'Americanising' Aussie Cafes? See How One Woman Exposed the Outrageous Trend Sweeping the Nation!

The Australian café culture is a unique blend of laid-back ambiance, quality coffee, and a no-fuss approach to service. It's a culture that prides itself on simplicity and fairness, where the price on the menu is what you pay, and the service is part of the experience, not an optional extra. However, it seems that an American trend has been quietly brewing in our local cafes, leaving customers like Phoebe Parsons feeling more than a little steamed.


Phoebe Parsons, a young Australian woman, has taken to social media to express her dismay over the creeping introduction of tipping culture in Australian cafes. In a TikTok video that has since sparked widespread debate, Parsons questions the rationale behind the expectation of tipping for basic services, such as grabbing a takeaway coffee. 'When did tipping become a thing that you, all of a sudden, decided that you do everywhere?' she asks, voicing a sentiment that many Aussies can relate to.


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Online content creator Phoebe Parsons questioned the emerging tip culture in Sydney. Image Credit: TikTok/Phoebe Parsons


In the United States, tipping is a deeply ingrained practice, often compensating for the low minimum wage many service workers receive. But here in Australia, where the minimum wage is significantly higher, the necessity of tipping is being called into question. Parsons points out that Australian workers are not reliant on tips to make a living wage, and she finds it presumptuous to be asked for a tip before the service has even been provided.


The issue isn't just about the extra dollars and cents; it's about the principle. In a country where the cost-of-living crisis is tightening belts across the board, every cent counts. The expectation of a 10 percent tip on top of the bill for a large lunch or dinner out is becoming increasingly burdensome for many Australians. And it's not just the customers who are feeling the pinch; businesses are also navigating the challenging economic landscape.

Tony Green, CEO of the Australian Food Service Advocacy Body, offers a different perspective. He suggests that tipping can play a role in employee retention, indirectly benefiting businesses by keeping great, reliable employees on board. However, this argument seems to fall flat with many Australians who believe fair pay should be guaranteed by employers, not supplemented by customers.

Watch Phoebe Parsons' video here:

Source: @phoebeparsons__/TikTok

The tipping debate has spilled over into other areas as well, with some customers expressing frustration at being prompted to donate to charity at the checkout of supermarkets like Woolworths. It seems that the expectation of additional financial contributions is becoming more widespread, and not everyone is on board with this shift.


As the conversation continues, it's clear that Australians value transparency and fairness in their transactions. The charm of our local cafes lies in their straightforward approach to service, where a smile is part of the job and not something we're expected to pay extra for. While tipping for exceptional service is always at the customer's discretion, the imposition of an American-style tipping culture may not sit well with the Aussie ethos.
Key Takeaways

  • A young woman in Australia has expressed her frustration with the growing tipping culture at cafes for basic services, indicating that it is not customary in Australia as it is in the US.
  • The woman, Phoebe Parsons, argues that unlike the US where wages might be lower, Australian workers are paid a fair hourly rate and therefore should not expect tips for performing standard tasks.
  • Many Australians supported Parsons' views, emphasising their reluctance to tip for everyday services and their preference for rewarding exceptional service with direct cash tips to the server.
  • The CEO of the Australian Food Service Advocacy Body, Tony Green, defended tipping as an incentive for retaining employees and indirectly helping businesses by keeping reliable staff.
So, dear members of the Seniors Discount Club, what are your thoughts on this issue? Have you noticed a push towards tipping in your local cafes and restaurants? Do you feel obliged to tip, or do you stand firm on the principle that good service is part of the Australian hospitality experience? Share your experiences and opinions in the comments below – let's brew a robust discussion on this hot topic!
 
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Mmost folk that I have tipped, from waitresses to the lady who delivers our Chinese food (rural, so he's lucky to cover his petrol) all seem surprised and extremely grateful that they get a tip. It's certainly not something that they expect. The checkout staff at major stores also tell me that they're not allowed to accept tips.
 
In Australia, I absolutely object to tipping, and I object to the expectation for good service. Firstly, it means that I am actually paying 10% extra for my purchase. Then, people are employed at set pay rates and if I am happy with the service the place gets my repeat business and even recommendation to others. I actually think that the American system should be changed as it creates the problems.
 
In Australia, I absolutely object to tipping, and I object to the expectation for good service. Firstly, it means that I am actually paying 10% extra for my purchase. Then, people are employed at set pay rates and if I am happy with the service the place gets my repeat business and even recommendation to others. I actually think that the American system should be changed as it creates the problems.
The American system won’t change. I absolutely hate the idea of tipping. In Australia where it not expected, it seems so patronising to me.
 
No I don’t tip and don’t agree with it. However if we have an issue like an extremely good experience we have been known to. We do tip when we are on cruises, but that is just to people who we have dealt with personally like our cabin cleaners I think thatemployers should pay a decent wage rather than relying on customers’ tips to make it up
 
No I don’t tip and don’t agree with it. However if we have an issue like an extremely good experience we have been known to. We do tip when we are on cruises, but that is just to people who we have dealt with personally like our cabin cleaners I think thatemployers should pay a decent wage rather than relying on customers’ tips to make it up
Never been on a cruise and never will.

Cruises completely imprison you on a ship in the middle of nowhere until you reach a port. I'd rather fly to a destination, hire a car and go on your merry way without any restrictions.
 
Never been on a cruise and never will.

Cruises completely imprison you on a ship in the middle of nowhere until you reach a port. I'd rather fly to a destination, hire a car and go on your merry way without any restrictions.
Well you certainly know nothing about cruising.
You continue to prove what a clown you are.
How is it possible for you to comment if you have never been on a cruise?
 
Well you certainly know nothing about cruising.
You continue to prove what a clown you are.
How is it possible for you to comment if you have never been on a cruise?
Oh! So you can jump off a cruise ship 200 kilometres from the nearest land and go sightseeing in the middle of the Pacific Ocean? Would be a wonderful experience to watch endless seawater before you die of exposure or drown.

Call me a clown and I'll call you a f**king dipshit.

Time to run off and add to you compendium of diseases to further bore the members of SDC.
 
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Oh! So you can jump off a cruise ship 200 kilometres from the nearest land and go sightseeing in the middle of the Pacific Ocean? Would be a wonderful experience to watch endless seawater before you die of exposure or drown.

Call me a clown and I'll call you a f**king dipshit.

Time to run off and add to you compendium of diseases to further bore the members of SDC.
Mate I would respect your opinion if you had been on a cruise.
But you have no qualifications to make such a pathetic comment.
I will continue to call you a clown each time you make an uneducated comment!
 
Mate I would respect your opinion if you had been on a cruise.
But you have no qualifications to make such a pathetic comment.
I will continue to call you a clown each time you make an uneducated comment!
Many friends have been on cruises, including two who stowed away in the early eighties. One of those was a merchant seaman who knew the inner workings of a large ship so they could get away with it. They even had their photo taken with the damn captain!

Being confined to a large metal coffin for days or weeks on end is not my idea of a holiday. Sit around the numerous pools all day, slurping on overpriced cocktails with stupid umbrellas? Hit the casino in the evening and lose your arse? Attend a dance or show which is 70 years out of date? Terminal boredom!

The only excitement I would garner from a cruise would be getting caught in a typhoon! And no - I don't get seasick. The rougher, the better!
 
Oh! So you can jump off a cruise ship 200 kilometres from the nearest land and go sightseeing in the middle of the Pacific Ocean? Would be a wonderful experience to watch endless seawater before you die of exposure or drown.



What an ignorant response. This issue has nothing to do with cruises and your opinion appears to miss the point. You weren’t asked whether you liked a cruise or not but whether you agreed with tipping. Stick to responding appropriately and then we can understand you

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Call me a clown and I'll call you a f**king dipshit.

Time to run off and add to you compendium of diseases to further bore the members of SDC.
 

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