[Sethia Soliman]

AIBU 27.05.2024​

AIBU, which stands for 'Am I Being Unreasonable', is the perfect platform for sharing your thoughts and opinions! So, for today's AIBU discussion, we have this story from Reddit/Little-Reflection-73:

Am I being unreasonable for shaving my girlfriend's head?

'My girlfriend and I got REALLY drunk, then she asked me to shave her head. She was so sure she wanted to do it, I even let her take the first strip before I finished it for her. When she sobered up, she blamed me and told me it was my fault. Am I being unreasonable for giving in to her demands? Because I feel like I'm not, I was just as intoxicated as she was if not more.'

We're eager to hear your perspectives, members! Please feel free to share your thoughts in the comments below.

 

[Penny4]

People do a lot of bizarre actions when intoxicated. She felt the need to blame him, even if she can't recall it.
Her hair will grow back.

 

[Marilynne]

Was her name Britney?

 

[Kessa]

You can drink to enjoy yourself and that is fine. We all deserve a little downtime and a little bit of alcohol makes us happy and enjoy the night. It’s all good. If you drink to excess, and are unable to control yourself or know what you are doing, it is unreasonable to expect that the drunk you are drinking with is going to be responsible for your choices. in my humble opinion, in order to stop this happening again, you need to have a pact that one of you at least stays a little more sober than the other one. If you both choose to drink to oblivion then don’t blame the other person for what they allow you to do. Take some responsibility for your own actions.

 

[Jest]

ANOTHER STUPID DRUNKEN FEMALE. MIND YOU WE HAVE ONE WHO GOT 3MIL FOR BEING DRUNK AND CRYING RAPE.

 

[Mrtnst]

If she had asked you to have sex you might have been charged with rape, and it's not impossible for you to be found guilty.

Not saying that you should be, just suggesting that you be more careful in future.

 

[Marilynne]

I think I may have to clarify my remark "Was it Brittney" I was talking about Brittney Spears, who did shave her hair off.

 

[Rob44]

You are a bloke. Whatever you do will be wrong. Get used to it!

 

[Gsr]

ANOTHER STUPID DRUNKEN FEMALE. MIND YOU WE HAVE ONE WHO GOT 3MIL FOR BEING DRUNK AND CRYING RAPE.

To make matters worse no one will ever know if it was rape or not, I’m sure they were both too drunk to remember what happened. Don’t really know why the taxpayers had to pay such an over the top amount for something that may or may not have happened. Taxpayers should not have had to pay anything regardless of what happened.

 

[Johan van Zalen]

Hey at least she didn't get a tattoo because being intoxicated she would have chosen the wrong one and what the Hey hair will grow back

 

[APapaz]

Alcohol has caused a lot of harm and damage, the same as illegal drugs and yet it so readily and easily available!! WHY????

 

[Rob44]

Hey at least she didn't get a tattoo because being intoxicated she would have chosen the wrong one and what the Hey hair will grow back

Alcohol has caused a lot of harm and damage, the same as illegal drugs and yet it so readily and easily available!! WHY????

'Cos look what happened during the USA's Prohibition.

 

[CraigF]

Sounds like they deserve each other. Two peas in a pod. Two idiots in a relationship.

 

[BellaB18]

Sorry to say nothing good comes from a night on the booze. Maybe you could have tried to talk your girl friend out of shaving her hair. Something like let's see tomorrow if you want to still do it then knock yourself out. Even though your girl friend started it you might have been better off saying, you started it you finish it.
Take it as a lesson learnt. Think twice when having a night on the grog and coming up with ideas you would not do when sober.
I truly hope you two can move past this and make up. Everyone is guilty of doing silly things. We are all human.
Kind regards to all Vicki

 

[Johan van Zalen]

Alcohol has caused a lot of harm and damage, the same as illegal drugs and yet it so readily and easily available!! WHY????

Well thing is that alcohol has been around with man since at the Neolithic ages and old habits die hard

 

[Luckyus]

You are a member of the opposite sex to hers, ergo you will, forever be in the shit. The only thing that will, vary is the depth?

 

[Scotty64*]

This is a stupid story about stupid people. Not a worthy topic

 

[Johan van Zalen]

You are a member of the opposite sex to hers, ergo you will, forever be in the shit. The only thing that will, vary is the depth?

What they really need is more common sense and a lot less booze

 

[CliffE]

Surely you jest Sire! There be'eth no common sense in today's young 'uns regardless the quantity of booze that they consumeth.

 

[Johan van Zalen]

Surely you jest Sire! There be'eth no common sense in today's young 'uns regardless the quantity of booze that they consumeth.

Aye so true, so true