1 in 3 people are lonely. Will AI help, or make things worse?


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ChatGPT has repeatedly made headlines since its release late last year, with various scholars and professionals exploring its potential applications in both work and education settings. However, one area receiving less attention is the tool’s usefulness as a conversationalist and—dare we say—as a potential friend.

Some chatbots have left an unsettling impression. Microsoft’s Bing chatbot alarmed users earlier this year when it threatened and attempted to blackmail them.





Yet pop culture has long conjured visions of autonomous systems living with us as social companions, whether that’s Rosie the robot from The Jetsons, or the super-intelligent AI, Samantha, from the 2013 movie Her. Will we develop similar emotional attachments to new and upcoming chatbots, and is this healthy?

While generative AI itself is relatively new, the fields of belonging and human-computer interaction have been explored reasonably well, with results that may surprise you.



Our latest research shows that, at a time when one in three Australians are experiencing loneliness, there may be space for AI to fill gaps in our social lives. That’s assuming we don’t use it to replace people.

Can you make friends with a robot?​

As far back as the popularisation of the internet, scholars have been discussing how AI might serve to replace or supplement human relationships.

When social media became popular about a decade later, interest in this space exploded. The 2021 Nobel Prize-winning book Klara and the Sun explores how humans and life-like machines might form meaningful relationships.

With increasing interest came increasing concern—most borne of evidence that belonging (and therefore loneliness) can be impacted by technology use. In some studies, the overuse of technology (gaming, internet, mobile and social media) has been linked to higher social anxiety and loneliness. However, other research suggests the effects depend greatly on who is using the technology and how often they use it.



Research has also found some online roleplaying game players seem to experience less loneliness online than in the real world—and that people who feel a sense of belonging on a gaming platform are more likely to continue to use it.

All of this suggests technology use can have a positive impact on loneliness, that it does have the potential to replace human support, and that the more an individual uses it the more tempting it becomes.

Then again, this evidence is from tools designed with a specific purpose (for instance, a game’s purpose is to entertain) and not tools designed to support human connection (such as AI 'therapy' tools).

The rise of robot companions​

As researchers in the fields of technology, leadership and psychology, we wanted to investigate how ChatGPT might influence people’s feelings of loneliness and being supported. Importantly, does it have a net positive benefit for users’ well-being and belonging?



To study this, we asked 387 participants about their usage of AI, as well as their general experience of social connection and support. We found that:
  • Participants who used AI more tended to feel more supported by their AI compared to people whose support came mainly from close friends.
  • The more a participant used AI, the higher their feeling of social support from the AI was.
  • The more a participant felt socially supported by AI, the lower their feeling of support was from close friends and family.
  • Although not true across the board, on average human social support was the largest predictor of lower loneliness.

AI friends are okay, but you still need people​

Overall our results indicate that social support can come from either humans or AI—and that working with AI can indeed help people.

However, since human social support was the largest predictor of lower loneliness, it seems likely that underlying feelings of loneliness can only be addressed by human connection. In simple terms, entirely replacing in-person friendships with robot friendships could actually lead to greater loneliness.

Having said that, we also found participants who felt socially supported by AI seemed to experience similar effects on their wellbeing as those supported by humans. This is consistent with the previous research into online gaming mentioned above. So while making friends with AI may not combat loneliness, it can still help us feel connected, which is better than nothing.


The takeaway​

Our research suggests social support from AI can be positive, but it doesn’t provide all the benefits of social support from other people—especially when it comes to loneliness.

When used in moderation, a relationship with an AI bot could provide positive functional and emotional benefits. But the key is understanding that although it might make you feel supported, it’s unlikely to help you build enough of a sense of belonging to stop you from feeling lonely.

So make sure to also get out and make real human connections. These provide an innate sense of belonging that (for now) even the most advanced AI can’t match.


Acknowledgement: the authors would like to acknowledge Bianca Pani for her contributions to the research discussed in this article.

This article was first published on The Conversation and was written by Michael Cowling, Associate Professor – Information & Communication Technology (ICT), CQUniversity Australia, Joseph Crawford, Senior Lecturer, Management, University of Tasmania, Kelly-Ann Allen, Associate Professor, School of Educational Psychology and Counselling, Faculty of Education, Monash University.

 
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Nothing can replace human contact.

So many out there that need that connection or they become lonely and only company is TV etc which is not good.

I ran a program called coffee and social outings with friends.

We met for club nights bus trips. Dinner nights dance nights.
We would sit on one table each person introduced themselves and what their interest etc.

We had suggestions box too so we did a combination of everything. When new member came I would meet them at the door so they are not walking in by themselves. Introduction to rest that attended.

We became like family if people didn't have transport someone nearby will pick and drop off petrol shared for the journey.

Picnics and others places arranged as well.
The group age from 45 to 65. We had guy turn up late 80s he wanted to come so I said you are welcome to come, and you know what he was a fun man asked everyone up for a dance good dancer too.

So my suggestion if they are in complex as in social housing something like that can be introduced and people make suggestion where they like to go.
Any any setting really I.had lot single mums turn up up to 50klm away we all had fun.
12 people coupled up in that group.

About 300 in the group most turned up regularly, we had fun
 
Nothing can replace human contact.

So many out there that need that connection or they become lonely and only company is TV etc which is not good.

I ran a program called coffee and social outings with friends.

We met for club nights bus trips. Dinner nights dance nights.
We would sit on one table each person introduced themselves and what their interest etc.

We had suggestions box too so we did a combination of everything. When new member came I would meet them at the door so they are not walking in by themselves. Introduction to rest that attended.

We became like family if people didn't have transport someone nearby will pick and drop off petrol shared for the journey.

Picnics and others places arranged as well.
The group age from 45 to 65. We had guy turn up late 80s he wanted to come so I said you are welcome to come, and you know what he was a fun man asked everyone up for a dance good dancer too.

So my suggestion if they are in complex as in social housing something like that can be introduced and people make suggestion where they like to go.
Any any setting really I.had lot single mums turn up up to 50klm away we all had fun.
12 people coupled up in that group.

About 300 in the group most turned up regularly, we had fun
I agree, nothing can replace human contact. What a great social group you ran, so important for people with no family around or family interstate and overseas.
 
I agree, nothing can replace human contact. What a great social group you ran, so important for people with no family around or family interstate and overseas.
Thanks it help many including me I was in an area didn't know anyone. What counts is human contact at the most we had bbq at each other's places plus outings discussions and comrades friendships formed for years to come
 
Since the world of social media became the be all and end all loneliness has spiralled. Your computer cannot give you a hug or hold you when you are sad or laugh with you when you tell a bad joke because it’s not your friend or family. It’s time to see technology for what it is, not what some people think it is. All through the many centuries of life we have had other people if we made the effort to make friends. We had family who loved us regardless of what we were or had achieved. But AI is a wolf in sheep’s clothing because those who control it want it to be able to take the place of humans. What do we become when we have nothing left to strive for or work towards. Ev the smallest goals are valuable. Watch out AI will do it for you. We already have kids cheating on assignments by getting a bot to write the paper then adding a few spelling errors to make it look as if they wrote it. These kids may attain a piece of paper but are absolutely useless when it comes to actualLy doing real work as they neither know not understand the principles behind the information they were supposed to have studied. We have found this over 36 years of employing an assortment of graduates from the newly graduated to those who learned the old way. The difference is very obvious. If you don’t know the relevant information then you can’t use it to do your job. We need human touch even if we disagree with others it’s the interaction that matters. I personally don’t love my computer or any devic. I prefer my family and friends to pick up the phone and speak with me.
 
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Interesting article and very informative in regards to comparing the positive and negativity of AL to human interaction.
 
Thanks to SDC, I have met the girl of my dreams. It started by being compassionate and supportive of her during a dark period she was going through. That was three months ago. We are of similar age, same interests and both youthful in our outlook in the latter years of our lives.

She will probably flame me for this! I couldn't keep it a secret any longer. But it is up to her to make any more disclosures. I totally respect her privacy and confidentiality.

In the words of Bugs Bunny, "That's All Folks!".
 
Thanks to SDC, I have met the girl of my dreams. It started by being compassionate and supportive of her during a dark period she was going through. That was three months ago. We are of similar age, same interests and both youthful in our outlook in the latter years of our lives.

She will probably flame me for this! I couldn't keep it a secret any longer. But it is up to her to make any more disclosures. I totally respect her privacy and confidentiality.

In the words of Bugs Bunny, "That's All Folks!
Sounds as if you are in a good position with a lovely girl by your side....wish you both all the very best. 😉
 

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