‘Please be more considerate’: The photo that has Melbourne shoppers fuming

Finding a parking spot can be a challenge, especially in busy shopping centres, but some choices go beyond mere convenience and into outright disregard for others.

One Melbourne shopper recently exposed a parking incident that has ignited frustration online.

Many are now calling for stricter action against those who misuse accessible spaces.


Securing a parking spot at a shopping centre can be a test of patience, but some drivers take their search too far, disregarding rules meant to ensure accessibility for those who need it most.

A Melbourne shopper recently called out a motorist for their ‘inappropriate’ parking, sharing an image online to highlight the issue and spark a conversation about consideration in public spaces.

The photo showed a car parked in the middle of two designated accessible parking bays, blocking the space meant for safe entry and exit.


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Shopper slams driver for ‘inappropriate’ parking. Image source: Reddit


The post explained that these areas, officially known as Designated Accessible Parking Bays (DAPBs), are specifically designed to help people with disabilities access the community.

‘The DAPBs with two vehicle parking bays are separated by an area with painted hash lines on it and usually a large steel yellow pole to prevent vehicles entering. This is known as the shared area and no vehicles are to park there. This allows safe access to the vehicle and the community. The photo shows totally inappropriate parking,’ the user wrote.

They pointed out that while the vehicles in the DAPBs had the correct permits, the car in the shared area appeared to have been parked by someone who simply saw an open space and took it.

‘This prevented people who need more space to access their vehicles or the shops. Please be more considerate and think of others,’ they added.


The post resonated with many, with commenters expressing frustration over how common this issue had become.

‘Infuriating. My mum is in a wheelchair and having recently become her carer, I never realised how difficult it was to find accessible parking. There’s never enough spaces. And then there’s selfish twats like this to make it even harder for people,’ one person wrote.

Another shared a personal experience, admitting they once made a similar mistake but quickly changed their behaviour after learning why these spaces exist.

‘I’ve ridden motorbikes for a really long time and when I first started riding, I’d park wherever the hell I wanted to. When I parked in one of these striped sections once, someone came over to me and explained why they existed: to give the disabled space next to them room for wheelchairs and just to manage a big car often used for that. Totally changed my mindset and now I yell at other motorbikes and scooters (UberEats scooters are objectively the worst offenders) when they do it,’ they said.


Some were more direct about what they thought should happen to the driver.

‘I don’t vouch for towing a car, but this person deserves to get their car towed,’ one comment read.

‘Notify centre management and have them towed,’ another agreed.

Accessible parking bays are meant to provide ease of movement for those who require additional space, but when drivers ignore the rules, they make an already limited resource even scarcer.


In a previous story, another parking dispute made headlines when a driver didn’t take too kindly to a fine left on their vehicle.

Their reaction sparked debate over whether the penalty was justified or an overreach.

Read more about the heated exchange that had everyone talking.

Key Takeaways
  • A Melbourne shopper exposed a driver for parking in a shared area between two accessible bays, blocking essential space for people with disabilities.
  • The post explained the purpose of Designated Accessible Parking Bays (DAPBs) and how the shared area allows safe access, urging people to be more considerate.
  • Commenters expressed frustration, with some sharing personal experiences about the challenges of finding accessible parking and learning the importance of these spaces.
  • Many called for action against the driver, with some suggesting towing as a consequence for those who misuse accessible parking areas.

Parking etiquette can make a big difference, especially for those who rely on accessible spaces.

Have you ever encountered a situation like this at your local shopping centre?

Let us know your thoughts in the comments.
 

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They should have been towed away, charged, taken to Court and HEAVILY fined. Sick of these entitled mongrels.🤬
 
That is not a parking spot and he/she knows it. So rude.
 
C'mon Raj, You can't park there.
 
Honestly, some people do not realise what this area is (they have to be a moron) but that is the truth. A fine should make them aware of this area's meaning and perhaps encourage them not to do it again.
 
I see this at my local shopping centre all the time. A well placed bollard would stop these twats from parking there.
 
Disgusting - but it is the age of entitlement - "me, me, me ..." and who cares about anyone else. As a disabled driver it annoys me when at our local shopping centre this happens a lot. If there is a free spot in a disabled park then people will use it even though they do not have authority card to park there. It makes it difficult for those that really need it. I really value having this availability!
 
Most of these parking areas where I live have a bollard placed in the middle so one can't park there. Should be done to all disabled parking areas.
 
Lost count of the number of times l see people with no children park in spots for mother's and babies.
 
The fact that there are markings if any kind means you can't park there and the driver would know that. Clearly should not have a licence. Hate to think what other road rules he or she flouts.
 
If you hate people abusing their driving privileges, way past the point of entitlement, then don't come to Melton in Victoria.
People drive how they like and park where they want.
You can contact the police or the council to explain your concerns, but don't expect anything to be done. No one cares. You can take a photo, it doesn't matter. You can send the photo to an on line resource like "Snap, Send, Solve", it doesn't matter. They'll just recommend contacting police or the council. Such a vicious and frustrating circle. I've lived in Melton for the past 23 years and have never seen a parking inspector, anywhere.
 
same with what few senior parks there are if ny. Young people parking there. A lot of seniors don't qualify for disability, but that does not mean they can cope walking very far for all sorts of heath issues.
 
Why do you black out their numberplates ??? NAME and SHAME the selfish bastards !!!
 
Why do you black out their numberplates ??? NAME and SHAME the selfish bastards !!!
Definitely need to stop protecting them and it might help as they will at least get stick from family and friends and word will spread. And others might decide to think twice. Remember I said might.
 
Lost count of the number of times l see people with no children park in spots for mother's and babies.
I don’t know if you’re joking or not but I admit, at 71, to sometimes parking in parents with prams designated parking areas. My excuse - revenge! They’ve got a bloody pram to lean on while walking the short (because spots are always nearest distance to shops) trip to shops and I’ve only got my own 2 legs!! God only knows how I managed to raise my 2 children to adulthood without all these perks and parks mothers of today have. I would have loved them but would never have thought of them as my due. Figure that if anyone wants to argue about my parking there I’ll just claim I’m picking up my grandchildren.
Ah! The little pleasures we have to find in our sometimes boring and mundane old age.
 
Lost count of the number of times l see people with no children park in spots for mother's and babies.
Anyone can park there.

Those parking spots are not enforceable by law, same as seniors' parking. Only disabled parking is governed by law.
 
Lost count of the number of times l see people with no children park in spots for mother's and babies.
I believe those spots are complementary,so anyone can park there. They are different to disabled parks.
 
It appears that disabled car park areas are fair game for anyone to park in them. On one occasion I called the authorities to come a book a person in a disabled spot I was told to take a photo and then go online upload the photo and fill out the form to report the infringement. I did not it wasn’t wort the hassle. I am disabled myself and I don’t drive anymore. Either my wife or my daughter take me to my appointments and it’s hard when we can’t find a disabled spot
 

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