I remember my grandparents always giving cold drinks to the postie and garbo's and at Xmas they always gave a box of beer to the garbo's and a Christmas card with money in it for the postie.
I have always loved giving rather than receiving and I do that in many ways .
I love helping people especially those who need my help.
I used to always cook meals for neighbours eg if they had a baby or was sick.
Every night we would take a plate of food into our neighbour who was an alcoholic and very sick. He was our neighbour for maybe 30 years. To us what was one more plate of food. In the end he could only eat soup so soup was what I made him.
Recently one of our neighbours passed away at just 45 from cancer leaving behind 3 kids and hubby. So I would make a lasagne and fresh bread once a week. Other days I knew the grandparents took food
A few weeks ago we were driving to the shops when it started to pour down, hubby noticed a lady at the unsheltered bus stop and stopped and asked where she was going to my surprise she was happy to accept the lift abd was going where we were going. I later asked hubby if it was OK for me to accept a lift if I was in the same situation and he simply replied No.
There are many ways to give and help others abd sometimes just that little thing can make a huge difference to someone else.
My biggest advice is always don't be nasty to others and try to smile
Suzanne