You won't believe why thousands of people mock this woman's GoFundMe campaign

In a world where crowdfunding has become a beacon of hope for many in dire straits, the line between genuine need and audacious entitlement can sometimes blur. This is the story of Emmalee Potter, a mother-of-three from Hillside in Victoria, who has found herself at the centre of an online controversy after launching a GoFundMe campaign to raise money for a house deposit.


The concept of community support is not new to Australians, who are known for their mateship and willingness to lend a hand. However, the response to Ms Potter's request has been anything but supportive, with many social media users expressing disbelief and mockery at her appeal for financial assistance to secure a home.


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Ms Potter attached a photo of her dream home on her GoFundMe campaign. Image Credit: GoFundMe


Ms Potter's campaign, which she started after 'suffering a rough few years,' was intended to gather the remaining funds she needed to purchase a house. She has been staying with family and friends for quite some time and is now tantalisingly close to achieving her goal of home ownership after 'working hard towards saving.'


In her plea, she stated, 'Saving up for a house deposit can be a long and challenging journey. I'm almost at the final stage but I'm short on the deposit so I'm calling on my village. Please help me get over this last hurdle, every little bit truly helps.'

Despite her heartfelt message and the acknowledgement of those who could not donate, the internet's reaction was swift and unforgiving. Critics questioned the appropriateness of using a crowdfunding platform typically reserved for medical emergencies, disaster relief, and other critical causes to fund a personal milestone like buying a house.

One commenter pointed out, 'No hate but you expect people to donate to you so you can buy a house. If we are all going to start GoFundMe accounts, I may as well start one so I can go on a holiday to Greece.'


Others expressed confusion over her financial strategy, with one person noting, 'The first paragraph of your listing says 'I'm now in a position to purchase a home' but you're asking strangers to send you money for the deposit.'

While some suggested she should look for a property with a lower deposit requirement, a few empathetic voices emerged from the crowd. They recognised the struggle of finding affordable housing in today's market, especially for those who have faced repeated rejections in the rental market.

Ms Potter defended her campaign, explaining the difficulty she and her children have faced in securing a rental property. 'Buying is actually cheaper than renting,' she argued. 'We've applied for over 100 rentals and been knocked back. I can get the home loan and pay the repayments [I'm] just needing the last bit of the deposit.'


Despite the backlash, a modest number of donors have contributed to her cause, proving that even in the face of criticism, there are still those who believe in the power of community support.

The situation raises important questions about the evolving nature of crowdfunding and the ethics of asking for help in a world where many are struggling. It also highlights the harsh realities of the Australian housing market, where the dream of home ownership remains elusive for many.

As we reflect on Ms Potter's story, it's worth considering the broader implications of her campaign. Is it a sign of the times, where traditional avenues for financial assistance are failing to meet the needs of everyday Australians? Or is it a step too far in the age of digital fundraising?

Key Takeaways

  • Emmalee Potter, a mother-of-three from Hillside in Victoria, has been criticised for starting a GoFundMe to raise money for her house deposit.
  • Some members of the public expressed cynicism and questioned the appropriateness of her using the platform for personal financial gain.
  • Despite the backlash, a few people have shown support for her campaign and have made donations towards the goal.
  • Ms Potter defended her fundraising effort by explaining her difficult housing situation and expressing gratitude for any form of support, whether financial or emotional.
We invite our readers to share their thoughts on this matter. Have you ever contributed to a crowdfunding campaign? Do you think there should be limits on what people can fundraise for? Join the conversation and let us know your perspective.
 
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I can understand raising money for a life saving operation that can save a life. I can't for the life of me fathom why people these days want someone else pay for things that they want. i.e house deposit, plastic surgery. I know money is tight but it is for nearly all of us. Save up yourself because everyone else has to
 
I worked extremely hard to be able to buy my house so I suggest she does the hard yards too.
You apppreciate it so much more when you have scrimped and saved to finally achieve your dream. My children were so happy and proud when we finally moved into our own home.
Get a job and save like everyone else has to.
 
I have contributed to many go fund me pages. I’ve never been harassed regarding donations. Each one I have donated to has been a very worthy cause but I certainly wouldn’t be giving to this one. I‘m sure the lady has worked hard to save the amount she has and good on her but to ask people to donate the rest of the money is a big ask. If she is as close to her goal as she said she is then keep going and soon she will have the prize.
 
I am astounded.
Maybe I should start a go fund granny because Centrelink ditched me when my husband died.
Nope, I will live off my savings until I am deemed human again.
We worked and saved and scraped and waited until we could afford the most basic of homes. I see how people around me work toward their goals, and, I have to wonder at this person's aspirations. If she has been doing it tough and living off other peoples' generosity, what does she expect in a home? The photo suggests brand new ... nope...no way Jose
 
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Buying a house is not worthy of a GoFindMe Charity.

There should be certain categories to be fit for the cause.

She is nothing but selfish asking for this.

She should work hard like most of us did to get our own house.

This type of situation makes me so angry that it is turning me off giving help to charities😠

Plus…. the picture shown to be of the house she wants, why doesn’t she buy a house that is a few years old?… or is that an insult to her lifestyle?

Our 1st house had an outside toilet & laundry…..SHOCK…..HORROR !!!!!!
 
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Everybody I know wants / needs a hand. But should the hand up be achieved through greed, and effectively taking from others trying to keep their own heads above water.
We saved hard and when we still fell short we decided to build mud brick. It was bloody hard work, but it is ours and has kept up safe and secure for 40 years. I’d be happy to teach her how to make mud bricks. I made approx 8,000 of them!
 
She wants people to donate for a deposit on a brand new house! that is not a cheap house by all means. So before donating did anyone ask the questions.
1 Do you have a job?
2 Are you able to keep up with the repayments of the house, land rates, water rates and insurance? Or are you getting Centre link payments and expect the taxpayers to also pay your mortgage.
I am sick and tired of people begging for money and yet won’t do anything to help themselves, I have even stopped at donating to Vinies, salvos simply because they spend more of donations on admin and paying store managers then they do distributing. We recently down sized to a smaller house, we had a 2 seater lounge that we could fit the not our new place, I asked the manager of our local salvo is she could used it and she was keen to have it. When the two people came to pick it up the scrutinised that lounge making sure it was spotless, when they couldn’t find anything wrong with it, they asked us if we ever had a pet? When we said we did but it died 3 years ago they said they couldn’t take ir because of people’s allergies. A young couple on facebook were happy to have it, it was free. what annoys me is that scammers like this lady get donations, from people that can’t afford to donate in the first place.
 
You have got to be kidding me. There are really many people who need help and don't ask and you want people to help you to buy a home! Get real lady, have you in your whole life helped someone other than yourself? I give you cudo's on your ability to see nothing wrong with this, but your one-sided view that you deserve it. Unbelievable.
 
Everybody I know wants / needs a hand. But should the hand up be achieved through greed, and effectively taking from others trying to keep their own heads above water.
We saved hard and when we still fell short we decided to build mud brick. It was bloody hard work, but it is ours and has kept up safe and secure for 40 years. I’d be happy to teach her how to make mud bricks. I made approx 8,000 of them!
True Aussie spirit , well done I applaud you .
 
Everybody I know wants / needs a hand. But should the hand up be achieved through greed, and effectively taking from others trying to keep their own heads above water.
We saved hard and when we still fell short we decided to build mud brick. It was bloody hard work, but it is ours and has kept up safe and secure for 40 years. I’d be happy to teach her how to make mud bricks. I made approx 8,000 of them.
What a cheeky cow
Love 💕 it.
 

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