You won't believe what this mum wore to a wedding after promising not to upstage the bride!
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When it comes to weddings, there's an unspoken rule that's as old as time: never upstage the bride. It's a day meant to celebrate the love and union of the happy couple, and traditionally, all eyes should be on them – especially the bride. This rule is particularly pertinent for those closest to the bride, such as her mother. However, in a tale that has since gone viral, one mother-of-the-bride decided to take a rather unconventional approach to her daughter's big day, sparking a flurry of online chatter and divided opinions.
The mother in question is 57-year-old Pauline, who attended the wedding of her daughter, Jin Cheng, a well-known Taiwanese actress. Jin had one simple request for her mother: please don't do anything to draw attention away from the bride and groom. Initially, Pauline had considered wearing a white dress – a major faux pas in wedding etiquette – but after her daughter's plea, she decided against it. Yet, Pauline's desire to stand out didn't stop there.
Instead of the white dress, Pauline arrived at the wedding wearing a blue bikini beneath a sparkly, see-through mesh gown. The outfit, which left little to the imagination, certainly made a statement. Photos of Pauline posing confidently with her daughter and the other wedding guests quickly made their way onto social media, where they became a hot topic of conversation.
While Jin Cheng herself seemed unbothered by her mother's bold fashion choice, sharing a heartfelt photo of the newlyweds with their mothers and captioning it with a loving message, the online community had mixed reactions. Some labeled Pauline's attire as 'tacky' and 'outrageous,' with one commenter stating, 'I would not have allowed her anywhere near my photographer.' Others expressed that they would be 'fuming' if their mother turned up in such an outfit at their wedding.
The criticism didn't stop there. Accusations of 'attention-seeking' behavior and 'Main Character Syndrome' were thrown around, with many feeling that wearing a bikini to a wedding – regardless of how good one might look – was simply inappropriate. 'Mother or not, you cannot do this and expect people to NOT give you grief over it,' one person remarked.
On the flip side, there were those who defended Pauline's choice, suggesting that if you have the confidence and the physique, why not celebrate it? 'If you've got it, flaunt it,' one supporter commented, while another joked, 'If I looked like that at 57, I might also want to run around mostly naked all the time.'
This incident raises interesting questions about wedding etiquette and the evolving nature of what's considered acceptable at such events. It also highlights the generational differences in attitudes towards self-expression and the importance of adhering to traditions.
For our readers at the Seniors Discount Club, we'd love to hear your thoughts. What's your take on wedding attire etiquette? Should there be a limit to self-expression at such events, or is it time to embrace a more modern, anything-goes approach? Have you ever witnessed a wedding guest who perhaps took the spotlight a little too far? Share your stories and opinions in the comments below – we're all ears!
And remember, while fashion and customs may change, the essence of a wedding – celebrating love and family – remains timeless. Whether you're the bride, the groom, or a guest, it's all about contributing to the joy of the occasion. Let's make sure we're all doing our part to keep the focus on the happy couple on their special day.
The mother in question is 57-year-old Pauline, who attended the wedding of her daughter, Jin Cheng, a well-known Taiwanese actress. Jin had one simple request for her mother: please don't do anything to draw attention away from the bride and groom. Initially, Pauline had considered wearing a white dress – a major faux pas in wedding etiquette – but after her daughter's plea, she decided against it. Yet, Pauline's desire to stand out didn't stop there.
Instead of the white dress, Pauline arrived at the wedding wearing a blue bikini beneath a sparkly, see-through mesh gown. The outfit, which left little to the imagination, certainly made a statement. Photos of Pauline posing confidently with her daughter and the other wedding guests quickly made their way onto social media, where they became a hot topic of conversation.
Pauline’s outfit on her daughter’s wedding became a hot topic. Credit: Yiping News Network / Youtube
While Jin Cheng herself seemed unbothered by her mother's bold fashion choice, sharing a heartfelt photo of the newlyweds with their mothers and captioning it with a loving message, the online community had mixed reactions. Some labeled Pauline's attire as 'tacky' and 'outrageous,' with one commenter stating, 'I would not have allowed her anywhere near my photographer.' Others expressed that they would be 'fuming' if their mother turned up in such an outfit at their wedding.
The criticism didn't stop there. Accusations of 'attention-seeking' behavior and 'Main Character Syndrome' were thrown around, with many feeling that wearing a bikini to a wedding – regardless of how good one might look – was simply inappropriate. 'Mother or not, you cannot do this and expect people to NOT give you grief over it,' one person remarked.
On the flip side, there were those who defended Pauline's choice, suggesting that if you have the confidence and the physique, why not celebrate it? 'If you've got it, flaunt it,' one supporter commented, while another joked, 'If I looked like that at 57, I might also want to run around mostly naked all the time.'
This incident raises interesting questions about wedding etiquette and the evolving nature of what's considered acceptable at such events. It also highlights the generational differences in attitudes towards self-expression and the importance of adhering to traditions.
For our readers at the Seniors Discount Club, we'd love to hear your thoughts. What's your take on wedding attire etiquette? Should there be a limit to self-expression at such events, or is it time to embrace a more modern, anything-goes approach? Have you ever witnessed a wedding guest who perhaps took the spotlight a little too far? Share your stories and opinions in the comments below – we're all ears!
And remember, while fashion and customs may change, the essence of a wedding – celebrating love and family – remains timeless. Whether you're the bride, the groom, or a guest, it's all about contributing to the joy of the occasion. Let's make sure we're all doing our part to keep the focus on the happy couple on their special day.
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unbelievable, yes the world is changing and we all need to keep up with the changes and of course everyone is intituled to self expression. But l am sorry to me this mother is an embarrassment. A wedding is such a special event and it's the wedding parties day to shine. I feel this mother might like to be the centre of attention. And of course being of Asian decent, children are very respectful of their parents.
