You Won't Believe the Culture Shock Americans Experience Down Under: Find Out What's Creeping Them Out!

When Americans venture to the land of Oz, they expect to encounter some differences—the charming accent, the love for Vegemite, and perhaps the laid-back lifestyle. But what they might not anticipate is the cultural nuances that can leave them feeling like they've stepped into an alternate universe. One such revelation has recently taken the internet by storm, and it's all about a nursery rhyme and the creepy crawlers that feature in it.


Texas local Tara Lappan, who moved to Australia to be with her Aussie husband, experienced a culture shock that's both amusing and a little unsettling. While singing the classic 'Itsy-Bitsy Spider' to her baby, she noticed her husband's interpretation of the spider was, well, significantly larger than what she was used to. Instead of the thumb and index finger gesture familiar to many Americans, her husband used his thumb and pinky, mimicking the size of Australia's infamous huntsman spiders.


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Tara Lappan showed in a her and her husband's approach when singing the children's song 'Incy Wincy Spider'. Image Credit: TikTok/Tara Lappan


The moment was a lightbulb one for Tara, as she realised that the gesture made perfect sense in the Australian context, where spiders can be as big as a hand or even larger. Her discomfort was palpable as she joked about the size of the spiders in her new home, and it's a sentiment that many newcomers to Australia can relate to.


Tara's video quickly went viral, sparking a lively debate among viewers. Many Australians chimed in to correct her, pointing out that the nursery rhyme is known as 'Incy Wincy Spider' in Australia, not 'Itsy-Bitsy'. This sparked a minor debate, with a few insisting that 'Itsy Bitsy' was the term they grew up with. Others discussed the hand gestures used for the rhyme, with some saying they used the thumb to index finger to form a diamond shape, while others confirmed the thumb to pinky method.

The discussion wasn't just limited to Australians. New Zealanders also joined in, sharing that they too use larger hand movements for the song, reflecting the reality of the larger arachnids in their part of the world.

Tara's follow-up video delved deeper into the little cultural differences that fascinate her, highlighting how even the simplest childhood songs can reveal so much about a country's unique characteristics.


For our members at the Seniors Discount Club, this story might bring back memories of your own experiences with cultural differences, whether during travels or when meeting people from other parts of the world. It's a reminder that what we consider 'normal' can be quite unusual to someone else.

And let's not forget the spiders. Australia is known for its diverse and, at times, intimidating wildlife. The huntsman spider, while generally harmless to humans, can be a startling sight for those not accustomed to sharing their space with such sizeable creatures.

Watch Tara's video here:

Source: @TexaninAustralia/TikTok

So, dear members, have you had any similar culture shock experiences? Perhaps with the local wildlife or with seemingly innocuous traditions that turned out to be quite different from what you were used to? Share your stories in the comments below – we'd love to hear about the moments that made you chuckle, squirm, or simply say, 'Only in Australia!'

Key Takeaways

  • An American woman living in Australia experienced a culture shock regarding the size of spiders reflected in the nursery rhyme actions for 'Incy Wincy spider.'
  • She noticed her Australian husband used much larger hand gestures, resembling the size of Australian huntsman spiders, compared to her own.
  • The revelation sparked debate on social media about the correct wording and hand gestures for the nursery rhyme, with most Australians confirming 'Incy Wincy' as the local variant.
  • The woman's video went viral, highlighting cultural differences even in simple children's songs, and prompting contributions from New Zealanders as well, where big hand movements for the song are also common.
Remember, embracing these differences is part of the adventure of life, and who knows, you might just find yourself singing about 'Incy Wincy' spiders with the grandkids, complete with the grand hand gestures that come with living Down Under.
 
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Well we don't have big bears attacking our cars and taking our food! Get real!
Or Get used to it! Been in Australia for over 50 years and coming from quaint (ish) England, the stories I was given would give you a permanent perm.
Yet, I have encountered one brown snake the hooded variety, we stood stock still and off he went, 6 dead red bellied snakes over a fence, cane toads, a trap door spider, millions of mozzies, chased by a herd of cattle, butted by a goat and knocked to the ground by a horse, I love it here out in the Wild West, where she ought to have visited before emigrating.
Get a life, a real one!
 
What makes America and Americans the BE ALL AND END ALL of this world?? Get a life - go home if you don’t like it here, cannot adapt, and only want to put yourself in the top seat.

There are many differences between peoples of the world, their lives and everyone else in every other country. AND why is Australia starting to use Americanisms ? This is Australia and should remain Australia.

I have been a migrant to this country (since 1965 as a young , very young, adult) but this is my country and I go with the flow, except the incorrect use of pronunciations and I will admit that is my pet hate. I accepted this way of life in 1965 so anyone coming here should do so also & leave your country’s habits etc behind if you come here. Get a life lady!
 
What makes America and Americans the BE ALL AND END ALL of this world?? Get a life - go home if you don’t like it here, cannot adapt, and only want to put yourself in the top seat.

There are many differences between peoples of the world, their lives and everyone else in every other country. AND why is Australia starting to use Americanisms ? This is Australia and should remain Australia.

I have been a migrant to this country (since 1965 as a young , very young, adult) but this is my country and I go with the flow, except the incorrect use of pronunciations and I will admit that is my pet hate. I accepted this way of life in 1965 so anyone coming here should do so also & leave your country’s habits etc behind if you come here. Get a life lady!
Well said. The government should hire you to educate all those relocating to our country
 
I am an ex music teacher, and after many years of teaching students 'fun' songs', I was certainly reminded by many students and staff in recent years, that there were many rhymes and songs I could not use - like it is not Baa baa black sheep - "that is racist" - sorry, but I have not seen a rainbow sheep????. I remember singing a song to young students such as 'MRS. White had a fright in the middle of the night.......', and a parent complained, why did I not sing about MR. White. All I could remember was my answer to say that MR. White 'may have passed away?????????.

Also 'kookaburra sits in the old gum tree .......gay your life must be - was told the word gay was inappropriate - I did not want to change the word to glad or happy, as students would mention I was not singing the right words.?????? Oh, I could tell some interesting stories, how lyrics of songs are not allowed to be taught in schools due to political issues.

Let us face the fact - has anyone queried why two bananas in pyjamas were coming down the stairs?????? Thoughts are endless - Ha Ha! That is my joke of the day. Such a shame.

Regards, Jean B.
 
Ive read in an American friends fb page that they would never come to Australia because of the snakes and spiders that might kill you. Well at least we can go hiking in the bush without the fear of bear attacks. Go to Yosemite and they have steel lockers that campers have to put their food in. Videos of Bears pulling cars apart to get the food inside.
Our pets are safe from cougars and mountain lions. Our bins are safe from black bears and racoons!
 
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Or Get used to it! Been in Australia for over 50 years and coming from quaint (ish) England, the stories I was given would give you a permanent perm.
Yet, I have encountered one brown snake the hooded variety, we stood stock still and off he went, 6 dead red bellied snakes over a fence, cane toads, a trap door spider, millions of mozzies, chased by a herd of cattle, butted by a goat and knocked to the ground by a horse, I love it here out in the Wild West, where she ought to have visited before emigrating.
Get a life, a real one!
I will not cease from Mental Fight,
Nor shall my Sword sleep in my hand:
Till we have built Jerusalem,
In England's green & pleasant Land.

William Blake
 

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