[James Gutierrez]

Woman finds out her husband slept with her sister during their “break” from marriage: “I just broke down crying”​

Sharing on the forum site Reddit, one woman recalled the story of how she discovered her husband slept with one of her sisters while they were on a “break” from their marriage.

“I just broke down crying. I told him he was a terrible human being, and I didn't even want to look at him,” she said.

However, after hearing the full story, hundreds of users expressed mixed reactions, saying that the husband was not the only one at fault in this situation.

Keep on reading to know their story.

The woman’s husband accused her of having an affair. Credit: Getty Images.
​

The woman’s marriage with her husband, Dave, began taking a turn for the worse when she started getting close to one of their mutual friends, Chris.

Chris is one of the woman’s colleagues at work. “A really sweet guy and we got along very well. We went out to lunch together, we'd hit the bar after work, he was just a great guy to work with,” she said.

One day, Chris had an extra ticket for a baseball and he invited the woman. It was her favourite baseball team and she was itching to go for a long time, so she said yes.

Knowing that Dave would be angry she went with Chris, she lied and told him she had work that day.

“We went to the game and had a great time. Yes, I know I'm wrong for lying to him, and I regret that I did that,” she said.

​

When she got home, she was surprised to find that Dave actually knew where she was. Turns out, he was tracking her location using her phone, and it showed that she was not at work but at a baseball game.

“It was a big thing,” said the woman. “I was so angry that he stalked me. It was such a violation of my privacy. He didn't see it as controlling.”

“He accused me of having an affair and told me he wanted me to promise not to see Chris again. I told him he was being ridiculous and told him that I wasn't going to do that.”

“He slept on the couch that night and in the morning, I told him I wanted a separation. I told him I felt smothered, that I needed him to trust me and that we both needed space,” she continued.

After the tracking incident, the couple took some time away from each other. During this period, the woman did date Chris for a few months, but she never really found the “long term compatibility” that she was seeking.

The woman and her husband took some time apart from each other. Credit: Getty Images/Westend61.
​

After a major problem struck the woman’s family, she and Dave have reunited again. After being apart for nine months, the two of them decided to give things another try.

“I moved back in, we discussed boundaries,” said the woman. “I asked if he was with anyone when we were apart, he said he had one partner.”

She admitted being surprised that her husband dated another person while they were apart, since “he was never much of a dater”. But since she also dated one person as well, she brushed it off.

Things had been going great so far, until one weekend when the woman learned a shocking truth. Turns out, the person that her husband “dated” while they were on a break was her sister, with whom she had a strained relationship.

“I never thought she'd cross that line.” So, she confronted her husband.

The husband admitted that the woman’s sister was the one person he was with during their “break”.

“I just broke down crying, told him he was a terrible human being, and I didn't even want to look at him,” she said.

However, she was stunned when her husband responded.

The husband said he would agree that he was a terrible person if only she could tell him that the person she was with during their “break” wasn't Chris.

At this point, the woman was left speechless. The husband simply nodded and said, “That's what I thought!”

​

The woman reasoned that there would never be anything between her and Chris if only Dave didn’t make all those accusations against her.

Dave replied: “You were going to do what you did with Chris no matter what and say it was my fault. Whether I said something or not.”

Now, the woman’s asking for opinions because she doesn’t know how to move forward knowing that her husband slept with her sister for revenge.

“One minute I want to forgive him and move forward and the next I never want to see him again. He refuses to accept that what he did was wrong, and says that we were separated and both lived our lives,” she said.

“What do I even do here? I don't think I want a divorce, but I can't stand to look at him right now.”

The woman wants to forgive her husband, but she can’t forget that he slept with her sister for revenge. Credit: Westend61/Getty Images/Westend61.
​

The woman’s post gained a ton of attention on the forum site, with hundreds of Reddit users commenting and expressing their opinions.

However, she probably never expected that most of them would criticise her instead.

One user wrote: “So you lied to your husband, you were basically going on dates with Chris already, then during separation, you actually dated Chris.”

“Sounds like you weren’t respecting your marriage or your husband’s feelings.”

A second user said: “So you had an emotional affair, and soon as you and your husband broke up (he was right about you guys, by the way), you start dating Chris.”

“Yeah, he's TOTALLY the bad guy here.” The user said sarcastically.

On the other hand, most users also called out the husband for sleeping with his wife’s sister.

One user said: “Sleeping with my sister would be a deal-breaker, no matter what.”

Another added: “There are billions of other people in the world they could have slept with, but they had to choose their spouse’s sibling. Just gross.”

Many in the comments section expressed that every person involved in the story is in the wrong, and the couple are “better off without each other”.

“Every single one of these people needs therapy and a good smack,” said one user.

What are your thoughts?

Should the woman leave her husband for good? Or was she also wrong for being involved with her coworker?

Let us know in the comments below!

 

[Brian]

Woman finds out her husband slept with her sister during their “break” from marriage: “I just broke down crying”​

Sharing on the forum site Reddit, one woman recalled the story of how she discovered her husband slept with one of her sisters while they were on a “break” from their marriage.

“I just broke down crying. I told him he was a terrible human being, and I didn't even want to look at him,” she said.

However, after hearing the full story, hundreds of users expressed mixed reactions, saying that the husband was not the only one at fault in this situation.

Keep on reading to know their story.

The woman’s husband accused her of having an affair. Credit: Getty Images.
​

The woman’s marriage with her husband, Dave, began taking a turn for the worse when she started getting close to one of their mutual friends, Chris.

Chris is one of the woman’s colleagues at work. “A really sweet guy and we got along very well. We went out to lunch together, we'd hit the bar after work, he was just a great guy to work with,” she said.

One day, Chris had an extra ticket for a baseball and he invited the woman. It was her favourite baseball team and she was itching to go for a long time, so she said yes.

Knowing that Dave would be angry she went with Chris, she lied and told him she had work that day.

“We went to the game and had a great time. Yes, I know I'm wrong for lying to him, and I regret that I did that,” she said.

​

When she got home, she was surprised to find that Dave actually knew where she was. Turns out, he was tracking her location using her phone, and it showed that she was not at work but at a baseball game.

“It was a big thing,” said the woman. “I was so angry that he stalked me. It was such a violation of my privacy. He didn't see it as controlling.”

“He accused me of having an affair and told me he wanted me to promise not to see Chris again. I told him he was being ridiculous and told him that I wasn't going to do that.”

“He slept on the couch that night and in the morning, I told him I wanted a separation. I told him I felt smothered, that I needed him to trust me and that we both needed space,” she continued.

After the tracking incident, the couple took some time away from each other. During this period, the woman did date Chris for a few months, but she never really found the “long term compatibility” that she was seeking.

The woman and her husband took some time apart from each other. Credit: Getty Images/Westend61.
​

After a major problem struck the woman’s family, she and Dave have reunited again. After being apart for nine months, the two of them decided to give things another try.

“I moved back in, we discussed boundaries,” said the woman. “I asked if he was with anyone when we were apart, he said he had one partner.”

She admitted being surprised that her husband dated another person while they were apart, since “he was never much of a dater”. But since she also dated one person as well, she brushed it off.

Things had been going great so far, until one weekend when the woman learned a shocking truth. Turns out, the person that her husband “dated” while they were on a break was her sister, with whom she had a strained relationship.

“I never thought she'd cross that line.” So, she confronted her husband.

The husband admitted that the woman’s sister was the one person he was with during their “break”.

“I just broke down crying, told him he was a terrible human being, and I didn't even want to look at him,” she said.

However, she was stunned when her husband responded.

The husband said he would agree that he was a terrible person if only she could tell him that the person she was with during their “break” wasn't Chris.

At this point, the woman was left speechless. The husband simply nodded and said, “That's what I thought!”

​

The woman reasoned that there would never be anything between her and Chris if only Dave didn’t make all those accusations against her.

Dave replied: “You were going to do what you did with Chris no matter what and say it was my fault. Whether I said something or not.”

Now, the woman’s asking for opinions because she doesn’t know how to move forward knowing that her husband slept with her sister for revenge.

“One minute I want to forgive him and move forward and the next I never want to see him again. He refuses to accept that what he did was wrong, and says that we were separated and both lived our lives,” she said.

“What do I even do here? I don't think I want a divorce, but I can't stand to look at him right now.”

The woman wants to forgive her husband, but she can’t forget that he slept with her sister for revenge. Credit: Westend61/Getty Images/Westend61.
​

The woman’s post gained a ton of attention on the forum site, with hundreds of Reddit users commenting and expressing their opinions.

However, she probably never expected that most of them would criticise her instead.

One user wrote: “So you lied to your husband, you were basically going on dates with Chris already, then during separation, you actually dated Chris.”

“Sounds like you weren’t respecting your marriage or your husband’s feelings.”

A second user said: “So you had an emotional affair, and soon as you and your husband broke up (he was right about you guys, by the way), you start dating Chris.”

“Yeah, he's TOTALLY the bad guy here.” The user said sarcastically.

On the other hand, most users also called out the husband for sleeping with his wife’s sister.

One user said: “Sleeping with my sister would be a deal-breaker, no matter what.”

Another added: “There are billions of other people in the world they could have slept with, but they had to choose their spouse’s sibling. Just gross.”

Many in the comments section expressed that every person involved in the story is in the wrong, and the couple are “better off without each other”.

“Every single one of these people needs therapy and a good smack,” said one user.

What are your thoughts?

Should the woman leave her husband for good? Or was she also wrong for being involved with her coworker?

Let us know in the comments below!

Your old an is a root rat …the baker has fuck all to do with it he was answering ….. a customers inquiry ……pay pal paid from joint account ..wife is a customer

 

[Ricci]

They deserve each other!

 

[Dorothy Kay]

She was the dishonest one and started the slide better off rid off her mate she's going to blame you for everything

 

[BJM]

Woman finds out her husband slept with her sister during their “break” from marriage: “I just broke down crying”​

Sharing on the forum site Reddit, one woman recalled the story of how she discovered her husband slept with one of her sisters while they were on a “break” from their marriage.

“I just broke down crying. I told him he was a terrible human being, and I didn't even want to look at him,” she said.

However, after hearing the full story, hundreds of users expressed mixed reactions, saying that the husband was not the only one at fault in this situation.

Keep on reading to know their story.

The woman’s husband accused her of having an affair. Credit: Getty Images.
​

The woman’s marriage with her husband, Dave, began taking a turn for the worse when she started getting close to one of their mutual friends, Chris.

Chris is one of the woman’s colleagues at work. “A really sweet guy and we got along very well. We went out to lunch together, we'd hit the bar after work, he was just a great guy to work with,” she said.

One day, Chris had an extra ticket for a baseball and he invited the woman. It was her favourite baseball team and she was itching to go for a long time, so she said yes.

Knowing that Dave would be angry she went with Chris, she lied and told him she had work that day.

“We went to the game and had a great time. Yes, I know I'm wrong for lying to him, and I regret that I did that,” she said.

​

When she got home, she was surprised to find that Dave actually knew where she was. Turns out, he was tracking her location using her phone, and it showed that she was not at work but at a baseball game.

“It was a big thing,” said the woman. “I was so angry that he stalked me. It was such a violation of my privacy. He didn't see it as controlling.”

“He accused me of having an affair and told me he wanted me to promise not to see Chris again. I told him he was being ridiculous and told him that I wasn't going to do that.”

“He slept on the couch that night and in the morning, I told him I wanted a separation. I told him I felt smothered, that I needed him to trust me and that we both needed space,” she continued.

After the tracking incident, the couple took some time away from each other. During this period, the woman did date Chris for a few months, but she never really found the “long term compatibility” that she was seeking.

The woman and her husband took some time apart from each other. Credit: Getty Images/Westend61.
​

After a major problem struck the woman’s family, she and Dave have reunited again. After being apart for nine months, the two of them decided to give things another try.

“I moved back in, we discussed boundaries,” said the woman. “I asked if he was with anyone when we were apart, he said he had one partner.”

She admitted being surprised that her husband dated another person while they were apart, since “he was never much of a dater”. But since she also dated one person as well, she brushed it off.

Things had been going great so far, until one weekend when the woman learned a shocking truth. Turns out, the person that her husband “dated” while they were on a break was her sister, with whom she had a strained relationship.

“I never thought she'd cross that line.” So, she confronted her husband.

The husband admitted that the woman’s sister was the one person he was with during their “break”.

“I just broke down crying, told him he was a terrible human being, and I didn't even want to look at him,” she said.

However, she was stunned when her husband responded.

The husband said he would agree that he was a terrible person if only she could tell him that the person she was with during their “break” wasn't Chris.

At this point, the woman was left speechless. The husband simply nodded and said, “That's what I thought!”

​

The woman reasoned that there would never be anything between her and Chris if only Dave didn’t make all those accusations against her.

Dave replied: “You were going to do what you did with Chris no matter what and say it was my fault. Whether I said something or not.”

Now, the woman’s asking for opinions because she doesn’t know how to move forward knowing that her husband slept with her sister for revenge.

“One minute I want to forgive him and move forward and the next I never want to see him again. He refuses to accept that what he did was wrong, and says that we were separated and both lived our lives,” she said.

“What do I even do here? I don't think I want a divorce, but I can't stand to look at him right now.”

The woman wants to forgive her husband, but she can’t forget that he slept with her sister for revenge. Credit: Westend61/Getty Images/Westend61.
​

The woman’s post gained a ton of attention on the forum site, with hundreds of Reddit users commenting and expressing their opinions.

However, she probably never expected that most of them would criticise her instead.

One user wrote: “So you lied to your husband, you were basically going on dates with Chris already, then during separation, you actually dated Chris.”

“Sounds like you weren’t respecting your marriage or your husband’s feelings.”

A second user said: “So you had an emotional affair, and soon as you and your husband broke up (he was right about you guys, by the way), you start dating Chris.”

“Yeah, he's TOTALLY the bad guy here.” The user said sarcastically.

On the other hand, most users also called out the husband for sleeping with his wife’s sister.

One user said: “Sleeping with my sister would be a deal-breaker, no matter what.”

Another added: “There are billions of other people in the world they could have slept with, but they had to choose their spouse’s sibling. Just gross.”

Many in the comments section expressed that every person involved in the story is in the wrong, and the couple are “better off without each other”.

“Every single one of these people needs therapy and a good smack,” said one user.

What are your thoughts?

Should the woman leave her husband for good? Or was she also wrong for being involved with her coworker?

Let us know in the comments below!

She should not have lied. The husband had no right to instal a tracker in her phone (could be deemed as stalking but definitely an invasion of her privacy). The sister is a low life and obviously desperate for a man that she would stoop so low.

 

[terri]

There is no mention of the sister's part in this. If the sisters had a strained relationship, perhaps the sister was able to manipulate the husband at a time he was feeling low. A way of hurting her sister. Often men seek physical comfort before they assess a situation. There are no right parties here. A bit of couseling may be needed.

 

[Rota Williams]

Woman finds out her husband slept with her sister during their “break” from marriage: “I just broke down crying”​

Sharing on the forum site Reddit, one woman recalled the story of how she discovered her husband slept with one of her sisters while they were on a “break” from their marriage.

“I just broke down crying. I told him he was a terrible human being, and I didn't even want to look at him,” she said.

However, after hearing the full story, hundreds of users expressed mixed reactions, saying that the husband was not the only one at fault in this situation.

Keep on reading to know their story.

The woman’s husband accused her of having an affair. Credit: Getty Images.
​

The woman’s marriage with her husband, Dave, began taking a turn for the worse when she started getting close to one of their mutual friends, Chris.

Chris is one of the woman’s colleagues at work. “A really sweet guy and we got along very well. We went out to lunch together, we'd hit the bar after work, he was just a great guy to work with,” she said.

One day, Chris had an extra ticket for a baseball and he invited the woman. It was her favourite baseball team and she was itching to go for a long time, so she said yes.

Knowing that Dave would be angry she went with Chris, she lied and told him she had work that day.

“We went to the game and had a great time. Yes, I know I'm wrong for lying to him, and I regret that I did that,” she said.

​

When she got home, she was surprised to find that Dave actually knew where she was. Turns out, he was tracking her location using her phone, and it showed that she was not at work but at a baseball game.

“It was a big thing,” said the woman. “I was so angry that he stalked me. It was such a violation of my privacy. He didn't see it as controlling.”

“He accused me of having an affair and told me he wanted me to promise not to see Chris again. I told him he was being ridiculous and told him that I wasn't going to do that.”

“He slept on the couch that night and in the morning, I told him I wanted a separation. I told him I felt smothered, that I needed him to trust me and that we both needed space,” she continued.

After the tracking incident, the couple took some time away from each other. During this period, the woman did date Chris for a few months, but she never really found the “long term compatibility” that she was seeking.

The woman and her husband took some time apart from each other. Credit: Getty Images/Westend61.
​

After a major problem struck the woman’s family, she and Dave have reunited again. After being apart for nine months, the two of them decided to give things another try.

“I moved back in, we discussed boundaries,” said the woman. “I asked if he was with anyone when we were apart, he said he had one partner.”

She admitted being surprised that her husband dated another person while they were apart, since “he was never much of a dater”. But since she also dated one person as well, she brushed it off.

Things had been going great so far, until one weekend when the woman learned a shocking truth. Turns out, the person that her husband “dated” while they were on a break was her sister, with whom she had a strained relationship.

“I never thought she'd cross that line.” So, she confronted her husband.

The husband admitted that the woman’s sister was the one person he was with during their “break”.

“I just broke down crying, told him he was a terrible human being, and I didn't even want to look at him,” she said.

However, she was stunned when her husband responded.

The husband said he would agree that he was a terrible person if only she could tell him that the person she was with during their “break” wasn't Chris.

At this point, the woman was left speechless. The husband simply nodded and said, “That's what I thought!”

​

The woman reasoned that there would never be anything between her and Chris if only Dave didn’t make all those accusations against her.

Dave replied: “You were going to do what you did with Chris no matter what and say it was my fault. Whether I said something or not.”

Now, the woman’s asking for opinions because she doesn’t know how to move forward knowing that her husband slept with her sister for revenge.

“One minute I want to forgive him and move forward and the next I never want to see him again. He refuses to accept that what he did was wrong, and says that we were separated and both lived our lives,” she said.

“What do I even do here? I don't think I want a divorce, but I can't stand to look at him right now.”

The woman wants to forgive her husband, but she can’t forget that he slept with her sister for revenge. Credit: Westend61/Getty Images/Westend61.
​

The woman’s post gained a ton of attention on the forum site, with hundreds of Reddit users commenting and expressing their opinions.

However, she probably never expected that most of them would criticise her instead.

One user wrote: “So you lied to your husband, you were basically going on dates with Chris already, then during separation, you actually dated Chris.”

“Sounds like you weren’t respecting your marriage or your husband’s feelings.”

A second user said: “So you had an emotional affair, and soon as you and your husband broke up (he was right about you guys, by the way), you start dating Chris.”

“Yeah, he's TOTALLY the bad guy here.” The user said sarcastically.

On the other hand, most users also called out the husband for sleeping with his wife’s sister.

One user said: “Sleeping with my sister would be a deal-breaker, no matter what.”

Another added: “There are billions of other people in the world they could have slept with, but they had to choose their spouse’s sibling. Just gross.”

Many in the comments section expressed that every person involved in the story is in the wrong, and the couple are “better off without each other”.

“Every single one of these people needs therapy and a good smack,” said one user.

What are your thoughts?

Should the woman leave her husband for good? Or was she also wrong for being involved with her coworker?

Let us know in the comments below!

Who was dishonest in first place?

 

[Allie1919]

She should take a good look at herself !! Try if the boot was on the other foot - if the husband had been ‘going to lunch, drinking at bars and going to baseball games with another woman - and hid this and lied - what would she have done.????
I don’t blame him for ‘tracking’ his WIFE!!! She was cheating on him as a wife by lying and sneaking out with another guy.
What a way to treat him as a husband and partner.
Treat people as you would want to be treated!!! This girl wants her cake and to eat it too !!
She says ‘he was never one fir dating’ she never thought he would do what she did to him - thought she could wipe her feet on him and he would always take it!
She wanted to ‘have time apart’ so she could try a relationship with Chris- but wanted her husband to stay faithful and in the background so she could pick up again if the relationship with Chris didn’t work out. She wanted her husband on a string - just in case. What a terrible self centred woman!!!
He was free and he slept with someone else just like you - too bad it was with your sister !!! Sounds like you and your sister are both opportunistic!!!!
You reap what you see. Grow up!!!!! Wake up! This marriage is doomed!
I hope your husband finds happiness with a loyal faithful woman who will love and respect him!!!

 

[DrivingGirl]

This is just WRONG on SO many levels!!

 

[Willum2]

Woman finds out her husband slept with her sister during their “break” from marriage: “I just broke down crying”​

Sharing on the forum site Reddit, one woman recalled the story of how she discovered her husband slept with one of her sisters while they were on a “break” from their marriage.

“I just broke down crying. I told him he was a terrible human being, and I didn't even want to look at him,” she said.

However, after hearing the full story, hundreds of users expressed mixed reactions, saying that the husband was not the only one at fault in this situation.

Keep on reading to know their story.

The woman’s husband accused her of having an affair. Credit: Getty Images.
​

The woman’s marriage with her husband, Dave, began taking a turn for the worse when she started getting close to one of their mutual friends, Chris.

Chris is one of the woman’s colleagues at work. “A really sweet guy and we got along very well. We went out to lunch together, we'd hit the bar after work, he was just a great guy to work with,” she said.

One day, Chris had an extra ticket for a baseball and he invited the woman. It was her favourite baseball team and she was itching to go for a long time, so she said yes.

Knowing that Dave would be angry she went with Chris, she lied and told him she had work that day.

“We went to the game and had a great time. Yes, I know I'm wrong for lying to him, and I regret that I did that,” she said.

​

When she got home, she was surprised to find that Dave actually knew where she was. Turns out, he was tracking her location using her phone, and it showed that she was not at work but at a baseball game.

“It was a big thing,” said the woman. “I was so angry that he stalked me. It was such a violation of my privacy. He didn't see it as controlling.”

“He accused me of having an affair and told me he wanted me to promise not to see Chris again. I told him he was being ridiculous and told him that I wasn't going to do that.”

“He slept on the couch that night and in the morning, I told him I wanted a separation. I told him I felt smothered, that I needed him to trust me and that we both needed space,” she continued.

After the tracking incident, the couple took some time away from each other. During this period, the woman did date Chris for a few months, but she never really found the “long term compatibility” that she was seeking.

The woman and her husband took some time apart from each other. Credit: Getty Images/Westend61.
​

After a major problem struck the woman’s family, she and Dave have reunited again. After being apart for nine months, the two of them decided to give things another try.

“I moved back in, we discussed boundaries,” said the woman. “I asked if he was with anyone when we were apart, he said he had one partner.”

She admitted being surprised that her husband dated another person while they were apart, since “he was never much of a dater”. But since she also dated one person as well, she brushed it off.

Things had been going great so far, until one weekend when the woman learned a shocking truth. Turns out, the person that her husband “dated” while they were on a break was her sister, with whom she had a strained relationship.

“I never thought she'd cross that line.” So, she confronted her husband.

The husband admitted that the woman’s sister was the one person he was with during their “break”.

“I just broke down crying, told him he was a terrible human being, and I didn't even want to look at him,” she said.

However, she was stunned when her husband responded.

The husband said he would agree that he was a terrible person if only she could tell him that the person she was with during their “break” wasn't Chris.

At this point, the woman was left speechless. The husband simply nodded and said, “That's what I thought!”

​

The woman reasoned that there would never be anything between her and Chris if only Dave didn’t make all those accusations against her.

Dave replied: “You were going to do what you did with Chris no matter what and say it was my fault. Whether I said something or not.”

Now, the woman’s asking for opinions because she doesn’t know how to move forward knowing that her husband slept with her sister for revenge.

“One minute I want to forgive him and move forward and the next I never want to see him again. He refuses to accept that what he did was wrong, and says that we were separated and both lived our lives,” she said.

“What do I even do here? I don't think I want a divorce, but I can't stand to look at him right now.”

The woman wants to forgive her husband, but she can’t forget that he slept with her sister for revenge. Credit: Westend61/Getty Images/Westend61.
​

The woman’s post gained a ton of attention on the forum site, with hundreds of Reddit users commenting and expressing their opinions.

However, she probably never expected that most of them would criticise her instead.

One user wrote: “So you lied to your husband, you were basically going on dates with Chris already, then during separation, you actually dated Chris.”

“Sounds like you weren’t respecting your marriage or your husband’s feelings.”

A second user said: “So you had an emotional affair, and soon as you and your husband broke up (he was right about you guys, by the way), you start dating Chris.”

“Yeah, he's TOTALLY the bad guy here.” The user said sarcastically.

On the other hand, most users also called out the husband for sleeping with his wife’s sister.

One user said: “Sleeping with my sister would be a deal-breaker, no matter what.”

Another added: “There are billions of other people in the world they could have slept with, but they had to choose their spouse’s sibling. Just gross.”

Many in the comments section expressed that every person involved in the story is in the wrong, and the couple are “better off without each other”.

“Every single one of these people needs therapy and a good smack,” said one user.

What are your thoughts?

Should the woman leave her husband for good? Or was she also wrong for being involved with her coworker?

Let us know in the comments below!

Both at fault- splut, u prob never get trust back- not that either had before? Dplit??

 

[Leeta069]

She should take a good look at herself !! Try if the boot was on the other foot - if the husband had been ‘going to lunch, drinking at bars and going to baseball games with another woman - and hid this and lied - what would she have done.????
I don’t blame him for ‘tracking’ his WIFE!!! She was cheating on him as a wife by lying and sneaking out with another guy.
What a way to treat him as a husband and partner.
Treat people as you would want to be treated!!! This girl wants her cake and to eat it too !!
She says ‘he was never one fir dating’ she never thought he would do what she did to him - thought she could wipe her feet on him and he would always take it!
She wanted to ‘have time apart’ so she could try a relationship with Chris- but wanted her husband to stay faithful and in the background so she could pick up again if the relationship with Chris didn’t work out. She wanted her husband on a string - just in case. What a terrible self centred woman!!!
He was free and he slept with someone else just like you - too bad it was with your sister !!! Sounds like you and your sister are both opportunistic!!!!
You reap what you see. Grow up!!!!! Wake up! This marriage is doomed!
I hope your husband finds happiness with a loyal faithful woman who will love and respect him!!!

100% agree with everything you said!!!

 

[Groovy]

What a bunch of disloyal, immoral people!! How could they done such thing to each other?? Very disgusting

 

[MarieT]

Your old an is a root rat …the baker has fuck all to do with it he was answering ….. a customers inquiry ……pay pal paid from joint account ..wife is a customer

Woman finds out her husband slept with her sister during their “break” from marriage: “I just broke down crying”​

Sharing on the forum site Reddit, one woman recalled the story of how she discovered her husband slept with one of her sisters while they were on a “break” from their marriage.

“I just broke down crying. I told him he was a terrible human being, and I didn't even want to look at him,” she said.

However, after hearing the full story, hundreds of users expressed mixed reactions, saying that the husband was not the only one at fault in this situation.

Keep on reading to know their story.

The woman’s husband accused her of having an affair. Credit: Getty Images.
​

The woman’s marriage with her husband, Dave, began taking a turn for the worse when she started getting close to one of their mutual friends, Chris.

Chris is one of the woman’s colleagues at work. “A really sweet guy and we got along very well. We went out to lunch together, we'd hit the bar after work, he was just a great guy to work with,” she said.

One day, Chris had an extra ticket for a baseball and he invited the woman. It was her favourite baseball team and she was itching to go for a long time, so she said yes.

Knowing that Dave would be angry she went with Chris, she lied and told him she had work that day.

“We went to the game and had a great time. Yes, I know I'm wrong for lying to him, and I regret that I did that,” she said.

​

When she got home, she was surprised to find that Dave actually knew where she was. Turns out, he was tracking her location using her phone, and it showed that she was not at work but at a baseball game.

“It was a big thing,” said the woman. “I was so angry that he stalked me. It was such a violation of my privacy. He didn't see it as controlling.”

“He accused me of having an affair and told me he wanted me to promise not to see Chris again. I told him he was being ridiculous and told him that I wasn't going to do that.”

“He slept on the couch that night and in the morning, I told him I wanted a separation. I told him I felt smothered, that I needed him to trust me and that we both needed space,” she continued.

After the tracking incident, the couple took some time away from each other. During this period, the woman did date Chris for a few months, but she never really found the “long term compatibility” that she was seeking.

The woman and her husband took some time apart from each other. Credit: Getty Images/Westend61.
​

After a major problem struck the woman’s family, she and Dave have reunited again. After being apart for nine months, the two of them decided to give things another try.

“I moved back in, we discussed boundaries,” said the woman. “I asked if he was with anyone when we were apart, he said he had one partner.”

She admitted being surprised that her husband dated another person while they were apart, since “he was never much of a dater”. But since she also dated one person as well, she brushed it off.

Things had been going great so far, until one weekend when the woman learned a shocking truth. Turns out, the person that her husband “dated” while they were on a break was her sister, with whom she had a strained relationship.

“I never thought she'd cross that line.” So, she confronted her husband.

The husband admitted that the woman’s sister was the one person he was with during their “break”.

“I just broke down crying, told him he was a terrible human being, and I didn't even want to look at him,” she said.

However, she was stunned when her husband responded.

The husband said he would agree that he was a terrible person if only she could tell him that the person she was with during their “break” wasn't Chris.

At this point, the woman was left speechless. The husband simply nodded and said, “That's what I thought!”

​

The woman reasoned that there would never be anything between her and Chris if only Dave didn’t make all those accusations against her.

Dave replied: “You were going to do what you did with Chris no matter what and say it was my fault. Whether I said something or not.”

Now, the woman’s asking for opinions because she doesn’t know how to move forward knowing that her husband slept with her sister for revenge.

“One minute I want to forgive him and move forward and the next I never want to see him again. He refuses to accept that what he did was wrong, and says that we were separated and both lived our lives,” she said.

“What do I even do here? I don't think I want a divorce, but I can't stand to look at him right now.”

The woman wants to forgive her husband, but she can’t forget that he slept with her sister for revenge. Credit: Westend61/Getty Images/Westend61.
​

The woman’s post gained a ton of attention on the forum site, with hundreds of Reddit users commenting and expressing their opinions.

However, she probably never expected that most of them would criticise her instead.

One user wrote: “So you lied to your husband, you were basically going on dates with Chris already, then during separation, you actually dated Chris.”

“Sounds like you weren’t respecting your marriage or your husband’s feelings.”

A second user said: “So you had an emotional affair, and soon as you and your husband broke up (he was right about you guys, by the way), you start dating Chris.”

“Yeah, he's TOTALLY the bad guy here.” The user said sarcastically.

On the other hand, most users also called out the husband for sleeping with his wife’s sister.

One user said: “Sleeping with my sister would be a deal-breaker, no matter what.”

Another added: “There are billions of other people in the world they could have slept with, but they had to choose their spouse’s sibling. Just gross.”

Many in the comments section expressed that every person involved in the story is in the wrong, and the couple are “better off without each other”.

“Every single one of these people needs therapy and a good smack,” said one user.

What are your thoughts?

Should the woman leave her husband for good? Or was she also wrong for being involved with her coworker?

Let us know in the comments below!

I didn’t get to read the full story as it was turning into a soap opera !

 

[Maaaaaa]

Why are people blaming the guy, he is the innocent one here, they where split up for "9" months at "her" request, not his. Whom he sleeps with is not the point, the point is they where not together, she was out with her new boyfriend and if it had worked out, poor Dave would be still alone and she would not of given a rats A--e who he was with, but I didn't and she playing victim, get rid of her Dave, she will only do it to you again. a Leopard never changes it's spots

 

[Dot]

I think the woman should never have asked for advice from the public. I also think we should all mind our own business and make no comment.

 

[Robbo128]

Are these people from MAFS?

 

[Jennifer Anne Simpson]

Woman finds out her husband slept with her sister during their “break” from marriage: “I just broke down crying”​

Sharing on the forum site Reddit, one woman recalled the story of how she discovered her husband slept with one of her sisters while they were on a “break” from their marriage.

“I just broke down crying. I told him he was a terrible human being, and I didn't even want to look at him,” she said.

However, after hearing the full story, hundreds of users expressed mixed reactions, saying that the husband was not the only one at fault in this situation.

Keep on reading to know their story.

The woman’s husband accused her of having an affair. Credit: Getty Images.
​

The woman’s marriage with her husband, Dave, began taking a turn for the worse when she started getting close to one of their mutual friends, Chris.

Chris is one of the woman’s colleagues at work. “A really sweet guy and we got along very well. We went out to lunch together, we'd hit the bar after work, he was just a great guy to work with,” she said.

One day, Chris had an extra ticket for a baseball and he invited the woman. It was her favourite baseball team and she was itching to go for a long time, so she said yes.

Knowing that Dave would be angry she went with Chris, she lied and told him she had work that day.

“We went to the game and had a great time. Yes, I know I'm wrong for lying to him, and I regret that I did that,” she said.

​

When she got home, she was surprised to find that Dave actually knew where she was. Turns out, he was tracking her location using her phone, and it showed that she was not at work but at a baseball game.

“It was a big thing,” said the woman. “I was so angry that he stalked me. It was such a violation of my privacy. He didn't see it as controlling.”

“He accused me of having an affair and told me he wanted me to promise not to see Chris again. I told him he was being ridiculous and told him that I wasn't going to do that.”

“He slept on the couch that night and in the morning, I told him I wanted a separation. I told him I felt smothered, that I needed him to trust me and that we both needed space,” she continued.

After the tracking incident, the couple took some time away from each other. During this period, the woman did date Chris for a few months, but she never really found the “long term compatibility” that she was seeking.

The woman and her husband took some time apart from each other. Credit: Getty Images/Westend61.
​

After a major problem struck the woman’s family, she and Dave have reunited again. After being apart for nine months, the two of them decided to give things another try.

“I moved back in, we discussed boundaries,” said the woman. “I asked if he was with anyone when we were apart, he said he had one partner.”

She admitted being surprised that her husband dated another person while they were apart, since “he was never much of a dater”. But since she also dated one person as well, she brushed it off.

Things had been going great so far, until one weekend when the woman learned a shocking truth. Turns out, the person that her husband “dated” while they were on a break was her sister, with whom she had a strained relationship.

“I never thought she'd cross that line.” So, she confronted her husband.

The husband admitted that the woman’s sister was the one person he was with during their “break”.

“I just broke down crying, told him he was a terrible human being, and I didn't even want to look at him,” she said.

However, she was stunned when her husband responded.

The husband said he would agree that he was a terrible person if only she could tell him that the person she was with during their “break” wasn't Chris.

At this point, the woman was left speechless. The husband simply nodded and said, “That's what I thought!”

​

The woman reasoned that there would never be anything between her and Chris if only Dave didn’t make all those accusations against her.

Dave replied: “You were going to do what you did with Chris no matter what and say it was my fault. Whether I said something or not.”

Now, the woman’s asking for opinions because she doesn’t know how to move forward knowing that her husband slept with her sister for revenge.

“One minute I want to forgive him and move forward and the next I never want to see him again. He refuses to accept that what he did was wrong, and says that we were separated and both lived our lives,” she said.

“What do I even do here? I don't think I want a divorce, but I can't stand to look at him right now.”

The woman wants to forgive her husband, but she can’t forget that he slept with her sister for revenge. Credit: Westend61/Getty Images/Westend61.
​

The woman’s post gained a ton of attention on the forum site, with hundreds of Reddit users commenting and expressing their opinions.

However, she probably never expected that most of them would criticise her instead.

One user wrote: “So you lied to your husband, you were basically going on dates with Chris already, then during separation, you actually dated Chris.”

“Sounds like you weren’t respecting your marriage or your husband’s feelings.”

A second user said: “So you had an emotional affair, and soon as you and your husband broke up (he was right about you guys, by the way), you start dating Chris.”

“Yeah, he's TOTALLY the bad guy here.” The user said sarcastically.

On the other hand, most users also called out the husband for sleeping with his wife’s sister.

One user said: “Sleeping with my sister would be a deal-breaker, no matter what.”

Another added: “There are billions of other people in the world they could have slept with, but they had to choose their spouse’s sibling. Just gross.”

Many in the comments section expressed that every person involved in the story is in the wrong, and the couple are “better off without each other”.

“Every single one of these people needs therapy and a good smack,” said one user.

What are your thoughts?

Should the woman leave her husband for good? Or was she also wrong for being involved with her coworker?

Let us know in the comments below!

 

[Jennifer Anne Simpson]

I tend to agree with the reader who thought they were all at fault to some degree.
A rather messed up lot of supposed adults who could perhaps do well to have a good look at themselves.

 

[dale100]

She should not have lied. The husband had no right to instal a tracker in her phone (could be deemed as stalking but definitely an invasion of her privacy). The sister is a low life and obviously desperate for a man that she would stoop so low.

It’s impossible to “ track” anyone unless that person has given permission!! It can’t work otherwise!! Basic tech! This whole story is a crock!!

 

[lozat54]

Woman finds out her husband slept with her sister during their “break” from marriage: “I just broke down crying”​

Sharing on the forum site Reddit, one woman recalled the story of how she discovered her husband slept with one of her sisters while they were on a “break” from their marriage.

“I just broke down crying. I told him he was a terrible human being, and I didn't even want to look at him,” she said.

However, after hearing the full story, hundreds of users expressed mixed reactions, saying that the husband was not the only one at fault in this situation.

Keep on reading to know their story.

The woman’s husband accused her of having an affair. Credit: Getty Images.
​

The woman’s marriage with her husband, Dave, began taking a turn for the worse when she started getting close to one of their mutual friends, Chris.

Chris is one of the woman’s colleagues at work. “A really sweet guy and we got along very well. We went out to lunch together, we'd hit the bar after work, he was just a great guy to work with,” she said.

One day, Chris had an extra ticket for a baseball and he invited the woman. It was her favourite baseball team and she was itching to go for a long time, so she said yes.

Knowing that Dave would be angry she went with Chris, she lied and told him she had work that day.

“We went to the game and had a great time. Yes, I know I'm wrong for lying to him, and I regret that I did that,” she said.

​

When she got home, she was surprised to find that Dave actually knew where she was. Turns out, he was tracking her location using her phone, and it showed that she was not at work but at a baseball game.

“It was a big thing,” said the woman. “I was so angry that he stalked me. It was such a violation of my privacy. He didn't see it as controlling.”

“He accused me of having an affair and told me he wanted me to promise not to see Chris again. I told him he was being ridiculous and told him that I wasn't going to do that.”

“He slept on the couch that night and in the morning, I told him I wanted a separation. I told him I felt smothered, that I needed him to trust me and that we both needed space,” she continued.

After the tracking incident, the couple took some time away from each other. During this period, the woman did date Chris for a few months, but she never really found the “long term compatibility” that she was seeking.

The woman and her husband took some time apart from each other. Credit: Getty Images/Westend61.
​

After a major problem struck the woman’s family, she and Dave have reunited again. After being apart for nine months, the two of them decided to give things another try.

“I moved back in, we discussed boundaries,” said the woman. “I asked if he was with anyone when we were apart, he said he had one partner.”

She admitted being surprised that her husband dated another person while they were apart, since “he was never much of a dater”. But since she also dated one person as well, she brushed it off.

Things had been going great so far, until one weekend when the woman learned a shocking truth. Turns out, the person that her husband “dated” while they were on a break was her sister, with whom she had a strained relationship.

“I never thought she'd cross that line.” So, she confronted her husband.

The husband admitted that the woman’s sister was the one person he was with during their “break”.

“I just broke down crying, told him he was a terrible human being, and I didn't even want to look at him,” she said.

However, she was stunned when her husband responded.

The husband said he would agree that he was a terrible person if only she could tell him that the person she was with during their “break” wasn't Chris.

At this point, the woman was left speechless. The husband simply nodded and said, “That's what I thought!”

​

The woman reasoned that there would never be anything between her and Chris if only Dave didn’t make all those accusations against her.

Dave replied: “You were going to do what you did with Chris no matter what and say it was my fault. Whether I said something or not.”

Now, the woman’s asking for opinions because she doesn’t know how to move forward knowing that her husband slept with her sister for revenge.

“One minute I want to forgive him and move forward and the next I never want to see him again. He refuses to accept that what he did was wrong, and says that we were separated and both lived our lives,” she said.

“What do I even do here? I don't think I want a divorce, but I can't stand to look at him right now.”

The woman wants to forgive her husband, but she can’t forget that he slept with her sister for revenge. Credit: Westend61/Getty Images/Westend61.
​

The woman’s post gained a ton of attention on the forum site, with hundreds of Reddit users commenting and expressing their opinions.

However, she probably never expected that most of them would criticise her instead.

One user wrote: “So you lied to your husband, you were basically going on dates with Chris already, then during separation, you actually dated Chris.”

“Sounds like you weren’t respecting your marriage or your husband’s feelings.”

A second user said: “So you had an emotional affair, and soon as you and your husband broke up (he was right about you guys, by the way), you start dating Chris.”

“Yeah, he's TOTALLY the bad guy here.” The user said sarcastically.

On the other hand, most users also called out the husband for sleeping with his wife’s sister.

One user said: “Sleeping with my sister would be a deal-breaker, no matter what.”

Another added: “There are billions of other people in the world they could have slept with, but they had to choose their spouse’s sibling. Just gross.”

Many in the comments section expressed that every person involved in the story is in the wrong, and the couple are “better off without each other”.

“Every single one of these people needs therapy and a good smack,” said one user.

What are your thoughts?

Should the woman leave her husband for good? Or was she also wrong for being involved with her coworker?

Let us know in the comments below!

Seriously, they are both at fault!! She definitely started the whole problem by being deceitful & secretive. He however, should not have been tracking her phone, he obviously didn’t trust her even before he knew about the ‘friend’ from work….there’s more to that I’m sure! Then he sleeps with her sister…if she has any self respect that’d have to be it surely?!?! Should they get back together? Absolutely NOT, I would doubt that he would anyway, I think she’s kidding herself if she thinks that…but how could either of them trust the other when there’s been so much deception in their marriage, it’s broken!!!