Why does my cat pee on the rug? Are they trying to tell me something?

As cat researchers, one of the most common complaints we hear is:
My cat is a jerk! Whenever I do something he doesn’t like, he pees on my bed or the rug.
Often this complaint is based on an assumption the cat is seeking revenge or trying to send a message, The Godfather-style.

Unfortunately, a rhetoric has developed that cats are manipulative, vengeful, uncaring or even psychotic. This rhetoric means when cats do something we don’t like, it’s easy to reach for the idea they did it deliberately to hurt or annoy us.

But cats don’t behave the way humans do and their motives are not the same. They aren’t trying to irritate or punish us. So let’s forget the human rhetoric and delve into five reasons your cat might be peeing on your rug, bed or clothes.


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Cats don’t behave the way humans do. Pexels/Anya Juárez Tenorio, CC BY





1. It could be a medical issue​

First, ask yourself: are they sick?

Many illnesses or injuries – including urinary tract infections, cystitis, diabetes and chronic pain – can cause a cat to have unusual urination behaviour.

Feline idiopathic cystitis occurs in approximately 2-4% of cats worldwide. The exact causes are not known, although having an anxious or stressed cat increases the risk.

It’s often difficult to tell when a cat is sick. They are incredibly adept at hiding pain.

One clue is cats experiencing discomfort will want to pee somewhere they feel comfortable, often a place they associate with safety – such as your bed, your clothes or the rug.

One reason they may feel comfortable there is because it smells like you, someone they associate with positive feelings.

So if your cat pees somewhere odd, your first instinct should be to wonder if it’s time to contact your vet.


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Cats hide pain well. Pexels/Vikki, CC BY





2. It could be short-term stress​

Has something changed in your household lately? Are you renovating? Are there loud noises? Did a new cat move in next door? Did your friend bring their dog to visit?

Situations like these could lead to your cat feeling stressed and peeing in an unexpected place.

Log the days your cat pees somewhere unusual and see if a pattern emerges.

If it correlates with something in particular – such as a friend visiting with their dog – try to adapt the house set-up to make your cat more comfortable.

For instance, keep the dog outside or put your cat in your room with their food, water and a litter tray.

Think about how to make your cat more comfortable (or remove the stressor itself).

3. It could be chronic stress​

Unlike a short-term stressor, chronic stress is an ongoing issue that can’t simply be stopped or removed.

This could be an ongoing stress from living in a multi-cat household or with a dog, or it could from a condition such as anxiety.

While chronic stress can be trickier to handle, it’s important to identify it and seek help.

Ongoing stress can lead to serious health issues such as cystitis, which can cause a urinary blockage and be life threatening. If your cat visits the litter tray and is straining without any result, this is an emergency. They need to see a vet as soon as possible.

Keep a short daily log and try to identify areas that may be causing ongoing stress for your cat.

Adjust the environment to limit these stressors and if needed, seek a veterinary behaviourist’s advice about treating potential anxiety in your cat.

And if you are very stressed, this might make your cat feel stressed. Sometimes you both need to take a deep breath!


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Chronic stress can be tricky to handle. Pexels/Tranmautritam, CC BY



4. It could be the litter​

Your cat’s “accidents” may be as simple as them not liking the substrate, tray or positioning of the litter they are given.

Cats want to feel comfortable and safe when they toilet. So they may not want to use it if:
  • the substrate you’re using hurts their paws or is too deep and makes them slide around
  • the tray is too small or too covered or
  • the litter is positioned somewhere that is disturbed easily.
Each cat is an individual; what works for one may not work for another. That said, here are some general rules for providing a pleasant litter experience for your cat:

  • provide one litter tray per cat plus an extra one for the household
  • litter depth should be enough to cover the bottom of the tray well but not so much that the cat’s weight makes them slip down into it
  • go for unscented litter (cats are very sensitive to smells)
  • place the tray in an area that has privacy and is away from any potential stressors such as children, dogs or loud noises
  • if possible, place the trays around the house in appropriate areas so your cat always has easy access when needed
  • scoop regularly and keep the tray clean.

5. It could because your cat is a jerk​

Just kidding. This is never the reason.

This article was first published on The Conversation, and was written by Susan Hazel, Associate Professor, School of Animal and Veterinary Science, University of Adelaide, Julia Henning, PhD Candidate, University of Adelaide

 
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So many cat owners claim their cats are punishing them or some human response they can't, they are cats, not humans (or like dogs) when as stated above, exhibit many different reactions including glaring, hissing, changes in personality, and striking out is pain based, theirs, not yours.
Yes if your kitty pees in the empty wooden salad bowl or the kitchen sink in front of you ( like mine once did) it is a sign kitty is telling you to act quickly as they have a UTI, so off to the vet ASAP as this can will rapidly worsen if ignored and not correctly treated. It is also very painful for puss.
Males and females both suffer from this at times.
If a cat sprays, (not squat pees) that means, backs up tail erect and high, to a selected place, does a little one-hind leg tap dance and squirts copiously on the inside or selected surface, usually on the curtains or the end corner of your bed near a window or wall near the door, you will find 100% there is a strange cat trespassing outside and your cat feels threatened, so marking his/ her territory.
All imperfectly natural behaviour and so smelly.
Best to make some moves to deter that interloper, such as sprinkling your cat's used litter around any access boundaries or if desperate, the sudden automatic sprinkler system works. I have been known to leap out and give the deep loud growling monster war cry that has sent a few flying in fear. The neighbours too.
Nocturnal wandering cats are usually owned by those who are ignorantly following that old old saying "put the cat out at night' when it is 'get that cat in by dusk and keep him/her /them in until the sun has risen.' It will save not only potential accidents reducing their 9 lives but the lives of hundreds of wonderful nocturnal wildlife critters and other outside cat brawls. Cats are hunters by nature.
A cat that growls or cowers when you stroke or touch the back could have a spinal injury, age-related arthritis or other limb soreness or if newly adopted just plain scared. If an inside-outside cat check for any unusual lumps if you see a morose kitty who has not won that fight without an infected bite from the rival incurring painful abscesses. Most inside-outside cat owners have usually had one fighter with an abscessed wound that needs vet attention ASAP as well.
The joys of having a cat or two come with a few unwanted usual pussycat events!
I love the cat by the way, and have been custodian of many for ..oh.. about 70 years of my current existence. Know the cat pretty well but still learn something new all the time. An open mind allows for that!
 
I found the article interesting. I wonder if anyone can help me, but it's about one of my dogs. We have 3 Cavaliers and one pup 2 yrs old lifts his leg to mark his territory which is fine outside but we've just moved into a brand new home with new furniture and I have to watch him as he wants to mark. What can I do to deter this action. Any help would be appreciated.
 
I found the article interesting. I wonder if anyone can help me, but it's about one of my dogs. We have 3 Cavaliers and one pup 2 yrs old lifts his leg to mark his territory which is fine outside but we've just moved into a brand new home with new furniture and I have to watch him as he wants to mark. What can I do to deter this action. Any help would be appreciated.
We have a Cavalon who has been the best little polite dog ever apart from his puppy passion for tossing and ripping any soft toys all over the place. Try Google or your search engine Ricki and I am sure there are some great ideas. Good luck with your new home too.
 
I found the article interesting. I wonder if anyone can help me, but it's about one of my dogs. We have 3 Cavaliers and one pup 2 yrs old lifts his leg to mark his territory which is fine outside but we've just moved into a brand new home with new furniture and I have to watch him as he wants to mark. What can I do to deter this action. Any help would be appreciated.
Is he sterilised? I have never had a problem with sterilised dogs, but dogs that are still entire are prone to territory marking.
 
As cat researchers, one of the most common complaints we hear is:

Often this complaint is based on an assumption the cat is seeking revenge or trying to send a message, The Godfather-style.

Unfortunately, a rhetoric has developed that cats are manipulative, vengeful, uncaring or even psychotic. This rhetoric means when cats do something we don’t like, it’s easy to reach for the idea they did it deliberately to hurt or annoy us.

But cats don’t behave the way humans do and their motives are not the same. They aren’t trying to irritate or punish us. So let’s forget the human rhetoric and delve into five reasons your cat might be peeing on your rug, bed or clothes.


file-20230704-19-96pt2b.jpg

Cats don’t behave the way humans do. Pexels/Anya Juárez Tenorio, CC BY





1. It could be a medical issue​

First, ask yourself: are they sick?

Many illnesses or injuries – including urinary tract infections, cystitis, diabetes and chronic pain – can cause a cat to have unusual urination behaviour.

Feline idiopathic cystitis occurs in approximately 2-4% of cats worldwide. The exact causes are not known, although having an anxious or stressed cat increases the risk.

It’s often difficult to tell when a cat is sick. They are incredibly adept at hiding pain.

One clue is cats experiencing discomfort will want to pee somewhere they feel comfortable, often a place they associate with safety – such as your bed, your clothes or the rug.

One reason they may feel comfortable there is because it smells like you, someone they associate with positive feelings.

So if your cat pees somewhere odd, your first instinct should be to wonder if it’s time to contact your vet.


file-20230704-15-v6w5ik.jpg

Cats hide pain well. Pexels/Vikki, CC BY





2. It could be short-term stress​

Has something changed in your household lately? Are you renovating? Are there loud noises? Did a new cat move in next door? Did your friend bring their dog to visit?

Situations like these could lead to your cat feeling stressed and peeing in an unexpected place.

Log the days your cat pees somewhere unusual and see if a pattern emerges.

If it correlates with something in particular – such as a friend visiting with their dog – try to adapt the house set-up to make your cat more comfortable.

For instance, keep the dog outside or put your cat in your room with their food, water and a litter tray.

Think about how to make your cat more comfortable (or remove the stressor itself).

3. It could be chronic stress​

Unlike a short-term stressor, chronic stress is an ongoing issue that can’t simply be stopped or removed.

This could be an ongoing stress from living in a multi-cat household or with a dog, or it could from a condition such as anxiety.

While chronic stress can be trickier to handle, it’s important to identify it and seek help.

Ongoing stress can lead to serious health issues such as cystitis, which can cause a urinary blockage and be life threatening. If your cat visits the litter tray and is straining without any result, this is an emergency. They need to see a vet as soon as possible.

Keep a short daily log and try to identify areas that may be causing ongoing stress for your cat.

Adjust the environment to limit these stressors and if needed, seek a veterinary behaviourist’s advice about treating potential anxiety in your cat.

And if you are very stressed, this might make your cat feel stressed. Sometimes you both need to take a deep breath!


file-20230704-13224-qd7yu8.jpg

Chronic stress can be tricky to handle. Pexels/Tranmautritam, CC BY



4. It could be the litter​

Your cat’s “accidents” may be as simple as them not liking the substrate, tray or positioning of the litter they are given.

Cats want to feel comfortable and safe when they toilet. So they may not want to use it if:
  • the substrate you’re using hurts their paws or is too deep and makes them slide around
  • the tray is too small or too covered or
  • the litter is positioned somewhere that is disturbed easily.
Each cat is an individual; what works for one may not work for another. That said, here are some general rules for providing a pleasant litter experience for your cat:

  • provide one litter tray per cat plus an extra one for the household
  • litter depth should be enough to cover the bottom of the tray well but not so much that the cat’s weight makes them slip down into it
  • go for unscented litter (cats are very sensitive to smells)
  • place the tray in an area that has privacy and is away from any potential stressors such as children, dogs or loud noises
  • if possible, place the trays around the house in appropriate areas so your cat always has easy access when needed
  • scoop regularly and keep the tray clean.

5. It could because your cat is a jerk​

Just kidding. This is never the reason.

This article was first published on The Conversation, and was written by Susan Hazel, Associate Professor, School of Animal and Veterinary Science, University of Adelaide, Julia Henning, PhD Candidate, University of Adelaide

Do you have new animal it could be marking its territory bicarb or bleach deliuted any time it does it give it spray also get rid peesmell water and by cup make paste let dry vacum
 
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No we want to breed him with our female. I know we've never had problems with them when they're spade.
Good luck with your breeding, I just adore Cavaliers My little Cavalier passed away a few years ago now but I still miss him.
They are a little hard to come by in WA, most good breeders have waiting lists.
I now have two little tibetan spaniels which I intend to breed, consequently had the same problem with my boy but he seems to have grown out of it now.
 
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Good luck with your breeding, I just adore Cavaliers My little Cavalier passed away a few years ago now but I still miss him.
They are a little hard to come by in WA, most good breeders have waiting lists.
I now have two little tibetan spaniels which I intend to breed, consequently had the same problem with my boy but he seems to have grown out of it now.
Our oldest one is 15 yrs old and the day will come in the not so distant future when we will need to say good night. That's why we want to breed and keep one. They're hard to come by here as well. I'm sure the young one will out grow it but in the mean time - grrr.
 
Our oldest one is 15 yrs old and the day will come in the not so distant future when we will need to say good night. That's why we want to breed and keep one. They're hard to come by here as well. I'm sure the young one will out grow it but in the mean time - grrr.
Yes, I know how you feel.
My 15 is a good age for a cavalier
heartbreaking when it is time for them to go.
 
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