Things That Only Grandmothers Know: The Bridge Generation Part 1

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This article was kindly written for the SDC by member Josephine G.


For many years I have been aware that my generation, today’s elderly grandmothers, is a historical curiosity, a kind of bridge generation such as had never been seen before. Our childhood was spent under a firmly patriarchal regime. Then, when we had barely reached adulthood, everything changed. We found ourselves with one foot in our predictable, familiar everyday world while the other was tentatively trying to find a place to land in a foreign and often disturbing world.



In this new world, things were getting to be very different for women, suddenly even the respect one might have received for being a mother was torpedoed and for grace one exchanged shame as being ‘only a mother’. Our daughters were sexually liberated and happily breaking all the codes we’d been brought up to believe were immutable. There was a great deal of adjustment to be made, for which on the whole there was little understanding and no credit. This is indeed an extraordinary generation to be celebrated!

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every generation changes. i am sure my Mum's views were different to mine, just as my daughters are to mine. I am 84 years of age and I can't entirely agree with all of what I have read. I have never felt insignificant to any others, and that was at the age of 21 just married.
 
every generation changes. i am sure my Mum's views were different to mine, just as my daughters are to mine. I am 84 years of age and I can't entirely agree with all of what I have read. I have never felt insignificant to any others, and that was at the age of 21 just married.
Sometimes I think it has to do with how your were raised too. My mom was very much loved by her mother, but maybe just seen as a burden by the stepfather. I am the third girl in the family. My dad wanted a boy, so I was a kind of unwanted child, or so I always believed. Told my mom this omce. She was horriefied that I was under that delusion. She said that no matter what, I was very loved and wanted. My dad just could not show much love, due to his upbringing.
For those who do not believe in god, just skip the rest of this. Mom said it was all in the plan of God, the timing of my birth and my brother's. We came to Australia when I was 10, soon moved onto a farm (with no knowledge of anything) and we 2 children were soon needed to help with farm work.
Later in life, when my dad got dementia, I was the one he turned to. I had already made my peace with him and we had a wonderful relationship in the end. That was when I realised that being who I was, was enough. Now, I have much more self worth and do not look down on me anymore.
 

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