The SDC Newsletter Dawn Service: What ANZAC Day Means To You
Good morning members,
I just wanted to dedicate a space on our forum for some of us to share what ANZAC Day means to them. There is absolutely no pressure for any one to participate, but if you choose to, the SDC Team along with the rest of the community would love to read what you have to say.
This thread today is for you all to share what ANZAC Day means to you or take the opportunity to commemorate someone or something important to you on this day with the rest of our community.
For me, ANZAC Day is a very special day. I had multiple family members involved in many different wars, and every morning, since I can remember, I have attended a Dawn Service with my grandparents, parents, and now, I take myself and my partner. My dear brother wears our family's Medallions with pride to every Dawn Service we attend. There's one Dawn Service that has stuck with me more than any I have ever attended, and that was the 2020 Dawn Service, when we were all in lockdown. The suburb I lived in at the time had organised for everyone to stand at the top of their driveways with a candle in hand at Dawn. We stood in silence for 10 minutes, then out of no where we heard the Last Post being played by someone on the trumpet. It was truly unbelievable. Like someone was walking the streets playing it for all to hear. I just thought in that moment how beautiful it was for everyone to come together at a time when there was such distance, to commemorate the Australian Men and Women who suffered and lost their lives so that we could live in the country we do today.
Thank you for reading my little story. I also just want to dedicate this post to my Pop (who I actually used to call 'Poppy'!) and his father. Both of which served this country.
Please feel free to share your stories in the comments below, and just a reminder that this community is a
SAFE SPACE so please BE KIND. Today is not an easy day for everyone, so please keep those people who might be struggling today (and every day) front of mind when you comment below.
Lest We Forget.
For me, ANZAC Day brings back memories of the one and only day, each year of my childhood, that I my mother would speak of my dead father. From age 3, I was routinely dressed in starched white on ANZAC Day morning. My mother would pin my father's medals across my chest and escort me to the starting point of the morning march. I would join other Legacy Wards - war orphans and children who, like me, lost their veteran dad after the end of the war. I would proudly march in my father's place, honouring a man I never knew - a man who died just six weeks after my birth; a man about whom my mother only ever spoke on ANZAC Day, when she told me of the battles he had fought in and the Navy uniform he wore.
On the ANZAC Day following my ninth birthday, I was chosen to stand the Guard of Honour. That meant leaving the march near its end and taking a place beside the memorial in front of the town library. I stood, for hours, between the drummer and the bagpipe player while people stepped up to the Memorial and laid their wreaths in remembrance. I stood proud, believing I was doing a great service to my dead father and to the country, honouring a memory and ensuring that patriotic acts were never forgotten.
I don't celebrate ANZAC Day now. Today, it has a very different meaning. It is a reminder of the sacrifice my father-in-law made - a sacrifice never acknowledged, much less rewarded.
I wrote a story in my father-in-law's honour. I called it ''Herbie's Private March: Salute to an Unsung ANZAC Hero". It's a story that is politically incorrect. It's a story that will offend many; one that patriots will hate. But it's a true story.
Later, I wrote and published my husband's story, "The Pencil Case". That story, too, is politically incorrect, but true.
Because of Herbie and my husband, I no longer celebrate ANZAC Day. My father's medals lie in a dresser drawer now. I pinned them on once, a few years ago, just to remind myself that for me, ANZAC Day has two very different meanings.
I have two very different stories to tell my grandchildren about this day of remembrance. I ask them to honour two men who lived very different lives, honouring them for vastly different reasons. I ask them to remember, always, the sacrifice of so many who fought so that they could be safe and free. But I remind them, too, of the treachery and betrayal that killed their great-grandfather's soul and caused their grandfather so much pain and suffering. I remind them that the government that sponsors great pomp and ceremony and asks us to salute our war heroes is the same government that allowed cruelty and injustice to destroy men we should be saluting.
History is written as the powerful want it written. But we must never take history on face value. We must always question and challenge. We must look for the unpopular truths. We must try to prevent the truth from being buried and forgotten. While we are saluting our war heroes, we should honour, also, the unsung heroes. And we should cry for justice for those to whom justice was denied.
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