Tattooed mum calls out Bunnings over 'targeted' behaviour—here’s why she’s fuming

It’s a frustrating experience many shoppers quietly endure — feeling watched, judged, or even followed based on nothing more than their appearance.

One woman’s recent trip to a popular retailer left her feeling humiliated and fed up after what she believes was a clear case of profiling.

Her story has now sparked a wider conversation about how people are treated in stores — and who’s really being targeted.


Being followed around a store is something Madeline Wood said she was used to — but that didn’t make it any less upsetting.

The 31-year-old mum from Melbourne shared that she often felt like she was under surveillance while shopping, recalling moments like wandering through Chemist Warehouse with a security guard ‘breathing down my neck in some shops’.

‘I know I’m being watched as I go aisle to aisle,’ she said.


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Mum speaks out about feeling watched while shopping. Image source: TikTok/_madelinewood


Wood believed she knew exactly why it was happening.

‘It’s because of the way I look,’ she explained.

‘I’ve got tattoos on my arm and both my legs, I’ve got a nose ring and stretched ears from when I was a teenager.’


Despite working in retail management herself, which she said made her familiar with how profiling works, she said being treated this way still made her feel ‘pretty crappy’.

‘I’m being targeted because of how I look, and it’s wrong.’

The situation came to a head after a recent visit to Bunnings, which Wood discussed in a post on social media.


Source: TikTok/_madelinewood​


She had gone to the Preston store to replace some broken light globes and, because of the warm weather, wore shorts — leaving her leg tattoos visible.

Wood explained that it took time to find the right globes and she carefully searched the aisle with the broken ones in her bag for comparison.

Instead of receiving help, she said she noticed someone watching her closely.

‘Instead of offering any customer service to help, there was this covert on me,’ she said.

‘He knew I knew I was being watched, and when I circled back round to the aisle later, he was there taking photos of all the boxes and items I’d touched.’

‘Working in retail, I do get it,’ she continued.

‘Theft is at an all-time high, and businesses are at a loss about what to do to deter it, but at the business I work for, we’re trained that the number one deterrent is customer service.’

‘Thieves don’t want to be noticed. They want to go under the radar but I wasn’t given this [customer service] and I was left feeling pretty crappy and never wanting to go back to this store.’


Her partner Jaylen, who is also tattooed, had encountered similar treatment, she said.

While they hadn’t felt the need to cover up their tattoos, Wood noted: ‘It 100 per cent happens less when I am covered up in winter.’

She said retailers should stop judging customers by appearance and instead focus on how they behave.

‘In my opinion, it’s erratic behaviour that often leads to theft — if someone is vocal, violent or behaving suspiciously. It’s how they act and not how they look,’ she said.

‘Historically, tattoos did come with bad behaviour, but in 2025, a tattoo costs $400–$500. My legs cost me $6,000 over the years, so tattoos now are quite a luxury to afford. They shouldn’t automatically be a reason to follow someone.’


Wood’s story clearly struck a chord online, with many others sharing similar stories in the comments of her post.

‘They do this to me everywhere because of the way I look. Tattoos, coloured streaks in my hair and eyeliner. I also manage retail, and the people who are actually stealing never get watched, just me!’ one person wrote.

‘Every time I go into a store, I get watched just because of my tattoos,’ said another.

‘I’ve had this happen to me at Kmart. I was followed around the whole store. I ended up feeling like I was doing something wrong, even though I hadn’t. I ended up leaving the trolley of items and going elsewhere to buy them,’ shared someone else.


When contacted for comment, Bunnings denied engaging in profiling.

Bunnings Director of Stores, Rod Caust shared: ‘Creating a safe and welcoming environment for our team and customers is important to us, and this is reflected in the diversity of our team.’

‘Like many retailers, we sometimes have loss prevention contractors in our stores who are engaged through an external licensed provider and are trained in monitoring customer behaviour.’

‘Discrimination and profiling have no place in our business and are not part of our loss prevention practices. All team members and security personnel receive rigorous, regularly reviewed training focused on safety, legal responsibilities, and respectful engagement, not appearance, background or personal characteristics.’

Chemist Warehouse did not respond to comment requests.


In a previous story, we explored another instance of racial profiling that left a shopper feeling humiliated.

Aussie rapper Barkaa shared her own emotional experience while at Kmart.

You can read more about her story here.

Key Takeaways
  • Madeline Wood said she was frequently followed and watched in stores because of her appearance, which includes visible tattoos and piercings.
  • She shared a recent experience at Bunnings where she felt targeted instead of being offered customer service while shopping for light globes.
  • Wood believed profiling based on looks was unfair and suggested erratic behaviour should be the focus for loss prevention.
  • Bunnings denied profiling practices, while others online shared similar stories of being monitored in stores due to their appearance.

Have you ever felt judged or targeted while shopping because of how you look? Share your experience with us in the comments below.
 
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sorry but personally people who destroy their bodies with crap ask for all they get. If you don't like it get dressed properly and staff won't give a damn. I can't stand having to look at all that rubbish. The good Lord gave your parents a perfect little baby and you decided to completely wreck it and then have the hide to complain how others react to you. Stop bitching.
 
Many businesses have enough security cameras installed that they don't need to follow people around like that. At Bunnings they have "open" trolleys so they have no excuse. If you are taking items back into a store it is wise to show a staff member before taking them into the main part of the store.
 
I think you are becoming a bit neurotic about being watched, did you think that the worker was waiting for you to get out of the way so they could do their work? There are people everyday out shopping with exposed tattoos, piercings and dropping earlobes and not get noticed or followed. If you are not doing anything wrong then just move on without looking for the imagined 'following'
 
But didn't you get all the tattoos and metal so you would be noticed?
Suspect you didn't think it through.
I wonder why? Freak shows always draw people who can't believe their eyes.
Just because this woman, like many others, has tattoos, does not make her a “freak” or a thief. Your comment about her being a “freak” is really disgusting, as are some of the other comments about her on here. What she does with her own body is up to her & a lot of tattoos are beautiful. No I don’t have any.
 
Why should a staff member approach her and ask if she needs help? She would have complained even more about harassment.
I think she is paranoid and over reacting. They didn't stop her and search her !!

Maybe now she can go away and think about her place of work and her customers 🤔

What I did see yesterday while in Coles was a screen above the entrance and as people were entering it had them in a circle like it was scanning them. It then followed them until they got to the end of the isle. It did this to every person.

My daughter noticed this while I was looking for particular bread rolls.
It looked very strange
 
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I'm surprised with some of the comments regarding her tattoos. There is nothing wrong with tattoos and actually don't draw people to them thinking they are markings of a thief.

My 39 year old son is covered in tattoos and is a great guy who everyone loves. He has never been in trouble with the law. His mate is also covered in tattoos and is a police officer.

Three of my daughters have tattoos, their children's names and one has a bible verse on her back

I have a small tattoo, my husbands name which I did as a teenager.

No one should judge a book by its cover
 
Oh my goodness when is the world going to stop being so judgemental about people. This young lady should be able to go into shop and not be followed because of her choice of the way she adounes her body. I am not a fan of tattoos at all and both my daughter and son have them.. That is their choice.
I was recently was in the Vet clinic with my little dog picking her up from surgery. A tall young man came in with tattoos all over his head and some on his face. He was holding a little shivering poodle. I struck up a chat with him. Oh my goodness your little darling is as scared as my little girl. She shivers too and tries to make a be line for the door. Well that was that, we had a lovely conversation while he waited for the nurse to pop out and remove his dogs stitches. As he left he said to me. You have a great day. Why judge someone by their appearance.
People are very quick to judge because someone is over weight or might have a mental illness as in talking to themselves or just being a little bit different. Looking a bit down and out tattoos Gothic looking. We are all individuals. Don't be so quick to judge. Most people are wonderful people no matter how they look and are not looking to shop lift.
Many years ago when l worked in retail sad to say the people who shop lifted were the elderly and the ones who dressed very smartly. The elderly l always felt heart broken for, because they most likely could not afford the things they stole. A lot of the time it was razors or deodorant. One well to do woman tried to steal a whole huge bag of groceries by kicking it along the floor while placing other goods on the counter. Who knows why? Maybe she was being controlled financially. Thankfully my manger never called the police. He would sternly tell the offender you are never to step foot in here again. Theses sad souls never returned.
Kind regards to all Vicki
 
People judge others based on their own standards…….Sometimes those standards don’t amount to very much at all ……Visual appearance is a personal choice and not everyone’s cup of tea, but it would be a boring existence if we all thought the same …….. and people are good or bad with or without tattoos or piercings ……….I may not be the best person in the world but I never have judged a person on their outward appearance or fashion choices…….. I had my first one for my 50th birthday…….
 
Fortunately no. But it seems to me that with this profiling a person with Dutch obviously dtsnd out differences would be the last people to do so.
Really sorry for them.
My friend has tattooed arms, it is a floral work of art.
 
Oh My Word! She's complaining about the attention she's getting by bringing more attention to herself 😂🤣 What a river full of dribble! She now has her 15 minutes of fame but for the wrong reasons.

But, gosh, I know EXACTLY how she feels. Two days ago l was walking thru Watergardens shopping center & people were staring at me, l mean STARING at me! Some didn't even avert their eyes when l looked back at them. Thousands of thoughts are running thru my head, "Why are they staring at me? Do l have food on my face? A booger? A huge zit on my nose?" etc, etc. Eventually a young mum stops me & whispers, "A couple buttons have popped open on your shirt." I looked down, seen it & oh boy did l kick up a stink! I yelled at every one in the center, rang tv stations & news reporters for an immediate interview & addressed the World on how people of all genders, race & age had been outright OOGLING my boobies covered with a BRA! I felt sooo humiliated & dirty .....

No ..... wait ....

When she told me, l looked down, looked at her & said, "Well, at my age, how else am l going to attract a Husband?" & she said, "It is a pretty bra." We both laughed, l thanked her, closed my shirt & kept going. Every now & then l'd burst out laughing.

Wait.... why are people STARING at me as if I'm crazy ............
 
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Oh My Word! She's complaining about the attention she's getting by bringing more attention to herself 😂🤣 What a river full of dribble! She now has her 15 minutes of fame but for the wrong reasons.

But, gosh, I know EXACTLY how she feels. Two days ago l was walking thru Watergardens shopping center & people were staring at me, l mean STARING at me! Some didn't even avert their eyes when l looked back at them. Thousands of thoughts are running thru my head, "Why are they staring at me? Do l have food on my face? A booger? A huge zit on my nose?" etc, etc. Eventually a young mum stops me & whispers, "A couple buttons have popped open on your shirt." I looked down, seen it & oh boy did l kick up a stink! I yelled at every one in the center, rang tv stations & news reporters for an immediate interview & addressed the World on how people of all genders, race & age had been outright OOGLING my boobies covered with a BRA! I felt sooo humiliated & dirty .....

No ..... wait ....

When she told me, l looked down, looked at her & said, "Well, at my age, how else am l going to attract a Husband?" & she said, "It is a pretty bra." We both laughed, l thanked her, closed my shirt & kept going. Every now & then l'd burst out laughing.

Wait.... why are people STARING at me as if I'm crazy ............
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣omg thanks for sharing it’s the funniest thing I’ve read on here ever, love it 😊
 

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