Shocking wedding rules that infuriated guests–are they too harsh?
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Weddings are often seen as a celebration of love and unity.
But for some couples, the desire to have the perfect day can lead to a set of rules that may leave guests like attendees at a strict gala than a joyful union.
This was the case for one couple whose 'Wedding Rules' have sparked a heated debate online over what is considered acceptable to ask of guests.
The couple in question laid out no less than 15 rules on their wedding invitations, ensuring that guests were well aware of the expectations placed upon them.
The rules covered everything from friendly reminders not to steal the show from the bride and groom to specific instructions on what to wear, how to behave around the photographer, and even tips on enjoying a drink or two.
Rule No.1 was a clear directive: the day was only about the bride and groom. ‘This is (their) big day, not yours', the invitation stated, setting the tone for the rest of the guidelines.
Other rules that raised eyebrows included a ban on rearranging seating, a mandate to stay on your feet and dance rather than sitting all night.
The rules also included a rather blunt statement about the music selection: ‘If you can't handle the music being played, simply go home. This is a celebration, not a funeral,’ rule No.8 declared.
The invitation quickly made its way to online forums, where it attracted over 800 comments from users who were shocked, amused, and in some cases, appalled by the demands.
The list was described as ‘chaotic’, and some questioned the couple's maturity, while others stated outright that they would refuse to attend such a regimented event.
One user commented, ‘Most of these are reasonable, but the aggressive phrasing is quite off-putting.’
Another added, ‘People need to chill the f*** out about their wedding, it's not a televised coronation.’
The controversy didn't end there. The rules were later shared on social media, where many expressed outrage at the tone of the demands.
Comments ranged from calling the couple ‘insufferable’ to criticising the confrontational nature of the rules.
'It’s a wedding, not a prisoner prom at a jail,' one person quipped, highlighting the perceived severity of the guidelines.
Weddings are a time-honoured tradition, and each generation has its take on etiquette and expectations.
However, it's also important to remember that respect and consideration go both ways.
While it's reasonable for couples to request certain things from their guests, it's equally important to ensure that those requests don't cross the line into disrespect or create an unwelcoming atmosphere.
Are wedding requests getting out of hand? Check out this bride’s wedding request that has everyone confused and fuming!
We'd love to hear from our members about this. Have you ever received a wedding invitation with a list of rules? Share your stories and thoughts in the comments below.
But for some couples, the desire to have the perfect day can lead to a set of rules that may leave guests like attendees at a strict gala than a joyful union.
This was the case for one couple whose 'Wedding Rules' have sparked a heated debate online over what is considered acceptable to ask of guests.
The couple in question laid out no less than 15 rules on their wedding invitations, ensuring that guests were well aware of the expectations placed upon them.
The rules covered everything from friendly reminders not to steal the show from the bride and groom to specific instructions on what to wear, how to behave around the photographer, and even tips on enjoying a drink or two.
The controversial list of wedding rules was posted on an online forum with the caption, ‘If someone sent this to me I would simply just not go.’ Image Source: Reddit / @VieleAud
Rule No.1 was a clear directive: the day was only about the bride and groom. ‘This is (their) big day, not yours', the invitation stated, setting the tone for the rest of the guidelines.
Other rules that raised eyebrows included a ban on rearranging seating, a mandate to stay on your feet and dance rather than sitting all night.
The rules also included a rather blunt statement about the music selection: ‘If you can't handle the music being played, simply go home. This is a celebration, not a funeral,’ rule No.8 declared.
The invitation quickly made its way to online forums, where it attracted over 800 comments from users who were shocked, amused, and in some cases, appalled by the demands.
The list was described as ‘chaotic’, and some questioned the couple's maturity, while others stated outright that they would refuse to attend such a regimented event.
One user commented, ‘Most of these are reasonable, but the aggressive phrasing is quite off-putting.’
Another added, ‘People need to chill the f*** out about their wedding, it's not a televised coronation.’
The controversy didn't end there. The rules were later shared on social media, where many expressed outrage at the tone of the demands.
Comments ranged from calling the couple ‘insufferable’ to criticising the confrontational nature of the rules.
'It’s a wedding, not a prisoner prom at a jail,' one person quipped, highlighting the perceived severity of the guidelines.
Weddings are a time-honoured tradition, and each generation has its take on etiquette and expectations.
However, it's also important to remember that respect and consideration go both ways.
While it's reasonable for couples to request certain things from their guests, it's equally important to ensure that those requests don't cross the line into disrespect or create an unwelcoming atmosphere.
Are wedding requests getting out of hand? Check out this bride’s wedding request that has everyone confused and fuming!
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