In the intricate tapestry of royal relationships, Sarah Ferguson, affectionately known as Fergie, has offered a subtle yet poignant message that resonates with the ongoing tensions within the British Royal Family.

As the rift between Prince Harry, Meghan Markle, and the senior royals continues to capture public attention, Fergie's recent comments have shed light on the importance of unity and forgiveness within familial bonds

While attending the 2024 amfAR Gala in Cannes, Fergie, the Duchess of York, shared her thoughts on the importance of family unity and forgiveness.

'I think family unity is key…I think the key to life is that we all support each other,' Fergie stated.

'And also forgiveness is a great thing. I think forgiveness of yourself and forgiveness of others.'

Sarah Ferguson, the Duchess of York, shared a message about family members supporting one another. Credit: @sarahferguson15 / Instagram

Royal expert Tom Quinn suggested that Fergie's remarks were a 'clear' nod to the ongoing feud in the Royal Family.

This comes after Prince William and Princess Catherine felt 'completely betrayed' after the release of Harry's memoir Spare and the Netflix documentary about him and Meghan.

But Fergie's insights aren't solely focused on the royal drama.

‘But the Duchess has her own well-publicised family difficulties to deal with—she has never stopped trying to persuade the senior royals to rehabilitate her former husband Prince Andrew, and when she talked about unity and the need for forgiveness, she no doubt also had her husband in mind,’ Quinn added.

Ferguson, the ex-wife of Prince Andrew, Duke of York, is the mother of Princess Beatrice and Princess Eugenie and the grandmother of Sienna, August, and Ernest.

Beyond the palace walls, Fergie has also been vocal about her concerns for the future, particularly regarding environmental issues and the legacy left for the younger generations.

Her recent appearance at the Global Citizen Summit in Melbourne highlighted her passion for nature and her newfound perspective as a grandmother.

'Becoming a grandmother has really changed my outlook on life,' she revealed.

'I have always loved nature and the great outdoors, but now I find myself reflecting on what sort of world we are going to leave to our grandchildren's generation.'

‘Let’s be honest, it doesn’t look great, does it? So far, my generation has failed to take the big decisions necessary to safeguard the future of the planet, to the point that scientists are telling us the changes we are seeing to our climate and biodiversity are becoming irreversible.’

‘I really hope we can take global, concerted action to change things. We have a responsibility to do so. That’s one of the issues I hope to be talking about at the Global Citizen NOW summit in Melbourne,’ she added.

‘I want to empower girls and women around the world.’

‘The mother-daughter relationship is at the heart of that. In countries where women haven’t been educated, we want them to fight for their daughters to have the chances that they didn’t.’

Key Takeaways

• Sarah Ferguson has voiced her opinions on the importance of family unity and forgiveness amidst Prince Harry and the royal family's ongoing feud.
• Fergie's comments are seen as a subtle reference to the family rift and her own experiences with family challenges, including efforts related to her ex-husband, Prince Andrew.
• Ferguson emphasised the role of forgiveness in maintaining close-knit family relationships and supporting each other.
• Beyond the family feud, Ferguson also spoke passionately about the responsibility of her generation to address climate change and biodiversity issues, along with her commitment to empowering girls and women worldwide.

What are your thoughts on Fergie's comments and the importance of family unity and forgiveness? Have you experienced similar challenges within your own family? Share your stories and insights in the comments below!

 

[Suzanne rose]

I love Fergie , it's amazing how she has stuck by Andrew even after everything he has done.

Forgiveness is so important, holding grudges and keeping anger in is so bad for your health.

Most of my family and I are estranged from my 3rd eldest son.
Six years ago his girlfriend caused alot of problems and did wrong. My kids gave hubby a 60th birthday party and my son was told not to bring her. He did and one off my daughters got into an argument with my son in front of his girlfriend.
She asked him why his girlfriend came after they told him she wasn't welcomed.
I'm not going to go into details but what his girlfriend did was very wrong.

They ended up breaking up . He planned a trip to Greece. My girls said wait until his ex hears he is going overseas , she will try to get back with him. She heard , she broke up with her new male friend and went to Greece with my son and an all paid trip.

This is a very materialistic girl. She would see a $500 bag and my son would get it for her.

Six months after their trip they announced their wedding. We were invited 2 weeks before the wedding. Three of my daughters were not invited.

I spoke to my son whom I hadn't spoken to due to him not accepting my daughters apology and asked him to fix the problem and invite his sisters. He wouldn't so I refused to attend the wedding.

Hubby and 9 of his brothers n sisters attended.

She wore a Pepulum dress and we found out after that she was 22 weeks pregnant. She got pregnant on their trip. It was an entrapment .

Before his sister got married she tried to fix it but again he wouldn't listen. People that know both my son and his wife say it's not him but her that is blocking it being resolved.

My son has a way off making you angry. I'm a person who don't get angry but push me and I explode.

Last time I saw him maybe 18 months ago that happened. I then said the unthinkable and said I dont want to see him again that I disowned him.

I've seen his 4 year old daughter twice and have never seen his 1 year old son. ( hubby has)

I sent him a message a few weeks ago
( see below the message)

Hello Matt
Firstly I want to apologise for saying to you I disown you. Sometimes, people make us angry, and we say the wrong thing.

It saddens us that you are no longer involved in family things.

I was sitting and thinking how this whole thing started and how silly it is that it is still going on.

We are missing out on seeing your children growing up, and you are missing out on your nieces and nephews.

Things can happen in a second that we can't control or fix.

We saw this the other day when Steph's girl Lily had an anaphylactic reaction and basically died. She was floppy and unresponsive and went a grey colour.

There are things we can't change from the past, but we can try to be better in the future.

We all here are ready to try and fix things if you are.
We are not going to pressure you. It is entirely up to you.
If you want it then maybe it can start as a picnic in the park or you can come here for dinner

Love
Mum

He told me that the first paragraph has underlying messages.
He said no one makes us angry the anger is all us and when you get angry it's nothing to do with the other person.

He had called me back at not a good time. I said I wasnt up to discuss this. I had been in a lawyers office in mediation for 6 hours that day. I told him to call me the next day . That was the 30th of April and still hasnt called back.

I have gifts sitting here for his son and daughter. Only 3 of my sons were invited to his sons first birthday. Two went and one of those walked away not liking her family and he was one who was really pushing for us to come together.

He won't forgive his sisters and I'm about to totally give up and totally exclude him and his family from my life forever.
I only told one if my daughters yesterday that if he doesn't come through before I die then I definitely won't want him at my funeral.

Now after all that . Forgiveness is very important but there is only so much you can do before you need to give up

 

[NotNats]

First and foremost "Fergi, you need to butt out, this has nothing to do with you".
You are not involved with this, so your meddling is unwarranted and could cause more problems in the long run.

 

[NotNats]

I love Fergie , it's amazing how she has stuck by Andrew even after everything he has done.

Forgiveness is so important, holding grudges and keeping anger in is so bad for your health.

Most of my family and I are estranged from my 3rd eldest son.
Six years ago his girlfriend caused alot of problems and did wrong. My kids gave hubby a 60th birthday party and my son was told not to bring her. He did and one off my daughters got into an argument with my son in front of his girlfriend.
She asked him why his girlfriend came after they told him she wasn't welcomed.
I'm not going to go into details but what his girlfriend did was very wrong.

They ended up breaking up . He planned a trip to Greece. My girls said wait until his ex hears he is going overseas , she will try to get back with him. She heard , she broke up with her new male friend and went to Greece with my son and an all paid trip.

This is a very materialistic girl. She would see a $500 bag and my son would get it for her.

Six months after their trip they announced their wedding. We were invited 2 weeks before the wedding. Three of my daughters were not invited.

I spoke to my son whom I hadn't spoken to due to him not accepting my daughters apology and asked him to fix the problem and invite hus sisters. He wouldn't so I refused to attend the wedding.

Hubby and 9 of his brothers n sisters attended.

She wore a Pepulum dress and we found out after that she was 22 weeks pregnant. She got pregnant on their trip. It was an entrapment .

Before his sister hot married she tried to fix it but again he wouldn't listen. People that know both my son and his wife say it's not him but her that is blocking it being resolved.

My son has a way off making you angry. I'm a person who don't get angry but push me and I explode.

Last time I saw him maybe 18 months ago that happened. I then said the unthinkable and said I dont want to see him again that I disowned him.

I've seen his 4 year old daughter twice and have never seen his 1 year old son. ( hubby has)

I sent him a message a few weeks ago
( see below the message)

Hello Matt
Firstly I want to apologise for saying to you I disown you. Sometimes, people make us angry, and we say the wrong thing.

It saddens us that you are no longer involved in family things.

I was sitting and thinking how this whole thing started and how silly it is that it is still going on.

We are missing out on seeing your children growing up, and you are missing out on your nieces and nephews.

Things can happen in a second that we can't control or fix.

We saw this the other day when Steph's girl Lily had an anaphylactic reaction and basically died. She was floppy and unresponsive and went a grey colour.

There are things we can't change from the past, but we can try to be better in the future.

We all here are ready to try and fix things if you are.
We are not going to pressure you. It is entirely up to you.
If you want it then maybe it can start as a picnic in the park or you can come here for dinner

Love
Mum

He told me that the first paragraph has underlying messages.
He said no one makes us angry the anger is all us and when you get angry it's nothing to do with the other person.

He had called me back at not a good time. I said I wasnt up to discuss this. I had been in a lawyers office in mediation for 6 hours that day. I told him to call me the next day . That was the 30th of April and still hasnt called back.

I have gifts sitting here for his son and daughter. Only 3 of my sons were invited to his sons first birthday. Two went and one of those walked away not liking her family and he was one who was really pushing for us to come together.

He won't forgive his sisters and I'm about to totally give up and totally exclude him and his family from my life forever.
I only told one if my daughters yesterday that if he doesn't come through before I die then I definitely won't want him at my funeral.

Now after all that . Forgiveness is very important but there is only so much you can do before you need to give up

I understand where you are coming from. My daughter hasn't spoken to me since Christmas 2015 due to a misunderstanding of an e-mail my hubby send. My hubby died in June 2017 so the bridges can no longer be mended for him. Yes, I miss her and the rest of her family, but that's life.
People tell me I should make the first move to mend this bridge, but I ask "WHY ME". And please don't say "because your her mum".

 

[mylittletibbies]

I love Fergie , it's amazing how she has stuck by Andrew even after everything he has done.

Forgiveness is so important, holding grudges and keeping anger in is so bad for your health.

Most of my family and I are estranged from my 3rd eldest son.
Six years ago his girlfriend caused alot of problems and did wrong. My kids gave hubby a 60th birthday party and my son was told not to bring her. He did and one off my daughters got into an argument with my son in front of his girlfriend.
She asked him why his girlfriend came after they told him she wasn't welcomed.
I'm not going to go into details but what his girlfriend did was very wrong.

They ended up breaking up . He planned a trip to Greece. My girls said wait until his ex hears he is going overseas , she will try to get back with him. She heard , she broke up with her new male friend and went to Greece with my son and an all paid trip.

This is a very materialistic girl. She would see a $500 bag and my son would get it for her.

Six months after their trip they announced their wedding. We were invited 2 weeks before the wedding. Three of my daughters were not invited.

I spoke to my son whom I hadn't spoken to due to him not accepting my daughters apology and asked him to fix the problem and invite his sisters. He wouldn't so I refused to attend the wedding.

Hubby and 9 of his brothers n sisters attended.

She wore a Pepulum dress and we found out after that she was 22 weeks pregnant. She got pregnant on their trip. It was an entrapment .

Before his sister got married she tried to fix it but again he wouldn't listen. People that know both my son and his wife say it's not him but her that is blocking it being resolved.

My son has a way off making you angry. I'm a person who don't get angry but push me and I explode.

Last time I saw him maybe 18 months ago that happened. I then said the unthinkable and said I dont want to see him again that I disowned him.

I've seen his 4 year old daughter twice and have never seen his 1 year old son. ( hubby has)

I sent him a message a few weeks ago
( see below the message)

Hello Matt
Firstly I want to apologise for saying to you I disown you. Sometimes, people make us angry, and we say the wrong thing.

It saddens us that you are no longer involved in family things.

I was sitting and thinking how this whole thing started and how silly it is that it is still going on.

We are missing out on seeing your children growing up, and you are missing out on your nieces and nephews.

Things can happen in a second that we can't control or fix.

We saw this the other day when Steph's girl Lily had an anaphylactic reaction and basically died. She was floppy and unresponsive and went a grey colour.

There are things we can't change from the past, but we can try to be better in the future.

We all here are ready to try and fix things if you are.
We are not going to pressure you. It is entirely up to you.
If you want it then maybe it can start as a picnic in the park or you can come here for dinner

Love
Mum

He told me that the first paragraph has underlying messages.
He said no one makes us angry the anger is all us and when you get angry it's nothing to do with the other person.

He had called me back at not a good time. I said I wasnt up to discuss this. I had been in a lawyers office in mediation for 6 hours that day. I told him to call me the next day . That was the 30th of April and still hasnt called back.

I have gifts sitting here for his son and daughter. Only 3 of my sons were invited to his sons first birthday. Two went and one of those walked away not liking her family and he was one who was really pushing for us to come together.

He won't forgive his sisters and I'm about to totally give up and totally exclude him and his family from my life forever.
I only told one if my daughters yesterday that if he doesn't come through before I die then I definitely won't want him at my funeral.

Now after all that . Forgiveness is very important but there is only so much you can do before you need to give up

I am so sorry for you Suzanne Rose, it's heartbreaking to loose your son.
My eldest son is 51 and has a drug addiction. I hadn't spoken to him in over five years,.just got to the stage where I couldn't take any more.
About six months ago he had a massive heart attack due to his lifestyle. I went to the hospital to see him, tried to rebuild relationship but nothing changes.
He is very jealous of his younger brother who has done very well for himself. He thinks that I have helped him get where he is.
I have helped him paying for their solar system and probably about $10,000 to assist with things on their new property.
My elder son has cost me a fortune, two stints in rehab, two caravans when he had nowhere to live, both sold for drugs, the list goes on and on. But he forgets all that.
He rang a few weeks ago and wanted to come back and live with me. I said no, I'm 77 now, carer for both my husband and my daughter, I can't cope with his problems as well.
I offered to let him stay in another country house I have but he hung up on me.
I received a message the other day saying I will never hear from him again, how I never loved him he was never good enough for me, etc etc. what a lousy mother I was.
I never learn, you would think I'd know by now that nothing is going to change.

 

[mylittletibbies]

I understand where you are coming from. My daughter hasn't spoken to me since Christmas 2015 due to a misunderstanding of an e-mail my hubby send. My hubby died in June 2017 so the bridges can no longer be mended for him. Yes, I miss her and the rest of her family, but that's life.
People tell me I should make the first move to mend this bridge, but I ask "WHY ME". And please don't say "because your her mum".

I would never say that, I have tried and tried with my son but nothing changes.
I love my son but I definitely don't like him. I can't believe anything he tells me.
Sometimes just being someone's mum just isn't enough reason to ruin your own life to help someone who just won't help themself.
Maybe your daughter will come to her senses one day and reach out to you, I hope so.
Best wishes

 

[GillyH]

I love Fergie , it's amazing how she has stuck by Andrew even after everything he has done.

Forgiveness is so important, holding grudges and keeping anger in is so bad for your health.

Most of my family and I are estranged from my 3rd eldest son.
Six years ago his girlfriend caused alot of problems and did wrong. My kids gave hubby a 60th birthday party and my son was told not to bring her. He did and one off my daughters got into an argument with my son in front of his girlfriend.
She asked him why his girlfriend came after they told him she wasn't welcomed.
I'm not going to go into details but what his girlfriend did was very wrong.

They ended up breaking up . He planned a trip to Greece. My girls said wait until his ex hears he is going overseas , she will try to get back with him. She heard , she broke up with her new male friend and went to Greece with my son and an all paid trip.

This is a very materialistic girl. She would see a $500 bag and my son would get it for her.

Six months after their trip they announced their wedding. We were invited 2 weeks before the wedding. Three of my daughters were not invited.

I spoke to my son whom I hadn't spoken to due to him not accepting my daughters apology and asked him to fix the problem and invite his sisters. He wouldn't so I refused to attend the wedding.

Hubby and 9 of his brothers n sisters attended.

She wore a Pepulum dress and we found out after that she was 22 weeks pregnant. She got pregnant on their trip. It was an entrapment .

Before his sister got married she tried to fix it but again he wouldn't listen. People that know both my son and his wife say it's not him but her that is blocking it being resolved.

My son has a way off making you angry. I'm a person who don't get angry but push me and I explode.

Last time I saw him maybe 18 months ago that happened. I then said the unthinkable and said I dont want to see him again that I disowned him.

I've seen his 4 year old daughter twice and have never seen his 1 year old son. ( hubby has)

I sent him a message a few weeks ago
( see below the message)

Hello Matt
Firstly I want to apologise for saying to you I disown you. Sometimes, people make us angry, and we say the wrong thing.

It saddens us that you are no longer involved in family things.

I was sitting and thinking how this whole thing started and how silly it is that it is still going on.

We are missing out on seeing your children growing up, and you are missing out on your nieces and nephews.

Things can happen in a second that we can't control or fix.

We saw this the other day when Steph's girl Lily had an anaphylactic reaction and basically died. She was floppy and unresponsive and went a grey colour.

There are things we can't change from the past, but we can try to be better in the future.

We all here are ready to try and fix things if you are.
We are not going to pressure you. It is entirely up to you.
If you want it then maybe it can start as a picnic in the park or you can come here for dinner

Love
Mum

He told me that the first paragraph has underlying messages.
He said no one makes us angry the anger is all us and when you get angry it's nothing to do with the other person.

He had called me back at not a good time. I said I wasnt up to discuss this. I had been in a lawyers office in mediation for 6 hours that day. I told him to call me the next day . That was the 30th of April and still hasnt called back.

I have gifts sitting here for his son and daughter. Only 3 of my sons were invited to his sons first birthday. Two went and one of those walked away not liking her family and he was one who was really pushing for us to come together.

He won't forgive his sisters and I'm about to totally give up and totally exclude him and his family from my life forever.
I only told one if my daughters yesterday that if he doesn't come through before I die then I definitely won't want him at my funeral.

Now after all that . Forgiveness is very important but there is only so much you can do before you need to give up

Forgiveness is important, on both sides. Once you make up it is done said never to hold grudges. Acceptance is part of that.

 

[June E]

Yes I’m afraid I’m another one ! My youngest son of 4 kids suddenly decided he wanted nothing to do with me then gradually his brothers and sister. None of us has any idea why. After many attempts to resolve this it’s painfully clear it’s what he wants. It’s been 6 years now and we are learning to live with it without harassing him about what happened, it was his choice and broke my heart.

 

[Suzanne rose]

Yes I’m afraid I’m another one ! My youngest son of 4 kids suddenly decided he wanted nothing to do with me then gradually his brothers and sister. None of us has any idea why. After many attempts to resolve this it’s painfully clear it’s what he wants. It’s been 6 years now and we are learning to live with it without harassing him about what happened, it was his choice and broke my heart.

I hear you

 

[Suzanne rose]

I understand where you are coming from. My daughter hasn't spoken to me since Christmas 2015 due to a misunderstanding of an e-mail my hubby send. My hubby died in June 2017 so the bridges can no longer be mended for him. Yes, I miss her and the rest of her family, but that's life.
People tell me I should make the first move to mend this bridge, but I ask "WHY ME". And please don't say "because your her mum".

I always say to my kids it takes a bigger person to make the first move. I was totally in the right but made the first move to fix things. If it doesn't workout at least I can say I tried and tried hard.

Maybe you should think of being the first person to try and fix things. Are you afraid she won't accept it.
I'm thinking she is probably holding in alot of guilt especially after her dad passed.

Give it some thought I always find it easier and best through an email, message or letter.

Reading words seem to sink in better and less likely to end in an argument

 

[DLHM]

I am so sorry for you Suzanne Rose, it's heartbreaking to loose your son.
My eldest son is 51 and has a drug addiction. I hadn't spoken to him in over five years,.just got to the stage where I couldn't take any more.
About six months ago he had a massive heart attack due to his lifestyle. I went to the hospital to see him, tried to rebuild relationship but nothing changes.
He is very jealous of his younger brother who has done very well for himself. He thinks that I have helped him get where he is.
I have helped him paying for their solar system and probably about $10,000 to assist with things on their new property.
My elder son has cost me a fortune, two stints in rehab, two caravans when he had nowhere to live, both sold for drugs, the list goes on and on. But he forgets all that.
He rang a few weeks ago and wanted to come back and live with me. I said no, I'm 77 now, carer for both my husband and my daughter, I can't cope with his problems as well.
I offered to let him stay in another country house I have but he hung up on me.
I received a message the other day saying I will never hear from him again, how I never loved him he was never good enough for me, etc etc. what a lousy mother I was.
I never learn, you would think I'd know by now that nothing is going to change.

Abused, illicit drug use changes a person so much that they’re incapable of making rational choices. They are truly not the person they once were.

 

[DLHM]

It’s sad, but there are many of us who have children who want nothing to do with us. Sometimes, we don’t even know why.

 

[Suzanne rose]

I am so sorry for you Suzanne Rose, it's heartbreaking to loose your son.
My eldest son is 51 and has a drug addiction. I hadn't spoken to him in over five years,.just got to the stage where I couldn't take any more.
About six months ago he had a massive heart attack due to his lifestyle. I went to the hospital to see him, tried to rebuild relationship but nothing changes.
He is very jealous of his younger brother who has done very well for himself. He thinks that I have helped him get where he is.
I have helped him paying for their solar system and probably about $10,000 to assist with things on their new property.
My elder son has cost me a fortune, two stints in rehab, two caravans when he had nowhere to live, both sold for drugs, the list goes on and on. But he forgets all that.
He rang a few weeks ago and wanted to come back and live with me. I said no, I'm 77 now, carer for both my husband and my daughter, I can't cope with his problems as well.
I offered to let him stay in another country house I have but he hung up on me.
I received a message the other day saying I will never hear from him again, how I never loved him he was never good enough for me, etc etc. what a lousy mother I was.
I never learn, you would think I'd know by now that nothing is going to change.

that's so sad. He needs to grow up. By not having you in his life is a big loss to him

 

[Suzanne rose]

It’s sad, but there are many of us who have children who want nothing to do with us. Sometimes, we don’t even know why.

My girls say ' it's OK we will go to his next wedding'

 

[mylittletibbies]

Abused, illicit drug use changes a person so much that they’re incapable of making rational choices. They are truly not the person they once were.

Yes, you are so right. I wonder what happened to my beautiful little boy, where he went and have to learn to accept that he is never coming back.
It's heartbreaking.

 

[Luckyus]

I have four brothers and when we had a fight, and I don't mean Verbals, anyone that interfered would find out very quickly to keep their nose out of it (Not many people like two on one? naturally I'm talking about fighting) Reminds of a question: What is your opinion of all-in wrestling. Answer: If its all-in what's the point of wrestling?

 

[NotNats]

I would never say that, I have tried and tried with my son but nothing changes.
I love my son but I definitely don't like him. I can't believe anything he tells me.
Sometimes just being someone's mum just isn't enough reason to ruin your own life to help someone who just won't help themself.
Maybe your daughter will come to her senses one day and reach out to you, I hope so.
Best wishes

Thank you for your kind words

 

[marni]

If you have to ask the question starting with “did” then the journalist knows no more than the rest of us.

 

[NotNats]

I always say to my kids it takes a bigger person to make the first move. I was totally in the right but made the first move to fix things. If it doesn't workout at least I can say I tried and tried hard.

Maybe you should think of being the first person to try and fix things. Are you afraid she won't accept it.
I'm thinking she is probably holding in alot of guilt especially after her dad passed.

Give it some thought I always find it easier and best through an email, message or letter.

Reading words seem to sink in better and less likely to end in an argument

I have always been the first one to try and fix things - But this time sorry, am tired of being the so called "Bigger Person". Been doing it for over 30yrs.

But I hope it works for you.

 

[Luckyus]

Both of the toxic gruesome twosome isn't worth crossing the road to piss on.