[mustang]

I am 69 yrs old have 3 children and 3 grandchildren, I was brought up to respect the elders and when you see neighbours was always mr and mrs. today it's not they call people by their first name, I found with my children they don't bother about me at all unless they need a babysitter. I been sick for a month now they knew i was sick never bothered to phone or send text.

 

[twobois]

I was waiting in a short line a couple of days ago to ask the click and collect counter staff if they could get my order for me. Before I had the chance a brazen 30 somehing woman with toddler in toe pushed in front of me and stated I've been waiting in the pick up bay for half an hour and no one has delivered my groceries. I asked her to excuse me and wait in line, she basically told me to mind my own business. I challenged her again and she screamed at me. I have kids in the car and a sore leg i have priority. Yeah right. No respect for me and others generally. She was not even parked in the pick up bay, and did not ring up. That puts her in the same boat as anyone parking in a mobility parking bay and defending their actions when they are challenged.

 

[Kawi]

Poll: Do you think the sentiment of respecting your elders has been lost on the new generation?​

Happy Sunday, members!

We have something new for you today: a poll!

We love reading your comments and emails and today we’re looking for your thoughts on this generation of teenagers. This topic has been on our mind for a while but this shocking story of a ‘teenage orgy in Westfield’ and the increasing disrespect towards Remembrance Day really tipped the scale.

Our question to you is: Do you think the sentiment of respecting your elders has been lost on the new generation?

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Poll: Do you think the sentiment of respecting your elders has been lost on the new generation?​

Happy Sunday, members!

We have something new for you today: a poll!

We love reading your comments and emails and today we’re looking for your thoughts on this generation of teenagers. This topic has been on our mind for a while but this shocking story of a ‘teenage orgy in Westfield’ and the increasing disrespect towards Remembrance Day really tipped the scale.

Our question to you is: Do you think the sentiment of respecting your elders has been lost on the new generation?

You can vote above but feel free to comment and explain your choice!

Agree with Cat55. Unless children have an innate behavioural issue, their attitude goes back to the parents. Parents can teach children good values & attitudes from the start and command elders be treated with respect or else.

 

[PepeLePew]

I live in an area where gangs of ferals congregate in the middle of the shopping district and outside of a shopping mall usually in the afternoon and at night and on the weekends. They steal on a regular basis from the local shops, harass and bash other teenagers for their phones and shoes and berate adults who refuse to give them cigarettes or buy them alcohol not to mention breaking a& entering and the stealing of cars and killing innocent people when they loose control of said cars.
So, yes these kids have no respect for themselves, their peers or other teenagers who are law abiding.

Had the misfortune of being on a train just recently where I had no choice but to listen to a high school student of about 14 years brag very very loudly about how she shoved a teacher flying in the classroom at the end of a lesson and got suspended for it and apparently from what was said this wasn't the first time and that her actions would show this teacher that she doesn't have the right to tell her what to do. How proud her parent/s must be of her (yes I'm being sarcastic)

Parents need to instill the meaning of respect on their children from a young age and parents of this generation of teenagers have pretty much failed to do that so these kids flaunt the law knowing that all they ever get is a rapt of the knuckles and that they can do and say whatever they want without repercussions of any kind.

 

[Annemarie]

I’ve noticed as I got older (now 72) that the younger generation think of us as pretty useless in society, to the point of being isolated from discussions and socialising. It seems to me that we are looked on as not knowing anything worthwhile.

I couldn't agree with you more SusanneG. When our own politicians look on us as a drain on the government purse, it's not surprising that the respect for us, our achievements and our knowledge, is gone.

 

[Annemarie]

As a younger member of the group, I see the disrespect from younger people towards elderly people and it sickens me. It’s so bad that every time I read or see a younger person respecting them, it touches me to my core! I feel it’s wrong to have to feel like that because when I was growing up, if you didn’t respect your elders omg look out. It’s part of my nature now. Most kids these days don’t even respect their parents. At 45, I still worry what my folks would say about some decisions I make, before I make them

It's apparent that your parents taught you well Jen77au. I am 67 and when I was growing up we were expected to give our seats on the bus or train to the elderly, infirm or pregnant person so that they didn't have to stand throughout the journey. It was the polite thing to do. As was keeping our bags out of the aisles. We respected out teachers and knew what would happen if we disrupted the class. Unfortunately, with the changes in disciplinary rules, a lot of teachers spend more time trying to keep order in their classrooms, than teaching those who really want to learn. Respect, like common sense, seems to be rapidly going by the wayside.

 

[Zoya]

I have always said that respect is s dual edged sword. If you don't give it, you will not get it in return. I have and always will, respected my elders however if anyone, of any age disrespects me, then it is a different ball game. My motto in life and always has been "if you wouldn't like it done or said to you, don't do or say it to anyone else", I call that my religion.

I agree.

 

[Annemarie]

I agree.

Very well said and my motto as well.

 

[doug.wood1]

I am 76 , and until recently , I was driving buses in Brisbane . We often do school runs , and while a few students are very pleasant and respectful , parents would be shocked if they saw their ' very respectful and darling children ' on a school bus . The majority of them are lying , swearing little ferals , eating , drinking riding free , and putting their feet on seats , and God help any driver who dares to say anything to them about it . Most drivers dread doing the school runs , and now just ignore them , except for the few who talk to drivers politely and pay their fares . Mind you , a lot of adults know their 'rights' also , and make sure they get their perceived rights , and make sure we know about them .

 

[Alexander]

I think it's the minority who disrespect their elders I certainly hope I'm right

No you are not right. Nowadays it seems that a saying I heard from a Londoner working with me in West Africa some 60 years ago said, "there is no such thing as a bad child ... but the world is overpopulated with bad parents," is more true every day. A generalisation I agree but nevertheless unfortuately true. Respect has to be earned and passed on to others. If you are not taught it you can't pass it on, So what do parents do in many cases? Blame the teachers at school for not doing what they should have been doing since their child was born. It is not their job. Well meaning teachers are human like the rest of us. Giving and looking for respect.

 

[Jen77au]

It's apparent that your parents taught you well Jen77au. I am 67 and when I was growing up we were expected to give our seats on the bus or train to the elderly, infirm or pregnant person so that they didn't have to stand throughout the journey. It was the polite thing to do. As was keeping our bags out of the aisles. We respected out teachers and knew what would happen if we disrupted the class. Unfortunately, with the changes in disciplinary rules, a lot of teachers spend more time trying to keep order in their classrooms, than teaching those who really want to learn. Respect, like common sense, seems to be rapidly going by the wayside.

Yes Annemarie, my parents have brought me up well. I remember being more afraid of them than the police . Not that I had any reason to be. I am blessed with wonderful parents and even through our ups and downs, they’ve supported me and still do, through everything. I still even call my aunts and uncles, aunt and uncle! And yes, the kids that do want to learn are missing out because of the teachers having to manage the masses. It’s sad to think what the future holds for the younger generation who have respect and common sense.

 

[Jenn Hawkesbury]

For a VERY long time
Then again I’ve always believed an elder should be as respectful
Earn it !!!
Not
do as I say
Not
As I do

 

[Jenn Hawkesbury]

No you are not right. Nowadays it seems that a saying I heard from a Londoner working with me in West Africa some 60 years ago said, "there is no such thing as a bad child ... but the world is overpopulated with bad parents," is more true every day. A generalisation I agree but nevertheless unfortuately true. Respect has to be earned and passed on to others. If you are not taught it you can't pass it on, So what do parents do in many cases? Blame the teachers at school for not doing what they should have been doing since their child was born. It is not their job. Well meaning teachers are human like the rest of us. Giving and looking for respect.

Spot on

 

[Singomate]

I am known to my Children and Grandchildren, as loving Dad and Grandfather, but also known as a person that will not put up with Bad manners Respect is paramount in our family, so much so people comment on their smiles and good manners.

 

[Sally from Seymour]

If I were to answer "yes" I would be discrediting the example my parents set for me.
My beautiful Mother lived with us and our three girls who benefited from this example and it can be noted that their children have been exposed to it too, as the love and respect they show to those around them fills me with pride.
Thanks Mum and Dad.

 

[Jethrotull]

Poll: Do you think the sentiment of respecting your elders has been lost on the new generation?​

Happy Sunday, members!

We have something new for you today: a poll!

We love reading your comments and emails and today we’re looking for your thoughts on this generation of teenagers. This topic has been on our mind for a while but this shocking story of a ‘teenage orgy in Westfield’ and the increasing disrespect towards Remembrance Day really tipped the scale.

Our question to you is: Do you think the sentiment of respecting your elders has been lost on the new generation?

You can vote above but feel free to comment and explain your choice!

Just observe how they treat police.. that’s the litmus test of their lack of respect..

 

[Pattycake]

I know my grandkids love me, but they do live in a different time to us oldies. Technology has geared them to be independent and all knowing. Sad though, I prefer to stay out of their conversations. They speak their minds too freely. Sometimes too freely, something I would never do. Think before u speak. I wish them the best of everything, loving them unconditionally.

 

[Yeoy]

I think, in general, yes (Aus); but I also know of some who are respectful to all others including elders.
For 23 years I lived and taught at a large international school in Thailand & recognized that nearly all students (approx 30% Thai, 30% Asian, 30% western) showed considerable respect for everyone no matter age or any other position! Traditionally, Thai children also show appreciation to their parents during special days in Thailand! So, it's not all bad!

 

[Pattycake]

I think, in general, yes (Aus); but I also know of some who are respectful to all others including elders.
For 23 years I lived and taught at a large international school in Thailand & recognized that nearly all students (approx 30% Thai, 30% Asian, 30% western) showed considerable respect for everyone no matter age or any other position! Traditionally, Thai children also show appreciation to their parents during special days in Thailand! So, it's not all bad!

 

[Pattycake]

I think, in general, yes (Aus); but I also know of some who are respectful to all others including elders.
For 23 years I lived and taught at a large international school in Thailand & recognized that nearly all students (approx 30% Thai, 30% Asian, 30% western) showed considerable respect for everyone no matter age or any other position! Traditionally, Thai children also show appreciation to their parents during special days in Thailand! So, it's not all bad