Outrage Ignited: The Shockingly Rude Note Left on Disabled Woman's Car That'll Make Your Blood Boil
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We all know the saying, ‘Don't judge a book by its cover.’ But in today's fast-paced world, it seems that some people have forgotten the importance of taking a moment to consider the full story before making snap judgments. This was all too evident in a recent incident involving a disabled woman and her car, which has sparked outrage on social media.
Imagine going about your day, running errands with a family member, only to return to your car and find a shockingly rude note accusing them of misusing a disability parking spot. This is precisely what happened to one Reddit user who shared their story, and the note left on their mother's car after a shopping trip in Canberra.
‘Hi, are you truely [sic] disabled,’ the note read. ‘You both walked from your car like athletes [sic]. Please follow the rules.’
Now, if that doesn't make your blood boil, we don't know what will. The Reddit user was understandably furious and took to the forum to vent their frustration.
‘The absolute gall to leave this on my mother's car in Gungahlin shops parking,’ they wrote. ‘My mother is disabled, her disability isn't visible. She was legally given a disability parking permit because she is DISABLED! What a moron.’
It's a heartbreaking reminder that not all disabilities are visible, and it's not our place to judge others based on appearances. According to the Australian Institute of Health and Welfare, 18 per cent (or 4.4 million) of the total population in Australia has a disability, and many of those disabilities are not immediately apparent. This story resonated with many who shared similar experiences they or people they knew had been through when it came to disability parking.
One woman with arthritis said, ‘I have arthritis in my spine and elsewhere – disabling, yet completely invisible. Have had old women yell at me for parking in the disabled spots, despite having a permit.’
Another person shared their friend's experience: ‘My mate with MS cops this all the time.’
To better support people with disabilities, particularly those with invisible disabilities, it's essential to practice empathy and understanding. Here are a few tips:
1. Don't assume someone doesn't have a disability just because it isn't visible.
2. Treat everyone with respect and kindness, regardless of their abilities or appearance.
3. Offer assistance if you see someone struggling, but always ask first and respect their wishes.
There are also several initiatives and campaigns promoting disability awareness, such as Invisible Disabilities Week, which aims to raise awareness and educate the public about the challenges faced by those with invisible disabilities.
Thankfully, the Reddit community rallied around the user and their mother, offering kind words and support.
‘That is a true ****s act. Please let your mum know that the rest of society does not judge people like this; it's an act of a lonely coward,’ one social media user said.
‘I'm sorry you found this note on your car. There's no need to ever justify why you have a disabled 'sticker'. It's no one's business but your own,’ another added.
We couldn't agree more. It's essential to remember that everyone is fighting their own battles, some of which we may not see on the surface. So, let's all take a moment to practice kindness, understanding, and empathy, and remember not to judge others based on appearances alone.
And to our dear SDC members who may have experienced similar situations, please know that you have our support and understanding. You deserve respect and consideration, regardless of whether your disability is visible or not.
Imagine going about your day, running errands with a family member, only to return to your car and find a shockingly rude note accusing them of misusing a disability parking spot. This is precisely what happened to one Reddit user who shared their story, and the note left on their mother's car after a shopping trip in Canberra.
‘Hi, are you truely [sic] disabled,’ the note read. ‘You both walked from your car like athletes [sic]. Please follow the rules.’
Now, if that doesn't make your blood boil, we don't know what will. The Reddit user was understandably furious and took to the forum to vent their frustration.
‘The absolute gall to leave this on my mother's car in Gungahlin shops parking,’ they wrote. ‘My mother is disabled, her disability isn't visible. She was legally given a disability parking permit because she is DISABLED! What a moron.’
It's a heartbreaking reminder that not all disabilities are visible, and it's not our place to judge others based on appearances. According to the Australian Institute of Health and Welfare, 18 per cent (or 4.4 million) of the total population in Australia has a disability, and many of those disabilities are not immediately apparent. This story resonated with many who shared similar experiences they or people they knew had been through when it came to disability parking.
One woman with arthritis said, ‘I have arthritis in my spine and elsewhere – disabling, yet completely invisible. Have had old women yell at me for parking in the disabled spots, despite having a permit.’
Another person shared their friend's experience: ‘My mate with MS cops this all the time.’
To better support people with disabilities, particularly those with invisible disabilities, it's essential to practice empathy and understanding. Here are a few tips:
1. Don't assume someone doesn't have a disability just because it isn't visible.
2. Treat everyone with respect and kindness, regardless of their abilities or appearance.
3. Offer assistance if you see someone struggling, but always ask first and respect their wishes.
There are also several initiatives and campaigns promoting disability awareness, such as Invisible Disabilities Week, which aims to raise awareness and educate the public about the challenges faced by those with invisible disabilities.
Thankfully, the Reddit community rallied around the user and their mother, offering kind words and support.
‘That is a true ****s act. Please let your mum know that the rest of society does not judge people like this; it's an act of a lonely coward,’ one social media user said.
‘I'm sorry you found this note on your car. There's no need to ever justify why you have a disabled 'sticker'. It's no one's business but your own,’ another added.
Key Takeaways
- A driver found a note on their mother's car accusing them of misusing an accessible parking spot.
- The note questioned if the mother was truly disabled and asked them to follow the rules.
- The social media user explained that their mother has a non-visible disability and has a legal parking permit.
- Others shared similar experiences and offered support to the family against such judgmental behaviour.
We couldn't agree more. It's essential to remember that everyone is fighting their own battles, some of which we may not see on the surface. So, let's all take a moment to practice kindness, understanding, and empathy, and remember not to judge others based on appearances alone.
And to our dear SDC members who may have experienced similar situations, please know that you have our support and understanding. You deserve respect and consideration, regardless of whether your disability is visible or not.
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