'It felt like me': Newlywed recounts bizarre experience after sharing one wedding detail online
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When it comes to weddings, white gowns have been a traditional pick, as they symbolise purity and elegance.
What happens when a bride decides to break away from the norm and embrace her unique style?
This was the case for Basak, a 33-year-old bride who chose to express her individuality on her wedding day.
However, she found herself at the centre of an unexpected social media storm.
Basak's outfit choice for her intimate civil ceremony at London's Hackney Town Hall was a bustier maxi dress paired with Gucci leather pumps.
The dress, which she purchased from a high street brand for $270, featured black straps and the top of the cups of a black bra visible over the neckline.
Basak felt her look was a reflection of her style and perfect for the small gathering of 15 guests.
However, when the newlywed shared photos and videos from her big day online, she saw a barrage of negative comments from strangers.
Critics labelled her outfit 'tacky', 'trashy', and 'disgusting' and left the newlywed feeling 'bullied' by a larger online community.
The backlash was a shock to her, as she had a small amount of followers online and did not anticipate her dress becoming a debate topic.
'I didn't think anyone would comment on the dress,' Basak shared in an interview.
'It was comfortable and felt like me.'
Some commenters insisted that wedding dresses should be purely white and her choice was 'inappropriate' for the occasion.
The hurtful remarks prompted Basak to delete the comments, but the experience became a disheartening ordeal for her.
In a follow-up video she posted online, Basak addressed the bullying she has received online.
With a larger wedding planned for later this year, Basak's approach to her civil ceremony attire was practical and personal.
She did not want to spend thousands on a dress for the civil ceremony, so she opted for something that did not break the bank and still reflected her personality.
In return, Basak received an outpouring of support afterwards, as many others defended her style and praised her for looking 'amazing' during her wedding.
Despite the online negativity, Basak's wedding day was a joyous one.
The newlyweds' family and friends celebrated her look and affirmed that it was in character.
The support from her loved ones was a stark contrast to the anonymous users who expressed their distaste for her choice.
Basak's story highlighted the pressure brides often face to conform to traditional expectations and the scrutiny that could come with posting personal moments on social media.
The story also became a testament to the evolving nature of wedding traditions over the years.
She left one piece of advice to other incoming brides: 'Do not care what others think if it makes you happy.'
We would love to hear your thoughts on this debacle. What do you think of the bride's dress? Have you witnessed a shift in wedding traditions over the years? Share your stories and opinions with us in the comments section below!
What happens when a bride decides to break away from the norm and embrace her unique style?
This was the case for Basak, a 33-year-old bride who chose to express her individuality on her wedding day.
However, she found herself at the centre of an unexpected social media storm.
Basak's outfit choice for her intimate civil ceremony at London's Hackney Town Hall was a bustier maxi dress paired with Gucci leather pumps.
The dress, which she purchased from a high street brand for $270, featured black straps and the top of the cups of a black bra visible over the neckline.
The bride's civil ceremony dress sparked a heated exchange online. Image Credit: Basak/SWNS
Basak felt her look was a reflection of her style and perfect for the small gathering of 15 guests.
However, when the newlywed shared photos and videos from her big day online, she saw a barrage of negative comments from strangers.
Critics labelled her outfit 'tacky', 'trashy', and 'disgusting' and left the newlywed feeling 'bullied' by a larger online community.
The backlash was a shock to her, as she had a small amount of followers online and did not anticipate her dress becoming a debate topic.
'I didn't think anyone would comment on the dress,' Basak shared in an interview.
'It was comfortable and felt like me.'
Some commenters insisted that wedding dresses should be purely white and her choice was 'inappropriate' for the occasion.
The hurtful remarks prompted Basak to delete the comments, but the experience became a disheartening ordeal for her.
In a follow-up video she posted online, Basak addressed the bullying she has received online.
With a larger wedding planned for later this year, Basak's approach to her civil ceremony attire was practical and personal.
She did not want to spend thousands on a dress for the civil ceremony, so she opted for something that did not break the bank and still reflected her personality.
In return, Basak received an outpouring of support afterwards, as many others defended her style and praised her for looking 'amazing' during her wedding.
Despite the online negativity, Basak's wedding day was a joyous one.
The newlyweds' family and friends celebrated her look and affirmed that it was in character.
The support from her loved ones was a stark contrast to the anonymous users who expressed their distaste for her choice.
Basak's story highlighted the pressure brides often face to conform to traditional expectations and the scrutiny that could come with posting personal moments on social media.
The story also became a testament to the evolving nature of wedding traditions over the years.
She left one piece of advice to other incoming brides: 'Do not care what others think if it makes you happy.'
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