Many of you have parented young children, so you already know that raising children is one of the most rewarding jobs in the world – but it's also one of the most challenging.

In a bid to keep her marbles intact, TikTok star and Aussie mum-of-two Kat Zoe Clark implemented a set of strict rules for her two daughters, aged 18 and 11, to follow.

Kat published her video on TikTok about a month ago where she revealed how she has been directing and guiding her two daughters as they grow up. And according to thousands of people on social media, she’s been doing a pretty good job.

The video received more than 2.9 million views on TikTok, and it quickly struck a chord with a lot of other parents on the platform.

She detailed the seven house rules her daughters must strictly follow in a now-viral video. Credit: Kat Zoe Clark.​

The viral clip likely resonated with parents because the seven rules she has for her daughters are straightforward and logical, and because the rules focus more on her relationship with her daughters rather than punishing or depriving them.

Here are the seven rules Kat has for her two girls, and what she has to say about them:

Location: "Yes, you have to have your location on. Will I check it? Probably not, unless you're running late (and haven't arrived home yet)."

Honesty: "Probably my biggest policy. So I expect my kids to be honest with me, but I will also do the same for them... I don't sugar coat anything."

Parties: "General rule of thumb is, if you're in grade nine, you're home by nine. If you're in grade 10, you're home by 10. Once you're 18, I don't really care when you get home."

Sport: "You have to do a sport. You have to do something to move your body."

School: "I'm actually really relaxed when it comes to school. If my kids want to drop out though, they've got to have a business plan or a job."

Boyfriends: "My girls can have boyfriends, but if I have a problem with their boyfriend, they have to listen to my opinion about them."

Rent: "My kids pay rent as soon as they turn 18 or get a job."

Many TikTok users and fellow parents thought Kat's rules were reasonable and even complimented her on a job well done.

"This is actually super reasonable," one person wrote in the comments section. A second one agreed and added, "Cool mom, her rules are so chill!"

Then came a supportive mum who said, "I completely agree with all of these."

However, not everyone was on board with all of her rules. For example, some people believed that requiring her daughter to pay rent was a bit unnecessary and extreme.

"You choose to bring them into this world and if they live with you they shouldn't pay rent, they're your kids!" said one user.

Another agreed and added, "To be honest, the rent rule is a little excessive. Why should you make your children pay rent? You might as well live alone."

​

However, many viewers rallied to her defence and backed her idea. One person, for example, said, "What's the deal with everyone whining about not being able to pay their rent? That is completely normal in New Zealand. From the age of 18 to 25, I paid rent while saving for my first home."

A second person spoke up, saying: "Getting your kids to pay rent is the biggest life lesson because they're not going to live with you forever! Love it, girl! Keep up the amazing job!"

Kat has previously been asked about why she wants her daughter to pay rent. In an earlier video, Kat explained that she charges her daughter $50 per week, money that she does not keep but instead deposits into an investment fund for her daughter's future use to purchase a home.

"I feel like I'm setting her up for success, whilst at the same time, teaching her about the free world because it ain't free to live."

What are your thoughts, members? Do you think it's reasonable for Kat to charge her daughters money for rent once they turn 18? Or should children live rent-free at home? Let us know in the comments below!

 

[one2one]

Many of you have parented young children, so you already know that raising children is one of the most rewarding jobs in the world – but it's also one of the most challenging.

In a bid to keep her marbles intact, TikTok star and Aussie mum-of-two Kat Zoe Clark implemented a set of strict rules for her two daughters, aged 18 and 11, to follow.

​

Kat published her video on TikTok about a month ago where she revealed how she has been directing and guiding her two daughters as they grow up. And according to thousands of people on social media, she’s been doing a pretty good job.

The video received more than 2.9 million views on TikTok, and it quickly struck a chord with a lot of other parents on the platform.

She detailed the seven house rules her daughters must strictly follow in a now-viral video. Credit: Kat Zoe Clark.​

The viral clip likely resonated with parents because the seven rules she has for her daughters are straightforward and logical, and because the rules focus more on her relationship with her daughters rather than punishing or depriving them.

Here are the seven rules Kat has for her two girls, and what she has to say about them:

Location: "Yes, you have to have your location on. Will I check it? Probably not, unless you're running late (and haven't arrived home yet)."

Honesty: "Probably my biggest policy. So I expect my kids to be honest with me, but I will also do the same for them... I don't sugar coat anything."

Parties: "General rule of thumb is, if you're in grade nine, you're home by nine. If you're in grade 10, you're home by 10. Once you're 18, I don't really care when you get home."

Sport: "You have to do a sport. You have to do something to move your body."

School: "I'm actually really relaxed when it comes to school. If my kids want to drop out though, they've got to have a business plan or a job."

Boyfriends: "My girls can have boyfriends, but if I have a problem with their boyfriend, they have to listen to my opinion about them."

Rent: "My kids pay rent as soon as they turn 18 or get a job."

​

Many TikTok users and fellow parents thought Kat's rules were reasonable and even complimented her on a job well done.

"This is actually super reasonable," one person wrote in the comments section. A second one agreed and added, "Cool mom, her rules are so chill!"

Then came a supportive mum who said, "I completely agree with all of these."

However, not everyone was on board with all of her rules. For example, some people believed that requiring her daughter to pay rent was a bit unnecessary and extreme.

"You choose to bring them into this world and if they live with you they shouldn't pay rent, they're your kids!" said one user.

Another agreed and added, "To be honest, the rent rule is a little excessive. Why should you make your children pay rent? You might as well live alone."

​

However, many viewers rallied to her defence and backed her idea. One person, for example, said, "What's the deal with everyone whining about not being able to pay their rent? That is completely normal in New Zealand. From the age of 18 to 25, I paid rent while saving for my first home."

A second person spoke up, saying: "Getting your kids to pay rent is the biggest life lesson because they're not going to live with you forever! Love it, girl! Keep up the amazing job!"

​

Kat has previously been asked about why she wants her daughter to pay rent. In an earlier video, Kat explained that she charges her daughter $50 per week, money that she does not keep but instead deposits into an investment fund for her daughter's future use to purchase a home.

"I feel like I'm setting her up for success, whilst at the same time, teaching her about the free world because it ain't free to live."

What are your thoughts, members? Do you think it's reasonable for Kat to charge her daughters money for rent once they turn 18? Or should children live rent-free at home? Let us know in the comments below!

Great idea very well thought out and it not hard to follow the rules as it applies to all . As parents we always want to protect our children especially more now than in our day as the world is changing so quickly.

 

[Pat T]

We had to pay board from the

Many of you have parented young children, so you already know that raising children is one of the most rewarding jobs in the world – but it's also one of the most challenging.

In a bid to keep her marbles intact, TikTok star and Aussie mum-of-two Kat Zoe Clark implemented a set of strict rules for her two daughters, aged 18 and 11, to follow.

​

Kat published her video on TikTok about a month ago where she revealed how she has been directing and guiding her two daughters as they grow up. And according to thousands of people on social media, she’s been doing a pretty good job.

The video received more than 2.9 million views on TikTok, and it quickly struck a chord with a lot of other parents on the platform.

She detailed the seven house rules her daughters must strictly follow in a now-viral video. Credit: Kat Zoe Clark.​

The viral clip likely resonated with parents because the seven rules she has for her daughters are straightforward and logical, and because the rules focus more on her relationship with her daughters rather than punishing or depriving them.

Here are the seven rules Kat has for her two girls, and what she has to say about them:

Location: "Yes, you have to have your location on. Will I check it? Probably not, unless you're running late (and haven't arrived home yet)."

Honesty: "Probably my biggest policy. So I expect my kids to be honest with me, but I will also do the same for them... I don't sugar coat anything."

Parties: "General rule of thumb is, if you're in grade nine, you're home by nine. If you're in grade 10, you're home by 10. Once you're 18, I don't really care when you get home."

Sport: "You have to do a sport. You have to do something to move your body."

School: "I'm actually really relaxed when it comes to school. If my kids want to drop out though, they've got to have a business plan or a job."

Boyfriends: "My girls can have boyfriends, but if I have a problem with their boyfriend, they have to listen to my opinion about them."

Rent: "My kids pay rent as soon as they turn 18 or get a job."

​

Many TikTok users and fellow parents thought Kat's rules were reasonable and even complimented her on a job well done.

"This is actually super reasonable," one person wrote in the comments section. A second one agreed and added, "Cool mom, her rules are so chill!"

Then came a supportive mum who said, "I completely agree with all of these."

However, not everyone was on board with all of her rules. For example, some people believed that requiring her daughter to pay rent was a bit unnecessary and extreme.

"You choose to bring them into this world and if they live with you they shouldn't pay rent, they're your kids!" said one user.

Another agreed and added, "To be honest, the rent rule is a little excessive. Why should you make your children pay rent? You might as well live alone."

​

However, many viewers rallied to her defence and backed her idea. One person, for example, said, "What's the deal with everyone whining about not being able to pay their rent? That is completely normal in New Zealand. From the age of 18 to 25, I paid rent while saving for my first home."

A second person spoke up, saying: "Getting your kids to pay rent is the biggest life lesson because they're not going to live with you forever! Love it, girl! Keep up the amazing job!"

​

Kat has previously been asked about why she wants her daughter to pay rent. In an earlier video, Kat explained that she charges her daughter $50 per week, money that she does not keep but instead deposits into an investment fund for her daughter's future use to purchase a home.

"I feel like I'm setting her up for success, whilst at the same time, teaching her about the free world because it ain't free to live."

What are your thoughts, members? Do you think it's reasonable for Kat to charge her daughters money for rent once they turn 18? Or should children live rent-free at home? Let us know in the comments below!

We had to pay board from the time we started work. One third board, one third bank, one third self. There were NO government hand outs , and grew believing that if you want something then work and save for it. There was always a sense of purpose and pride when our goal was achieved.

 

[Caroline257]

Her rules are very reasonable and paying rent is a great life lesson. I love that she

Many of you have parented young children, so you already know that raising children is one of the most rewarding jobs in the world – but it's also one of the most challenging.

In a bid to keep her marbles intact, TikTok star and Aussie mum-of-two Kat Zoe Clark implemented a set of strict rules for her two daughters, aged 18 and 11, to follow.

​

Kat published her video on TikTok about a month ago where she revealed how she has been directing and guiding her two daughters as they grow up. And according to thousands of people on social media, she’s been doing a pretty good job.

The video received more than 2.9 million views on TikTok, and it quickly struck a chord with a lot of other parents on the platform.

She detailed the seven house rules her daughters must strictly follow in a now-viral video. Credit: Kat Zoe Clark.​

The viral clip likely resonated with parents because the seven rules she has for her daughters are straightforward and logical, and because the rules focus more on her relationship with her daughters rather than punishing or depriving them.

Here are the seven rules Kat has for her two girls, and what she has to say about them:

Location: "Yes, you have to have your location on. Will I check it? Probably not, unless you're running late (and haven't arrived home yet)."

Honesty: "Probably my biggest policy. So I expect my kids to be honest with me, but I will also do the same for them... I don't sugar coat anything."

Parties: "General rule of thumb is, if you're in grade nine, you're home by nine. If you're in grade 10, you're home by 10. Once you're 18, I don't really care when you get home."

Sport: "You have to do a sport. You have to do something to move your body."

School: "I'm actually really relaxed when it comes to school. If my kids want to drop out though, they've got to have a business plan or a job."

Boyfriends: "My girls can have boyfriends, but if I have a problem with their boyfriend, they have to listen to my opinion about them."

Rent: "My kids pay rent as soon as they turn 18 or get a job."

​

Many TikTok users and fellow parents thought Kat's rules were reasonable and even complimented her on a job well done.

"This is actually super reasonable," one person wrote in the comments section. A second one agreed and added, "Cool mom, her rules are so chill!"

Then came a supportive mum who said, "I completely agree with all of these."

However, not everyone was on board with all of her rules. For example, some people believed that requiring her daughter to pay rent was a bit unnecessary and extreme.

"You choose to bring them into this world and if they live with you they shouldn't pay rent, they're your kids!" said one user.

Another agreed and added, "To be honest, the rent rule is a little excessive. Why should you make your children pay rent? You might as well live alone."

​

However, many viewers rallied to her defence and backed her idea. One person, for example, said, "What's the deal with everyone whining about not being able to pay their rent? That is completely normal in New Zealand. From the age of 18 to 25, I paid rent while saving for my first home."

A second person spoke up, saying: "Getting your kids to pay rent is the biggest life lesson because they're not going to live with you forever! Love it, girl! Keep up the amazing job!"

​

Kat has previously been asked about why she wants her daughter to pay rent. In an earlier video, Kat explained that she charges her daughter $50 per week, money that she does not keep but instead deposits into an investment fund for her daughter's future use to purchase a home.

"I feel like I'm setting her up for success, whilst at the same time, teaching her about the free world because it ain't free to live."

What are your thoughts, members? Do you think it's reasonable for Kat to charge her daughters money for rent once they turn 18? Or should children live rent-free at home? Let us know in the comments below!

puts the rent money into a separate account to help them at a later date to buy property.

 

[Ricci]

I don't think there's anything too onerous in these rules. I too charged my kids rent and banked it separately. When they left home I gave them the account and they were amazed at how much had accumulated, this money was then used to buy the necessities of setting up a place of their own. My housewarming present to them was a box full of all the different cleaning materials needed that when you have to buy them for the first time cost a bomb.

 

[margie]

i had to pay board as long as it's a reasonable amount i paid 15.00 dollars but that was in the 60s big difference to now everything is so expensive no your doing a great job your teaching your girls the right way to live with great values marg

 

[rehandra]

Many of you have parented young children, so you already know that raising children is one of the most rewarding jobs in the world – but it's also one of the most challenging.

In a bid to keep her marbles intact, TikTok star and Aussie mum-of-two Kat Zoe Clark implemented a set of strict rules for her two daughters, aged 18 and 11, to follow.

​

Kat published her video on TikTok about a month ago where she revealed how she has been directing and guiding her two daughters as they grow up. And according to thousands of people on social media, she’s been doing a pretty good job.

The video received more than 2.9 million views on TikTok, and it quickly struck a chord with a lot of other parents on the platform.

She detailed the seven house rules her daughters must strictly follow in a now-viral video. Credit: Kat Zoe Clark.​

The viral clip likely resonated with parents because the seven rules she has for her daughters are straightforward and logical, and because the rules focus more on her relationship with her daughters rather than punishing or depriving them.

Here are the seven rules Kat has for her two girls, and what she has to say about them:

Location: "Yes, you have to have your location on. Will I check it? Probably not, unless you're running late (and haven't arrived home yet)."

Honesty: "Probably my biggest policy. So I expect my kids to be honest with me, but I will also do the same for them... I don't sugar coat anything."

Parties: "General rule of thumb is, if you're in grade nine, you're home by nine. If you're in grade 10, you're home by 10. Once you're 18, I don't really care when you get home."

Sport: "You have to do a sport. You have to do something to move your body."

School: "I'm actually really relaxed when it comes to school. If my kids want to drop out though, they've got to have a business plan or a job."

Boyfriends: "My girls can have boyfriends, but if I have a problem with their boyfriend, they have to listen to my opinion about them."

Rent: "My kids pay rent as soon as they turn 18 or get a job."

​

Many TikTok users and fellow parents thought Kat's rules were reasonable and even complimented her on a job well done.

"This is actually super reasonable," one person wrote in the comments section. A second one agreed and added, "Cool mom, her rules are so chill!"

Then came a supportive mum who said, "I completely agree with all of these."

However, not everyone was on board with all of her rules. For example, some people believed that requiring her daughter to pay rent was a bit unnecessary and extreme.

"You choose to bring them into this world and if they live with you they shouldn't pay rent, they're your kids!" said one user.

Another agreed and added, "To be honest, the rent rule is a little excessive. Why should you make your children pay rent? You might as well live alone."

​

However, many viewers rallied to her defence and backed her idea. One person, for example, said, "What's the deal with everyone whining about not being able to pay their rent? That is completely normal in New Zealand. From the age of 18 to 25, I paid rent while saving for my first home."

A second person spoke up, saying: "Getting your kids to pay rent is the biggest life lesson because they're not going to live with you forever! Love it, girl! Keep up the amazing job!"

​

Kat has previously been asked about why she wants her daughter to pay rent. In an earlier video, Kat explained that she charges her daughter $50 per week, money that she does not keep but instead deposits into an investment fund for her daughter's future use to purchase a home.

"I feel like I'm setting her up for success, whilst at the same time, teaching her about the free world because it ain't free to live."

What are your thoughts, members? Do you think it's reasonable for Kat to charge her daughters money for rent once they turn 18? Or should children live rent-free at home? Let us know in the comments below!

Totally agree with the Mother. I started work at 16 years of age, was living in a private hotel run by two ladies my parents knew. I paid for bed and breakfast and had to buy lunch and evening meal with others who lived in the private hotel. We used to go into Fortitude Valley every night and buy cheap meals. I even managed to save one hundred pounds. When I eventually went back to live with parents a few years later (they lived closer than before) I paid 5 pounds a week for my board and meals. I totally expected to pay my way. I am now a fully self funded retiree who knew how to save and get ahead in life. Firmly believe it was because of having to do it from a very young age.

 

[JayKay]

My Mum charged my brother board, as she knew he would not save a penny.
He was given this money when he bought his first house.
Mum knew my sister and I were saving every penny we could, so she allowed us to manage our own money. I certainly did over and above my share of chores.
Mum also didn't place arrival at home times on us, in case we raced through an orange light in an effort to be home on time and caused an accident, she was lenient to be safe. If we were having a good time, she let us have a good time.
These practices taught me a lot when bringing up my children.....if I was picking up my adolescents, I always told them when I'd arrive, but I was happy to wait for them to come out whenever they were ready....they were good kids, so they deserved this respect and learnt to make wise choices.

 

[Thecheesequeen]

Not charging grownup children board is teaching them nothing about how life works. If they were living by themselves or with housemates they would have to pay their way. It’s the same principle as not expecting them to do chores. It’s preparing them for independent living.

 

[DrivingGirl]

I was living out of home by choice at 16 and covered all my bills from my small apprentice salary. You don’t work - you don’t eat
Simples!

 

[Ricci]

I was living out of home by choice at 16 and covered all my bills from my small apprentice salary. You don’t work - you don’t eat
Simples!

When I first moved out of home after paying my rent I had the choice of eating every day or catching the bus to work. No contest really as without getting to work there was no payday. I would have died rather than confess to my parents that my money didn't cover everything. Lucky for me they asked if I would visit once a week and stay for dinner. It's amazing how an empty tummy turns you into an inventive cook and I soon learnt how to make something out of nothing!

 

[MIZMAC]

Many of you have parented young children, so you already know that raising children is one of the most rewarding jobs in the world – but it's also one of the most challenging.

In a bid to keep her marbles intact, TikTok star and Aussie mum-of-two Kat Zoe Clark implemented a set of strict rules for her two daughters, aged 18 and 11, to follow.

​

Kat published her video on TikTok about a month ago where she revealed how she has been directing and guiding her two daughters as they grow up. And according to thousands of people on social media, she’s been doing a pretty good job.

The video received more than 2.9 million views on TikTok, and it quickly struck a chord with a lot of other parents on the platform.

She detailed the seven house rules her daughters must strictly follow in a now-viral video. Credit: Kat Zoe Clark.​

The viral clip likely resonated with parents because the seven rules she has for her daughters are straightforward and logical, and because the rules focus more on her relationship with her daughters rather than punishing or depriving them.

Here are the seven rules Kat has for her two girls, and what she has to say about them:

Location: "Yes, you have to have your location on. Will I check it? Probably not, unless you're running late (and haven't arrived home yet)."

Honesty: "Probably my biggest policy. So I expect my kids to be honest with me, but I will also do the same for them... I don't sugar coat anything."

Parties: "General rule of thumb is, if you're in grade nine, you're home by nine. If you're in grade 10, you're home by 10. Once you're 18, I don't really care when you get home."

Sport: "You have to do a sport. You have to do something to move your body."

School: "I'm actually really relaxed when it comes to school. If my kids want to drop out though, they've got to have a business plan or a job."

Boyfriends: "My girls can have boyfriends, but if I have a problem with their boyfriend, they have to listen to my opinion about them."

Rent: "My kids pay rent as soon as they turn 18 or get a job."

​

Many TikTok users and fellow parents thought Kat's rules were reasonable and even complimented her on a job well done.

"This is actually super reasonable," one person wrote in the comments section. A second one agreed and added, "Cool mom, her rules are so chill!"

Then came a supportive mum who said, "I completely agree with all of these."

However, not everyone was on board with all of her rules. For example, some people believed that requiring her daughter to pay rent was a bit unnecessary and extreme.

"You choose to bring them into this world and if they live with you they shouldn't pay rent, they're your kids!" said one user.

Another agreed and added, "To be honest, the rent rule is a little excessive. Why should you make your children pay rent? You might as well live alone."

​

However, many viewers rallied to her defence and backed her idea. One person, for example, said, "What's the deal with everyone whining about not being able to pay their rent? That is completely normal in New Zealand. From the age of 18 to 25, I paid rent while saving for my first home."

A second person spoke up, saying: "Getting your kids to pay rent is the biggest life lesson because they're not going to live with you forever! Love it, girl! Keep up the amazing job!"

​

Kat has previously been asked about why she wants her daughter to pay rent. In an earlier video, Kat explained that she charges her daughter $50 per week, money that she does not keep but instead deposits into an investment fund for her daughter's future use to purchase a home.

"I feel like I'm setting her up for success, whilst at the same time, teaching her about the free world because it ain't free to live."

What are your thoughts, members? Do you think it's reasonable for Kat to charge her daughters money for rent once they turn 18? Or should children live rent-free at home? Let us know in the comments below!

 

[MIZMAC]

My 4 children all paid rent from when they began to work. None went to Uni or had parttime jobs back then. One wanted to buy a house at 17. He could not get a loan from the banks at that age for a house but could get a loan for a car. He bought his first house at 18.

 

[Riorita]

Many of you have parented young children, so you already know that raising children is one of the most rewarding jobs in the world – but it's also one of the most challenging.

In a bid to keep her marbles intact, TikTok star and Aussie mum-of-two Kat Zoe Clark implemented a set of strict rules for her two daughters, aged 18 and 11, to follow.

​

Kat published her video on TikTok about a month ago where she revealed how she has been directing and guiding her two daughters as they grow up. And according to thousands of people on social media, she’s been doing a pretty good job.

The video received more than 2.9 million views on TikTok, and it quickly struck a chord with a lot of other parents on the platform.

She detailed the seven house rules her daughters must strictly follow in a now-viral video. Credit: Kat Zoe Clark.​

The viral clip likely resonated with parents because the seven rules she has for her daughters are straightforward and logical, and because the rules focus more on her relationship with her daughters rather than punishing or depriving them.

Here are the seven rules Kat has for her two girls, and what she has to say about them:

Location: "Yes, you have to have your location on. Will I check it? Probably not, unless you're running late (and haven't arrived home yet)."

Honesty: "Probably my biggest policy. So I expect my kids to be honest with me, but I will also do the same for them... I don't sugar coat anything."

Parties: "General rule of thumb is, if you're in grade nine, you're home by nine. If you're in grade 10, you're home by 10. Once you're 18, I don't really care when you get home."

Sport: "You have to do a sport. You have to do something to move your body."

School: "I'm actually really relaxed when it comes to school. If my kids want to drop out though, they've got to have a business plan or a job."

Boyfriends: "My girls can have boyfriends, but if I have a problem with their boyfriend, they have to listen to my opinion about them."

Rent: "My kids pay rent as soon as they turn 18 or get a job."

​

Many TikTok users and fellow parents thought Kat's rules were reasonable and even complimented her on a job well done.

"This is actually super reasonable," one person wrote in the comments section. A second one agreed and added, "Cool mom, her rules are so chill!"

Then came a supportive mum who said, "I completely agree with all of these."

However, not everyone was on board with all of her rules. For example, some people believed that requiring her daughter to pay rent was a bit unnecessary and extreme.

"You choose to bring them into this world and if they live with you they shouldn't pay rent, they're your kids!" said one user.

Another agreed and added, "To be honest, the rent rule is a little excessive. Why should you make your children pay rent? You might as well live alone."

​

However, many viewers rallied to her defence and backed her idea. One person, for example, said, "What's the deal with everyone whining about not being able to pay their rent? That is completely normal in New Zealand. From the age of 18 to 25, I paid rent while saving for my first home."

A second person spoke up, saying: "Getting your kids to pay rent is the biggest life lesson because they're not going to live with you forever! Love it, girl! Keep up the amazing job!"

​

Kat has previously been asked about why she wants her daughter to pay rent. In an earlier video, Kat explained that she charges her daughter $50 per week, money that she does not keep but instead deposits into an investment fund for her daughter's future use to purchase a home.

"I feel like I'm setting her up for success, whilst at the same time, teaching her about the free world because it ain't free to live."

What are your thoughts, members? Do you think it's reasonable for Kat to charge her daughters money for rent once they turn 18? Or should children live rent-free at home? Let us know in the comments below!

When my boys worked aft er r school...they paid me 1/3rd of their wage......I would put it in an account......when they saved enough....they could buy it.......this went on for years......and still do it today (separate account....saving for whatever !!!)....trip...home...bikes cars....things for home...........doing well....

 

[DrivingGirl]

When I first moved out of home after paying my rent I had the choice of eating every day or catching the bus to work. No contest really as without getting to work there was no payday. I would have died rather than confess to my parents that my money didn't cover everything. Lucky for me they asked if I would visit once a week and stay for dinner. It's amazing how an empty tummy turns you into an inventive cook and I soon learnt how to make something out of nothing!

Helps if you ever hit hard times again in your life when you’re less resilient- if you’ve done it once you can do it again right!

 

[PepeLePew]

I have a friend who is only 5ft tall and 2 of her children still living at home are aged 18 & and 25 and are bigger and taller than her. The 25yr old dropped out of high school in Gr. 8 because he didn't want to do Drama. He never went back to school but did end up finishing Gr's 11 & 12 at a flexi school but not until he was 20yrs old, He had never attempted to get a job and up until Covid shut down in Brisbane in 2019, he hadn't bothered to claim any kind of benefits from Centrelink either. He only did it then as job search was suspended so he knew he could collect money and not have to look for work. He expected his mother to fork over money for anything he wanted prior to that and because of his size she was intimidated by him. Once the suspension was stopped he just started doing online courses so he didn't have to get a job.
The 18 yr old also dropped out of high school before finishing Gr 10 and does exactly the same thing her brother use to do. She doesn't attempt to look for work, has not applied for Centrelink and just expects her mother to support her and give her whatever she wants. The mother is on Jobseeker with numerous health problems and can't do paid work so volunteers to meet her mandatory requirements to Centrelink. A big part of that payment goes towards brus and train fares to get to her job but these 2 kids couldn't care less. They have no life skills and no idea how the real world works so they are in for a huge shock the day their mum is no longer of this earth.

 

[Joydie]

Many of you have parented young children, so you already know that raising children is one of the most rewarding jobs in the world – but it's also one of the most challenging.

In a bid to keep her marbles intact, TikTok star and Aussie mum-of-two Kat Zoe Clark implemented a set of strict rules for her two daughters, aged 18 and 11, to follow.

​

Kat published her video on TikTok about a month ago where she revealed how she has been directing and guiding her two daughters as they grow up. And according to thousands of people on social media, she’s been doing a pretty good job.

The video received more than 2.9 million views on TikTok, and it quickly struck a chord with a lot of other parents on the platform.

She detailed the seven house rules her daughters must strictly follow in a now-viral video. Credit: Kat Zoe Clark.​

The viral clip likely resonated with parents because the seven rules she has for her daughters are straightforward and logical, and because the rules focus more on her relationship with her daughters rather than punishing or depriving them.

Here are the seven rules Kat has for her two girls, and what she has to say about them:

Location: "Yes, you have to have your location on. Will I check it? Probably not, unless you're running late (and haven't arrived home yet)."

Honesty: "Probably my biggest policy. So I expect my kids to be honest with me, but I will also do the same for them... I don't sugar coat anything."

Parties: "General rule of thumb is, if you're in grade nine, you're home by nine. If you're in grade 10, you're home by 10. Once you're 18, I don't really care when you get home."

Sport: "You have to do a sport. You have to do something to move your body."

School: "I'm actually really relaxed when it comes to school. If my kids want to drop out though, they've got to have a business plan or a job."

Boyfriends: "My girls can have boyfriends, but if I have a problem with their boyfriend, they have to listen to my opinion about them."

Rent: "My kids pay rent as soon as they turn 18 or get a job."

​

Many TikTok users and fellow parents thought Kat's rules were reasonable and even complimented her on a job well done.

"This is actually super reasonable," one person wrote in the comments section. A second one agreed and added, "Cool mom, her rules are so chill!"

Then came a supportive mum who said, "I completely agree with all of these."

However, not everyone was on board with all of her rules. For example, some people believed that requiring her daughter to pay rent was a bit unnecessary and extreme.

"You choose to bring them into this world and if they live with you they shouldn't pay rent, they're your kids!" said one user.

Another agreed and added, "To be honest, the rent rule is a little excessive. Why should you make your children pay rent? You might as well live alone."

​

However, many viewers rallied to her defence and backed her idea. One person, for example, said, "What's the deal with everyone whining about not being able to pay their rent? That is completely normal in New Zealand. From the age of 18 to 25, I paid rent while saving for my first home."

A second person spoke up, saying: "Getting your kids to pay rent is the biggest life lesson because they're not going to live with you forever! Love it, girl! Keep up the amazing job!"

​

Kat has previously been asked about why she wants her daughter to pay rent. In an earlier video, Kat explained that she charges her daughter $50 per week, money that she does not keep but instead deposits into an investment fund for her daughter's future use to purchase a home.

"I feel like I'm setting her up for success, whilst at the same time, teaching her about the free world because it ain't free to live."

What are your thoughts, members? Do you think it's reasonable for Kat to charge her daughters money for rent once they turn 18? Or should children live rent-free at home? Let us know in the comments below!

My son started his apprenticeship as a heavy vehicle mechanic when he was 16. He paid $50 a week until he was in 4th year. At the beginning of 4th year, he came home on payday and placed a $100 note on the kitchen bench. I told him I didn’t have a $50 note but would get one the next day. He said: ‘No Mum, I’m raising my rent to $100 a week from now on.’ Before I could say anything, he said: ‘Do you know why? It’s because I love you.’ That was one of the occasions I knew I must have done something right.

 

[Esma Rose]

If you don't pay rent when you get a job, you have no basis to control your life. It is the most wonderful lesson in budgeting that you can give your offspring. If you want to make your own way in life to succeed you don't borrow from other sources. Your child has seen enough just living with you, & may I add OBSERVING. If you want them to be successful TEACH them the costs of running a home in conversation so they know you are concerned about them always to succeed to make life interesting. Learn to live without if it is not a necessity. Let them know if in difficulty they can touch base . If they have happiness, a warm bed, a meal, they instinctively learn very quickly out of love just what it is like to be a parent. Every parent is different. I knew a friend whose daughter wanted to board away from home so the mother sat her girl down & gave her a list of what she would HAVE to buy that she took for granted in her parent's home. Nothing was said by either. The girl went on paying board for YEARS until she finally moved out into a unit of her own. Lesson one, successfully taught. Soap,towels, toilet paper, light, gas. lunches, water etc etc & more rent that her Mum was charging. How do you think she bought her unit years later??? You've guessed it. From Mum's savings of her rent. Love knows no boundaries does it? She learnt a lesson from a good loving Mum.

 

[Ezzy]

Many of you have parented young children, so you already know that raising children is one of the most rewarding jobs in the world – but it's also one of the most challenging.

In a bid to keep her marbles intact, TikTok star and Aussie mum-of-two Kat Zoe Clark implemented a set of strict rules for her two daughters, aged 18 and 11, to follow.

​

Kat published her video on TikTok about a month ago where she revealed how she has been directing and guiding her two daughters as they grow up. And according to thousands of people on social media, she’s been doing a pretty good job.

The video received more than 2.9 million views on TikTok, and it quickly struck a chord with a lot of other parents on the platform.

She detailed the seven house rules her daughters must strictly follow in a now-viral video. Credit: Kat Zoe Clark.​

The viral clip likely resonated with parents because the seven rules she has for her daughters are straightforward and logical, and because the rules focus more on her relationship with her daughters rather than punishing or depriving them.

Here are the seven rules Kat has for her two girls, and what she has to say about them:

Location: "Yes, you have to have your location on. Will I check it? Probably not, unless you're running late (and haven't arrived home yet)."

Honesty: "Probably my biggest policy. So I expect my kids to be honest with me, but I will also do the same for them... I don't sugar coat anything."

Parties: "General rule of thumb is, if you're in grade nine, you're home by nine. If you're in grade 10, you're home by 10. Once you're 18, I don't really care when you get home."

Sport: "You have to do a sport. You have to do something to move your body."

School: "I'm actually really relaxed when it comes to school. If my kids want to drop out though, they've got to have a business plan or a job."

Boyfriends: "My girls can have boyfriends, but if I have a problem with their boyfriend, they have to listen to my opinion about them."

Rent: "My kids pay rent as soon as they turn 18 or get a job."

​

Many TikTok users and fellow parents thought Kat's rules were reasonable and even complimented her on a job well done.

"This is actually super reasonable," one person wrote in the comments section. A second one agreed and added, "Cool mom, her rules are so chill!"

Then came a supportive mum who said, "I completely agree with all of these."

However, not everyone was on board with all of her rules. For example, some people believed that requiring her daughter to pay rent was a bit unnecessary and extreme.

"You choose to bring them into this world and if they live with you they shouldn't pay rent, they're your kids!" said one user.

Another agreed and added, "To be honest, the rent rule is a little excessive. Why should you make your children pay rent? You might as well live alone."

​

However, many viewers rallied to her defence and backed her idea. One person, for example, said, "What's the deal with everyone whining about not being able to pay their rent? That is completely normal in New Zealand. From the age of 18 to 25, I paid rent while saving for my first home."

A second person spoke up, saying: "Getting your kids to pay rent is the biggest life lesson because they're not going to live with you forever! Love it, girl! Keep up the amazing job!"

​

Kat has previously been asked about why she wants her daughter to pay rent. In an earlier video, Kat explained that she charges her daughter $50 per week, money that she does not keep but instead deposits into an investment fund for her daughter's future use to purchase a home.

"I feel like I'm setting her up for success, whilst at the same time, teaching her about the free world because it ain't free to live."

What are your thoughts, members? Do you think it's reasonable for Kat to charge her daughters money for rent once they turn 18? Or should children live rent-free at home? Let us know in the comments below!

I started work in January 1968, almost 16 years old, doing an Apprenticeship on $18.00/ week & was required to pay rent which was not banked for me for the future. These girls are lucky if they don't start paying rent until age 18 & $50.00 per week. Admittedly pay rates have changed & an apprentice receives a % of a Tradesman's rate & could afford $50.00 & other pay rates have substantially increased. From my meagre wage l then needed to pay someone to take me with his son to the workshop where all 3 of us worked & pay for my once weekly entertainment.

 

[rehandra]

I have a friend who is only 5ft tall and 2 of her children still living at home are aged 18 & and 25 and are bigger and taller than her. The 25yr old dropped out of high school in Gr. 8 because he didn't want to do Drama. He never went back to school but did end up finishing Gr's 11 & 12 at a flexi school but not until he was 20yrs old, He had never attempted to get a job and up until Covid shut down in Brisbane in 2019, he hadn't bothered to claim any kind of benefits from Centrelink either. He only did it then as job search was suspended so he knew he could collect money and not have to look for work. He expected his mother to fork over money for anything he wanted prior to that and because of his size she was intimidated by him. Once the suspension was stopped he just started doing online courses so he didn't have to get a job.
The 18 yr old also dropped out of high school before finishing Gr 10 and does exactly the same thing her brother use to do. She doesn't attempt to look for work, has not applied for Centrelink and just expects her mother to support her and give her whatever she wants. The mother is on Jobseeker with numerous health problems and can't do paid work so volunteers to meet her mandatory requirements to Centrelink. A big part of that payment goes towards brus and train fares to get to her job but these 2 kids couldn't care less. They have no life skills and no idea how the real world works so they are in for a huge shock the day their mum is no longer of this earth.

It is my opinion that if you have children the main job you have is to prepare them to be upstanding, educated citizens who learn their life skills from their parents to a great extent. How can any child live an independent life if they have no idea of how to pay rent, shop cook or clean. Budgeting is something that is very important and the first thing I always did was pay my board/rent and make sure I had the money for when the bills came in. Whatever was left over was put into savings or discretionary spending.