Flightmare: How I accidentally thwarted a couple's sneaky trick to score extra space and faced their wrath!

Traveling by air can be a mixed bag of experiences. For some, it's the thrill of jet-setting to a new destination, while for others, it's a necessary hassle filled with cramped seats and unpredictable encounters. For one passenger, a recent flight turned into a real-life 'flightmare' when she inadvertently disrupted a couple's clever scheme to gain extra space on a packed plane, only to be met with hostility and a display of petulance that would rival a child's tantrum.


The ordeal began innocently enough. As many seasoned travelers do, the young woman had booked her seat in advance, paying extra for the privilege of selecting her spot on the plane. However, due to unforeseen circumstances involving a medical emergency on another flight, additional passengers were transferred to her flight, resulting in a reshuffling of seating arrangements. This is where the drama unfolded.


compressed-shutterstock_2442927503.jpeg
A woman was bullied on a flight for unintentionally disrupting a couple's plan to get extra space by booking a middle seat. Credit: Shutterstock


Upon arriving at her newly assigned row, she found a man and a woman, clearly a couple, occupying the aisle and window seats, respectively. The middle seat, her seat, was the gap in their otherwise cozy setup. The couple had employed a well-known but risky travel hack: booking non-adjacent seats in the hope that no one would select the middle seat, thus granting them a makeshift 'poor man's business class' with extra room to stretch out.


When the woman indicated that she was assigned the middle seat, the man acquiesced, but the woman reacted with immediate rudeness. 'You're not supposed to be sitting here anyway,' she snapped, dismissing the explanation and the offered proof of the new ticket with a flick of her hand and a sound of disgust. Despite the woman's partner being more amenable, the woman's attitude soured the atmosphere, and she continued to behave as if the innocent passenger was an unwelcome intruder in their self-fashioned private space.

The situation escalated when the woman, in a passive-aggressive manner, questioned whether the passenger had used a third-party website to book her flight, insinuating that her frugality was the cause of their inconvenience. The passenger calmly explained that she had booked directly and that the change was out of her control. Choosing to disengage, she donned her headphones, attempting to create a bubble of peace amidst the brewing storm.

But peace was not to be had. For the duration of the flight, the woman made a point of reaching over the passenger, tapping her partner, and attempting to converse in a manner that was not just intrusive but also a clear demonstration of her displeasure. Even her partner seemed to withdraw, likely in hopes of mitigating his companion's disruptive behavior.


The story, shared on a Reddit thread, garnered significant attention, with over 600 comments chiming in to support the beleaguered passenger and condemn the woman's 'monster' behavior. The consensus was clear: the couple had attempted a gamble and lost, and rather than accepting the situation with grace, the woman chose to throw a proverbial tantrum, much to the discomfort of everyone involved.

This incident serves as a reminder that while travel hacks can sometimes pay off, they come with no guarantees. It's essential to approach such strategies with a plan B and a dose of humility, ready to accept the outcome with good grace. After all, the skies are shared space, and civility goes a long way in making the journey pleasant for all.
Key Takeaways
  • A woman was bullied by a couple on a flight after unintentionally 'ruining' their strategy to get more room by booking a middle seat.
  • The couple was reportedly annoyed because they typically book the aisle and window seats, hoping no one will choose the middle seat.
  • Upon the woman explaining her situation due to a medical emergency on another plane, the female partner reacted rudely, maintaining an intrusive and hostile attitude throughout the flight.
  • Social media users condemned the couple's behaviour, calling it childish, and discussed the tactic's likelihood of failure on full flights.
To our dear readers at the Seniors Discount Club, have you ever encountered a similar situation on a flight? How did you handle it? Or perhaps you've tried the same seat-selection strategy – did it work out for you? Share your stories and tips in the comments below, and let's navigate the friendly (and sometimes not-so-friendly) skies together with wisdom and a touch of humor.
 

Seniors Discount Club

Sponsored content

Info
Loading data . . .
Why must people think it is OK to be so bloody rude these days - since COVID patience, empathy and just decency has disappeared. I always book the seat I need - I am partially disabled, use a walker and always try and book the extra legroom seats and there is no way I would give up my booked seat. My last flight I had no choice but to have a normal seat and the guy in f ront reclined his seat and I couldn't put my tray table down. He refused to sit up - said it was his right to recline - well yes, on a longer haul flight but not just to Melbourne from Brisbane - it was just rude. I had to juggle holding my drink and something to eat. Just don't give in to the rudeness.
 
Why must people think it is OK to be so bloody rude these days - since COVID patience, empathy and just decency has disappeared. I always book the seat I need - I am partially disabled, use a walker and always try and book the extra legroom seats and there is no way I would give up my booked seat. My last flight I had no choice but to have a normal seat and the guy in f ront reclined his seat and I couldn't put my tray table down. He refused to sit up - said it was his right to recline - well yes, on a longer haul flight but not just to Melbourne from Brisbane - it was just rude. I had to juggle holding my drink and something to eat. Just don't give in to the rudeness.
Why in a case like this, the staff don’t step in. a short flight does not need seat reclined.
An arrogant individual like him, should have been put in his place, why do so many think they are of the privileged few.
 
Yeesh. My husband and I only fly from Kalgoorlie to Perth, and the only issue we've ever had is when one flight had us on aisle seats. That does not work. I'm a nervous flier, and disabled. My husband is my Carer and comfort on flights. The flight attendants claimed they couldn't fix it. So we pretty much held hands across the aisle almost the whole flight. And I sighed loudly every time they had to go up and down the aisle. Jerks.

Ever since then, after I complained all the way up the line, the airline staff never tried that again. Instead they often give us a whole row, unless the flight is fuller than thought.

I'm dreading the long flight we're planning, to go to the US after that creature is out of office. By that time it'll have been 20 years or more since I've seen my family. Gonna be a long trip, but worth it :)
 
I used to fly a lot from Melbourne to Sydney or Brisbane or Adelaide or Perth. I would get a taxi from ‘Tullamarine airport, stop at my office for 10 minutes then to Mount Martha. Then wait an hour, tea or coffee toilet break supplied while I showered, got clean clothes then kiss the wife and off again to Tullamarine. The worst trip ever was sitting by a Mum and her Child. Come serving foods, they hadn loaded the
kosher foods. I had to call the Steward to take my meal away as there was no let up. Not their fault or the airline. Mum should have had a ready snack for her child I think in case there was a stuff up.
yes I have given up my seat many times as the seat booking system often split kids from parent.
why is it such a big deal, why didn’t the guy move and there would have been no angst. The woman at the heart of the issue was very dumb and so self centred it’s amazing she didn’t spin up into her belly button
 
God help the poor man if he is married to that woman who clearly is a shrew. I also despair at the manner in which she will raise her children if she has any. Any man that would put up with that kind of conduct from a partner would have to be desperate. The Me Me Me generation, sense of entitlement and the ugly behaviour would even shame a neanderthal. Good on that woman who stood up to that dreadful person and maintained her claim to the seat she ordered and paid for despite the stand off being two against one. I certainly know who has a backbone in this story!
 
I have met some wonderful people flying all over the country and internationally, the only time I have had a problem was with one trolley dolly who didn't have a sense of humour. When I book in for international the counter staff will often ask any requests, my answer is always no children within ten rows, they smile and say we can't do that, I know I just ask in case one day it becomes an option. Rude passengers I have seen quite a few unfortunately who treat the attendants as though they are their private butler. I've found if you can outsmart them, by making a comment how entitled they are to get so much service over the other passengers, they pull their head. Especially when it comes from little old ladies.
 
A few years ago we had a late booking to fly interstate on a 2 leg flight. When we booked we weren't able to sit together. I phoned the Airline and asked if we sit together, and was informed that when we went to check-in we might be able to change our seats. So that is what happened. During the 2nd leg we overheard someone say" I booked six-months ago and couldn't get the seat I booked". It was a very small and full plane for a 4 hour flight.
 
  • Like
Reactions: PattiB and Nozmo
I would have got the staff to intervene in the original posts situation.
I don't know what they could have done but common sense applies here, the nasty woman should have moved into the centre seat so she was next to her boyfriend!
I think the lady in the middle seat was where she wanted to sit.
 
Sorry but that is what the cabin crew are there for - to sort out these differences. It is not the passenger's role to get involved in these types of disputes. Why did she not call the crew manager to put the shrew in her place?
 
  • Like
Reactions: Sylvsptr and PattiB
Yeesh. My husband and I only fly from Kalgoorlie to Perth, and the only issue we've ever had is when one flight had us on aisle seats. That does not work. I'm a nervous flier, and disabled. My husband is my Carer and comfort on flights. The flight attendants claimed they couldn't fix it. So we pretty much held hands across the aisle almost the whole flight. And I sighed loudly every time they had to go up and down the aisle. Jerks.

Ever since then, after I complained all the way up the line, the airline staff never tried that again. Instead they often give us a whole row, unless the flight is fuller than thought.

I'm dreading the long flight we're planning, to go to the US after that creature is out of office. By that time it'll have been 20 years or more since I've seen my family. Gonna be a long trip, but worth it :)
Sounds like you need to suck it up and behave like an adult. You were preventing airline staff from doing their job. Your last comment about them "jerks" says it all about you!
 
  • Like
Reactions: DLHM and Chip
I would have got the staff to intervene in the original posts situation.
I don't know what they could have done but common sense applies here, the nasty woman should have moved into the centre seat so she was next to her boyfriend!
The centre seat is the seat the passenger was assigned, wanted, and sat in. That's why the nasty girl was separated from her husband/boyfried.
 
Yeesh. My husband and I only fly from Kalgoorlie to Perth, and the only issue we've ever had is when one flight had us on aisle seats. That does not work. I'm a nervous flier, and disabled. My husband is my Carer and comfort on flights. The flight attendants claimed they couldn't fix it. So we pretty much held hands across the aisle almost the whole flight. And I sighed loudly every time they had to go up and down the aisle. Jerks.

Ever since then, after I complained all the way up the line, the airline staff never tried that again. Instead they often give us a whole row, unless the flight is fuller than thought.

I'm dreading the long flight we're planning, to go to the US after that creature is out of office. By that time it'll have been 20 years or more since I've seen my family. Gonna be a long trip, but worth it :)
Only if you book ahead and pay for the seat selection should you 'expect' to sit together! You're lucky you were seated across from each other. you could have been in different rows. Don't blame the airline!
 

Join the conversation

News, deals, games, and bargains for Aussies over 60. From everyday expenses like groceries and eating out, to electronics, fashion and travel, the club is all about helping you make your money go further.

Seniors Discount Club

The SDC searches for the best deals, discounts, and bargains for Aussies over 60. From everyday expenses like groceries and eating out, to electronics, fashion and travel, the club is all about helping you make your money go further.
  1. New members
  2. Jokes & fun
  3. Photography
  4. Nostalgia / Yesterday's Australia
  5. Food and Lifestyle
  6. Money Saving Hacks
  7. Offtopic / Everything else
  • We believe that retirement should be a time to relax and enjoy life, not worry about money. That's why we're here to help our members make the most of their retirement years. If you're over 60 and looking for ways to save money, connect with others, and have a laugh, we’d love to have you aboard.
  • Advertise with us

User Menu

Enjoyed Reading our Story?

  • Share this forum to your loved ones.
Change Weather Postcode×
Change Petrol Postcode×