Elderly driver's heart-wrenching plea after 'unforgivable' red light accident

In a solemn courtroom in Adelaide, the air was heavy with grief and regret as 87-year-old Elemer Dobak faced the consequences of a moment that changed lives forever.

The elderly driver, who ran a red light in February 2023, resulting in the death of a pedestrian, stood before the District Court, his remorse palpable.


The tragic incident occurred outside the Queen Elizabeth Hospital, where Rosewater grandmother Joan McCaskill, 85, was critically injured and later succumbed to her injuries in the hospital.

The loss of McCaskill, described by her family as 'the jewel' of their lives, has left an indelible mark on her loved ones.


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Elemer Dobak pleaded guilty to causing death by dangerous driving outside Queen Elizabeth Hospital. Credit: 7News / YouTube


Granddaughter Rachel Asir spoke of her grandmother's strength and independence.

‘(She was) strong, fiercely independent, a pillar of the community,’

The court heard that Dobak had an unobstructed view of the road on the day of the crash.


Prosecutors emphasised that the traffic light had been red for seven seconds before he drove through the intersection.

Despite regular assessments of his eyesight, which had deemed him fit to drive, Dobak could not explain his failure to notice the critical signal.

The McCaskill family shared their harrowing experience of indescribable trauma, having witnessed their matriarch in a state of vulnerability they never imagined.

They expressed that Dobak's actions, which led to such a devastating outcome, were 'unforgivable and inexcusable.'

Outside the courtroom, a distraught Dobak apologised, saying he was 'sorry for everything.'


A supporter by his side conveyed their devastation and extended heartfelt sympathies to Mrs McCaskill's family, acknowledging the gravity of the tragedy.

Dobak will face a sentence in August.

In related news, Paulette Mountford, a grandmother, is in critical condition after an alleged stabbing attack by her partner in Perth's east.

The case, considered domestic violence, saw Mountford found injured in her garden before being rushed to Royal Perth Hospital for emergency surgery. Read more here.
Key Takeaways
  • Elemer Dobak, an 87-year-old man from Findon, pleaded guilty to causing death by dangerous driving outside the Queen Elizabeth Hospital in February 2023.
  • The victim, Joan McCaskill, an 85-year-old grandmother from Rosewater, was critically injured in the crash and later died in the hospital.
  • The court heard that Dobak had an unobstructed view when he ran a red light that had been red for seven seconds, and his fitness to drive had been regularly assessed.
  • The McCaskill family expressed their grief in court, describing the indescribable trauma and referring to Dobak's actions as unforgivable and inexcusable. In contrast, Dobak and his supporter expressed their devastation and apologised to the family. Dobak will be sentenced in August.
Have you faced a similar situation? How did you or your loved ones decide to stop driving? Your insights could be invaluable to someone else in our community.
 
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"How did you or your loved ones decide to stop driving?"

That decision could only come when/if a person acknowledges that their ongoing right to drive doesn't extend to his/her driving after he/she perceives a reduction in their own driving ability.

As we age, our abilities for a range of things are affected. This observation is not intended as an invitation to unleash bucket loads of critical evaluation.

It is not difficult to see that your driving skills have declined when/if this happens. (provided you are not affected by any forms of cognitive decline).

We have to use our brains.

Sadly, ego often trumps brains.

Regular driver testing, say every 5 years may address the danger of potential harm by drivers whose skills are lacking.
 
Very very tragic for all involved. My condolences to the family who have lost their loved one my heart goes out to the driver too. This man is heart broken for the death and grief he has caused to the family. I truly don't know what jail time would achieve. The driver is elderly he will never be allowed to hold a driver's licence again and has to live with the death he caused for what ever time he has left here on earth. I can imagine his life is ruined now. The poor ladies family l understand their pain would be so deep the loss profound. But really what will it achieve to put this man in jail. He didn't set out to cause harm to anyone that day. It is a no win tragic situation for all involved.
Sadly to say as some people get older they just won't see that it's time to hang up their driver's licence. It is a very difficult subject to broach with a loved one. I still hold a driver's licence but l have chosen to stop driving due to oesto arthritis. My reflexes are not good enough l cannot turn my head enough to do head checks it's very difficult for me to climb in and out of the car. I felt it was best for myself and other drivers around me if l stopped driving.
Please think about your ability to drive are you safe to be on the road it's really not the end of life giving up your licence. I am not elderly only 61. Best to be safe than sorry.
Kind regards to all Vicki
 
It saddens me that this has happened to this gentleman at his age. Imagine, he has to live with this the remainder of his life. Yes, the family of the lady would be devasted losing their beloved relative but to say the things they said to this man is unforgiveable. Hopefully, this will never happen to them when they are driving. We all have lapses when driving and only by the grace of God are we lucky enough that we don't cause a serious accident. Please have some compassion for this 87year old man. He will probably be jailed and spend the remainder of his life wishing that he was not here. To the family who lost their beloved mother and grandmother my condolences to you and hope that you will one day forgive this man.
 
At 84 I developed a slight eye problem. For my sake and others driving, no matter how short a distance is finished. Yes I miss the independence but walking more deliveries are wonderful plus family , life is still good.
 
At 84 I developed a slight eye problem. For my sake and others driving, no matter how short a distance is finished. Yes I miss the independence but walking more deliveries are wonderful plus family , life is still good.
Well done and as you say life is still good. Walking is great for us too, and you can't beat the love of family.
Kind regards Vicki
 
Very very tragic for all involved. My condolences to the family who have lost their loved one my heart goes out to the driver too. This man is heart broken for the death and grief he has caused to the family. I truly don't know what jail time would achieve. The driver is elderly he will never be allowed to hold a driver's licence again and has to live with the death he caused for what ever time he has left here on earth. I can imagine his life is ruined now. The poor ladies family l understand their pain would be so deep the loss profound. But really what will it achieve to put this man in jail. He didn't set out to cause harm to anyone that day. It is a no win tragic situation for all involved.
Sadly to say as some people get older they just won't see that it's time to hang up their driver's licence. It is a very difficult subject to broach with a loved one. I still hold a driver's licence but l have chosen to stop driving due to oesto arthritis. My reflexes are not good enough l cannot turn my head enough to do head checks it's very difficult for me to climb in and out of the car. I felt it was best for myself and other drivers around me if l stopped driving.
Please think about your ability to drive are you safe to be on the road it's really not the end of life giving up your licence. I am not elderly only 61. Best to be safe than sorry.
Kind regards to all Vicki
I'm 76. Think I could get a licence. I've only been driving people up the wall or crazy
 
Very very tragic for all involved. My condolences to the family who have lost their loved one my heart goes out to the driver too. This man is heart broken for the death and grief he has caused to the family. I truly don't know what jail time would achieve. The driver is elderly he will never be allowed to hold a driver's licence again and has to live with the death he caused for what ever time he has left here on earth. I can imagine his life is ruined now. The poor ladies family l understand their pain would be so deep the loss profound. But really what will it achieve to put this man in jail. He didn't set out to cause harm to anyone that day. It is a no win tragic situation for all involved.
Sadly to say as some people get older they just won't see that it's time to hang up their driver's licence. It is a very difficult subject to broach with a loved one. I still hold a driver's licence but l have chosen to stop driving due to oesto arthritis. My reflexes are not good enough l cannot turn my head enough to do head checks it's very difficult for me to climb in and out of the car. I felt it was best for myself and other drivers around me if l stopped driving.
Please think about your ability to drive are you safe to be on the road it's really not the end of life giving up your licence. I am not elderly only 61. Best to be safe than sorry.
Kind regards to all Vicki
Hi Vicki you always hit the nail on the head and sum everything up fairly and clearly. l can imagine the McCaskills grief and l sympathise and also them saying it wouldn't have happen had he not been driving and by the looks of it he shouldn't have been.Perhaps it might be safer for everyone if the elderly drivers that love to drive have someone with them.
 
One of the odd things that I have noticed is that green light about 100m past the red light is verv noticeable and possibly more so than the red light if one is focusing on looking down the road in anticipation of some adverse event occurring 50-75 metres ahead. The most alarming colour is yellow; it has a shorter wavelength than red and is more visible. Green has an even shorter wavelength and to me at least appears brighter than red as a transmitted light and hence is even more noticeable.

One wonders about the utility of red as opposed to green as a warning signal in traffic lights, but tradition has it that the reflected red light, as in a warning flag, stands out more than green and thus we use red transmitted light for "stop".

There rests a PhD topic for someone.
 

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