Debt-beds? Aussies resort to grim funeral methods amid economic crisis

In an era where the cost of living is soaring, the last thing any family wants to face is the financial burden of a funeral.

Yet, as the economy tightens its grip on household budgets, Australians found themselves in a precarious position when offering a dignified farewell to their loved ones.

The phrase 'Die now, pay later' has become a reality for those grappling with the expenses of death amidst a cost-of-living crisis.


Karin Adams' story is a poignant example of the challenges grieving families face.

After losing her mother, Lynn McNabb, Adams confronted the high costs of funeral services that seemed at odds with her mother's personality and values.

With her family's finances already strained by a $20,000 scam, Adams was forced to think outside the box.

Her solution? A DIY funeral that honoured her mother's life without plunging the family further into debt.


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Many Australians resort to more affordable methods to honour family members who have passed on. Image Credit: Pexels/Mariam Antadze


'Our funeral must have been one of the cheapest ones non-profit provider Tender Funerals had encountered, but it was beautiful,' Adams shared.

'We weren't skipping; there was a lot of attention to detail and a lot of personal touches, which in our family matters more than how much you spend on something.'

The total cost of her mother's burial, including the funeral and cremation, amounted to approximately $3,500—far below the national average, yet still a significant financial undertaking.

According to nationwide research conducted by Australian Seniors, a basic burial funeral can cost up to $18,652, and a basic cremation can cost up to $5,953.

These figures represent a staggering 20 per cent increase since 2019.


The rise in funeral costs led to a surge in people seeking more affordable options.

Non-profit providers like Tender Funerals saw a sharp increase in the use of their bereavement funds, assisting families in covering funeral expenses.

'We have more people inquiring about affordable funerals,' Tender Funerals General Manager Nadine Giles said.

'They'll talk about cost or say things like, "We just want something simple"—because they have bill shock.'

The demand for these funds has doubled in six months, highlighting the growing financial pressure on Australians.


Families that were once financially secure now turn to organisations like Bereavement Assistance, a not-for-profit that assists Victorians in paying for funerals.

The trend is clear: more and more people are finding themselves just above the poverty line, struggling to afford the costs associated with death.

Crowdfunding platforms like GoFundMe have also seen a significant uptick in funeral-related fundraisers, with a 282 per cent increase in listings that mention the rising cost of living.

These fundraisers reflect deeper systemic issues as families fall through the cracks of traditional support systems.

In some cases, state programs or charities offer financial assistance, but these are only sometimes sufficient or widely available.

For instance, Queensland's government fund covers basic costs for those without next of kin who can afford to pay.

Yet, the number of applications and approvals has risen sharply, indicating a growing need for these support systems.

The financial strain doesn't end there—as some funeral companies introduced 'Buy now, pay later' schemes, allowing families to defer payment.

However, this can lead to further financial hardship, as these services often don't require an assessment of the customer's ability to afford the costs.


Consumer advocates are raising alarms about the potential for exploitation and the accumulation of 'funeral debt' during a time of vulnerability.

The situation calls for a broader conversation about the cost of dying and the need for more compassionate and affordable funeral options.

As a society, we must consider how to support those in mourning without the added stress of financial ruin.

We must be aware of the options available and plan where possible.

Consider discussing funeral wishes with family members, researching non-profit funeral services, or setting aside funds.

Knowing your rights and seeking financial advice or assistance is also essential to avoid distressing experiences during times of grief.
Key Takeaways

  • The cost-of-living crisis has impacted how Australians afford funerals, with some opting for DIY funerals, crowdsourcing, and 'Buy now, pay later' loans to cover expenses.
  • Karin Adams organised an affordable funeral for her mother, costing around $3,500, incorporating personal touches that mattered more to her family than spending much money.
  • The demand for affordable funerals has increased, and non-profit organisations like Tender Funerals saw more people needing access to bereavement funds to help pay for funeral costs.
  • There are concerns about the rise in 'funeral debt' as grieving families take on financial hardship to pay for funerals.
  • Legal experts warned against 'Buy now, pay later' schemes that may lead to exploitation during vulnerable times.
Have you or someone you know faced financial difficulties due to funeral costs? What could help alleviate this burden for families? We invite you to share your thoughts in the comments section.
 
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I paid ahead with BARE when they first provided their scheme. No fanfare and huge costs.
Also, sufficient funds put aside to pay for any fees involved other than the cremation and for a wake that can be held at home with me also 'in attendance' before my ashes are cast to the four elements.
(Never miss a good roll-up.)
I have a very small fistful of old friends left now (age-related)that can be accessed or live far away ( love the Internet, mobile phones and Messenger) in other countries or states. My sister and only sibling and her brood are all in the USA, I would never expect them to travel for the expected, unexpected. I have a small close family here and those who would say all those nice things can say it to me now while I am alive. :+} I have never appreciated the traditional standard prepared speeches and reveries on how the person was .....!
That can be exchanged at the cheerful hopefully friendly wake.
 
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Better off donating your body to science.....no funeral costs.
The only cost that gripes me is the Drs death certificate..... $450 (that was 5 odd years ago.)
 
Better off donating your body to science.....no funeral costs.
The only cost that gripes me is the Drs death certificate..... $450 (that was 5 odd years ago.)
I agree with you any death certicificate should be provided gratis, but it will never to many greedy bastards have their finger in your pie.
 
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I read the most amazing book several years ago called The American Way of Death, by Jessica Mitford. It was written back in the sixties, but I learned so much. It's a cracking good read and not macabre or gloomy.

The thing that really stuck with me though, was the subject of embalming. It's hideously expensive and in my view, totally unnecessary. Undertakers push it using the logic that the deceased needs to look their very best in case people wish to view the body prior to the coffin being closed. I cannot see the point of spending thousands of dollars on embalming, when the deceased person is going to be buried or cremated within hours.

My husband and I have given our son a list of things we'd like at our funerals and we've both stipulated that we're not to be embalmed.
 
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I read the most amazing book several years ago called The American Way of Death, by Jessica Mitford. It was written back in the sixties, but I learned so much. It's a cracking good read and not macabre or gloomy.

The thing that really stuck with me though, was the subject of embalming. It's hideously expensive and in my view, totally unnecessary. Undertakers push it using the logic that the deceased needs to look their very best in case people wish to view the body prior to the coffin being closed. I cannot see the point of spending thousands of dollars on embalming, when the deceased person is going to be buried or cremated within hours.

My husband and I have given our son a list of things we'd like at our funerals and we've both stipulated that we're not to be embalmed.
I don't know for sure, but I've always had the suspicion that it has something to do with necrophilia?
 
my funeral has been paid for since 2009. I took out a plan with Rose Chapel (now Generation Funerals) in Bundaberg in 2000 and know the family well. beautiful, caring people. The cost in those days was $3000 but I only had to pay $2,500 with the balance made up of interest. Everything, to this day is covered thankfully as I didn't want my kids left with the bill. The only thing we can be assured of is death and taxes so why don't people accept it find a scheme that works like a lay-by with an end amount and get it over with. I asked for cremation with ashes on the river but David asked "how would you like to go fishing?" I'm thrilled to be going out on the boat with him in my ash form.
 
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It's a tough situation when financial pressures hit hard, especially during such a challenging time. I had a personal experience a while back where a close family member passed away, and the cost of organizing everything was overwhelming. We found ourselves scrambling for options that would offer a meaningful tribute without breaking the bank.

During our search, we came across Granite Headstones. Their services were genuinely helpful and offered a lot of flexibility in making sure we could honor our loved one with dignity while staying within our means. It made a significant difference in managing the costs and still providing a fitting memorial.
 
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It's a tough situation when financial pressures hit hard, especially during such a challenging time. I had a personal experience a while back where a close family member passed away, and the cost of organizing everything was overwhelming. We found ourselves scrambling for options that would offer a meaningful tribute without breaking the bank.
Got it sorted out.....donate your body to science.....the only cost should be the cost of signing the death certificate... outrageous that it is.
 

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