Daughter’s shocking neglect with elderly mum ends with controversial court decision!
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Discovering a loved one in distressing circumstances can be a harrowing experience for any family.
Recently, a daughter faced a heartbreaking ordeal involving her elderly mum, highlighting challenges and raising questions about caregiving responsibilities and support systems.
This incident has led to a tragic outcome and a controversial court decision, sent shockwaves through the community and sparked a conversation about the care of the elderly and safeguarding vulnerable individuals.
Julie Lynette Delaney, a 61-year-old woman from Pimpama on the Gold Coast, faced the Brisbane Supreme Court after her 82-year-old mum, Noelene Delaney, was found deceased in conditions that can only be described as horrific.
The elderly woman had been living in squalor, her final days marred by neglect that included being left to use a hole in the couch as a makeshift toilet and lying in her own waste.
The details that emerged in court painted a grim picture of Noelene's last moments.
She was found malnourished, covered in faeces, and suffering from a range of health issues, including ulcers, Alzheimer's disease, and hypertension.
At the time of her death, she weighed a mere 49.6kg, and the cause of death was determined to be sepsis caused by malnutrition.
Julie, who was her mum’s primary carer, pleaded guilty to manslaughter.
‘I'm so remorseful for what I've done,’ she told the court moments after pleading guilty to manslaughter.
However, despite the gravity of the situation, Delaney will not spend any more time behind bars. Instead, she received a five-year suspended sentence, with the judge citing concerns that further imprisonment would be detrimental to her own recovery.
Julie’s son, who faced no allegations of wrongdoing, supported Noelene's care by managing finances, transporting her and Julie to appointments, and shopping for groceries.
Noelene needed constant supervision and care, along with regular medical visits that included occupational and physical therapy sessions.
The court heard that Julie had missed multiple appointments and communications from aged care support group BlueCare and Gold Coast University Hospital regarding her mother's care.
On September 18, 2020, text messages exchanged between Julie and her son indicated a dire situation, with Julie admitting she could not lift her mum and describing her as ‘dead weight’.
Crown Prosecutor Caroline Marco stated that later at 3:30 PM, she requested ‘help’ from her son.
According to her, Julie’s son arrived at Noelene's residence in Pimpama, discovering the 82-year-old, who appeared ‘frail and malnourished’, struggling to breathe, covered in faeces, and emitting groans of distress.
When emergency services arrived later that night, they were met with a ‘strong, putrid odour’ coming from the house, which was described as being covered in faeces.
‘(Noelene) was non-responsive and in a semi-conscious state,’ Ms Marco told the court.
‘Queensland Ambulance Service officers noted she was cold to touch, gasping for breath, non-verbal and flailing her limbs.’
The living conditions were deplorable. Police discovered that the couch where Noelene sat had been altered to serve as a toilet, with a large hole containing faeces, urine, and soiled towels.
According to Ms Marco, Noelene would remain on the couch for extended periods each day. Additional soiled clothing, bedding, and towels were also found in the bedroom.
‘There was no fresh food, vegetables, or fruit in the house,’ she pointed out.
Ms Marco stated that Julie informed the police she did not abuse her mother and cleaned the couch hole daily.
Delaney acknowledged that caring for Noelene could be ‘sometimes a handful’ but never felt unable to provide care.
She reported attending a doctor's appointment on the day of her mum's death and returning home to discover her unconscious. Julie explained to police that she cleaned up her mother ‘out of respect’ for the deceased.
When questioned whether her actions were correct, Julie admitted, ‘Not really, I know I stuffed up a bit, a lot.’
Ms Marco clarified that Julie’s criminal liability lay in her failure to seek appropriate medical help when her mum's health had visibly worsened.
‘It was not a momentary lack of judgment,’ she asserted.
Delaney's legal representative stated that she had expressed remorse for her actions.
The court heard medical opinions indicating that Delaney has been diagnosed with schizophrenia and exhibits ‘borderline cognitive functioning’ with deficits ‘across the board’.
At 61 years old, Julie did not appear to be ‘aware of her impairments’ in her function and struggles with planning, which hindered her ability to seek medical assistance for Noelene.
Her lawyer mentioned that Julie receives assistance through the NDIS and volunteers with a community support group based in the Gold Coast.
‘Ms Delaney herself required her mother's assistance to raise her son,’ Julie’s lawyer stated.
Justice Melanie Hindman acknowledged the tragic nature of the case, stating that Noelene's life ended in a way that no one would wish for and that it was a tragedy that Julie failed to grasp the extent of her mother's care requirements.
‘She must have been in a lot of pain leading up to and on the date of her death,’ she lamented.
‘It's a tragedy it wasn't recognised earlier that you weren't a suitable person to care for your mother at that stage of her life.’
Justice Melanie Hindman sentenced Julie to five years in prison but considered the 82 days she had already spent in custody as time served. The sentence was suspended for a period of five years.
The distressing case of neglect and tragedy surrounding Noelene's care highlights critical issues within aged care systems.
As society grapples with these troubling realities, recent events underscore the urgent need for reforms to ensure the safety and dignity of elderly individuals.
One specific incident was that of a police assault against an elderly man taking care of his wife in NSW, serving as a poignant reminder of the challenges faced in providing adequate care and the imperative for systemic improvements.
Have you or someone you know faced challenges in caring for an elderly family member? How did you navigate the situation, and what support did you find most helpful? We invite you to share your thoughts and experiences on this topic in the comments below.
Discovering a loved one in distressing circumstances can be a harrowing experience for any family.
Recently, a daughter faced a heartbreaking ordeal involving her elderly mum, highlighting challenges and raising questions about caregiving responsibilities and support systems.
This incident has led to a tragic outcome and a controversial court decision, sent shockwaves through the community and sparked a conversation about the care of the elderly and safeguarding vulnerable individuals.
Julie Lynette Delaney, a 61-year-old woman from Pimpama on the Gold Coast, faced the Brisbane Supreme Court after her 82-year-old mum, Noelene Delaney, was found deceased in conditions that can only be described as horrific.
The elderly woman had been living in squalor, her final days marred by neglect that included being left to use a hole in the couch as a makeshift toilet and lying in her own waste.
Julie Lynette Delaney pleaded guilty to manslaughter for failing to provide adequate care to her 82-year-old mother, Noelene Delaney. Credit: Shutterstock
The details that emerged in court painted a grim picture of Noelene's last moments.
She was found malnourished, covered in faeces, and suffering from a range of health issues, including ulcers, Alzheimer's disease, and hypertension.
At the time of her death, she weighed a mere 49.6kg, and the cause of death was determined to be sepsis caused by malnutrition.
Julie, who was her mum’s primary carer, pleaded guilty to manslaughter.
‘I'm so remorseful for what I've done,’ she told the court moments after pleading guilty to manslaughter.
However, despite the gravity of the situation, Delaney will not spend any more time behind bars. Instead, she received a five-year suspended sentence, with the judge citing concerns that further imprisonment would be detrimental to her own recovery.
Julie’s son, who faced no allegations of wrongdoing, supported Noelene's care by managing finances, transporting her and Julie to appointments, and shopping for groceries.
Noelene needed constant supervision and care, along with regular medical visits that included occupational and physical therapy sessions.
The court heard that Julie had missed multiple appointments and communications from aged care support group BlueCare and Gold Coast University Hospital regarding her mother's care.
On September 18, 2020, text messages exchanged between Julie and her son indicated a dire situation, with Julie admitting she could not lift her mum and describing her as ‘dead weight’.
Crown Prosecutor Caroline Marco stated that later at 3:30 PM, she requested ‘help’ from her son.
According to her, Julie’s son arrived at Noelene's residence in Pimpama, discovering the 82-year-old, who appeared ‘frail and malnourished’, struggling to breathe, covered in faeces, and emitting groans of distress.
When emergency services arrived later that night, they were met with a ‘strong, putrid odour’ coming from the house, which was described as being covered in faeces.
‘(Noelene) was non-responsive and in a semi-conscious state,’ Ms Marco told the court.
‘Queensland Ambulance Service officers noted she was cold to touch, gasping for breath, non-verbal and flailing her limbs.’
The living conditions were deplorable. Police discovered that the couch where Noelene sat had been altered to serve as a toilet, with a large hole containing faeces, urine, and soiled towels.
According to Ms Marco, Noelene would remain on the couch for extended periods each day. Additional soiled clothing, bedding, and towels were also found in the bedroom.
‘There was no fresh food, vegetables, or fruit in the house,’ she pointed out.
Ms Marco stated that Julie informed the police she did not abuse her mother and cleaned the couch hole daily.
Delaney acknowledged that caring for Noelene could be ‘sometimes a handful’ but never felt unable to provide care.
She reported attending a doctor's appointment on the day of her mum's death and returning home to discover her unconscious. Julie explained to police that she cleaned up her mother ‘out of respect’ for the deceased.
When questioned whether her actions were correct, Julie admitted, ‘Not really, I know I stuffed up a bit, a lot.’
Ms Marco clarified that Julie’s criminal liability lay in her failure to seek appropriate medical help when her mum's health had visibly worsened.
‘It was not a momentary lack of judgment,’ she asserted.
Delaney's legal representative stated that she had expressed remorse for her actions.
The court heard medical opinions indicating that Delaney has been diagnosed with schizophrenia and exhibits ‘borderline cognitive functioning’ with deficits ‘across the board’.
At 61 years old, Julie did not appear to be ‘aware of her impairments’ in her function and struggles with planning, which hindered her ability to seek medical assistance for Noelene.
Her lawyer mentioned that Julie receives assistance through the NDIS and volunteers with a community support group based in the Gold Coast.
‘Ms Delaney herself required her mother's assistance to raise her son,’ Julie’s lawyer stated.
Justice Melanie Hindman acknowledged the tragic nature of the case, stating that Noelene's life ended in a way that no one would wish for and that it was a tragedy that Julie failed to grasp the extent of her mother's care requirements.
‘She must have been in a lot of pain leading up to and on the date of her death,’ she lamented.
‘It's a tragedy it wasn't recognised earlier that you weren't a suitable person to care for your mother at that stage of her life.’
Justice Melanie Hindman sentenced Julie to five years in prison but considered the 82 days she had already spent in custody as time served. The sentence was suspended for a period of five years.
The distressing case of neglect and tragedy surrounding Noelene's care highlights critical issues within aged care systems.
As society grapples with these troubling realities, recent events underscore the urgent need for reforms to ensure the safety and dignity of elderly individuals.
One specific incident was that of a police assault against an elderly man taking care of his wife in NSW, serving as a poignant reminder of the challenges faced in providing adequate care and the imperative for systemic improvements.
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