Community Outrage: Why High-Fives from Everyone's Favorite 'Lollipop Man' Are Being Forbidden – Protect Your Kids!

In the heart of the Yarra Ranges, a local hero known for his infectious joy and the simple act of high-fiving children at a school crossing has been met with a wave of controversy. The 'lollipop man', as crossing guards are affectionately known in Australia, has become a beloved figure among the children and parents of Mount Dandenong Primary School. However, a single complaint has led to a ban on this cherished daily ritual, sparking uproar within the community.

The lollipop man in question, whose high-fives have been described as a highlight for many children on their way to and from school, has been told by the Yarra Ranges Council that he can no longer initiate this gesture. The decision came after a parent expressed concern, leading the council to enforce a strict interpretation of child safety protocols.


A spokesperson for the Yarra Ranges Council spoke to Yahoo News Australia, emphasizing that 'the safety of children is of paramount importance for all Council staff, contractors and volunteers.' They further explained that all individuals in contact with children must adhere to the Victorian Child Safe Standards, which include having a valid Working With Children check and following guidelines on appropriate conduct.


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Lollipop man' Goulden was banned from high-fiving kids at Mount Dandenong Primary due to one complaint. Credit: Shutterstock


The council's stance is that school crossing supervisors must avoid any behaviours that could be seen as 'unnecessarily physical' or involve initiating 'unnecessary physical contact' with children. This policy is in place to protect children and ensure a safe environment, but it has also inadvertently stifled a warm and friendly tradition that many argue contributes positively to the community's spirit.


Parents and children alike have expressed their dismay at the ban, with many feeling that the council's decision is an overreach that undermines the positive impact the lollipop man has on the community. In response, a petition has been organized by Rohan Bradley, a local parent, to allow the lollipop man to continue his high-fiving tradition. Bradley passionately argues that this small gesture is more than just a tradition; it's a symbol of the warmth and friendliness that makes their community unique.

The petition highlights the importance of the lollipop man's role in the children's happiness and well-being and has quickly garnered over 100 signatures of support. The community's response underscores the deep affection for the lollipop man, who was recently honoured as the 'Region 4 School Crossing Supervisor of the Year' by School Crossings Victoria Inc. for his outstanding contributions to community safety.

This situation raises important questions about the balance between child safety and community engagement. While the need for child protection is undisputed, the community's reaction suggests a desire for a more nuanced approach that recognizes the value of positive interactions between children and trusted adults in their daily lives.


Key Takeaways
  • A beloved 'lollipop man' named Goulden has been banned from high-fiving children at Mount Dandenong Primary School due to a single complaint.
  • The Yarra Ranges Council cited 'child safety' as the reason, aligning with the Victorian Child Safe Standards regarding appropriate conduct around children.
  • Parents and children have been upset by the ban, leading to a petition being started in support of Goulden's actions, which over 100 people have signed.
  • Goulden was recently named 'Region 4 School Crossing Supervisor of the Year' by School Crossings Victoria Inc. for his contributions to community safety.
We at the Seniors Discount Club understand the importance of safeguarding our children, but we also recognise the significance of community bonds and the small joys that can make a big difference in a child's day. We invite our readers to share their thoughts on this matter. How do you feel about the council's decision? Have you experienced similar situations in your own communities? Let's discuss the ways we can protect our children while also preserving the friendly gestures that contribute to a caring and connected society.
 

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We don't have lollipop ladies/men. Kids often do it and/or with a supervising school staff member, and its all lights at the crossing just about everywhere now.
maybe in the BIG cities, there are also lots of places that don't even have a crosswalk for the kids, they have to use their intelligence of when \ wehere to cross safely, just like we all did many many years ago
 
Now who was the gutless coward that put in this complaint and why, Was he just Jealous that this man beat him when got the award, has to be something like that and as far as I am concerned if anyone wants to complain about anything then they should have the guts to show their name and be recognised or simply keep their mouth shut.
 
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I may be wrong, but I vaguely recall the introduction of high fives to replace hand clasps, hugs or other physical contact. After all, a high five is simply a clap. I can see no undercurrent message in the action.
It is indeed a sad state of affairs to see that even the kindest action can be misunderstood in such a way.
Now, if it was high five...grab the hand...ask do you want to see a puppy ... that would be a different story, and I would be there with a pitchfork.
 
It only takes one supposedly well-meaning idiot to spoilt harmless things for the 99.99% majority. Woke madness. It's spreading exponentially. Ridiculous!

Listen to the majority....please!
 
SDC, was it necessary to give the name of the "lollipop man"??? Poor taste on your part.
I guess the complainant hasn't volunteered at all.
 
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It's not like he's forcing children to high 5 him. I don't see the harm in him giving the child a high 5 if that's what they want. Maybe the person who complained doesn't have children or is jealous
 
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Soon a simple smile will be called into question….Those children are lucky they have someone to see them safely across the road…..There are still lots of children who have to cross a road to school, by themselves. A high five…you don’t even have to touch hands..
 
maybe in the BIG cities, there are also lots of places that don't even have a crosswalk for the kids, they have to use their intelligence of when \ wehere to cross safely, just like we all did many many years ago
as a school student my school had crosswalk manned by kids and that was in suburbia. As a teacher (52 years in education), all but rural schools I worked in had crossings and lights. Always responsibility of the school staff and kids to man. Outside the department people have never operated crossings in SA- not a big city.
 
The person who complained obviously has had a troubled past and needs counselling
What is the World coming to when we allow less than 1/2% of lunatic people complain about everything and making it harder for the 99.5% of us.
As for the Council allowing this complaint going through, what is there left to say
 

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