We all aim for honesty in conversation within our homes, don’t we? Given some subjects are more delicate than others, especially those touching on aspects of sexuality, it becomes only natural that there's disagreement around what's age-appropriate and what's not.

Undoubtedly, a recent release has opened up a can of worms in the arena of kids' sex education, and it appears there is a clear divide among Australia's community of parents.

The presence of a particular item in the ‘Children's Books’ section has sparked controversy, with a mixture of outcry and support.

Co-authored by ABC personality Yumi Stynes and adolescent advice columnist, Dr Melissa Kang, Welcome to Sex: Your no-silly-questions guide to sexuality, pleasure and figuring it out, has been causing a stir.

Welcome to Sex by Yumi Kang is an insightful and comprehensive guide that aims to educate and empower readers about all aspects of sex and sexuality. Source: Hardie Grant

This book, featuring explicit illustrations and addressing a wide range of sexual themes targeted at children aged eight and above, ventures into taboo territory.

The book explores sensitive topics such as masturbation, LGBTQI concerns, gender curiosity, various sexual positions, and even the act of 'scissoring'.

Its open sale at BIG W drew a flux of agitation, with some parents arguing that it was crossing a red line.

'How can anyone think they are not coming after the children after seeing books like this for sale openly in BIG W?' mused conservative podcaster Chris Primod.

Another livid social media user asked: 'Really? We need to teach 11-year-olds different sex positions? This book is a big no from me.'

Sex education should be tailored to the child's developmental stage, ensuring that the information provided is suitable for their age and level of understanding. Source: theprimod/Instagram

Another distressed parent echoed the sentiment and said: 'I have sent a protest letter to BIG W about the porn book Welcome to Sex. It is extremely graphic. We should all make the effort to protest this stuff to children.'

Yet not everyone was against the book's contents. Some stoutly defended the authors, referring to the backlash as a 'moral panic'.

'Right-wing cookers/religious nuts are trying to censor these books. Usual anti-queer, anti-feminist reasons,' said another.

A parent praised the book: 'Can't wait to purchase this. Your period book took away the fear for my 10-year-old daughter (and me!) so much. Forever grateful.'

Parents or guardians should be actively involved in their child's sex education. They should be able to review and provide consent for the content being taught, as they play a vital role in shaping their child's values and beliefs. Source: theprimod/Instagram

In an interview with Mamamia just before the book's launch, Stynes voiced her hope that the publication would be a valuable tool for parents to initiate candid discussions around sex with their children.

'I think a lot of parents have inherited shame from their own parents and from our culture and society at large,' Stynes pointed out. 'I think it's partly shame about icky body fluids, but parents also worry about saying the wrong thing.'

She believes that the book will serve as a 'trusted resource', helping parents approach the subject with confidence rather than fear of misinformation or perpetuating sexist stereotypes.

When it comes to having 'the talk', Stynes referenced the vast difference in maturity levels among 12-year-olds, with some being quite sophisticated and others still very childlike.

Topics should be introduced gradually, with an emphasis on building a foundation of basic knowledge before delving into more complex subjects. Source: theprimod/Instagram

She also encouraged parents to use news stories or TV programmes as starting points for routine family conversations about sex.

'Once they (children) know that you're safe to talk to about sex with, and you're not going to flip out, then they can return to the conversations again, and they will absolutely love having a space to ask you those questions,' she advised.

Key Takeaways

• A controversial sex education book has sparked outrage among parents for being too graphic.
• The book, co-authored by ABC personality Yumi Stynes and Dr Melissa Kang, is aimed at children aged eight and above, and covers a wide range of sexual topics.
• Many social media users have openly criticised the book, while others have come to the defence of the authors, calling the backlash a 'moral panic'.
• Stynes communicated that the book is intended to be a 'trusted resource' for parents aiding them in having open, informed discussions about sex with their children.

The inclusion of explicit books in the children's section of stores such as BIG W is a matter of concern for many parents and grandparents alike.

As we navigate a changing world, it becomes more important than ever to stay vigilant about the content available to our children and grandchildren, yet at the same time, keep an open mind to changing values and approaches to education.

So, members, how do you feel about this issue? Should books such as these have a place on our store shelves?

 

[Luckyus]

I always said that if was lucky enough to have children, when I thought they could understand and started to show curiosity I would explain the facts of life and if I had daughters I'd most definitely put them on the pill as soon as they started to menstruate.

 

[Freeby60]

Remember these words AGGRAVATION & ASSAULT OF A MINOR.

They are both minors, they have been together for a long time, this is not something that they both have just made up and done. They have done the responsible thing and gone to their parents and told them.

 

[Jerry5]

We all aim for honesty in conversation within our homes, don’t we? Given some subjects are more delicate than others, especially those touching on aspects of sexuality, it becomes only natural that there's disagreement around what's age-appropriate and what's not.

Undoubtedly, a recent release has opened up a can of worms in the arena of kids' sex education, and it appears there is a clear divide among Australia's community of parents.

The presence of a particular item in the ‘Children's Books’ section has sparked controversy, with a mixture of outcry and support.

Co-authored by ABC personality Yumi Stynes and adolescent advice columnist, Dr Melissa Kang, Welcome to Sex: Your no-silly-questions guide to sexuality, pleasure and figuring it out, has been causing a stir.

View attachment 25400

Welcome to Sex by Yumi Kang is an insightful and comprehensive guide that aims to educate and empower readers about all aspects of sex and sexuality. Source: Hardie Grant

This book, featuring explicit illustrations and addressing a wide range of sexual themes targeted at children aged eight and above, ventures into taboo territory.

The book explores sensitive topics such as masturbation, LGBTQI concerns, gender curiosity, various sexual positions, and even the act of 'scissoring'.

Its open sale at BIG W drew a flux of agitation, with some parents arguing that it was crossing a red line.

'How can anyone think they are not coming after the children after seeing books like this for sale openly in BIG W?' mused conservative podcaster Chris Primod.

Another livid social media user asked: 'Really? We need to teach 11-year-olds different sex positions? This book is a big no from me.'

View attachment 25401

Sex education should be tailored to the child's developmental stage, ensuring that the information provided is suitable for their age and level of understanding. Source: theprimod/Instagram

Another distressed parent echoed the sentiment and said: 'I have sent a protest letter to BIG W about the porn book Welcome to Sex. It is extremely graphic. We should all make the effort to protest this stuff to children.'

Yet not everyone was against the book's contents. Some stoutly defended the authors, referring to the backlash as a 'moral panic'.

'Right-wing cookers/religious nuts are trying to censor these books. Usual anti-queer, anti-feminist reasons,' said another.

A parent praised the book: 'Can't wait to purchase this. Your period book took away the fear for my 10-year-old daughter (and me!) so much. Forever grateful.'

View attachment 25402

Parents or guardians should be actively involved in their child's sex education. They should be able to review and provide consent for the content being taught, as they play a vital role in shaping their child's values and beliefs. Source: theprimod/Instagram

In an interview with Mamamia just before the book's launch, Stynes voiced her hope that the publication would be a valuable tool for parents to initiate candid discussions around sex with their children.

'I think a lot of parents have inherited shame from their own parents and from our culture and society at large,' Stynes pointed out. 'I think it's partly shame about icky body fluids, but parents also worry about saying the wrong thing.'

She believes that the book will serve as a 'trusted resource', helping parents approach the subject with confidence rather than fear of misinformation or perpetuating sexist stereotypes.

When it comes to having 'the talk', Stynes referenced the vast difference in maturity levels among 12-year-olds, with some being quite sophisticated and others still very childlike.

View attachment 25403

Topics should be introduced gradually, with an emphasis on building a foundation of basic knowledge before delving into more complex subjects. Source: theprimod/Instagram

She also encouraged parents to use news stories or TV programmes as starting points for routine family conversations about sex.

'Once they (children) know that you're safe to talk to about sex with, and you're not going to flip out, then they can return to the conversations again, and they will absolutely love having a space to ask you those questions,' she advised.

Key Takeaways

• A controversial sex education book has sparked outrage among parents for being too graphic.
• The book, co-authored by ABC personality Yumi Stynes and Dr Melissa Kang, is aimed at children aged eight and above, and covers a wide range of sexual topics.
• Many social media users have openly criticised the book, while others have come to the defence of the authors, calling the backlash a 'moral panic'.
• Stynes communicated that the book is intended to be a 'trusted resource' for parents aiding them in having open, informed discussions about sex with their children.

The inclusion of explicit books in the children's section of stores such as BIG W is a matter of concern for many parents and grandparents alike.

As we navigate a changing world, it becomes more important than ever to stay vigilant about the content available to our children and grandchildren, yet at the same time, keep an open mind to changing values and approaches to education.

So, members, how do you feel about this issue? Should books such as these have a place on our store shelves?

This is a non argument! If certain parents don’t like or want their children reading it then simply don’t buy it. There is no need to abuse anyone, least of all store employees. The next thing we’ll see is book burning. I say grow up and act like the adults you are supposed to be instead of trying to impose your antiquated beliefs on everyone else.

 

[Paul M]

We all aim for honesty in conversation within our homes, don’t we? Given some subjects are more delicate than others, especially those touching on aspects of sexuality, it becomes only natural that there's disagreement around what's age-appropriate and what's not.

Undoubtedly, a recent release has opened up a can of worms in the arena of kids' sex education, and it appears there is a clear divide among Australia's community of parents.

The presence of a particular item in the ‘Children's Books’ section has sparked controversy, with a mixture of outcry and support.

Co-authored by ABC personality Yumi Stynes and adolescent advice columnist, Dr Melissa Kang, Welcome to Sex: Your no-silly-questions guide to sexuality, pleasure and figuring it out, has been causing a stir.

View attachment 25400

Welcome to Sex by Yumi Kang is an insightful and comprehensive guide that aims to educate and empower readers about all aspects of sex and sexuality. Source: Hardie Grant

This book, featuring explicit illustrations and addressing a wide range of sexual themes targeted at children aged eight and above, ventures into taboo territory.

The book explores sensitive topics such as masturbation, LGBTQI concerns, gender curiosity, various sexual positions, and even the act of 'scissoring'.

Its open sale at BIG W drew a flux of agitation, with some parents arguing that it was crossing a red line.

'How can anyone think they are not coming after the children after seeing books like this for sale openly in BIG W?' mused conservative podcaster Chris Primod.

Another livid social media user asked: 'Really? We need to teach 11-year-olds different sex positions? This book is a big no from me.'

View attachment 25401

Sex education should be tailored to the child's developmental stage, ensuring that the information provided is suitable for their age and level of understanding. Source: theprimod/Instagram

Another distressed parent echoed the sentiment and said: 'I have sent a protest letter to BIG W about the porn book Welcome to Sex. It is extremely graphic. We should all make the effort to protest this stuff to children.'

Yet not everyone was against the book's contents. Some stoutly defended the authors, referring to the backlash as a 'moral panic'.

'Right-wing cookers/religious nuts are trying to censor these books. Usual anti-queer, anti-feminist reasons,' said another.

A parent praised the book: 'Can't wait to purchase this. Your period book took away the fear for my 10-year-old daughter (and me!) so much. Forever grateful.'

View attachment 25402

Parents or guardians should be actively involved in their child's sex education. They should be able to review and provide consent for the content being taught, as they play a vital role in shaping their child's values and beliefs. Source: theprimod/Instagram

In an interview with Mamamia just before the book's launch, Stynes voiced her hope that the publication would be a valuable tool for parents to initiate candid discussions around sex with their children.

'I think a lot of parents have inherited shame from their own parents and from our culture and society at large,' Stynes pointed out. 'I think it's partly shame about icky body fluids, but parents also worry about saying the wrong thing.'

She believes that the book will serve as a 'trusted resource', helping parents approach the subject with confidence rather than fear of misinformation or perpetuating sexist stereotypes.

When it comes to having 'the talk', Stynes referenced the vast difference in maturity levels among 12-year-olds, with some being quite sophisticated and others still very childlike.

View attachment 25403

Topics should be introduced gradually, with an emphasis on building a foundation of basic knowledge before delving into more complex subjects. Source: theprimod/Instagram

She also encouraged parents to use news stories or TV programmes as starting points for routine family conversations about sex.

'Once they (children) know that you're safe to talk to about sex with, and you're not going to flip out, then they can return to the conversations again, and they will absolutely love having a space to ask you those questions,' she advised.

Key Takeaways

• A controversial sex education book has sparked outrage among parents for being too graphic.
• The book, co-authored by ABC personality Yumi Stynes and Dr Melissa Kang, is aimed at children aged eight and above, and covers a wide range of sexual topics.
• Many social media users have openly criticised the book, while others have come to the defence of the authors, calling the backlash a 'moral panic'.
• Stynes communicated that the book is intended to be a 'trusted resource' for parents aiding them in having open, informed discussions about sex with their children.

The inclusion of explicit books in the children's section of stores such as BIG W is a matter of concern for many parents and grandparents alike.

As we navigate a changing world, it becomes more important than ever to stay vigilant about the content available to our children and grandchildren, yet at the same time, keep an open mind to changing values and approaches to education.

So, members, how do you feel about this issue? Should books such as these have a place on our store shelves?

I think So. Judging by My Experiences. I didn’t know about Sex until a Later Age. I was Tormented at School because I didn’t know Anything about it. There was No Sex Education and No Parents Around to Tell Me. One of My Best Friends tried to Explain to Me. But Looking Back.He didn’t know Much about it Either because His Parents only Told briefly Him about Sex.

 

[Staffordshire Whippet]

Personally I think it is up to parents to teach their kids about sex. But see nothing wrong with this type of education in high school. Leave the little ones alone. They need their childhood. Also would not touch anything Yumi Stynes does, she's already proved she's capable of making herself look like an idiot. Just my opinion

Too many words: I just wouldn't touch Yumi Stynes!

 

[Miss Chris]

Like most things, if it’s available you have the option to buy or not………. I do believe though that children are confronted by all sorts of things these days due to exposure to social media at an early age ……..If they ask questions about what they see or read then it’s the responsibility of the parent to provide answers……….sometimes it may be a bit squirmy for a parent to provide answers to sex questions so I think that it’s okay for the subject to be discussed at school, and books to be available at parents discretion…..

 

[Raelynne27]

We all aim for honesty in conversation within our homes, don’t we? Given some subjects are more delicate than others, especially those touching on aspects of sexuality, it becomes only natural that there's disagreement around what's age-appropriate and what's not.

Undoubtedly, a recent release has opened up a can of worms in the arena of kids' sex education, and it appears there is a clear divide among Australia's community of parents.

The presence of a particular item in the ‘Children's Books’ section has sparked controversy, with a mixture of outcry and support.

Co-authored by ABC personality Yumi Stynes and adolescent advice columnist, Dr Melissa Kang, Welcome to Sex: Your no-silly-questions guide to sexuality, pleasure and figuring it out, has been causing a stir.

View attachment 25400

Welcome to Sex by Yumi Kang is an insightful and comprehensive guide that aims to educate and empower readers about all aspects of sex and sexuality. Source: Hardie Grant

This book, featuring explicit illustrations and addressing a wide range of sexual themes targeted at children aged eight and above, ventures into taboo territory.

The book explores sensitive topics such as masturbation, LGBTQI concerns, gender curiosity, various sexual positions, and even the act of 'scissoring'.

Its open sale at BIG W drew a flux of agitation, with some parents arguing that it was crossing a red line.

'How can anyone think they are not coming after the children after seeing books like this for sale openly in BIG W?' mused conservative podcaster Chris Primod.

Another livid social media user asked: 'Really? We need to teach 11-year-olds different sex positions? This book is a big no from me.'

View attachment 25401

Sex education should be tailored to the child's developmental stage, ensuring that the information provided is suitable for their age and level of understanding. Source: theprimod/Instagram

Another distressed parent echoed the sentiment and said: 'I have sent a protest letter to BIG W about the porn book Welcome to Sex. It is extremely graphic. We should all make the effort to protest this stuff to children.'

Yet not everyone was against the book's contents. Some stoutly defended the authors, referring to the backlash as a 'moral panic'.

'Right-wing cookers/religious nuts are trying to censor these books. Usual anti-queer, anti-feminist reasons,' said another.

A parent praised the book: 'Can't wait to purchase this. Your period book took away the fear for my 10-year-old daughter (and me!) so much. Forever grateful.'

View attachment 25402

Parents or guardians should be actively involved in their child's sex education. They should be able to review and provide consent for the content being taught, as they play a vital role in shaping their child's values and beliefs. Source: theprimod/Instagram

In an interview with Mamamia just before the book's launch, Stynes voiced her hope that the publication would be a valuable tool for parents to initiate candid discussions around sex with their children.

'I think a lot of parents have inherited shame from their own parents and from our culture and society at large,' Stynes pointed out. 'I think it's partly shame about icky body fluids, but parents also worry about saying the wrong thing.'

She believes that the book will serve as a 'trusted resource', helping parents approach the subject with confidence rather than fear of misinformation or perpetuating sexist stereotypes.

When it comes to having 'the talk', Stynes referenced the vast difference in maturity levels among 12-year-olds, with some being quite sophisticated and others still very childlike.

View attachment 25403

Topics should be introduced gradually, with an emphasis on building a foundation of basic knowledge before delving into more complex subjects. Source: theprimod/Instagram

She also encouraged parents to use news stories or TV programmes as starting points for routine family conversations about sex.

'Once they (children) know that you're safe to talk to about sex with, and you're not going to flip out, then they can return to the conversations again, and they will absolutely love having a space to ask you those questions,' she advised.

Key Takeaways

• A controversial sex education book has sparked outrage among parents for being too graphic.
• The book, co-authored by ABC personality Yumi Stynes and Dr Melissa Kang, is aimed at children aged eight and above, and covers a wide range of sexual topics.
• Many social media users have openly criticised the book, while others have come to the defence of the authors, calling the backlash a 'moral panic'.
• Stynes communicated that the book is intended to be a 'trusted resource' for parents aiding them in having open, informed discussions about sex with their children.

The inclusion of explicit books in the children's section of stores such as BIG W is a matter of concern for many parents and grandparents alike.

As we navigate a changing world, it becomes more important than ever to stay vigilant about the content available to our children and grandchildren, yet at the same time, keep an open mind to changing values and approaches to education.

So, members, how do you feel about this issue? Should books such as these have a place on our store shelves?

Placing the book in the children's section was a bold statement, and of course it has gotten the reaction it wanted. Outrage, shock and hopefully curiosity as well, but at least it has gotten the book noticed, amongst so many other publications. Personally, I believe the book belongs in the adult section, aimed at parents, and grandparents, who will introduce it to their young ones when they feel it is the right time. Sex and sexuality is not something to be feared or be embarrassed about. A book like this can be used as a safe place, when introduced by a parent. Open discussion is much healthier and safer for everyone.
The marketing got it noticed, now let's take advantage of the information, and guided by your own commonsense and knowledge of your child's level of maturity, have those conversations we may feel a little embarrassed by. No one is trying to force things onto children, just give them the knowledge that they may be seeking. It's a very personal thing, but knowledge is power. And communication is key, don't be afraid and don't transfer that fear to our kids, because that fear, and ignorance, can be even more damaging and dangerous.
I wish that I had had this kind of book when I was young, and I hope that I can answer any questions that my grandchildren have on the subject. I think this book would be a great help and is not something to be feared.

 

[Catherines]

I do agree that children need to learn about sex but that should start in the home, not on bookshelves in stores where children who have money can buy it and perhaps hide it from their parents and then practise, out of curiosity, what they see in a book. That is dangerous without the appropriate knowledge of protection and the consequences of pregnancy and even sexual diseases for life.

 

[Ricki]

Of course they have a place, the critics overlook the valuable content of consent, loving your body and the amazing things it can do and it's not just geared to heteronormative relationship. Teenagers struggling with anything to do with sex would benefit. It's obviously aimed at young teenagers not children. Don't buy it if you think your child is too young- simple. This needs to be the norm so sexual abuse is NOT the norm and this seems to be one of the aims of the book.

Totally agree with you.

 

[DonnaSherlock]

I find the reactions to this topic awfully disturbing. Some are talking about BOOK BANNING. This is Australia, not conservative USA. If you don't want your child to read this book, don't buy it for them! I think it's very healyty to discuss these topics woithout the embarrassment and misinformation that abounded when I was a child.

 

[Gaena]

this is a book that can either be purchased or not, the same as any other book. The majority of children are very curious about sex and unless they have a good relationship with their parents who are willing to discuss sex with them, they will get the information that they want at school, more often than not it will not be very helpful. Expecting all parents to be comfortable with explaining things to their children is foolish, I still remember the look of horror on my fathers face when I asked to bring home such a book, I was 14, He still thought of me as a child around 10, not uncommon for fathers with their daughters. The sex talk is usually reserved for the boys, hopefully including the topic of consent and respect. this is an age old dilemma that faces all parents, if the parents are not comfortable with the subject a book such as this can help to at least begin the conversation that needs to happen.

 

[Defiant540]

My oh my! What is the world coming to? How can we educate children and explain the consequences if they have sex at such a young age? Even at a very young age once our girls are having regular periods they are also at an age of possible unwanted pregnancy. Better to try and educate them about these unwanted pregnancies and the life long consequences of having to provide for those unplanned children while they are still only children themselves.

This is a very difficult situation for parents of young girls and boys to deal with these days but most of us ‘older folk’ would have been brought up without graphic sex education and probably still did OK.

I DO NOT agree with such a graphic book being sold in Big W. How did the authors get permission to publish, and BigW get permission to sell, such graphic information openly? Is there no authority that controls this?

Parents also need to step up and do more explaining of the DOs & DONTs of sex to their children AT HOME. Our children also get some sex education at school - perhaps that needs to be revised, re-written and taught according to the age of the children in each class. Parents need to stop telling teachers what they can and cannot do and what they can or cannot teach in class according to the age of the children. There is much more responsibility on parents for safe teaching of their children at home (it is not for schools to do). There is too much outside interference and nonsense from parents these days resulting in children disrespecting their teachers and even attacking them. Let our kids be kids, they don’t need to grow up too fast. Unfortunately that is happening because too many parents have to work - most to provide for their families but some because of their ‘need, need, need this or that’ and there is little parental control.

I was 16 when I met my husband (married 56 years) and never had sex before marriage - he is, and has always been, a very respectful man. Kissing was enough to keep us together and we both respect each other always. As another person here has said - let children be children - & I say parents need to be parents and take on this responsibility much more. Sex at such a young age of 12 is illegal and aggravation and ASSAULT of a MINOR. It does not matter if a parent is a Police officer as that makes it an even bigger offence by a third party, in my books.

I’m off my ‘high horse’ now and have put my thoughts out there.

congrats on your longtime marriage, I am the same

 

[Mumma Shirls]

So besides the content of this book aiming to control and direct our children that we have so carefully nurtured, loved and protected since birth are we supposed to wash our hands of them once they turn 8 so they 'fit in' to the sexual standards these authors believe we should all believe?
Do they have children?
Who is reaping the benefits of exploiting our children from the sales of these books we are encouraged to buy...?
On the one hand we are looking to increase the age to retirement and on the other lowering the legal age of participating in sexual acts. How on earth does this prevent sexual abuse...paedophiles and rapists will have free rein with children of a much younger age without attracting consequences.
We need to step up and protect all children from such exploitation and being targeted/coerced by either friend or foe.
Defend your child do not let them lose their rights and their humanity by turning them into objects or playthings for someone else.
Protect their innocence for the short time they have it and teach them how to think about and respect their bodies to make informed decisions for themselves.
You're 8 now so it's ok just does not cut it!
There is a difference between having sex and making love that our children need to know about, to understand and to choose to protect themselves.
Are we really willing to sit back knowing our child is 'having it off' with their friend in the next room? No wonder there is such confusion in this world...society has such a lot to answer for...

 

[Mikeyboy2012]

Ler kids be kids for as long as possible please! Then, introduce them to the basics, when they're approaching the right sexual age and let them explore. The advanced techniques can be learned after that, if they're interested. Many are not.

Stop trying to make them older than their years and introducing them to adult concepts before their time.

Like I said, let kids be kids!!!

These books seem to satisfy the author's needs rather than the kids.

 

[lwaaleboer]

We all aim for honesty in conversation within our homes, don’t we? Given some subjects are more delicate than others, especially those touching on aspects of sexuality, it becomes only natural that there's disagreement around what's age-appropriate and what's not.

Undoubtedly, a recent release has opened up a can of worms in the arena of kids' sex education, and it appears there is a clear divide among Australia's community of parents.

The presence of a particular item in the ‘Children's Books’ section has sparked controversy, with a mixture of outcry and support.

Co-authored by ABC personality Yumi Stynes and adolescent advice columnist, Dr Melissa Kang, Welcome to Sex: Your no-silly-questions guide to sexuality, pleasure and figuring it out, has been causing a stir.

View attachment 25400

Welcome to Sex by Yumi Kang is an insightful and comprehensive guide that aims to educate and empower readers about all aspects of sex and sexuality. Source: Hardie Grant

This book, featuring explicit illustrations and addressing a wide range of sexual themes targeted at children aged eight and above, ventures into taboo territory.

The book explores sensitive topics such as masturbation, LGBTQI concerns, gender curiosity, various sexual positions, and even the act of 'scissoring'.

Its open sale at BIG W drew a flux of agitation, with some parents arguing that it was crossing a red line.

'How can anyone think they are not coming after the children after seeing books like this for sale openly in BIG W?' mused conservative podcaster Chris Primod.

Another livid social media user asked: 'Really? We need to teach 11-year-olds different sex positions? This book is a big no from me.'

View attachment 25401

Sex education should be tailored to the child's developmental stage, ensuring that the information provided is suitable for their age and level of understanding. Source: theprimod/Instagram

Another distressed parent echoed the sentiment and said: 'I have sent a protest letter to BIG W about the porn book Welcome to Sex. It is extremely graphic. We should all make the effort to protest this stuff to children.'

Yet not everyone was against the book's contents. Some stoutly defended the authors, referring to the backlash as a 'moral panic'.

'Right-wing cookers/religious nuts are trying to censor these books. Usual anti-queer, anti-feminist reasons,' said another.

A parent praised the book: 'Can't wait to purchase this. Your period book took away the fear for my 10-year-old daughter (and me!) so much. Forever grateful.'

View attachment 25402

Parents or guardians should be actively involved in their child's sex education. They should be able to review and provide consent for the content being taught, as they play a vital role in shaping their child's values and beliefs. Source: theprimod/Instagram

In an interview with Mamamia just before the book's launch, Stynes voiced her hope that the publication would be a valuable tool for parents to initiate candid discussions around sex with their children.

'I think a lot of parents have inherited shame from their own parents and from our culture and society at large,' Stynes pointed out. 'I think it's partly shame about icky body fluids, but parents also worry about saying the wrong thing.'

She believes that the book will serve as a 'trusted resource', helping parents approach the subject with confidence rather than fear of misinformation or perpetuating sexist stereotypes.

When it comes to having 'the talk', Stynes referenced the vast difference in maturity levels among 12-year-olds, with some being quite sophisticated and others still very childlike.

View attachment 25403

Topics should be introduced gradually, with an emphasis on building a foundation of basic knowledge before delving into more complex subjects. Source: theprimod/Instagram

She also encouraged parents to use news stories or TV programmes as starting points for routine family conversations about sex.

'Once they (children) know that you're safe to talk to about sex with, and you're not going to flip out, then they can return to the conversations again, and they will absolutely love having a space to ask you those questions,' she advised.

Key Takeaways

• A controversial sex education book has sparked outrage among parents for being too graphic.
• The book, co-authored by ABC personality Yumi Stynes and Dr Melissa Kang, is aimed at children aged eight and above, and covers a wide range of sexual topics.
• Many social media users have openly criticised the book, while others have come to the defence of the authors, calling the backlash a 'moral panic'.
• Stynes communicated that the book is intended to be a 'trusted resource' for parents aiding them in having open, informed discussions about sex with their children.

The inclusion of explicit books in the children's section of stores such as BIG W is a matter of concern for many parents and grandparents alike.

As we navigate a changing world, it becomes more important than ever to stay vigilant about the content available to our children and grandchildren, yet at the same time, keep an open mind to changing values and approaches to education.

So, members, how do you feel about this issue? Should books such as these have a place on our store shelves?

Of course they should be on store shelves. What's the big deal. What are those tongue waggers thinking, what's immoral about sex.? I wish I had the opportunity to read one of those books before I entered puberty, would have saved me from stumbling through the first steps of sexual relationships.

 

[Ronloby]

At least with this book and the explanations maybe could save a child from being a mother/father. Then, if it happened most likely be cast into the world with no help or support and confused about their future.

 

[PepeLePew]

I just read on a Youth Legal website that it is ILLEGAL for two 12 yr olds to be having sex. They can be charged. So Freeby60, the mother of your granddaughters boyfriend whom you state is a Police Officer is breaking the law by not reporting what is happening between these 2 children.
I remember a case in W.A. a few yrs back where a 12yr old girl had a baby who was fathered by an 14yr old boy. Police at that time were looking at charging both of them as they were both under the age of consent (never heard if that happened though). I also remember hearing that if the boy was charged he would probably then end up on a sexual offenders register. I for one, would never even want to see that possibility happen to one of my grandchildren.
Education here is the name of the game and if parents don't feel comfortable discussing certain aspects of sex with their children then this book could be a very valuable assert in helping children to understand a sexual relationship and for parents to be able to discuss the subject with their children when they are mature enough to understand the contents.

 

[gordon1940]

As a nana to grandchildren that are in High School now, I have found out that children as young as 10 are NOW experimenting with sex which is horrifying to me. BUT they are all maturing a lot younger now and doing things that my own children would have never dreamed of at that age, I don't agree with this book (don't get me wrong) but my own grand-daughter whom is only 12 is having sex with her boyfriend and is on the pill. Better to be safe then sorry is my daughters attitude, I agree with her as I have no intentions of being a great grandmother yet. This is happening in all the schools apparently. I shudder to think about it.

This would qualify as a " Lock Up" event surely.

 

[NoNoNoNoNoNo]

We all aim for honesty in conversation within our homes, don’t we? Given some subjects are more delicate than others, especially those touching on aspects of sexuality, it becomes only natural that there's disagreement around what's age-appropriate and what's not.

Undoubtedly, a recent release has opened up a can of worms in the arena of kids' sex education, and it appears there is a clear divide among Australia's community of parents.

The presence of a particular item in the ‘Children's Books’ section has sparked controversy, with a mixture of outcry and support.

Co-authored by ABC personality Yumi Stynes and adolescent advice columnist, Dr Melissa Kang, Welcome to Sex: Your no-silly-questions guide to sexuality, pleasure and figuring it out, has been causing a stir.

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Welcome to Sex by Yumi Kang is an insightful and comprehensive guide that aims to educate and empower readers about all aspects of sex and sexuality. Source: Hardie Grant

This book, featuring explicit illustrations and addressing a wide range of sexual themes targeted at children aged eight and above, ventures into taboo territory.

The book explores sensitive topics such as masturbation, LGBTQI concerns, gender curiosity, various sexual positions, and even the act of 'scissoring'.

Its open sale at BIG W drew a flux of agitation, with some parents arguing that it was crossing a red line.

'How can anyone think they are not coming after the children after seeing books like this for sale openly in BIG W?' mused conservative podcaster Chris Primod.

Another livid social media user asked: 'Really? We need to teach 11-year-olds different sex positions? This book is a big no from me.'

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Sex education should be tailored to the child's developmental stage, ensuring that the information provided is suitable for their age and level of understanding. Source: theprimod/Instagram

Another distressed parent echoed the sentiment and said: 'I have sent a protest letter to BIG W about the porn book Welcome to Sex. It is extremely graphic. We should all make the effort to protest this stuff to children.'

Yet not everyone was against the book's contents. Some stoutly defended the authors, referring to the backlash as a 'moral panic'.

'Right-wing cookers/religious nuts are trying to censor these books. Usual anti-queer, anti-feminist reasons,' said another.

A parent praised the book: 'Can't wait to purchase this. Your period book took away the fear for my 10-year-old daughter (and me!) so much. Forever grateful.'

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Parents or guardians should be actively involved in their child's sex education. They should be able to review and provide consent for the content being taught, as they play a vital role in shaping their child's values and beliefs. Source: theprimod/Instagram

In an interview with Mamamia just before the book's launch, Stynes voiced her hope that the publication would be a valuable tool for parents to initiate candid discussions around sex with their children.

'I think a lot of parents have inherited shame from their own parents and from our culture and society at large,' Stynes pointed out. 'I think it's partly shame about icky body fluids, but parents also worry about saying the wrong thing.'

She believes that the book will serve as a 'trusted resource', helping parents approach the subject with confidence rather than fear of misinformation or perpetuating sexist stereotypes.

When it comes to having 'the talk', Stynes referenced the vast difference in maturity levels among 12-year-olds, with some being quite sophisticated and others still very childlike.

View attachment 25403

Topics should be introduced gradually, with an emphasis on building a foundation of basic knowledge before delving into more complex subjects. Source: theprimod/Instagram

She also encouraged parents to use news stories or TV programmes as starting points for routine family conversations about sex.

'Once they (children) know that you're safe to talk to about sex with, and you're not going to flip out, then they can return to the conversations again, and they will absolutely love having a space to ask you those questions,' she advised.

Key Takeaways

• A controversial sex education book has sparked outrage among parents for being too graphic.
• The book, co-authored by ABC personality Yumi Stynes and Dr Melissa Kang, is aimed at children aged eight and above, and covers a wide range of sexual topics.
• Many social media users have openly criticised the book, while others have come to the defence of the authors, calling the backlash a 'moral panic'.
• Stynes communicated that the book is intended to be a 'trusted resource' for parents aiding them in having open, informed discussions about sex with their children.

The inclusion of explicit books in the children's section of stores such as BIG W is a matter of concern for many parents and grandparents alike.

As we navigate a changing world, it becomes more important than ever to stay vigilant about the content available to our children and grandchildren, yet at the same time, keep an open mind to changing values and approaches to education.

So, members, how do you feel about this issue? Should books such as these have a place on our store

We all aim for honesty in conversation within our homes, don’t we? Given some subjects are more delicate than others, especially those touching on aspects of sexuality, it becomes only natural that there's disagreement around what's age-appropriate and what's not.

Undoubtedly, a recent release has opened up a can of worms in the arena of kids' sex education, and it appears there is a clear divide among Australia's community of parents.

The presence of a particular item in the ‘Children's Books’ section has sparked controversy, with a mixture of outcry and support.

Co-authored by ABC personality Yumi Stynes and adolescent advice columnist, Dr Melissa Kang, Welcome to Sex: Your no-silly-questions guide to sexuality, pleasure and figuring it out, has been causing a stir.

View attachment 25400

Welcome to Sex by Yumi Kang is an insightful and comprehensive guide that aims to educate and empower readers about all aspects of sex and sexuality. Source: Hardie Grant

This book, featuring explicit illustrations and addressing a wide range of sexual themes targeted at children aged eight and above, ventures into taboo territory.

The book explores sensitive topics such as masturbation, LGBTQI concerns, gender curiosity, various sexual positions, and even the act of 'scissoring'.

Its open sale at BIG W drew a flux of agitation, with some parents arguing that it was crossing a red line.

'How can anyone think they are not coming after the children after seeing books like this for sale openly in BIG W?' mused conservative podcaster Chris Primod.

Another livid social media user asked: 'Really? We need to teach 11-year-olds different sex positions? This book is a big no from me.'

View attachment 25401

Sex education should be tailored to the child's developmental stage, ensuring that the information provided is suitable for their age and level of understanding. Source: theprimod/Instagram

Another distressed parent echoed the sentiment and said: 'I have sent a protest letter to BIG W about the porn book Welcome to Sex. It is extremely graphic. We should all make the effort to protest this stuff to children.'

Yet not everyone was against the book's contents. Some stoutly defended the authors, referring to the backlash as a 'moral panic'.

'Right-wing cookers/religious nuts are trying to censor these books. Usual anti-queer, anti-feminist reasons,' said another.

A parent praised the book: 'Can't wait to purchase this. Your period book took away the fear for my 10-year-old daughter (and me!) so much. Forever grateful.'

View attachment 25402

Parents or guardians should be actively involved in their child's sex education. They should be able to review and provide consent for the content being taught, as they play a vital role in shaping their child's values and beliefs. Source: theprimod/Instagram

In an interview with Mamamia just before the book's launch, Stynes voiced her hope that the publication would be a valuable tool for parents to initiate candid discussions around sex with their children.

'I think a lot of parents have inherited shame from their own parents and from our culture and society at large,' Stynes pointed out. 'I think it's partly shame about icky body fluids, but parents also worry about saying the wrong thing.'

She believes that the book will serve as a 'trusted resource', helping parents approach the subject with confidence rather than fear of misinformation or perpetuating sexist stereotypes.

When it comes to having 'the talk', Stynes referenced the vast difference in maturity levels among 12-year-olds, with some being quite sophisticated and others still very childlike.

View attachment 25403

Topics should be introduced gradually, with an emphasis on building a foundation of basic knowledge before delving into more complex subjects. Source: theprimod/Instagram

She also encouraged parents to use news stories or TV programmes as starting points for routine family conversations about sex.

'Once they (children) know that you're safe to talk to about sex with, and you're not going to flip out, then they can return to the conversations again, and they will absolutely love having a space to ask you those questions,' she advised.

Key Takeaways

• A controversial sex education book has sparked outrage among parents for being too graphic.
• The book, co-authored by ABC personality Yumi Stynes and Dr Melissa Kang, is aimed at children aged eight and above, and covers a wide range of sexual topics.
• Many social media users have openly criticised the book, while others have come to the defence of the authors, calling the backlash a 'moral panic'.
• Stynes communicated that the book is intended to be a 'trusted resource' for parents aiding them in having open, informed discussions about sex with their children.

The inclusion of explicit books in the children's section of stores such as BIG W is a matter of concern for many parents and grandparents alike.

As we navigate a changing world, it becomes more important than ever to stay vigilant about the content available to our children and grandchildren, yet at the same time, keep an open mind to changing values and approaches to education.

So, members, how do you feel about this issue? Should books such as these have a place on our store shelves?

I don't get the contravery everybody should know what sex is - you just do tell differently with everyone - use your brains for heavens sake. by the way I can never remember not knowing what sex wa and what the different uses of "body parts" are for and how to respect yourself and not fall to peer pressure or male eagerness (yes I am female). My parents believed that if you asked "the questions" you gave the answer - at the appropriate level depending how old I was when I asked. And, let me tell you that information came in handy with all those randy young men out there - being able to tell them no and not give into peer pressure, acutally, made my life easy and Oh boy did I educate some of those young men - IT IS MY BODY NOT YOURS AND I HAVE THE RIGHT TO SAY NO - and by the way it makes you a mature dignified upstanding man if you accepted it gracefully.

 

[zevon1956]

We all aim for honesty in conversation within our homes, don’t we? Given some subjects are more delicate than others, especially those touching on aspects of sexuality, it becomes only natural that there's disagreement around what's age-appropriate and what's not.

Undoubtedly, a recent release has opened up a can of worms in the arena of kids' sex education, and it appears there is a clear divide among Australia's community of parents.

The presence of a particular item in the ‘Children's Books’ section has sparked controversy, with a mixture of outcry and support.

Co-authored by ABC personality Yumi Stynes and adolescent advice columnist, Dr Melissa Kang, Welcome to Sex: Your no-silly-questions guide to sexuality, pleasure and figuring it out, has been causing a stir.

View attachment 25400

Welcome to Sex by Yumi Kang is an insightful and comprehensive guide that aims to educate and empower readers about all aspects of sex and sexuality. Source: Hardie Grant

This book, featuring explicit illustrations and addressing a wide range of sexual themes targeted at children aged eight and above, ventures into taboo territory.

The book explores sensitive topics such as masturbation, LGBTQI concerns, gender curiosity, various sexual positions, and even the act of 'scissoring'.

Its open sale at BIG W drew a flux of agitation, with some parents arguing that it was crossing a red line.

'How can anyone think they are not coming after the children after seeing books like this for sale openly in BIG W?' mused conservative podcaster Chris Primod.

Another livid social media user asked: 'Really? We need to teach 11-year-olds different sex positions? This book is a big no from me.'

View attachment 25401

Sex education should be tailored to the child's developmental stage, ensuring that the information provided is suitable for their age and level of understanding. Source: theprimod/Instagram

Another distressed parent echoed the sentiment and said: 'I have sent a protest letter to BIG W about the porn book Welcome to Sex. It is extremely graphic. We should all make the effort to protest this stuff to children.'

Yet not everyone was against the book's contents. Some stoutly defended the authors, referring to the backlash as a 'moral panic'.

'Right-wing cookers/religious nuts are trying to censor these books. Usual anti-queer, anti-feminist reasons,' said another.

A parent praised the book: 'Can't wait to purchase this. Your period book took away the fear for my 10-year-old daughter (and me!) so much. Forever grateful.'

View attachment 25402

Parents or guardians should be actively involved in their child's sex education. They should be able to review and provide consent for the content being taught, as they play a vital role in shaping their child's values and beliefs. Source: theprimod/Instagram

In an interview with Mamamia just before the book's launch, Stynes voiced her hope that the publication would be a valuable tool for parents to initiate candid discussions around sex with their children.

'I think a lot of parents have inherited shame from their own parents and from our culture and society at large,' Stynes pointed out. 'I think it's partly shame about icky body fluids, but parents also worry about saying the wrong thing.'

She believes that the book will serve as a 'trusted resource', helping parents approach the subject with confidence rather than fear of misinformation or perpetuating sexist stereotypes.

When it comes to having 'the talk', Stynes referenced the vast difference in maturity levels among 12-year-olds, with some being quite sophisticated and others still very childlike.

View attachment 25403

Topics should be introduced gradually, with an emphasis on building a foundation of basic knowledge before delving into more complex subjects. Source: theprimod/Instagram

She also encouraged parents to use news stories or TV programmes as starting points for routine family conversations about sex.

'Once they (children) know that you're safe to talk to about sex with, and you're not going to flip out, then they can return to the conversations again, and they will absolutely love having a space to ask you those questions,' she advised.

Key Takeaways

• A controversial sex education book has sparked outrage among parents for being too graphic.
• The book, co-authored by ABC personality Yumi Stynes and Dr Melissa Kang, is aimed at children aged eight and above, and covers a wide range of sexual topics.
• Many social media users have openly criticised the book, while others have come to the defence of the authors, calling the backlash a 'moral panic'.
• Stynes communicated that the book is intended to be a 'trusted resource' for parents aiding them in having open, informed discussions about sex with their children.

The inclusion of explicit books in the children's section of stores such as BIG W is a matter of concern for many parents and grandparents alike.

As we navigate a changing world, it becomes more important than ever to stay vigilant about the content available to our children and grandchildren, yet at the same time, keep an open mind to changing values and approaches to education.

So, members, how do you feel about this issue? Should books such as these have a place on our store shelves?

Another silly storm in a teacup. Don's see legions of primary school kids rushing to Big W. Parents are going to buy this and assess if it is suitable for their child, taking into consideration their age and maturity. Less of this nonsense and more of the things that matter.