Authorities launch probe after childcare centre mix-up alarms parents

It’s every parent and grandparent’s worst nightmare: you arrive at a trusted childcare centre, only to discover your little one is missing.

For one family, this terrifying scenario became a reality after a shocking mix-up at a local childcare centre resulted in a toddler being handed over to the wrong grandparent—and missing for several hours.


The incident unfolded at First Steps Learning Academy in Bangor, a centre that cares for up to 40 children aged 0-6 and prides itself on providing a 'safe, inclusive, welcoming, fun and nurturing environment.'

But on Monday afternoon, that sense of security was shattered when a mother arrived to collect her child, only to be told her toddler was nowhere to be found.

How did this happen? According to police sources, an educator mistakenly handed the wrong child to a grandparent, who then took the child home, completely unaware of the error.


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A childcare centre mistakenly released a toddler to the wrong person, leaving the child missing for hours. Credit: Facebook


It wasn’t until several hours later that the mistake was discovered and the child was safely returned to the centre and reunited with their frantic parents.

The centre immediately launched emergency procedures to track down the missing child, and thankfully, the story ended with the child safe and sound.

However, the incident has left many families shaken and has questioned the safety protocols in place at childcare facilities.


First Steps Learning Academy has since apologised to the families involved, with Trisha Hastie, the approved provider, calling the event 'deeply upsetting and isolated.'

She assured parents that this was the first time such an incident had occurred at any of their centres, and promised to strengthen pick-up procedures by rostering an extra staff member during key collection times to verify the identity of everyone entering the premises.

The educator involved has been stood down while a thorough investigation is conducted by the NSW Early Childhood Education and Care Regulatory Authority.

The investigation will not only look into the specifics of this incident but also review the centre’s compliance history to ensure all regulations are being met.

Acting Minister for Education and Early Learning, Courtney Houssos, described the event as 'completely unacceptable,' acknowledging the distress it must have caused the parents.

'While it is a relief that the child is safe and well, for something like this to occur is completely unacceptable and clearly raises questions about the processes in place at the centre,' she said.


NSW Police were notified, but after reviewing the situation, determined that no criminal offences had occurred and will not be pursuing a criminal investigation.

This incident has sparked a broader conversation about safety and accountability in early childhood education.

While most centres have strict protocols for pick-up and drop-off, this case highlights how even a single lapse can have serious consequences.

It’s a timely reminder for all childcare providers to review and reinforce their procedures, and for parents and grandparents to remain vigilant.

For many of our members, especially grandparents who regularly help with school or childcare pick-ups, this story is a sobering reminder of the importance of clear communication and robust safety measures.
Key Takeaways
  • A Sydney childcare centre accidentally allowed a grandparent to take home the wrong child, resulting in the toddler being missing for several hours.
  • The affected childcare centre has issued an apology, with the educator involved being stood down while a full investigation takes place.
  • The centre is strengthening its pick-up procedures by rostering extra staff during key collection times to better confirm the identity of people collecting children.
  • Authorities, including the NSW Early Childhood Education and Care Regulatory Authority and police, were notified, with no criminal offences detected, but a thorough compliance investigation is now underway.
Have you ever experienced a mix-up or close call at a childcare centre or school? Do you have tips for other grandparents and parents to help keep kids safe? We’d love to hear your thoughts and stories in the comments below.

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Why did it take so long for the grandparent to realise the child they picked up wasn’t theirs? 🤷
 
Wouldn't the grandparent know that they had the wrong child... I just can't believe that to be so
 
What sort of dopey grandparents does this poor child have? They certainly can’t be trusted to care for anyone, let alone a small child.
 
Was this child a very young baby or a toddler? I certainly would have recognised my 3 grandchildren (who hubby & I used to pick up regularly from kindy). Perhaps this person needs to be investigated (medically) to see if there is anything wrong before being allowed to pick up the grandchild again. And the first to do so should be the child’s parents - they might be suffering the very early symptoms of dementia which come on and off very subtly before they become full blown.
 
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Was the grandma low vision?,
How old was the child must have been very young, how sad and frightening for all.
 
Was this child a very young baby or a toddler? I certainly would have recognised my 3 grandchildren (who hubby & I used to pick up regularly from kindy). Perhaps this man needs to be investigated (medically) to see if there is anything wrong with him before he is allowed to pick up his grandchild by himself again. And the first to do so should be the child’s parents - he might be suffering the very early symptoms of dementia which come on and off very subtly before they become full blown.
I thought that myself.
 
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There is something just not right in this story . I have read all previous comments and I agree with everyone . I am 88 years old and blind but I do know voices and would have known the wrong voice straight away . The child must have been pretty placid All my grandchildren would have had their mouths open a foot wide screaming even the 4 months old would scream if he didn’t like the look of you when you went to nurse him . I can just hear them grown up now laughing saying THANKS NANNA !!How often does the grancfather see the children every few years ? I know children can change in looks as they grow . This case needs a lot more investigation .
 
I can understand a small child bundled in clothes, grandpa in a rush and having been given the child accidentally, but surely he realised in the car or at least at home!!!! The poor parents!
 
Maybe the baby was asleep. Is there more than one person listed to pick the child up? Everybody has a "double". Obviously the Childcare Centre didn't check their records either. Many you have to have a pass or know the pin code to get into the centre building.
 
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For all involved in this fiasco, they are just a mob of sheer "DUBBO'S".

For the grandparent concerned, Dumb & Dumber come to mind very quickly.
 
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There is no way I would ever have picked up the wrong grand child, not that they were ever in child care. What about when you were putting them in the car seat? How much attention was he paying, very little it would seem. Personally I don't think there was any excuse for thst happening. Don't you say I have come to pick up Jimmy, so how can they hand over Jack.
 
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Darrellh very good question !!
 

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